>"Jimmy claimed Asia liquored him up, began kissing him, pushed him onto the bed, performed oral sex on him and then climbed on top of him and had intercourse"
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Does it tear anyone else apart from the inside knowing there's so much pleasure and fun some people are having and you're just rotting in the corner?
How do you reason that your life would be noticeably better from having this experience
It would be nice at the time perhaps, but it would fix literally none of your problems
Its not just about the sex. Its also the validation and the ability to get sex. Im slowly realizing how truly ugly my face is day in and day out. I wouldnt want any man to be in my shoes.
Your problem is low self esteem. The first step of getting past that is to learn to find validation in your self, not in clawing for validation from others. That will leave you constantly searching for something external to make you happy, rather than having an internal happiness that you can rely on regardless of external factors outside of your control
You will not get any happier from being validated by others through sex.
Says the person who had his first kiss during his teen years.
What about maslows hierarchy not being filled and barriers to self actualization ?
You don't know that, do you? You're guessing because it's easier to try character assassination than it is to consider what I'm saying
Firstly, I think it's not as clear cut as Maslows hierarchy suggests. It is a theory after all, not a perfect fit to everyone.
Secondly, I am not sure that 'having a pretty face' is on that hierarchy
It's literally my fantasy to get reeled into sex by a hot mature woman in a hotel room. And I think having that kind of experience as a memory to fall back on forever would certainly make me feel slightly better in the meaningless, numbed and miserable state I'm currently stuck in.
In short: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
How do you reason that? It would be a temporary pleasure. I'm sure even if you did look back on it fondly, it would make no meaningful difference to how empty you feel. Sex isn't a magic bullet and wish fulfillment is rarely as rewarding as we'd like it to be
I agree with the other user. Most of us are this way because we're trapped in our hideous bodies. We feel the infinite and we see beauty just like you do. But it's always distant and unreachable for us.
Having a prettier face or a better body would undeniably help ones worldview, happiness and self actualization. Having a hot mature woman risk everything just to suck your dick would too.
>BTW Jimmy Bennet is literally a manlet. I guess that's some semblance of hope for the manlets out there