Why are you lonely, user? how many of you genuinely have the time to dedicate to a social life...

When I’m at home I have lots of friends that I enjoy being around, but when I’m away at school it’s the complete opposite. It’s not that I don’t have any friends here, I’m just not interested in talking to any of them at all.
I feel bad, when they hear me talk to my friends on Xbox I’m like a whole different person in their eyes: outgoing, always laughing, can talk for hours on end about random bullshit. But whenever I’m around them I’m very quiet, always on my phone and never engaged.

I'm a workaholic and can't seem to make time for anything else. The time I do have away from work is so precious to me I wouldn't want to have to spend it with others doing what they wanna do..

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Trying to get a new woman or get some casual sex at uni

Any advice anons?

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>last year of uni
>was living with a few friends for first 3 years
>living situation falls apart, they all move away for various reasons
>move in with different friend and his roommates
>they all have a network of friends, places to go, things to do
>I’m basically fucked cuz i now only have 1 good friend at uni after others moved, and he’s not exactly the most social guy
>too late to be making new close friends
>new roommates connections/friendships are already too established to include me in shit
Honestly just wanna graduate at this point

Because I cut myself off from society 18 months ago I deleted all social media and just spend time in my room all day

Lonely because dicklet

Combination of things

>ugly
>insecure
>hate going out
>boring because dont drink or do drugs
>hate spending time with people that do drink and drugs excessivelly
But hopefully ill meet my gym crush today ar gym

post face

Ive made progress but it still hurts seeing photos of myself.

Dw man I've been there, just do what you want to do. I was kind of rejected from 2nd year onwards due to becoming a bit fashy. Just gym, work and play vidya, it was a good final year and I got a good result in my degree.

>have a good social life
>good with girls and if i try can find girls to fuck
>still lonely

do I need a proper relationship to stop being lonely? normally get bored of girls after a couple of weeks and cant be bothered taking it any further

That last Joe Rogan podcast with Musk red pilled me. There are no social gains if you are autistic. Think about it: here is the CEO of one of the biggest company, who probably has to communicate with lots of people, from engineers to investors on an everyday basis, and he still awkward as fuck and can't for the love of god carry a conversation. Just bee yourself bro.

If you get bored of girls after a week or two, a relationship isnt going to be much better.
Youll just start to get pissed at your time being monopolized by your gf.

I have too much free time but I'm too retarded to know how social interactions work so i never leave my house and instead sit around being bored with video games.

i don't feel any connection with anyone intimately and i'm afraid of rejection so i don't pursue any woman. doesn't help that i'm obese and don't want to date other obese women. tried it once and lost my boner during sex. my only fear is that if i do get fit i'll still be alone. but alteast i'll be fit as fuck boy

Introvert, fixing my own issues, no time for bullshit drama from other people. I genuinely like to spend my time alone thinking, reading, lifting, eating. All i do i enjoy doing alone.

I'm on a mission of chiseling a version of myself i'm content with. I'll do some social activities a few times a week, but not alot. Being alone is soothing.

I have social life but I'm starting to fucking hate it. People around me are fucking losers, going out on weekends has become so fucking boring and shitty, women you meet are degenerate, everything seems to be so fucking valueless and chaotic. idk man

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All me but I don’t even go to the gym.

>have gf
>have great friends
>basically everyone i meet likes me
>gonna have an ms in less than a year
my life rules lmao

Honestly I'm so used to being alone that I can't even fathom having an actual gf, going out holdimg hands or just simply going to sleep with another person beside me.
It's all so alien to me

I’ve only lost friends in the past few years. Most are married with kids and understandably busy and some just changed their attitude and anything besides drinking beer and watching sports is kids stuff.

I have one single friend but can only tolerate him in small doses and everything about him literally repels women.

I don't want to be missed after which school when I am hero'd in the battlefield via artillery.

Too fat to get in I went to college. I had successfully isolated myself so none of my old high school buddies wanted to talk. After that I just filled my days with 40 hours of work and 40 hours of school with 5 hours of working out.

Hell now I go work out with my cousin at his gym and bring my dad to mine just to make friends. I'm actually trying to talk to girls because im tired. Tired of the loneliness. I dont feel sad anymore. I want to love

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I used to be exactly like you. I would come home from work, eat, watch anime, then go to sleep. Coworkers would try to get me to come out and I would never go. Finally one time I did and ended up having a lot of fun so I started going out more often. Not always to clubs and stuff but also to dinner, lunch, other stuff. I met more people and ended up overall a lot happier.

All the treacher collins sufferers I've met are cool as fuck and own their condition, I'm sure you're an ok guy

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I'm the buddhistfag from the other loneliness thread. Going out and interacting with girls used to be a nightmare and it used to make me sick. I felt so isolated and left out somtimes. Buddhist ideas made it okay for me to like what I see as myself. I don't feel as anxious now, I don't refuse calls or texts, and sometimes I even initiate contact.

You lonely guys must strive to achieve balance. You must be able to put yourself out there in front of people once you figure some stuff out about yourselves. I think that's a route to success

late 20s wagie here.

Just took a week off work. First two days saw a very close college friend and went to a concert. Then flew across the country to a high school friend's wedding. Much merriment. Despite my hangover the drive back to our hometown goes down as one of my best memories. Smoking joints, driving through the countryside as the sun began to set and watching my friend's cute-ass girlfriend as "Mr. Jones" by Counting Crows plays.

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>get matches on tinder
>too depressed to text

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This hits a little too close to home...

>why are you lonely, user? how many of you genuinely have the time to dedicate to a social life? How are those social gains coming along?
Every woman I've been with for the past...fuck I can't even remember...have been total whores or into way kinky shit.

I'm fucking tired of the choking, rape fetishes, daddy issues, spanking, and throat fucking. I don't like it. I never did, I pretended to. Why can't I find a good girl that I can have boring ass sex with?

fuck I miss that degenerate shit though. I moved away from this small college town to a big city and now I haven't even so much as held a girl's hand in months since moving here

The only people I speak to frequently are my gf and my mom but I'm planning to break up with my gf. Not sure how to into social gains. No job at the moment.

Looking at meetups and facebook events... not sure how that will work out

I am completely and utterly alone and have absolutely zero social skills when it comes to meeting new people. I have no job, low self esteem, I’m not good at anything, I haven’t achieved anything, and I’m 25. I will never be capable of meeting and befriending people. I one wants to have me in their life and it’s kinda all my fault but once stuck in a black hole of self doubt and depression

>why are you lonely, user?
eh why the fuck not

Because I'm autistic and look like shrek.

>months

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Pre downfall assumptions, keep this text for when your world will fall apart, because i guarantee you it will

It's been a week since we broke up; that's why I'm lonely. I've been trying to distract myself by hanging out with friends and it's been alright. Last night I tried talking to some girl and we kinda hit it off but she was way older than me and I couldn't stop thinking about my ex.

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Because I spend my time at work (fuck software development) and at the gym. Might be the reason I'm a wizard.

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i need advice. I moved to a new town starting grad school and i swipped on tinder through the whole fucking town. I got a bunch of ghosting bitches and shallow responses but this one girl was genuinely nice to me. Problem is she is like a 4-5/10. Shes a little fat, has bad acne, has really bad hair (its half permanently straitened and half curly at the roots). I can tell she is a really sweet girl, which i haven't really come by in a while. Granted my dating experience is limited.

I am probably a 7-8/10 face and body wise, i am only 5'10' so accept im not gonna get a major babe. Point is, i dont have to try really hard to impress this girl and i feel like i can really be my self around her because I am out of her league. She will give me messages on request and is always down to fuck so its goin pretty well. But i fear I could do better. Ive only known her 2 weeks so we arnt really exclusive, but i know i will have to make a choice coming up and i dont know what to do. I know i could go find a hotter girl, but she will be a stuck up cunt. Any bros here have experience dating bellow their league and enjoying it? with entitled cunts these days it seems like a good plan. Thanks for reading my diary.

>why are you lonely, user?

because my wife and I can't have a child.

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I should add, she has a cute face other than her acne, and she has amazing titties, so factor this in.

guess im boring, but lately im managing to get closer to people in uni and to my old friends
still no girls

Don't date her, but keep her in rotation so you can build momentum.

Drunk texted my ex last night that I miss her. Let's see if this mistake pays off.

>get a job
>over 3 hours of commute every day

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Why the fuck would you apply for that job? Is the market weak for your qualifications?

Don’t go for pre-martial sex, try and find a stable life style choice

Thanks. That's what I'm thinking. I feel bad about getting her too attached tho. I made it clear to her that we are not dating and that I looking at all my options. I know she wants to date me, so its gonna be little tense in the future I know.

The wolf is not concerned with the opinions of the sheep, and most humans are brain dead sheep. Better to be alone than to dumb yourself down to socialize with the mouth breathers.

1.Easy, because I am a piece of shit.
2. I meet with new people, so that maybe my autism will weaken a bit.

Dang bro. I have to drive to and from our office 25 minutes twice a month then I live at work 3 weeks at a time one minute walk to work or gym.