I'm a girl. How do I get a shy qt bf at the gym? I only go to school, work, the gym (new) and want a bf :(

little girl, this is a horrendous, wretched place and I suggest you get out of here before it sucks your soul up too much.

When it comes to relationships, focus on being positive and brining value to peoples lives. Relationships will come to you effortlessly.

say something anything lol even within earshot of someone you may potentially be interested in. that should be enough unless hes the super spaghetti. learn a very basic lift like bench and go get one while hes nearby ask for a spot. do you know how diamonds my metaphorical and actual dick would be for you, this advice is diamonds too. lol. realize how relatively easy youve got it. but with great power come great responsibility. you can pick and choose and meet and talk with whoever you like. give the odd fitizen a chance too. god knows we need it.

TITS OR GTFO

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>I only go to school, work, the gym
Welcome aboard

>How do I get a shy qt bf at the gym?
Too broad a question to answer on a argentinian wrestling forum. This is basically what everyone in the world is always working on figuring out.

I agree pics will always help get you more tailored advice

Without body pics at bare minimum you will get nowhere here

haha sad but true

I was like that now Id fuck a goat in thongs.

I have become truly unattached to physical appearance.

Look at him and smile at him :) if he misses the cue enough times, then move on.

he probably browses fit anyways.

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Post feet.

Men lift harder in the presence of women. Experiment with who lifts hardest around you. If you see a cute guy, work out near him and compliment his set afterwards. Ask him when he comes to the gym.

yes this is to blame for the current state of women

Don’t approach any guy

That comes off as there being something inherently wrong with you for the fact you’re the one approaching.

All guys will assume there is something wrong with you as all of their life experiences tell them that all girls worth being with won’t ever approach you and that you have to do all the work

Easier to find a shy boy in your class who happens to gym imo

t. girl with her own perfect fit bf who never talks to girls

I love lifting around women. I lift so much harder. it's like we synchronize and mire each others pheromones. It's a beautiful thing.

Doesn’t that annoy you though? Knowing your BF is so beta he cannot talk to women at all.

so your girlfriend is so alpha she fucks other dudes?

This

>he appears like he never talks to them but in reality he means he doesn't seek them but will reply back if they approach him.
>unless you meant he will literally just stand there like some autist and not say anything like a hasidic jew if a woman speaks to him
I don't know which ones worst but YOU are DUMB for thinking that

I agree but women can still invent opportunities for interaction. Like oh I dropped my towel near you, oh are you using this machine - I heard xyz about some stupid bullshit, oh do you what time we're closed. It's not technically an approach, it's just giving an obvious opportunity for the guy to approach

>projecting this hard

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>listen here baby...

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What if you are too acoustic to approach women who go out of their way to get your attention?

Femanons, what would you like a guy to say if you're a) consciously posturing or b) unconsciously posturing? I know the second one is a slippery slope of sorts. Though what is generally okay to open up a conversation, given a semi-social setting like a coffee shop or even a non workout-area of a gym?

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>implying women have souls

I just hope that some girls realize there is no perfect guy, though that they are the ultimate motivator to make them change for the better.

I understand that the men here are faggots, but there's still no reason to ask them how to get a man. That's like me asking women how to get a woman.

Anything is fine if you’re attractive.

In my experience, this isn't actually true. Maybe I'm not attractive enough but I've found that being attractive just gives you a small window of attention.

Women are fundamentally passive. They are an expectant audience, waiting to be entertained. Being attractive doesn't change that. You still have to dance for their enjoyment, and they still have to enjoy it.

so alternatively you'd be alright with us giving you advice on how to pick up women...? user...come on.

men know their sex better what personally mskes them tick snd the same goes for women, even though women dont even know what they want theyll be closer than any mans guess.

>footfags
every fucking time

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if you want a shy bf you’re gonna have to learn to make your own direct approaches. nobody here knows how to do that though

exactly cold approach is a limited opportunity window if you let it pass you by the first time (eye contacr, look away for example)it gets smaller and smaller

honestly post something you whore

>too acoustic
Is this some John Mayer shit?

Granted. Though what's the polite endgame for such a situation these days? Number? Instagram?

Given people's distracted state of mind nowadays, would it even be polite to try to have a conversation right then and there, over a coffee or a post-workout smoothie?

> you'd be alright with us giving you advice on how to pick up women
Yes, actually. Worst case scenario: it doesn't work. Worse case scenario taking advice from women: you just listened to a woman.
>men know their sex better what personally mskes them tick
Right, but they have their own interest in mind rather than the womans. Same goes for women. You're only gonna be told what they want and not what they'll actually take.
Think about it. What do women always tell men. "Just be nice". Which is exactly what they want their boyfriends to do. But they're not telling you what it is that makes them date their boyfriends. Likewise, men just tell women to be servile and suck some dick, but don't mention what their girlfriends actually do.

>Argentinians sport fishing forum

Ah I meant at the beginning but do I know? I don’t even go out to meet people lmao

Dammit, user. I’m the worst person you could ask. I’ve had people come up to me and I’d just back the fuck away awkwardly.

Don't worry, I barely browse here anymore
I'm usually on Reddit haha
Isn't smiling too passive?

I guess the idea is to find common ground in a given situation. Though, I guess I've come to the wrong place...

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Checkkked. I want a guy who browses Jow Forums

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Crawl back into whatever hole you dug yourself out of redditspawn.
Just walk up to the dude and ask him if he's feelin fit.

Too shy, too autistic, too anxious

Its a shame youre LARPing.
Having an INFP Jow Forums gf would be most excellent.
I retardedly mentioned my Jow Forums relapse to a girl I worked with in a cadaver lab last semester.
>her face when

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Well you are to me right now, right? Just make it like this, but irl. Easy peazy. Just think that you're talking to some random person on Jow Forums, but IRL.

Not LARPing and I’m INTP actually. She probably thinks you’re a sick sexist racist degenerate fuck now.
I’m not OP btw. I barely even leave the house and socialise. I’m a beta virgin with a pussy.

You're socializing right now. I think the problem is that you don't want to IRL. It's hard to do something you don't want to. Btw, nothing's wrong in being a virgin.

>She probably thinks you’re a sick sexist racist degenerate fuck now.
Implying that he's not and she didn't think this after her first conversation with him.

I find it really embarrassing to be a virgin and people just think I’m crazy.

Lmao oh man, I guess I have nothing to say to that.

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just go to a salsa dancing class or something they’re full of shy boys and they have to put their hands on you. even you cant fuck that up

> salsa dancing
Christ

Nigga we have two female versions of Jow Forums and most of us started on Jow Forums, she’s not the only one.

What happened?

SUPRA SAU

GUBRA GAU JOE BRAU

Ghosted me probably because my abandonment issues are too apparent. I also didn’t want to fuck.

You sound like me tbqhfamalam

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Post tits and I'll give you a step by step fool proof plan

Ugh feels bad. I’ve always said I’d end up alone with 3 cats.

>I find it really embarrassing to be a virgin and people just think I’m crazy.
Why? What kind of friends do you have?

>meets on a fuckmatch app
>doesn't fuck
That's "how to get ghosted 101" in case it's not already clear.

Damn same happened to me (except the abandonment issues part), I wasn’t dtf so he just ghosted. I guess Tinder really is only for hookups.

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I've been forcing myself to go out to the bars and things have gotten better. Just grab a friend and go out to shows.

I strongly believe this is a bait.

>I`m looking for someone shy
~No girl ever

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No, like I’m crazy for being embarrassed about something like that. I feel like the awkward 20 yr old virgin protagonist in a teen movie.
Nah it’s not necessarily for that. Ugh just because people popularised it as such.

Go out with some friends to events, festivals, bars etc. and try to meet new people. You might end up meeting someone cool.

If I ever did tinder I would just offer to meet at a bar, so i would just have dibs on meeting a girl fair and square. Maybe I'd ask what she likes beforehand and buy her that. Seems like a fair way of establishing boundaries. Tinder seems like its spergy even if it gets you laid.

I don’t drink and I have no friends (I’m in a foreign country)

i know, I can’t stand that shit myself, but it’ll work for her because that’s literally what salsa classes are for

How the fuck did you discern he was a Jow Forumstard?
Did every third letter in his bio spell GAS THE KIKES?

Oi oi oi
PSA PSA

if you cannot walk up to someone and have a conversation or send them some sort of signal to show that you are interested in them then you have bigger problems to figure out. First go learn how to socialize like a normal person then go get a partner. 100% a guy (girls too) won’t deal with you (even if your a virgin(they’ll fuck tho)) if you are too weird.

Tbqh that is pretty bad if Jow Forums comes up before you've met f2f

Expat communities? Expat bars? That's 101

Dammit I hate to be one of those people shooting down every suggestion but I hate all those activities. And have no friends No, at one point in our conversation I just had a feeling so I asked lol
I asked lol we weren’t even talking about anything related to Jow Forums. Maybe it’s how he typed.

Okay, well you're asking for it. What country are you currently residing in?

Why are you in a foreign country? For work? Or school? Try to make small talk with your coworkers/other students. If you’re at school, join a club. Try to see if the city you’re living in has like a community/organization with people from your country so you can meet up with people from your country.

I'mshy so i would get along with a shy guy too

Also, I’m just a foreign uni student. Too anxious to go to class. Too anxious to do anything really. Funnily enough, the only friend I’ve made here (but don’t hang it with) browses Jow Forums

It’s not likely you can find someone who’ll respect that in a random setting. You said you’re in school, so have you tried Christian organizations?

Well what kinds of things do you like? You know you don’t have to drink if you go to an event. I don’t really drink and my friends respect that. Although for some reason most guys seem weirded out when I tell them I don’t drink.

Too anxious to go to class? wtf? You've got some problems, m8. Though I can relate, I used to be a forex student and girls had it tougher. Couldn't really break into social circles. Mostly hung out with other foreign students.

Honestly I think that would be a bad idea. If you’re the really shy type, it would be better to be with someone who’s more extroverted. Two extremely shy people would make things difficult for both of you unless you like living like hermits and you plan to be each other’s only friend for ever.

She probably has a bad case of social anxiety

I just enjoy reading and learning random shit on the internet

I really do. I’m on medication but I seem to be immune to it.

That's how it works, bro.

Well shit.
Guess it's time for me to name the jew and redpill all my tinder matches.

How about the library then? Also if you’re Christian you could attend a church with a solid youth group.

Checked, I guess.

Well, I could dick your way out of your problems I would. DYEL? It seems a lot of your problems would go away if you detoxed and went natty and worked out.

where are you from?