Do you blame your parents for how you turned out? If so, how did you come to forgive them?

Read the filename you fucking quadruple nigger.

absolutely yes

it makes no fucking sense how ugly i turned out compared to them

it's like it was intentionally done to fuck up my life

Forgive? Those Christians mutilated my dick! There ain't forgiveness for that! Never let me have a girl stay the night until into my 30's! Literally multiple felon gf has to sleep downstairs like a child; she referred to my home as the insane asylum.

I blame myself
I wish I listened to them, they were right about everything

So much fucking this
>overprotective parents not letting me do shit
>surprised when I get socially inept
>"it's time to grow up and get independent"
Sure, the moment I hit 20 I suddenly got blessed with all the knowledge and experience my peers have been gathering for years

Yep. According to them though it's not their fault. Nothing is ever their fault.

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same here except my mom is schizophrenic and would take me out of the school and send me to a different one as a "protest" every time she got into an argument with a teacher which was fairly often. I don't even remember how many schools I went to. they must have been like 5 or 6. that was the cause of most of my problems.
By the time I was 14 she ran out of schools to send me to and she was too proud to send me back to any of the schools she took me out of so she signed me up for this school outside the city with a 2 hour long commute

No. Because they're not distinct enough from the rest of the normies to give them special treatment. But all normies are responsible for making me struggle through my younger years and suffer right now.

Yeah. They fugged me up good from their abuse and alcoholism. I ended up a huge landwhale when I was a small child and my body was ruined on top of that.

Yes, I blame them and I hope they die slow, miserable deaths.

Interesting how most shitty parents are either mental or Christian (protestant)

Yes. My dad was a schizophrenic paedo cunt
My mum was depressive for being with an abusive twat and took some stuff out on me
She met up with a new man who would physically abuse me
I went into care
My foster dad has had affairs and I once found out he was watching pork on my computer (ergo fapping on my bed)

Cunts everywhere but I guess I've learned not to make their mistakes however I'm not entirely all there myself

Jeez that's fucked, sorry man

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>Do you blame your parents for how you turned out?
Yes
>If so, how did you come to forgive them?
>Implying

No. They are probably the best kind of parents one could have. I just feel sorry for them that I became like this.

Alright, I read it. Now what?

>Do you blame your parents for how you turned out?
They tried to have a kid before me and it died at birth, that was their one and only warning not to create more life, now I'm here.
>If so, how did you come to forgive them?
>implying I'll forgive anybody that ignored any and every warning in pursuit of the selfish and unnecessary want of having a son.
At least I was too young to go through the abusive part of my mums life, unfortunately my sisters got hurt regularly, she's still a narcissistic, emotional abuser though.
Because of getting my genetics from an abuser and a manipulator I'm more or less hardwired to constantly want to destroy or dominate others and their social circles while never seeming to be the problem with the group, I've done this to almost every group I've been part of, I almost wish I didn't find it as entertaining as I do.

>French couple with perfect bodies having sex on the beach

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I can't say so. They did move me into this shithole in the countryside (where I'm still stuck in), but even then I found friends and was a relatively well adjusted kid. Then I hit puberty and went into flight mode. And I can't get out

Yes. It's not only that they were shitty parents, I also inherited my mom's crazy gene. Doubly fucked.
I forgave them because I'm tired of being angry all the time and I have other grudges to manage too. Also I don't want to be the kind of asshole they were. Also I pity them because now they're old and emotional and I can see how sad it makes them to see both their sons being fuckups.

yes my dad is beta and basically let my mom walk all over him and tell him what to do and then she divorced him because 'she wanted something else out of life' (she married a new guy a year later). their parenting style was basically to be my friend and to that end they never pushed me to become a better person. they didn't provide me emotional support if i ever struggled with something they basically let me give up instead of encouraging me so i never developed self-esteem. they bought me most of the things i asked for and i never had to work for anything. they seemed to treat me like a pet, like something fun to keep around cos i'm a cute kid or whatever and they believed childhood should be a magic time of no responsibilities and endless fun forgetting that i'm an actual human who needs to eventually learn to function in the real world.

i guess i've had it better than a lot of people in that my parents weren't mean or anything so i've always felt guilty for the resentment i feel towards them

>watching pork
Pretty sure I corrected it to porn

Ree

get outta here neil

>Do you blame your parents for how you turned out?
Yes, they gave me shitty genes, and stifled my social development through a strict raising.

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Wait till you see her ass.

Yeah
>autistic boomer dad, nonfactor asian mom
>overprotective parents, never develop independence
>except when I make a mistake, then it's merciless criticism
>old enough to be my grandparents and hated technology
>no Internet until I hit 18
>degenerate interracial parents and neither of them voluntarily imparted values
>mindfucked out of home by cultural and generational divide between me and peers
>mindfucked at home by "justified neglect out of concern for my well-being and protection"
>parents divorced and neither of them moved out
>constant chaos for years on end
At 20 years old I get the courage to speak up to my parents about how we all need to take responsibility for my developmental disaster
>"We don't care about your excuses user"

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>they basically let me give up instead of encouraging me
this is what ruined me as well. I don't know if it was lack of attention or they just didn't want to force me to do things, but it fucked me over really bad. Having no discipline fucking ruined me.
Now at 24 I'm barely doing first year of uni with a mediocre job, far behind compared to my peers, when I had so many opportunities to develop normally. So much time wasted I will never recover

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partially. I think I was already predisposed to being socially inept at least to some degree because from what I heard about my mom. She was shy when she was younger and personality traits are heritable at least to some degree. But moreover my parents had a tendency to have nasty confrontations when I was growing up such as yelling/arguing and they made no attempts to settle dispute behind close doors. I even distinctly remember on one occasion it was so bad my mom picking me up late one night saying she was going to leave my dad, she never did though. There was also an instance when it escalated to pushing and shoving. My dad had a pretty bad temper and sharp tongue. He's referred to me as an embarrassment and failure before so I Never really remember getting words of encouragement as a child. He would often get angry at me over the most trivial things, things that were suppose to be run of the mill father/son bonding experiences. He would get angry If I under preformed at the sport I was playing, or not knowing what to do when helping with his mechanical work on his truck. In his older age he has mellowed out a lot, it just pisses me off how he acts so dumbfounded at the fact that my self confidence is nonexistence and I barely have any friends.

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I was forced to do many things as a kid and teen and my parents focused on making me do and learn more. But once I grew up I stopped and didn't care about progress in life, only self improvement that didn't make money and detachment from the world. What went wrong?

yes. i was abused by my family as a child (my dad and his girlfriend, my older sister, my grandfather, my mom's boyfriend and sometimes my mom herself). she was also oblivious to everything. even to this day it still hurts. my relationships arent great with people and often short, but thats partly my fault.in recent years my mom's been great to me so i dont hold anything against her, cant say that for everyone else though

>good people die young
>bad people live forever
Fuck this homosexual planet.

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Not really. My parents tried to make me study work harder but I just lied and said I did. They tried their best, and love me unconditionally no matter how much of a fuck up I am. They're good people, I wish I was a better son.

This happened to someone I knew. He grew up poor as a kid without allowances and wore hand me downs but once he got to college his family got money and started giving him a lot. He stayed home into his 30s because he didn't want to be poor again and was addicted to the new lifestyle he got from age 20 onwards. Any thoughts?

I'm touching my screen expecting you to touch it back
My story's the same

Wahhhh wahhh

>my parents were too strict
>my parents were too lenient
>my parents were too ugly
>my parents were too pretty
>my parents were crazy

It's your fault. You're the only one to blame. Even if your parents are directly responsible, you're the one who holds the guilt and blame for how you turned out.

Emotional abuse is serious, user. You can't break my legs and expect me to run.

I don't blame my parents. I blame my genetics.

Yup. Divorced and neglected me while I was depressed for over a decade and basically did shit all for over a decade. Not sure I can ever forgive them or see them in a positive light after that, even though I'm puling my shit together now. Haven't talked to either in 6 months.

No if your parents were abusive or neglectful you absolutely can blame them for being pieces of shit. It's our responsibility to turn our lives around now as we're the only ones who can, but we can still be justly pissed for maltreatment in the past.

Or what famalaimia

if you blame your parents for how you turned out then remember that the same logic applies to them, they turned out the way they are cause of their parents and so on.

they may not knew how to raise you properly, but they were not raised properly also.

theres no such thing as free will, x happens cause y caused it to happen.

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In regards to me being a general pussy yes, it's their fault I got here but now it's going to be my fault if I don't get out of it.

>personality traits are heritable
My mom's an extremely gregarious extrovert and my dad's a normie engineer. Why the fuck did I turn out an autist? Fuck this gay planet. And why the fuck did they divorce when they were raised in the 50s and 60s when there were still strong family values?

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Wrong. Fuck off norman, you don't know shit.

lol fuck off. My parents raised be with the nice guy m'lady bullshit mentality and that severely crippled my highschool and college social potential. I am working hard to undo years of leftist consent propoganda and brainwashing and feel like an idiot every day for all the opportunities I missed. So to a point i take the blame, but in hindsight I had no chance to unlearn everything without missing so many opportunities

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Forgot to mention I have semi chad genetics, musical ability, athleticism and straight As in first year engineering, all of my personal problems stem from learned behaviour

That WebM's something else. Damn, I wanna give girls a fuck like that too.

You fell for boomer dad with asian wife meme

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>mom starts arguing
>get into an argument with her
>she sicks the rest of the family on me, pretends she didn't do anything
It's pretty bad when you don't even have your family to fall back on.

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Fembot here, I look like that girl except less muscular so I do have some good genes
I don't blame my parents even though my mental illness is almost definitely genetic (been anxious and severely depressed since age 9-10)
Not their fault they had a shitty kid

To some degree yes, but I'm in my 30s now and like shit that you do to yourself and whatever past your early 20s can't really be blamed on mommy and daddy not giving your enough hugs. Eventually you're an adult and you're responsible for how you turn out.

>Do you blame your parents for how you turned out?
yes, mostly because i was physically and emotionally abused at every turn growing up, bullied at school and then bullied even more at home.

actually have post traumatic stress disorder among other things thanks to my mother's great parenting

>If so, how did you come to forgive them?
by never speaking to them again

Blaming someone for something that is entirely within your control is kind of shitty. Don't be the type of person who constantly needs to be the victim. I may not have turned out perfect but I at least have personal responsibility.

That is unless your parents raped or beat you and you have severe mental problems because of that. That wasn't your fault.

Yes and they're forever responsible for how they treated you as a kid when you were at your most vulnerable stage in life.

is it possible to break the cycle lads? can I become chad and raise kids into chadhood?

You can't become chad because that would involve changing your personality and habits. Its not just about physical appearance which is also something you can't really change 100%

>leolulu
nice taste user

Yes.
Abysmal eyesight genetics, autism, epilepsy, heart disease and diabetes in the family.

Fucking scum thanks for nothing.

I used to. The anger used to taint the memory of my father and my relationship with my mother. It was only after I started taking antipsychotics (unrelated) that my thinking cleared for the first time and I realized that they did the best they could, and that ruminating was what caused me to stay down forever rather than moving forward. I'm much better now, as is my relationship with my mom.

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Both my parents have severe rosacea, which was passed on to me, and it has really fucked with my self-confidence. Otherwise, everything else is my fault.

Not him but ive been in therapy for over a year to get over the homo pedo grooming shit my dad did to me until i was 11. Ive been really working on self actualization and positivity stuff as well as CBT . I would say though that the actual sex molestation and eventual rape that happened were not the worst part. Its not trusting anyone really at all is the biggest problem. My distrust of others, especially authority figures or experts has led me to pretty much not take many risks. I also come from old money so I pretty much just dress like im poor and live humbly because I dont trust myself not to be taken advantage of.

>look up Leolulu
>pornhub
>About
>Born: 1997-04-13
>Birthplace: France
>Height: 5 ft 5 in (165 cm)
>Weight: 110 lbs (50 kg)

I fucking hate life.

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No, I don't blame them, because I had a good upbringing.
Despite my dad's adultery and subsequent divorce of my parents (definitely had an effect on me) I still don't blame them.
If we're going to be miserable, we should at least be stoic. It's a big cope, but it's a healthy cope.

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>cute face
>socially autistic (in a qt way)
>girly voice
>girly hands
>joke about how he should take HRT and I'll fugg his boipussy any day. gets embarassed and tells me to shut up every time.
(don't actually want him to trap himself. that wouldn't work)
>every time I see those legs I get a fucking semi
Wat do anons? He thinks i'm straight but I don't know about him. He left his gf because he 'wasn't attracted to her'. Still baffles me. She was a qt.

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Oh shit wrong tab thought this was /r9gay/ AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Yes i'm fucked for life because of them, they made me a ugly, socially retarded, low iq inbred sandnigger. I have been depressed my whole fucking life, i have no friends, no gf, am a neet, no motivation to do anything and i probally won't have a future either, think about killing myself everyday.

Fuck them and fuck this world.

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Nope, I'm dxed with autism and its too complicated to survive in the "real world" my parents did the right thing by scaring me off from everyone, even though my dad in particular went on a rant on how he wants me to be successful despite my autism

Doesn't matter to me anyway, even though I know other dxed autistic people who found a safe space and long term friends who don't care they have autism,

I feel safer being a asocial loner anyway,

>Tfw blogpost
>I had to mention my dxed autism in order to explain why I can't blame my parents

So, no, I don't blame my parents, kids should have their own self-agency anyway, end post or else I will rant to something unrelated, and my prof'dxed autism ruined things for me since the world is unkind to me.
Also please no comments on my autism even if you are dxed as well and not being a troll, no one likes actual serious autism, my life is hard enough as is,

>No comments or accusing me of attention-seeking, I just want to reply to the OP

>tfw always wanted to have outdoors wilderness sex

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