Whats the point of it all fit?

I go to work and gym on average days, go to a party or something on the weekend. But its like im not rly interested in connecting with other people. Its as if i can talk to people but never find a point to it. I feel like im missing drive lately
What keeps you going Jow Forums? What do you desire and how do you not get bored of other people?

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there is no point to anything in life

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What do you enjoy doing tho? are there people you like?

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I used to be exactly the same. Sometimes I'd be in the middle of a night out drinking and suddenly I'd think what's the point to it and not really know what to do. Sometimes i could be driven to get with girls but when i got a girlfriend that disappeared too.

In the end it's just that endless socialisation is not for you. Find a partner, find a change you want to make in the world (Jow Forums) and you'll never feel that emptiness again.

read the 50th law by robert greene

ive seen too many people struggle and make decisions that lead them to the extremes. Cant approve of what Jow Forums usually stands for

Hard to accept but short of some joke extremes Jow Forums has a handle on the truth on most things. I should know having both philosophy and medicine degrees.

This guys retarded

then why do they always get destroyed by destiny

I've seen more where he loses than wins by far, partly due to gaving no interest in following milo types. Secondarily to that people publically active in the right don't tend to be the highest rank of people because otherwise they would have careers to lose. Im a surgical trainee and a lot of the consultants are ukip tier, but if they got caught stating half of it you would be struck off.

Then don`t waste time on small talk and go directly to unexpected deep stuff like "What`s the most important thing you want to have done before you die?" Ok you will weird out some people but those who give honest answers will have a more meaningful conversation with you than ten people talking about the latest HBO show or whatever.

Autism

I directly mentionend that you will weird out some people and i`m completely aware of that.

Thats actually a good idea, since im genuinely bored by small talk this could keep me more engaged. Is this how you actually find your significant other?

Is it weird wanting to have 1-5 best friends and not wanting to make some connections and relationships with others? I dont want to have lots of friends, I just keep few the best ones and avoid everyone else. My brain acts as a wall/block that you see in other softwares, where it says "sorry, X has a full friend list".

The point of small talk isn't because people don't have anything more interesting to say, it's to establish information about the other person gradually in a quid pro quo fashion. You'll come across as transparently try hard going straight in.

Like others say, you have to give yourself goals. Without goals, you feel the pointlessness a lot harder, but with goals you distract the mind and have fun doing it. Obviously, set realistic goals, not "I want to deadlift 1 ton at age 50." As an example, one of my goals is to find the right girl for me, and I've narrowed down what kind of girl looks-wise and personality-wise I want to pursue. Specific traits like blonde hair and the right sense of humour. So whenever I'm out and about, I specifically look for that kind of a girl, because if I stick to my type, then 20 years down the line when her looks have slightly degraded and we're together, I will still be attracted to her because she is my type. Don't go for girls you're not fully interested in. Another goal of mine is to get into music production as a hobby to the point where I can make professional sounds and tracks that would 'wow' people. I'm a scientist by day, but I'd love to also be a musician by night. Whether I have talent or not is unimportant.

Goals that you are very interested in and are achievable are what will set your mind right. But you're entirely correct, at the base of it all, there is no point. Not unless you are religious of course, but that's a different matter. Still, remaining social is important, don't become anti-social, most people do not cope with loneliness well.

Low-IQ mongoloid detected. I love throwing out lines like "what are you doing out here tonight, what are you seeking?" when I'm out at a bar or club. It's great for filtering out trash women.

Thanks man, im not sure if im more satisfied with life if i isolate myself from people or actually stay more exposed to society

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Listen to this guy
I race dirt bikes and after a weekend of it I know it's all pointless but I feel too accomplished and tired to care

> "what are you seeking"
You are a calamity

Not necessarily but it can establish a certain level of authenticity to work with.

Ok I have to relativize my statement. I Don`t say skip "Hi" and "How you`re doing?" but the other extreme is also frustrating when you realize you talked a lot but said nothing.

>tfw everyone else is hooking up and it's time for you to leave the party

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exactly, i have similar dooubts