Chad Behavior

Before you ask, I am king of manlets, normal fit, and act like a beta orbiter cause of my low self esteem. Still get one-nights occasionally, cause some girls actually consider me good looking

>mfw he draws a smiley face

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Yup. Also always do the opposite of whatever a girl says. It might make sense to do the following:
>girl: "i want a nice guy."
>guy: "here, let me provide for you, be faithful, work hard, be kind, and roll out the red carpet."

But really, it's like this:
>girl: "i want a nice guy."
>girl: *gets gangbanged by tyrone and chad*

The trick is you have to become Chad. How? I'm not sure. I believe Chads are born, not made. If you weren't a Chad early in life, you'll always be a beta. If you're a beta, you shouldn't be aiming for alpha territory. You'd be better off going into gamma territory. Please refer to pic related.

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It’s lipstick, he’s going trap mode

this reminds me of something my ex said to me, she said 'you were supposed to take care of my heart, not break it'. Normally I would laugh at something like that but the way she said it made me feel genuinely sad. She then wrote this letter where she said 'Please remember to take care of my heart it will always belong to you'. And yet we broke up and she started seeing other guys, and now she doesnt even reply if i text her drunkenly at nighttime. I wonder how she thinks of this heart scenario now.

She's a woman; ergo, she doesn't think at all.

Attractive people get a free pass to fuck up things since the modus operandi of the human being is to overlook their shit. You should not be a douchebag.
On the other hand, no primum non nocere. Do not try to appeal to everyone. Do not be an yes man. Do not let people trample over you. Do not avoid doing things you want because a few individuals will respect you less for it (if anything, people will respect you less if you are passive about everything: if 10 people agree on something, 9 of them are useless).
Basically just don't always be afraid of hurting other people to get what you want, just be sure to measure if it's worth the consequences first.

this
be attractive and/or successful. if you try to act like a chad without being one it will be like that man med episode when a fat copy writer gets fired for trying to act like don draper.

this they literally just be themselves which you don't do OP you fucking faggot since you're obviously insecure

Salty, I used to be like that. But since I make clear cuts and don't message anymore to any girl after break up or them ghosting me,my views changed. They text me drunk. Sometimes after months or even years

Kek

maybe once a year i write a bunch of emails to all my exes when im drunk. just abslutely insane shit

they know better than to respond because they know if they respond i will trick them into coming back for a bit, which happened for years on and off until they finally just said fuck it

these emails i write are like Jow Forums shitposts, i lie and exaggerate and ramble like an insane person

Talk less. Don’t smile unless it’s a real smile. Not forced. Be conservative. Support Trump.

Read the book “being the 3% man.” It’s pretty easy to be Chad if you stop thinking like a cuck.

thats pretty impressive. i kind of want to hang out with them. they seem fun

what is a Zen Epiphany?

Imo a nearly always overlooked aspect of alpha/Chad is cultivating the ability to make women think. I cannot tell you how many dudes I’ve mugged to hell and back by engaging their GF/wives in an actual convo. I also lift and have a decent face, but if you aren’t exceptionally good looking, it’s not gonna save you. Grinning from ear to ear as I get a woman completely captivated on some random topic as the wigger/bugman who she’s with tries to keep up. “Uh politics ya man shit is cash lol”. You’re doing good, sweety ;)

Thats a monster can right?

when you have non-dual, nonverbal 'realizations' about what you are, which is mostly just awareness, and your unity with everythign

It's a meme to be honest.

I have a friend who used to be beta. Be both were. He, somehow, with time became a chad. Now he's one of the chaddest guys I know.

It looks like you can transform into a chad but it requires time and effort.

Somebody got the webm of that quintessential aussie chad being spun around in a circle and then exits straight into slamming a beer?

I became a chad after being a beta forever. I always had the potential to be chad but was just a huge pussy with women.
I will acknowledge it is because of my good looks and height.
>6'5, 215 lbs, 10% body fat
>Hunter eyes and good facial symmetry
Mentality can be changed and body can be improved but ceiling is capped by what you are born with

If you care about whether or not plebeians consider you a douchebag you'll never be chad.

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don't listen to anyone that tells you you need to be a cocky douche bag in order to get girls. Girls who are attracted to cocky douche bags aren't even gf or wife material to begin with. They pump and dump tinder sluts. They are after you because of an image, they feel insecure knowing they're with a cocky douche bag who isn't afraid to start conflicts. I've experienced girls like this, both personally, and see guys date girls like this. There are gorgeous nice girls who just genuinely want a good looking sweet heart to live a nice quiet life with, those are the loyal ones. Those are the wifey materials

Can you post on or two for research purposes? I'm curious to see what you mean

>The Virgin Back-flip vs Chad Barrel-Roll

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Becoming a douchebag is a side-effect of becoming more confident, but you shouldn't worry about it (it's not even necessarily a bad thing). The opinion you should value most is the that's in your head, fuck what everyone else thinks while you work on improving yourself.

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Chad's are actually nice people

This.

Brad's are the real douchebags. I have only known Shit Bag Brad's who beat their girlfriends.

Where can I find a masc, homoromantic gymbro that isn't degenerate?

>fuck what everyone else thinks while you work on improving yourself
I think you mean well but this isn't good advice, there are other people that exist in the world and we need to help cultivate their improvement as well as our own.

>betas cant become alphas
>uggers cant become attractive
bluepilled and blasphemous

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I meant from an initial development point, it's far easier to help others after one has helped themselves. On the other hand, someone who is lost inside their own problems will struggle to contribute to society in a meaningful way.

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WHY CAN'T THIS BE REEEEEEEEEEAL

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Neuroplasticity bros
Anyone can become chad with enough time and the right circumstances

It is real, I have been on both sides of that comic before.

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>mfw I'll never have a 6'3"+ jock friend
>mfw I'll always be the nerd

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I unironically thought that was the intended meaning at first

it is though.
my moms friend from work had a son who was my age. i was this skinny scrawny gaming manlet nerd with no social skills, and he was this ripped tall lanklet blonde alpha chad.
whenever he came over he went straight to my room, opened the door and jumped on my bed and told me to get off the computer and box with him.
being the beta that i was, i was afraid as fuck, despite having big ass boxing gloves.
but he would give me advice on how to stand, how to punch, how to take a punch. he also taught me everything I know about grilling and fitness.
when we would eat he ate everything in sight, and got seconds and thirds.
i ended up copying him because i wanted to be like him.
i also bought a weight bench when i was 15 because of him.
he saved me bros

based

There's no reason to be a jerk just to be a jerk, but you shouldn't sacrifice what you want for approval either

How do you genuinely 'just h urself'?

Yes I'm insecure and my 'self' is a desperate pervert with weird interests, I doubt if I pet all that out that it's going to be any good.

I'll be your 6'4 jock+autist friend :p

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I WANT THIS MOTHERFUCKING FEELING
I'M 24
IT'S TOO LATE LADS

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go make money...having money is the alternative way to become a chad.

See:
pls

poor user

what are the requirements for having a chad son? is it random?

The suffering is real user.
I just want a Chad gymbro.

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exercise in youth, plenty of social activity always. sports. a good redpilled dad to teach him things about women, life lessons, and just general man shit.
physical exercise especially at a young age increases HGH. HGH obviously makes you grow taller, develop bigger bones, and gives you a more attractive male face.
it does the opposite for women.

feed your kid good food. get him to play sports. fill up his days with social gatherings with other kids, swim meets or youth groups, whatever you can.
NEVER let him play vidya unless its on console, and only let him have a playstation when hes 16 or so. he will have a girlfriend by the time hes 10. he will be set for life

It's alright man, we all develop at different speeds. Life is long, and it's better to start improving and loving life as early as possible. But it's pointless to moan about time lost, you'll just end up wasting more of your life.
>Julius Caesar was depressed at the age of 28 because he had failed to copy the feats of Alexander the Great by the same age.
>Joseph Goebbels drifted through life until he found meaning with the Nazi party.
We, as men, are meant to find meaning in life by creating it, not wait around and bemoan the lack of it. It doesn't matter what we did, it matters what we do and what we become. We are not meant to sit back and reflect on our past while our present leads us nowhere. Create meaning and pursue it.

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Do I have to become the autist Chad myself then, rather than live as a nerd?

pls

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Hate to break it to you but true Chad is not something you can teach it's a mindset you are born with. You can emulate Chad behavior and stack up wins and become a pseudo, but real Chad has never known any different. The world has always been his plaything. It's a level you just can't acquire through learning that doubt will always exist in the back of your mind.

There is no Chad personality. That guy's just being himself.

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I was a gaming manlet until i joined rugby at 14, it turned me Chad and i actually was Captain my senior year, but puberty also blessed me.

I bet you don't even like yourself. Try doing some soul searching, meditation, selfless acts, hallucinogenics.

Maybe, maybe not. We never know who will decide to join and stay with us on the journey of life. Keep working hard at the gym and you'll earn the respect of the gym goers, some banter and friendliness with them can lead to gym-bros/friends with strong bonds.
You can also improve your social ability and friend circle by: joining a casual sport league, volunteering, work (depends though, ex:office jobs won't allow this to naturally happen), going to church, go to art/hobby activity etc.

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>Can 1v1 talk anyone with ease
>Can talk to any woman with ease
>Absolutely terrified of group conversations

This is my weakness. Group speaking. I can do fine in discord with 100s of people all chatting and having our own little conversations talking over everyone but IRL I can't. Because I can't say nigger and have to censor myself.

My social skills are pretty great. I'm not an autist by any means. In fact, I'm both a nerd and have about 15 good friends, and about 45 good acquaintances. I've only been working out for a year but started it taking it more seriously the last three months.

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All these people wrong. The trick to being alpha isn’t how you try to act, it’s your own mentality on life. To truly become a chad, you have to turn your brain into a mental fortress. Believe you are great, TRUELY stop caring what others think. I’m talking if a guy walks up to you a calls you a loser and laughs, it should not even register to your brain or be given a second thought. Same goes for getting rejected by females. You have to literally not have any negative energy in your head, no matter your past experiences. Chads are born with this mentality usually. Most likely you were not , and you probably dwell on shit, think too much etc. if you are at least at average looks, today start only thinking of positive things, your own life, stop feeding into your insecurities, hit on every girl you wanna with no shame even if she laughs in your face or looks displeased. You keep this fortress in your brain untounched by any other soul on the planet, no matter how much you ever get humiliated , and you will become chad. Most llikely you will not know if your chad or not, but chads hardly sit there and think “man I’m fucking CHAD” cause to do that would mean your egotistical and having a strong ego comes from insecurity in your head.

How do I get a chad best bro.
I need someone to unJUST my life.

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Connect with people that are similar to you, you want to surround yourself with people that wouldn't seriously judge and isolate you just because you show aspects of your true self.
Realize that it's totally fine and normal to speak up and give your opinion while letting others do most of the talking in a group setting. Not everyone has to be a huge talker, good listeners are also highly in demand.
Also, don't get too used to constantly yelling nigger and edgy shit all the time. It's fine to say nigger when a nigger is acting like a nigger, but it comes off as brash and edgy when every second sentence you say has nigger in it.

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Good shit man, you're making it. Keep steady, brother.

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Thanks user.
I-I'm trying my b-best.

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It's pretty stupid to assume that Chad is some retarded being that doesn't understand why he constantly gets pussy and wins at life
"Just do it bro lmao" isn't how people actually think
Chad realizes that women like men who exude confidence and look attractive
Chad realizes that not being attached to women makes them want him more
Chad realizes that his way of living makes his life easy
Just because that's the way he always has been doesn't mean he doesn't know about other more beta ways of life
Becoming Chad is like learning a new language
You start off by translating everything you hear back into your native one (a woman says/does something and you convert it from your beta understanding to an alpha one)
Once you're fluent and are only speaking that new language, you'll eventually start thinking in it and forget the old one
Even Chad can forget his language given shitty circumstances; no one is safe from neuroplasticity
We can all make it bro

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holy fuck right in the feels. bpd separation anxiety

user, pls.
I have many friends. Some Jow Forums, some un/fit/, but none are real, big gymbro material. The only big gymbros I see are the ones that are huge and they ONLY hang out with other huge gymbros.

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My last one b-bros.

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Who said Chad is retarded? I don't think you've been around many true Chads in life

cute comics, they make me too sad though. thanks for posting

>that pic

top cringe

There are some earlier ones (no homo).

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Nigger you only read the first 15 words of my post
Are you trying to trigger me?

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fuck man

I had seen enough lol, fine ill read it

8/10

It hits you hard in the feels.

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Acknowledge them/nod at them sometimes, ask for spots from them. You obviously share the gym as a common hobby, maybe over time with conversations you can see if you share anything else.

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Haha, exactly

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No. Anyone can learn to ACT like a Chad. But they'll never BE a Chad.

Chads are inherently unaware of their Chad-state. They never act in any deliberate or calculated manner. They simply are. Their entire life people have been inherently friendly and generally kind to Chads because they are attractive. This in turn has encouraged Chad to be friendly and outgoing as he expects encounters to be mostly positive.

Chad then wholeheartedly says to less attractive friends they just need to "be themselves", as that is all Chad has ever needed to do.

So you can't become a Chad, as your own deliberate self-construction is inherently contrary to the obliviousness of Chad.

You certainly can become more attractive through effort though

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Find a reason to be confident. What are you good at? Capitalize on it and own it. Don't say videogames.

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>No. Anyone can learn to ACT like a Chad. But they'll never BE a Chad.
Eh, good enough.
>"He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee."
Replace abyss with Chad and the statement is still true

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