It’s infuriating /fit.
>be me
>bring girl home
>getting blowjob or sex
>cum within1 minute every time
I always do foreplay and masturbate a couple of times a week with a pretty strong grip. It doesn’t seem to help. Has anyone had success overcuming premature ejaculation?? Wat do?
I had the opposite problem. For me it was nofap. Maybe you are fated to be a dicklet
You mean nofap increased your sensitivity enough? I used to do nofap for a couple of weeks at a time, maybe that’s it?
Blowjob, girl on top or handjob and I last forever, but I bust my nut as soon as I start banging, it must be a mental thing
>BUILD
>YOUR
>CORE
>cum within1 minute every time
You're lucky I've had ED my whole life. I bring girls back but I always say "I forgot to buy condoms".
I'm too afraid to try medicine because it could be bad for my heart long term at such a young age.
Yeah I fapped a lot and couldnt cum through sex. Maybe you should try to sex her often and see if you get used to it. Honestly from my perspective I cant see how It would be possible to have a lot of sex and still cum within a minute each time. Maybe this is just a "new to sex" phase thing? Anyways good luck
im the same user, sucks
Sex and orgasm is more psychological than physical for me. If I'm focused on pleasuring her, that thought consumes my mind and I can last long enough to make her come. When I focus on fucking her for my own pleasure I lose control and go ham until I cum. Either way she loves it, it's mind over body.
If you're cumming so early maybe you are just nervous and it's the equivalent of spilling your spaghetti.
Sex is something that should be practiced. You'll get more confident with more experience.
Nigga you gotta breathe.
I noticed that to orgasm i sort of have to hold my breath. Just breathe deeply, specially at the beginning. Once you're past the 10mn mark youll be so accustomed to the pussy feeling you'll have to almost force yourself to finish.
>If I'm focused on pleasuring her, that thought consumes my mind and I can last long enough to make her come.
THIS. RIGHT. HERE. I have moments when I go into a mental tunnel vision if I focus on pleasing her. I kind of check out. I can go on for quite sometime.
> it could be bad for my heart long term at such a young age.
why do you think this?
>Premature ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is a meme. Premature compared to what? There is any norm for how much time you have to last. This term is made up by women, who aren't satisfied with their partners.
Theres this book called the multi orgasmic man that teaches u how to orgasm without busting a nut, so its basically like no fap. Plus i can pound my girl for hours
Priligy tablets, or xylocaine 10ml solution dental anaesthetic spray - couple of squirts on your dick pre sex youll be sorted.
im pretty sure my left testicle is twisted
does it affect my gains?
should i go to the doctor?
>xylocaine 10ml solution dental anaesthetic spray
can you still enjoy the session after applying this or are you just numb?
Its fine as long as you dont go crazy with it, and give your dick a rinse 10 mins after you squirt it so you dont end up numbing your girl as well. Also, its good for toothache...
I'm the same, but I find it really hard to cum unless I get in the right mindset. Sometimes I need to change position and pump really hard and fast. The catch 22 is that if I get too exhausted from going too hard I completely lose my will to cum.
There is a cough syrup that has a seco dary effect on me. And that is very long time to cum. Very long. the thing is called Bisoltussin here where I live. Take the normal dose and see if it helps
Had the opposite problem
Was supposed to lose my virginity yesterday but i was barely hard no matter what she tried :(
2/10 would not recommend
Yes you daft cunt
non Jow Forumsizen here, just saw the thread from the front page
why don't you just keep on going after the initial ejaculation? like just grit your teeth and keep at it, mind over matter etc. if you got the willpower to work out it shouldn't be that hard for you
i cant speak for others but i dont start flagging until ive been at it for some 2-3 hours and the ass/thigh cramps kick in for real
Mild opiates like codeine also have this effect. I was a smackhead in a previous life and it has the same effect, you can go all night. Trouble, is when i got clean and Jow Forums i was on a hair trigger for ages.
Cialis, mate.
There are special condoms, Durex Performa, that have some kind of goo inside that desensitizes your dick. It's kind of a hit and miss, some guys claimed it killed their boner, but for me it worked wonders.
When you are in the mindset of pleasuring her, you become very sensitive to her needs. My current gf is very responsive (moans etc) so it makes it easier to get in this zone.
Part of her wants to please you too, so they get insecure when you can't come. Like you say, this is also in your mind. When you want to cum, just become more sensitive to your own pleasure and fuck her accordingly.
Protip: women are emotional creatures and sex releases a fuck load of brain chemistry. If you show them you are capable of driving them wild in bed their souls will belong to you.
Also, treat as a physical activity where performance matters. Do some cardio, go sauna, make sure you have energy for it just like you would for a workout.
That being said, you can tap into surprisingly limitless reserve energy if you are in the right mood. Literally what we've been evolved to do is reproduce so that's no surprise.
Correct answer right here. You have to breathe. If you hold your breath, you're lost. Steady breathing keeps your brain oxygenated which it needs to be to overcome the impulse to bust a nut.
Try it, tell your friends. Should be #1 in every sex manual. Interestingly it is one of the first things you learn in Tantra.
should i just try to untwist it myself?
i mean like i dont want an old man to touch my balls
Either this is a flat out lie or you are mentally deranged. Why would you want to fuck for 3 hours? You think a girl enjoys that? You're either a complete pshycopath or a virgin
totally different story for me
>That being said, you can tap into surprisingly limitless reserve energy if you are in the right mood
This doesn't surprise me. Sometimes when I'm done fucking my wife, I'll sit back and realise my heart is almost beating out of my chest. I get into a trance like state where the only thing that matters is pumping. Didn't feel like I was that exhausted until I stopped.