Need serious help from fitizens
>25
>last 4 years spent with gf
>we split up
>shes only my second sex
I realise i missed out badly on experiencing girls and i know 25 is already late but it could be worse.
Im fit, good looking face, have good job.
Ive got over 400 matches on tinder but not a single sex or serious hook up.
I know how bad things are and i need help from fitizens. Please give me advice how i into hookups.
Will send ETH or any other crypto of choice for good advices
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begone, satan
Hookups are a numbers game. Just keep using tinder until you get a chick. I’m assuming you have your own place. This is the formula ; make plans near your place, invite her over afterwards to bang. Simple as that my dude
I'm in the same boat as you, except she was my third. I have no idea where to go from here, it seems so foreign to me.
I dont but i can get it in few months if thats a prerequisite.
Lets not even get to the point of sex. I just want to advance with a girl to the point appartment would be of importance
Tell me about it haha
If I’m 6’4 white Jow Forums, living in Vancouver where 30% of the population is asian 30% indian, how many matches would I need to get sex by just sending “sex?” as my first message?
I met this woman at the bar and we were talking all night but I'm terrible at flirting and nothing came of it. I was also tense and nervous as fuck so that didn't help.
If you think sticking your dick in some cum receptical is going to give you some form of fulfilment then I feel bad for you buddy, it won't and if it does it'll be short lived and you'll end up back where you are now with time lost.
It wont be wasted because it will build up my confidence which should lead me into getting up to hottee and hotter girla when eventually if im lucky ill find someone i couls live with.
My theory is that is because you put her on pedestal and you want to do your best to attract her but that causes uneasiness and anxiety and overthinking. I think you need to think of a girl like she is just a random guy you dont give a fuck about and then you wont give a fuck about what you say and you might try flirting because you dont care about the outcome
If you need to slam some roast ham to get your confidence up then I'd say you have bigger issues you should be focusing on, like self improvement for example. You think chassing whores will lead you towards finding a worthy woman, you realize how delusional that it right?
>mfw i am a virgin at 21
Yes i realise but please lets not get into reasoning. I just want to fix this part of my life
I'm telling you there's nothing to 'fix', perhaps your morals and world view but hey, you do you
>lost my virginity a month before I turned 22
>Will send ETH or any other crypto of choice for good advices
no need to do that., what do you wanna know?
>25 is already late
Yeah, you should KYS now. Too bad.
Sounds good, user, I'll try that next time.
You didn't "miss" anything. You had a fulfilling relationship for 4 years, which is more than the vast majority of Jow Forums will ever experience. Don't fall into degeneracy. All you'll find there is disgust at yourself and the world.
t. Reformed "chad" as the robots would term it.
begone thot
How to approach random girls
Stop being a lil bitch. Go up to them and make conversation. Then ask for number if she seems interested.
i spent too much time on lookism and it has poisoned my mind. im only attracted to women that have a very good facial profile like your pic. if i see men without a pronounced jawline i think of them as subhuman, although i know that it isnt true. stay away from that site
do what that chad user does and just say "let me fuck you raw" with the eye emojis
This
I don’t wanna fuck tinder thots raw though
>had steady sex from 21 to 25
>male
>complains
>here
So your in a very good position despite what you think. 25 is still pretty damn young in the grand scheme of things. This is pretty much the average age of people I see going out to music festivals and bars (I'm 26 myself).
You're in an even better position by having a good face (if you actually do) and a good job.
These are obstacles that a lot of people can't easily/readily overcome, so you're out of the clear for the time being.
Since you mentioned you've got around 400 tindie matches, it's obvious that the opportunity to have sex is pretty high.
The problem is you are not acting on these opportunities and that is because there's a lack of drive.
You can solve this by reading up on nofap and abstaining from porn and masturbation. I guarantee that if you are honest to yourself and try nofap for at least 2 weeks, you will notice a substantial increase in the drive to pursue sex. Whether or not you act on that drive I'll talk about below, but at least you'll have that drive.
If you want increase that drive further and try to improve your confidence, you need to start exercising and lifting weights. You need to do this consistently and for you to be consistent, you need to find enjoyment in it. Enjoyment doesn't come immediately like other immediately gratifying things in life, so you have to work a little before it's fun
not OP, but I've been doing nofap for two months so far and I'm going nuts
good to hear man. I fell off the wagon recently and noticed a big decrease in the drive, not just in trying to bang chicks, but also in other facets of life
You fuckin know it
Worrying about sex is like worrying about rocks in the road. You should slap yourself.
>has a good job, fit, good face, 400 tinder matches
>still complains
die in a car accident.
Dude, just start fucking girls, it's not that hard. Take them out, fuck them hardcore style, and jump to the next. Use condoms always.
this nigga here is a slayer
What's the point in that? In the end it just feels vain and boring.
There is no point. You get addicted to pleasure, and will become dependent on pussy forever. Whats the point on pleasure?
Easier said than done. I wish I had an ability see everyone as an identical and plain looking person that looks approachable. I feel like my anxiety would just go away after that. I hate not being white. People just attach a negative stigma to you if you're of another race.
You could always live in a country with a majority of people with the same ethnicity. Why torture yourself by living in a place that makes you insecure?
>girl like she is just a random guy you don't give a fuck about and then you wont give a fuck about
Not the user you replied to but I'd never talk to someone I don't give a fuck about there basically invisible to me.
sorry for the late reply, as with pretty much anything - the secret is the law of averages my friend. if you're shy, you HAVE TO approach as many people (not necessary women you would target for a sexual encounter, just random men and women) until your no longer extremely shy. There is no way around it. The best thing would be to get a part time job where you have to come in contact with people whether you like it or not (on the top of my head: bartender, waiter... - perfect jobs for honing those skills) then it's only a matter of time. Most people get comfortable approaching strangers and starting a natural conversation within couple of months. Those meme youtube videos, where a guy approaches the girl "q: hey, you wanna fuck? a: -sure, got nothing better to do anyways", are utter bullshit. that almost never works in the real life and for the few times that it would work, she would probably turn out to be a hooker and demand that you pay her for wasting her time, or even if she isn't - would you wanna be in a relationship with a girl that said yes instantly to the "wanna fuck" question?
I think, the thing that will help you the most is to watch couple of these videos bellow. This guy is definitely a master when it comes to human interactions and flirting and you'll learn a lot. good luck!
>youtube.com
>25 year old kissless virgin
>no hope in sight
Where the fug is my complimentary gf