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>>make new friends with some lesbian i work with
why?

She needs some vitamin d m8

been hanging out with college chicks for the last week.

Im not used to this many advances. whats going on desu.

have i made it?

at least 3 i could've fucked if i wanted to every night, with one of them literally begging me to come spend the night

You are a good person. Seriously, you did good.

Idk man why be friends with anybody?
Aye here's to hoping.

>Qt arab chic keeps messaging me from uni
>Tfw I don't reciprocate to her level
>Still want my ex deep down who moved away
Fuck, I need to move on

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Give it time user, it'll pass.

I’ve been here before user; don’t count on her for anything. It’s okay to be friendly but seriously don’t count on or rely on her for a single thing for a long long long time.

It will get better soon user. Today I had a dream about her and unironically listened to that Taylor swift song about not getting back together and laffed hard. It will get better. I promise.

Can you elaborate?

Not him but i assume his story relates to misplaced dependency on a surrogate (you) in lieu of the ex.

Ohhhh, i probably should've thought harder. Honestly i thought about it, but even if she wanted to start dating I'd most likely tell her to give it a little bit since the breakup.

>tfw gf broke up with me about 3 weeks ago
>I’m more successful than ever before
>school, work, fitness and in everything else
>don’t have anyone to share my success with
>tfw no gf
Why do it be like this bros?

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Be proud of yourself user, you don’t need external validation from anybody, let alone an ex. Keep going my man, we’re all gonna make it

I'm proud of you user.

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I'm 6 weeks in my man.

I have never been this disciplined in my life, but shes not there anymore.

I know that fucking feel

i wanna talk to her again, she was pretty much the only person i talked to, now she wont even look at me
being lonely and having oneitis SUCK

This pic has been haunting me all day. I think if I saw her in real life it would ruin it though.

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keep this useless retard to >>Jow Forums

Yeah

I dated and fucked a lesbian, and at first it was great, but they are not worth the trouble

she never appreciated my dick properly like straight girls do

Nobody cares about your dumbo-eared average ho

Why is she popular?

You're a good person, user.

Not Ebin ;((((((

I assume these spergy conversations never went anywhere so who cares what they think now?

how old are all you khvs? I'm currently 28, bordering on wizardhood.

She probably thinks you're gay. I do.

>haven’t hear anyone say “I love you” for so long
That feel when no one has ever felt anything for you and you are just like a street lamp, a public object for which no one would feels a shit.

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>tfw you think someone finally might be starting to care about you
>they sudenly stop talking to you
whats wrong with me it happened more than once

I know this exact feel. They're just coping.

>been 2 years
>Still think about her
Doesn't help I haven't touched a girl since her.

I've talked to a few girls, but it never worked out, either they weren't interested or had a BF already.

29yo khv here famalam

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Breaking up with gf tonight after a year and a half. Kind of nervous about it. I was her first which is nice, but she's clingy and I'm not feeling it anymore.

Cuddles with lesbian friends might be the best thing ever

It's funny. Not to jerk myself off but the more she got to know me she went from only lesbian to suddenly not always so sure, or "more open to things. What happens happens" kinsa bs
Ah well, we're all fucked up.
You can think that, but she knows I'm into chicks
Thanks

i have that shirt

It was nice desu

Lost my gf this week and holy fuck this feel is fucking my shit up. I get this intense dread when I think about not having her in my chest. I want just tomorrow to come already so I can lift and forget about her.

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>20 years old
>working full-time as a pizza delivery driver
>not going to college just saving up as much money as i can while along the way figuring out what i want to do for a business
>never had a gf
>Capable of getting one but not going to school seriously handicaps me from meeting other girls
>Only girls i talk to are my friend's girlfriends and this one girl at work who is in a relationship
>parents are telling me that I need to stop losing weight
>almost everyone in my family is disappointed that I'm not going to college and they keep trying to make me change my mind and go back
>parents are always breathing down my neck wondering what I'm gonna do with my life
>rarely talk to my brother and sister
>just feel like my family and i are growing distant from each other
>since working all the time i cant even play video games anymore, they're just not fun
>spend my day always thinking what i want to do for a business
>always thinking about the future
Jesus Christ lads, i just want to be in a relationship with a nice girl and move into an apartment together so my family can finally leave me the fuck alone. Luckily for me I have some really great friends and they've always been there for me these past few months of anxiety and stress. I'm making amazing progress on my cut, can feel my abs for the first time in my life. They're actually there under this fat i have left. I cannot wait till Halloween when i end my cut and can start bulking. Gonna be looking amazing by next summer and its gonna be great to see what these girls that rejected me in high school think. Will have $40000+ saved up by my 21st birthday just from working alone. Hopefully i can get a girl by next summer and finally move out. Things will get better just keep moving forward. We're all gonna make it.

you're a depressing faggot jesus

you said you have friends. why don't you just enjoy being with your friends? get shitfaced with them, play games, fuck around, dance, talk about whatever.
If chicks see that you're having a good time, that you're fun being around then you'll find a cutie.

when you go partying with the boys dont think about women and couples, think about having a really good time with your buddies.
STOP being depressing you nigger

>just started ss
>look in the mirror
>see a fat basedboy

will my soiboiness be cured someday?

Keep your chin up user, taking that first step is something most fat S O Y faggot fucks never take, keep at it

AHHHHHH WHY DID YOU HAVE TO REMIND ME RRRRREEEEEE

>Molested (raped in my tender young ass and forced to suck dick) at age six for a period of six months by some kids that lived down the street
>Think about it all the time, multiple times a day
>Started lifting/ wrestling at age 12 with an end goal of finding them and taking from them what they took from me
>Realize now, at age 19, that I’ll probably never find them (was in a whole other country on the other side of the world)
>At least I have my gains

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We can only be honest user. Let her down gently
One day at a time dude. She'll fade eventually.
Remember user, we all gotta go through hell. But we will all make it

thanks user
i just hate looking so much onions, but maybe it doesnt matter in the end if i can get my lifts up

>khv, 23
>qt girl flirts with me
>get anxious and leave as soon as possible
>right when I leave I recompose and realize exactly what I should have said, how it's not a big deal to be anxious and to just roll with it
>every next time I see her she trues to talk/do something together
>repeat

The clock is ticking before it's too late to get a first kiss+ who's not fat or mentally ill. My family has already used the line "it's alright if you're gay user" because I haven't brought a girl to a family gathering and don't appear like I'd have trouble getting a girl

>>haven’t hear anyone say “I love you” for so long
At least you've heard those words said to you before.

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>for so long
user, to me that means at one point someone did love you. And if someone loved you, someone can love you again. Keep your chin up.
Sometimes we gotta make improvements to ourselves, sometimes people are just cold. All we can do is keep going.
Don't worry ya'll, we'll all make it.

Practice makes perfect user. Maybe instead of letting her make the move the first time every time, you take the initiative so you have more control?

>Chick I work with who is 7 years older than me is clearly into me
>Not into her
Stop it

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I really, really like this picture user. Can i save it? :)

I like it yoo

>didn’t drink
>didn’t have much fun desu

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Hey fags, I'm thinking about going Erasmus during a substancial amount of my university time, my options are Germany, Austria, Czech Republic, Poland, Eslovenia and Sweden, give me pros and cons about these countries

>and when she saw me she thought "Anons here, I'll be ok"
I remember the time when "that" girl said the same thing to me but it all ended months ago and it just depressed the fuck out of me the fact that she seems just fine and while I look more than fine in the outside, but in the inside I'm a total mess I can't even erase her photos of my phone, I just want to kill myself honestly

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>Germany
Filled with Muslims and no saluting allowed
>Austria
Idk
>Czech Republic
Never heard of it but sounds based
>Poland
Based and redpilled, full of cuties
>Eslovenia
If you’ve never heard of it, it’s probablt based
>Sweden
Full of fags and muzzies

>lifting cant cure autism

Mind is haunted by my toxic ex who cheated on me and tried to get me to end it by bullying me.
I was a fucking idiot for putting my worth in her and letting her devalue me to less than nothing

How the fuck do I love myself and move on while she's happily dating the guy she cheated on me with and is planning to marry?

Lesbians aren't real. You could get with her if you wanted. Wouldn't reccomend tho because lesbian=unstable

Same

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Hey user, let yourself be human for a while. Cry, hit something, drive out somewhere deserted and scream. We're all only human. I can't force you to do anything, but let me share a story with you
>be with gf for six years
>little fights start piling up
>on January 11th she dumps me
>all i do is sleep, all i dream about is her
>month later we start talking and fucking again
>shit is cash
>dumps me again after a few months
>same depression cycle
>one night, after being miserable for months, randomly just bust out 50 curls with some 20lb dumbells my dad had laying around
>after that, delete everything
>every day i work out til exhaustion
>she fades with every slight gain
>haven't missed a day since
>she's barely a thought
You'll make it user.

>got laid off in May
>Have a wife and 2 kids to take care of
>money is running low
>have had several interviews, followup is always "sorry but you're overqualified" or "sorry but you were the #2 choice"
>seriously want to swallow a fucking bullet but can't leave my family like that
>lift heavy shit just to feel something

>how do i love myself
By recognizing and honing your good traits, improving your bad ones, knowing that some things won't go your way and that's ok, and giving your best everyday despite the world
>move on
Just takes time. And when she starts to fade, don't grab and hold her memory, let it go. When you get the chance, delete those pictures and throw away what you need to.
You'll make it brah

>be with first gf since high school
>now in last semester of college
>having serious doubts if I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman
>too afraid of hurting her and too unsure of myself to end the relationship

Boy howdy I hate this

Thanks man, it's tricky as ever
memory and plaguing imagination running wild is the toughest, but Im trying to practice mindfulness and staying in the present so that those thoughts that try to bust their way in dont.

Eh, i legit just like her company. We've hung out prior to that night and it was fun aswell. We can talk somewhat in depth about movies or books or even working out, where as my family will just call me pretentious and my best friend just doesn't seem to care about fitness or media that isn't video games

BOUT TO START AN sorry about caps - another block of medschool. going haard with no breaks until thanksgiving. also have a super tight budget until january. lifting 6x/wk + running 4x/wk.

no support or encouragement. nothing to look forward to. just brute force willpower. very draining. can't even afford sips. dreadful. grinding until june, then i'll finally be done with the textbook shit and start clinical rotaations. this is the worst year of my life. 8 more months of darkness

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Flip a coin. Legit what i do, and that initial thought where your brain wants one side more than the other is enough to decide where to go.

>i love her
>i kissed her
>but im not with her
>im with someone else

Who here has scumbag feels. Things havent been great in my relationship lately and i know i care about my gf, but i cant understand why i feel so hard for this other person. Neither deserve to be hurt and i at this rate just feel like i cant make a choice without doing exactly that.

Plus my lower abs arent developing and its fucking destroying me.

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You'll get there user. Remember tons of people have been where you are, and they found their way.

I admire your willpower very much user. My greatest weakness is not being able to put my head down and work. Had some courses to do this summer but spent most of it hanging around with gf, but still stressing. Fucked them up and now I have to retake them. I'm trying really hard to be more disciplined and people like you make me feel good about enduring the shit.

Thanks a lot user but no matter how hard I try to rationalize this shit i can't shake the thoughts of inadequacy or not being good enough. It happened kinda like this.
>Met this new girl in uni trough a mutual friend, talking non stop since day one.
>Time passes and I can't help myself but fall entirely for her but try to don't spill my spaghetti too soon.
>She first confessed to my very akwardly that I like her and to please don't get scared of this bc she get attached too fast.
>Fast forward some time again everything going fine I tell her that she likes me too and we started to make out heavily in her bed sometimes.
>I got self-conscious about dick because I got pearly papules so Im terrified to advance from the make out.
>Really love this girl but she is getting frustrated and/or bored.
>One day she just told me "later I've got something to tell you".
>Later just got a text saying that she isn't sure about our relationship anymore and to give her some time, you know the usual bullshit.
I regret everything, I can't stop thinking that she is the one that "got away", I still see her in uni sometimes and everytime I feel a elephant over my chest.
But thanks for the kind words user, we'll make it bro

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To specify I do work, but not nearly as efficiently as I should. Procrastination and distractions are a plague

Yo user, you're a tough sob. That being said, i hope you share some stress with your wife, that's what partners are for. We all gotta vent, and sometimes a wife is better than strangers who all kinda work out.
Worse comes to worse, theres bound to be fast food or grocery stores hiring. No shame in working those jobs

user, we all deserve to be with someone who wants to be with us. Break this girl off gently, it's the right thing to do.

My lower abs arent coming in either. Is running important for that shit? Got the top four kinda visible so idk

aww this is cute

Remember bros, we will all make it. Some faster and easier than others, but we will all raise our hand at some point. Crawl, walk, or run, but always forward.

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Amen!

> she left me a little over 4 weeks ago
>was sad, then mad at myself
>started hitting the gym hard
>making an effort to make new friends with new classmates
>made an even bigger to reconnect with old ones that I haven't seen since highschool.

Although it still stings, her leaving has motivated me like nothing else

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dont give up dude, shes obviously just went a little too fast and realized it. Give her time and don't give up!

sounds like me user

except after 6 years of working this shitty job I've lost all motivation

How the fuck are you supposed to kiss a girl? I am a pathetic KHHV, soon to be 20. I lost around 50-60 pounds in 5 months and become much more sociable and outgoing. I had my very first date last week with a pretty shy girl. I enjoyed it quite a lot and I think she did as well. We have a second date this wednesday.

What the fuck am I supposed to do to kiss her? I am a literal retard when it comes to physical contact and it all seems so fucking alien to me, but I feel like that if I don't act soon she'll just think I'm not interested or something like that.

Pearly papules don't matter in the slightest. I have them too. I've fucked around 25 or so girls and absolutely none of them have ever even mentioned it.

Sorry that happened to you. I suggest therapy

just move out already. You need to get away from your parents. You won't save quite as much money but you will be much happier. Gaining that independence will also allow you to think more clearly so you can pick a direction sooner.

dont think about just do it when it feels right

Yeah I always go for a kiss on the first date if we're vibing at all. Don't want her to think you're a pussy y'know?

Your eye contact should be strong so she wants you to kiss her. She might bite her lip or look down at your lips when a conversation gets good when you are doing eye contact. Then, look at her lips and move in gently to her lips. Kiss a few times but pull away first.

Emergency plan is just at any point where you're vibing, just say "wait" while pointing your finger at the sky, then slowly move in for the kiss.

If you got the second date she wants you to fucking kiss her so assume that

First off, make sure you and her have established some physical contact prior to going for it. Don't just fucking kiss her out of the blue.
Tilt your head to one way or the other (so you don't just fucking headbut her) and press your lips to hers and pucker a little bit. Hold her hands or grab her hips while you do it.
Look for signs of her wanting you to do it. Prolly should use Google or youtube for that tho.
Two more things
>don't be afraid to listen to your gut
>if it don't work out, there will be others
Go get it, user