Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
This is a picture of the woman that I once loved, and whom once loved me. Life has always been terribly lonely, but there is a distinct tinge of loneliness that can only come from losing someone you love and watching them spiral downwards on their own accord.
This is a woman that wanted to be an entrepreneur, a mother, a botanist, and most importantly... she wanted to be happy and loved. She is the oldest girl in her family who still hasn't had any children, and even considered marrying a man she didn't care much for simply because he was there when the other men in her life had all walked away. She was never popular in school, or after school, but she still desired to make friends and travel and experience the good things in life. She worked long hours at terrible jobs, saving barely enough to cover rent and living expenses. She nearly died in a car accident, and spent months recovering from multiple surgeries, all while her family was by her side.
So many struggles, so many stories, so much experienced in life. And here she is, a young overweight alcoholic on the street, curled up against a dirty wall right by a puddle of her own urine, photographed by the latest man that is paying her bar tab and letting her share his bed. Is this the life that a woman should feel comfortable living?
Do you think she even thinks about being loved? Does she even remember? Does she even care?
Robots, it isn't better to have loved and lost, because when it's all over, she didn't lose anything, even if she is a loser.
Sex is your biological imperative if you can't convince a woman to have sex with me without monetary compensation you've failed.
Gavin King
lol she peed
Samuel Collins
>and whom once loved me reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee~ GTFO
Austin Perry
she just decided to lie down because tired
Tyler Nguyen
It's not better. I mean, there's case-by-case kind of stuff, with this. If mr normie who doesn't sperg out and make people hate him loses his gf on relatively good terms, better than her forgetting he existed if she doesn't just think he's a stupid faggot and that everything she liked about him was mistaken, it was better to have loved, probably, to prove that they're lovable and capable of loving. Most cases that a robot would find himself in, though, it would have been better if he stayed alone.
Christopher Hill
>to prove that they're lovable and capable of loving
This is a reasonable argument, but would really only provide comfort if they could find love again, no?
Jeremiah Russell
I wish I never had a relationship. She left me after three years because she felt I was wasting her time, she wanted friends, parties and all after we started uni. I tried so hard to get things back, and now she's walking around with a smoking guy who's ten years older than her,bald,hairy arms, and a bunch of weird people, I think we all know where this is going to take her, it's so sad brothers...
Nathan Fisher
Loved and lost. Just like it's better to win the lottery and go bankrupt later than be poor all your life. At least you have the memories.
Nathan Wright
I guess tfwnogf ain't so bad after all
Parker Rivera
It's so great to be a man: When you fail sexually, becoming alone by failing to storm castles (become intimate with women), only you know your pain. When a woman fails sexually, turning into a whore for inability to keep the gates closed and for pathological need for attention, everyone knows she's trash. At least men's failure is their business. Women's failure is publicly known.
Oliver Jackson
You stuck your dick inside that lump of lard? Bro, you need to get your shit together if you loved that. What the FUCK is wrong with men these days. Your goddamn ancestral fathers fought so you could live, and you're worried about that that shit-fuck of hamplanet shitting herself? My dude, if you're lonely you deserve it. Her pussy must have reeked of fish and fucking dead ham.
Jacob Ramirez
The pussy didn't smell bad, but it was loose. Likely due to a lack of physical activity, which isn't hard to assume considering the weight.
Cameron Hill
Take the gaypill user
Angel Phillips
>at least you have the memories It's the worst thing about it. Just erase everything I have, never let me think again. It's slashing into my mind every minute. Life wasn't something I could cope before I had a relationship. Now it's even worse, just another burden. I wish I could die tonight, please let me die tonight in my sleep, just let me never think again.
Jonathan Brooks
>Its a normies trying to make robots feel better for never being in a relationship so they can play the victim card over them
Fuck right off, its always better to have loved and lost than never at all, that's how it goes. You may now be in suffering, but you atleast were happy and felt super good about yourself.
What you are saying is the equivelent of saying that a person who lived 50% of his life in europe and went to africa is worse than a person who was born in africa and 100% of his life is fighting to not starve and for survival in the ghettos. You are simply heart broken at the moment and that will eventually fade out since you normally will find another person who loves you and you love back. That state of mind is temporary, sure it may be hard, but its temporary and you will eventually be back to normal. Telling you are worse than a person who never experienced love at all is making an exaggeration. A person who has never loved still sees couples down in the streets and can understand what love is and what that person is missing. Just because you have met a SO doesnt mean you have some enlightened point of view that robots cant understand.
Aiden Johnson
Buddy you've spoken by me, exactly the same situation.
Julian James
Seek Christ, my friend
Leo Butler
Why isnt she no longer with you? If both of you loved eachother so much?
Sure what see has been through is sad, but if you care so much why arent you contacting her and reaching out to help?
Samuel Turner
>Is this the life that a woman should feel comfortable living?
why gender this bit? First, it's like you're trying to say that if she chose you, the man that would have saved her from the world, she would not be in this situation (which may be true). And second, that it's not equally as shit for a man to live this kind of life....
To answer your question, I would say it's better to not have loved at all. You won't feel the void and heartbreak compared to loving and then losing the relationship. Remember, this is not loving, i.e. you choosing not to love, so would not entail feelings of undesirability, but maybe unluckiness as you haven't been able to find someone to your liking
However I also think people that have been in relationships should learn to hold their tongue when talking to people that haven't. Because they got to experience a cornerstone of life and take it for granted, only because they were fortunate enough to be desired and get into that situation
Samuel Russell
depends on what you did. also you should hate yourself if you were stupid to go bankrupt, and not want to be reminded, just like broken relationships
Josiah Walker
FUCK. I'm in the "trying so hard to get things back" with mine. i'm pretty grim about the future, user. She used to be so pure
She became distant and, considering we live far from each other, it was no surprise that it wasn't going to work. I have tried contacting her but she was unreceptive. In all likelihood, she cheated on me, so I should feel far less sympathy for her than I do
