I know its r9k, but some of u talk about having a gf or some shit. Just checking how much of a loser I'am

What about Highschool?

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I have the same feeling user. Like im missing the best time of my life. Im going to uni in another town in a mont.
Fuck its my chance to become Chad.

Try becoming a bartender, helps the "paralyzing" thing

I was in car profile highschool, only few girls. Once this feminist looking girl started talking to me, asking questions about me. I got fucking stressed out and just walked downstairs to my friends ignoring her.

Same here
>18khv
>Never talked to a girl outside of school in some random leads-to-nowhere conversation

I'm not sure how to even find a girl I like. I wouldn't date any of my coworkers and they probably feel the same about me. I at least know how to escalate, but I don't know how to find a girl with similar interests. I don't care for bar girls, I hear tinder is just for sluts, I do normie things with guy friends but they don't bring hookups. I don't get invited to any big parties. Last time I did a hangout with 11 or so people, 3 of them women, we all smoked weed in the end and its just a big turn off for some reason.

not a lot of info, but yeah you're a pretty big loser if you haven't even talked to girls before, but not all is lost, you have to work on it, it aint easy, it will be probably awkward as fuck the first few dozen times, but like a salesman can only become great through a bunch of failures, you can only become adequate with women by attempting a ton, obviously not forcing conversations or situations, but you gotta put yourself out there, and eventually, it'll come natural to you.

I understand having anxiety around a girl you like but why would you care about some random roastie

I have come to the conclusion that I can't live for other people. I'm not an edgelord or a sociopath, I just never learned what relationships with other people actually meant, and it's becoming more and more difficult to get the ball rolling as you say:
>the hardest thing is the process of getting to the point when we can get drunk together.
I used to try and be extroverted but when everyone else is miles ahead of you then they tend to reject you. And your autistic friends aren't good to practice on.
I'd just keep at it like says but don't get hung up on not being chad. Use your autism powers to become stronger to spite your enemies (if your a bitter fuck like me this mantra works wonders)

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Thanks user. Jow Forums and r9k is giving me a lot of motivation. I have 4 months vacation before going to uni and ive been locking myself out instead of doing anything positive.

Funny how the rest of the internet shits on us just because we're toxic as fuck sometimes.
Jow Forums is a place where the best and the worst come to meet imo,

your welcome, but not gonna lie the best advice will usually not come from here. also if you're about to go to uni for the first time its best to make sure you start at your strongest, if you don't have girls or friends now you might as well spend all this time bettering yourself, work out , eat right, and practice whatever sport you usually play a lot more, so that you can join a frat or some shit, easiest way out of robothood in my opinion, i knew of a few lanklets from high school that did a 180 by working out and fratting out, went from zero girls to slaying girls all the time. granted they turned into ultra douches, brads if you will. but being a brad is still better than being a ultra beta.

>I have come to the conclusion that I can't live for other people.

Thats actually brilliant. Why the fuck should i care what will they think. Im just some random retard for them. It cant get worse.

Sounds like plan. I actually worked for last 3 years and have some money saved up. Might as well spend it on gym, good food and nice clothes.

worry about clothes last, and go to that website people here hate for fashion advice, by having a good body you can get away with wearing anything you want

4 months is just enough to get almost anyone thats not retardedly obese into a sexy body, so get researching and get pumping, the diet is the most important part. I lost like 10% body fat over a summer when i realized i really wanted abs, and it was the best decision of my life.

Sad story, 3 months are already gone.
Im not fat. Im actually super skinny. 6ft tall and like 140 lbs.

much better than if you were fat and only had 1 month, you better hit the gym 6 days a week alternating between body parts, and eat a ton of protein. its easier for skinny people to start looking good than fat people to start looking good. 6 ft is just tall enough to be not a manlet, but short enough so that you can look buff relatively quick.

It's true than men tend to treat women as some sort of transcendental abstract concept more than a person sometimes. But once you get disillusioned on it it's easy to get jaded. Don't fall for the 'lmaofuckeveryone' pill. You can be jaded as fuck and still have a little hope left in the tank. When you see an opportunity don't self sabotage. But don't overextend trying to become normie. A delicate balance us robots must uphold.

Thanks for the tip. Gonna do sum research on workout plans and dieting.

I dont wanna give up on my personality, trying to become someone else, but i just feel like I should finally go out to people.

Dieting is pretty simple:
>eggs
>nuts
>meat
>lots of pasta and rice n shit. good for extra calories.
>milk/yoghurt
>spinach/kale/ green leafy shit
>other random veggies
>some form of potato
>maybe protein shakes for good measure but don't go overboard if you're a skelly. protein is essential but will make you feel too full to eat the rest of your food. perhaps better in evenings.
If you're a lanklet don't bother counting calories. Just eat as much good shit as you can and don't throw up.

work on that shit later, by being good looking people will give you a lot of leeway, the better looking the more the leeway, it'll be a easier environment to develop your personality, also people have memory, so if you attempt social stuff before you're good looking, you might be burning bridges that you cant get back to later.
btw if you dont mind me asking where do you live, i live in socal and i know of many trainers.

perhaps it's just a necessary stage in your personal evolution. I mean you're still 19. not a boomer yet. just go for it. there really isn't a right path to choose until you single one out from lack of motivation or sheer lack of patience.

Im not from usa, but what do you mean by that part with memory. Im not going to avoid people in uni untill i will build some muscle. I can only take care of thinghs like haircut and looking neat and work on body at the same time.