How do I avoid getting a boner when grappling? Also, do gyms make men grapple with women or is it same-sex only?

rolling with chicks is the best because they can never actually win, if you start to lose just overpower them. generally in practice you work on technique against girls because you don’t have to worry about them brute forcing you, but you both know at anytime you can just add 10% and have her stuck. the best was when I was trying out bjj (was a high school wrestler) at my friends gym and there was no one for me to roll with except for his wife. wew i’m getting hard just thinking about it

I try to never roll with women and I would never ever go out with a girl that did any kind of grappling sports. It's not that the positions are necessarily sexual or whatever, but you're both rubbing your pheromones all over each other and feeling each other's body. I've rolled with chicks and sometimes it's okay and they don't have an effect, but sometimes they just smell good to me and I end up thinking about them way too often for like two weeks afterwards. In ordinary circumstances, I can safely say there wouldn't really be any attraction. I would notice that they were attractive, but so are lots of girls I see. It's when they've spent five minutes with their neck pressed against my face or whatever that they leave an impression.

So yeah, never let your girl roll with other guys, ideally just teach them yourself at home. Not only is she going to be smelling all sorts of men who reek of testosterone, she's also going to be leaving her smell in the brains of a bunch of guys. It's not smart to have a girl train with guys. It's weird for her to even train in the first place, but I guess it makes sense for self-defence and stuff.

So you're a fag in denial?

LOL dude. I get what you're saying. I have done a tiny bit of bjj. I remember the owner had his wife (or maybe she's just a student I have no clue) most days on the mat. She was prob a 7/10 but I swear after I rolled with her it was 10/10 and I wanted to pump kids into her. I also have a footfetish so whenever she was locking her legs around my neck or waist it was HNNNG. and yes, who would want their girl making other guys feel like this

You don't. You show your opponent who's the boss of this gym.

Suck your opponent's dick beforehand. That way, you'll know what his dick looks like, and ruin the mystery, and won't get excited over it

Maybe don't date a slut then you insecure twit.

surely the internet has uncensored
asking for a friend ly fap

but your blood should be flowing to other areas in a fight.

Most men and women grapple together, and you really don’t have to worry about boners it just doesn’t happen

By focusing on the fight and not banging. Unless your 15 this shouldn't be a problem.

Also you could try not being gay

>work.
do you work at a school?

So instead trying to not think of sex. Try to not think of math. Stop thinking about the double integral of acceleration

Remember this post when your first gf cheats on you. If you ever even have one, that is.
Seriously though, some girls aren't "sluts" until the right opportunity comes along.

What is happenning in the pic?

The black dude is controlling the guys legs preventing him from standing up, he's pressing his head against the white dudes lower stomach/hip to help keep the guy the white guy on the mat

The white guy does not want to be on the mat (he might be a more stand up fighter, or he knows the black guy is a jiu jitsu specialist) so he is punching the black guy in an attempt to free his legs and hips so he can get free. The blur was added afterwords for the lulz they are both wearing combat shorts.

Also the black dude is keeping his head down low because it minimizes the risk of a guillotine

he's getting his dick sucked lmao