The blackpill is real. Had an amazing date with this qt. Picked her up at her house, went out to eat...

Probably the best advice I've ever heard on this god forsaken board

dang dude she probably thinks she dodged a bullet right now

read all this and this is the only shit you need, you clearly never mattered to her so dont show her she mattered to you my dude

You honestly don't know shit man. You're just generalizing. We both had a great time and bonded quickly. I can tell when girls like me and when they're lying, this one wasn't lying, at first anyway. She did want to see me, I just picked the latest day which must've given her time to find someone else. Calling her a bitch would make her think she made the right decision you absolute brainlet, I'd rather make her feel bad about it, my messages were perfect.

>This is why the incel movement exists
Jesus man this is pathetic

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to preach the truth man

That is very unfortunate user, I'm sorry.
Women are so heartless.

Fuck off back to redit, normie piece of shit.

if you kissed her that's great you were doing something right but you went on one date she doesn't owe you shit

those messages look fucking pathetic, you just should've said "damn ok, have a good one" or nothing at all

>pursuing holes
Literally zero sympathy. Neck yourself OP.

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Either give them no response or a very concise one. They already showed what you are to them. They don't care how you feel, what effort you put in, nor what you think. You are dealing with a woman, not your friend.

How? I was fucking fantastic on the date I'm just not good looking enough. Personality means jack shit when you're ugly. The incel community is completely right.
I'm just terrible with rejection. I'm INTJ so I barely ever approach and pursue girls, so when I do I make sure they're worth it. Before this I haven't talked to a girl since December

This. Jesus Christ OP, youre probably a reddit niceguy meme with that Incel Sperg

>this is why the incel movement exists
Ironically where incels come from. No one here identifies as an incel, except reddit fags

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Lmao wtf are you doing. This post must be bait

>but you were so cute
>CUTE

>this is why the incel movement exists

>Had an amazing date with this qt.
>Picked her up at her house, went out to eat, then went mini golfing
>I paid for everything
>then went for a walk down the beach.
>I was very charming, funny, and didn't show an ounce of insecurity, and she was smiling the entire time.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> I fucking hate being ugly

How was the kiss? You must have fucked that up to

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>Calling her a bitch when she knows shes being a bitch
>Telling her youre incel

Dude, youre not going to fucking make it. STOP trying to apply your logic to women they do not operate by man logic. just do what I fucking told you jesus christ. You didnt make her feel bad you made her feel justified, shes never going to contact you again I can assure you of that.

this should serve you as fuel to better yourself rather than bitch and moan.
be glad she was honest with you and didn't lead you on.

I will take that as a win, actually. I can't even talk to women

Oh wow look at this here lad thinking hes tough. Look, you wouldnt survive a second out in the real world, and neither would I. Now if you're going to be infesting this board with your bullshit, fuck off to pol and take your stuff with you. Robots dont accept incels even though you guys tend to market yourselves as them. The only real normie here is you.

Cute is a feminine adjective, it's not good to be called cute as a man, it's very belittling.
It wasn't a sperg, more of a "I give up." I'm fucking sick of trying now.
I never said I wanted her to contact me again. I can already tell I'm not going to make it, like I said even when I go on good dates it's not enough.
I went to the gym afterwards and used the anger as fuel and had a better workout than normal. But what's the point though? I'm already fit I just have an ugly face that can't improve without surgery which I can't afford

>I went to the gym afterwards and used the anger as fuel and had a better workout than normal. But what's the point though? I'm already fit I just have an ugly face that can't improve without surgery which I can't afford
then save up till you can afford it, give yourself goals

no dont do this
calling a girl a bitch makes you look like a butthurt child most of the time.

just send a "lol" or "OK". "k" will make you look like a bitchy feminine loser and "whatever" also makes you look butthurt and gay

this dude is larping as chad and its cute but its not gonna get you anywhere.

this is all basically true.
"dates" are a meme. if a girl actually likes you, she'll be perfectly content to spend all day in bed with you right from the get-go.
once you've established the relationship, then you can go on "dates"

That was cringy and pathetic of you

people actually think thats good advice, yikes

all youfe doing is validating her choice to not fuck with your pathetic ass

You done really well getting to that point. It was just unfortunate things didn't pan out in the end.Don't feel bad about it.

At least she had the decency to give you some closure. Should of brushed it off as some good experience and dropped it, that wall of shit text confirmed you have learned nothing. You aint ugly but will be an autist forever.

THIS

basically the only post in this thread that isnt cringy and retarded. clearly someone with an iq to write home about

Doesn't really matter what OP does after she already rejected him. If anything he should have sperged out completely and insulted her as much as he could. Just to get it out of his system.
This self-pitying tone he's using is kinda repulsive, though. No wonder he got rejected.

We both said we didn't want to jump right into bed right away. Both of us said we were frustrated with the hookup culture and wanted to build something meaningful first. That's how we bonded quickly. Some people have other goals besides getting their dicks wet

Like I said in the OP I didn't show an ounce of insecurity at all to her until AFTER she rejected me. The date was basically a perfect first date. There's no other explanation other than she found a better looking guy. Hypergamy

what does that mean to you, to "not show any insecurity"?

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Don't go on dates with girls you aren't dating. Next time, ask her to hangout, make sure YOU'RE having fun, tell her you'll call her later, wait AT LEAST until you hang out with another girl before contacting her again (she may contact you in the meantime, ignore her until then). Try it, breh.

To be confident, never doubt yourself or self loathe

Those are just retarded games. I'm not looking just to get my dick wet, I want a wife. Little boys "hang out", men do not.

>this is why the incel movement exists

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How old are you? 25 right? Never ask a girl to a date, that's cringey as fuck. They don't teach this shit in school because it's so obvious, didn't your dad ever teach you how to talk to girls?

What the fuck do you do then? What the fuck does "hanging out" consist of?

>t.doesnt fuck girls

Hang out with friends first. Why? VERY low pressure, and you'll be more comfortable too. Better yet, hang out with her friends and hit on them in front of her, she will feel possessive. Dating sites are for the good looking (and women), don't forget that. I honestly don't see how it is even possible to get a GF these days without having friends.

Lmao this is the most pathetic thought process ever. No wonder she ghosted your pathetic boring ass. I agree with that bitch things, it's actually worked for me in the past

Oh yeah, unless you want a trashy girl (sounds like you want a decent girl though). If you want a piece of trash, go to a club. It's decent for getting your confidence up as well as for waiting until you can contact your main girl again (remember, don't contact her before you hang out with another chick, it's for confidence, women can sense that shit)

Or better yet just never reply, and do your best to entirely forget she ever existed.

>This is why the incel movement exists

*Cringe compilation expands*

>Smiled the entire time
>No awkward pauses during the conversation
>Next to no small talk
>Laughed at all my jokes
>Even caught her blushing

>I was boring

>she ends up blowing me off that day.
and this was not a red flag for you? Jesus

You're a fakecel. No incel can get dates and sucked off that easily.

>this is why the incel movement exists
Lmao she just wasn't into you, it happens. She sent you a pity text because she thought it would make you feel better. You should be smart enough to realize it was a shitty gesture to make herself feel better and just ignored it considering you will never see her again.

bahaahaha incels blown the FUCK out, get the FUCK off of my board you FUCKING norMALFaG

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I have better advice: don't reply and completely ignore them in real life. They don't exist anymore, mere automations, they are dead to you.

>dat last reply
>blew you on first date

Jesus christ no wonder incels exist. They date trash, become cringy or act like fucking elliot then wonder why they are still single.

Yah you probably where, she was being polite...bitches do that when they arent having fun on dates. And sluts will use their body to get outta any situation so don't pull that kiss shit either. It was your complete loss. Man up and listen to the reasonable-ish advice on this board. Its probably the only advice you'll get

>being this desperate for a gf
If they dont like you then why bother putting all this energy into it? Do you really want to be with someone that doesn't even like you? I bet you've just turned 18.

>blew you on the first date
Where the fuck did I say this? I said she blew me off as in we planned a second date but she ran late from something else and we rescheduled.

No girl that is relationship worthy blows you after the first date you idiot. That shit takes at least a week and several sexual encounters.

How about not going for human cum rags next time?

it isn't feminine or belittling to be called cute

ok roastie
its probably a girl actually

I'll give it a 7.76/10

as a married man who got a lot of poon in college. You're half right.

You can ask a girl for everything, just don't say date or anything inappropriate. Just invite her to somewhere. The date is already implied you don't have to call it that.
Have a good time, make it about the event and don't try to girlfriend her immediately. That being said, don't waste your time. Make it obvious from the start that you have some romantic interest.
You don't have to be a fedora either, just be nice polite etc. nothing wrong with flirt/bants, but keep it going if you can't, Just laugh it off and continue the conversation.

Let it burn over a couple dates, THEN after you know what she's like, aim for the jugular. If you get some alone time, always try to get her to reveal how she feels.
If she's like retardedly oblivious to the fact that she's in the presence of a school shooter, then that's just girlcode for "I feel safe around my gay friend user."

Don't fret. Keep at it. If she's distraught, that's a good sign. because it means she's still trying to figure out whether she can trust you.
Hold her hostage by getting her to talk too much about herself, People hate when someone knows too much about them, When not being close to you becomes a liability, she's yours.

There's really no point in blowing up on them.

I just try to treat women like people and things work out for me pretty well
I haven't been on a "date" since college but I get what I need

>they unironically think calling a girl a bitch doesn't make them look like a butthurt faggot 99% of the time

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Our God is an awesome God. Look how he was able to fit this much cringe in one man.

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I only call boys bitches to demean them
women don't deserve it

>this is why the incel movement exists
dude why did you put that in there fuck. I would have just said ok

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>Are you free this weekend?
>"no why"
>I wanted to go do X and was curious if you wanted come with.
>"you mean.. like a date?"
>sure why not
>await fatal decision

seems easy enough

calling a dude a bitch is different because you're disrespecting what he probably holds dear to him... his manhood.

calling a woman a bitch just makes you look like a pissy faggot, though. as I've said.

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Jesus that 'date' sounds bad. Even if she was a slut that sucked you off after the first date because you paid for it (which should have been a major red flag btw)

But that romance shit is cringy as fuck and nobody IRL like it. They do it in cheesy movies yeah, but think about it like this. A girl in the start of her life and sexual experience will not look for cheesy romantic shit. They will want someone who can fuck them hard, then have a beer and fun with,

That date sounds like she enjoyed it as much as I enjoy going to work.

Real advice: you want the next one to work? Drop the romance shit and do something fun. If she blows you start looking again and keep her as a fuck buddy.

Shut up cunt.
Better?

Yeah you're right, that's why it's fun to call men bitches but very boring to call women

This man knows. I'd also like to add that you should try to date several at the same time until one commits to you.

Commiting to a crush or single person without anything official is a waste of time.

bro this is the most niceguy incel shit i've ever seen

nope. cunt would make you look unstable. cunt is like a no no word in society so using it willy nilly, especially when a girl kinda did you dirty, makes you look like you have no control over yourself. but then again do whatever the fuck you want.
lol i feel you

This. Any other way of replying in this situation makes you look like you care, at least enough to reply. Vapid girls like these feed on attention, of any kind. You can't really hurt them, but at least you can avoid contributing

Did you text her this?

The chick has a pussy, she doesn't want to date one.

But she isn't a bitch, virgin. You don't owe anyone shit after one date.

I'd just say k and move on, or just say nothing. you really have nothing better to do with your time?

Says the fucking brainlet who can't read the OP properly.

Like I fucking said for the 1000th time already, I didn't reveal any insecurities until after she rejected me, I was very confident and charming the entire time.
>But women can sense insecurities on you!
No, they can't, stop giving them so much credit.

The only reason I'm this upset about this is because the date was so great and I wasn't given a second chance. If the date was shit then I'd understand and move on. But the fact that I can be a fun person to be around and still not be wanted goes to show there's no hope

It very much is.
Only gay tops want a "cute" bf.
>t. have been called cute by both genders and only the faggot showed signs of affection

Not sure why youre asking what a man should do. Based on your bitchy sperg out, you're a chick.

Fuck girls my gf kissed another guy in her home and he fucking hickeyed her everywhere.

We are still together

Why so you think she's incapable of making up her own mind?

Also I've read two posts by you and you're a fucking drag.

You don't get it do you?

She wanted this
>They will want someone who can fuck them hard, make them cum several times, then have a beer and do something else fun with

Not this
>Picked her up at her house, went out to eat, then went mini golfing, I paid for everything, then went for a walk down the beach. Kissed her on the rocks while the sun was setting.

I never met anyone who fucking wanted that in my life, eve. Real life people don't go for romance, that's a hollywood induced shit and IT'S FUCKING BORING.

Your "date" sounds fucking gay

You paid for mini golf and a walk? Did you have to dip into the trust fund for that one?

It was the first date you fucking degenerate. Kill yourself

that's not true at all, but it might be that gay tops are all you get attention from

That doesn't make it any better you moron. It makes it worse. If they had a few good dates with you before you get a pass if you mess up after it.

Also married for 7 years and dated quite a bit in my time. I fucking know what I'm talking about.

>this is why the incel movement exists
prepare to get banned from whatever dating site you met on.

>makes thread complaining about his date
>Curses the very people he was appealing to by making said thread

get bent

>This is why the incel movement exists
Why would you throw what little dignity you had left out the window like that?

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OP, here's the real answer:

You are not the Chad, obviously. The roles would be reversed if that were the case.

You are the potential betabucks meal ticket. You'll get another chance whenever Chad chews her up and spits her out.

She let you sample the dish before you have to purchase it wholesale (marriage) with limits. Terms and conditions may apply. See store for details. Check participating retailers for more information. Offer valid while supplies last.

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This is the truth right here. You virgins have to take the bitchpill