Daily reminder that if you open your heart, a girl will eventually hurt you

When she had no other choice...

tfw I am condemned to suffer this forever.

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>you open your heart

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girls insist they are honest and we are over reacting
ignoring there are snakes out there who will take advantage of us

>don't do that
How else can we get a real partner?

You open your heart just a little, not too much but enough so she'll think you're being open. Don't ever talk about your insecurities and fears to a woman and NEVER EVER cry infront of her. They despise it.

Get a therapist for that shit.

GOD I wish that were me... telling my orbiters how it is.

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Are you an original female (female)?

>letting yourself feel
That's a mistake every man has to make once

kek. I dated a balding manlet who literally said the same thing to me. It's called "people suck".

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>that pic
Same DESU.

How come men love so much deeper than women bros?

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I don't know, mate. Many girls are really selfish (not all, of course). It is in their nature to abandon us for somebody with better features (more violent, more attractive, more income). "Fidelity" or "respect" are unknown words to them.

Being a "nice guy" is the biggest meme ever. Girls rarely like nice guys (perhaps 5% if them). When they say they want a nice guy, they actually want to say they want a very attractive guy, with lots of money and who is not an asshole at all.

(pic not related, at least she's honest)

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>why did you say you loved me if you didn't?

Because people say things, get over it you child. This is what life is. People fall in love, think it will be forever, then either they or the other gets over it, finds something else, moves on, or people change. She probably meant it when she said it, and if she didn't you were too much of a faggot to pick up on obvious cues. Learn to love yourself, then learn to get over yourself, then learn to live in the present and stop trying to trap people, *all* of whom are fickle and selfish, in your life like its all some legal contract. Life moves on mate. Go and do something else for a while.

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Empathy is derived from intelligence, which is derived from brain matter. Cue that one meme study that shows men have more neurons or whatever.

At the end of the day, we're all animals. Some more than others. Such is the rule of life.

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Women should be put in concentration camps

Bf cried in front of me before I left for a vacation.

I crawled into his lap and put my hands around his head, bringing his teary face into my neck. I remind myself of it when I think he doesn't care, reminds me that he needs someone's support - even when all I can do is be physically there for him.

Opening your heart, or feeling any emotion at all is a sign of fucking weakness. If some bitch said this to me I'd drive over to her place and punch her fucking teeth down her throat.

Except for anger, I always show that when necessary.

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This is why we need Christianity.

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>almost the same but with kinder words but I'm the girl
It's normal for men to upgrade women. Nothing to fuss about.

well men used to have harems and still do in the arab and eastern world, the right thing to do would have been to keep the woman and acquire another so long as you afford it

actually this, if you show that the woman is your worth she thinks she can get someone better, you have to treat them like trash and they will be happy to be with someone so much better than them

I know. But if you don't learn your lesson after the first time. It's your fault.

That's the bigger lesson to take from this.
People change
Nothing is truly forever

If someone says you are a "nice guy" it just mean that you have no features, traits, or personality worth mentioning. But you already know this, consciously or subconsciously, which is why you put on an overwhelmingly nice facade.

"Nice guys" are literally placeholder human being. You are empty and devoid of anything worth paying attention to.

To add to this, girls that like nice guys are usually the biggest cum dumps. Youb think you are specical? You are nice guy #57. If you believe in the used goods meme, then this girl is everything you hate. But somehow the sex will be boring even though she is a vetern cock sheath.

This. You have only yourself to blame for this pain OP.

How many blunts do u smoke daily, Tyrone?

>placement holder

just be like "next time I see you it's over, you better have a fucking restraining order"

it's too easy to put fear in their hearts because they already look over their shoulders and are afraid to go out at night.

t. literal roach

That post is something I could see her saying, and I would have preferred it over being ghosted to avoid "hurting me". Leaving someone with no closure in a case like this is the most evil. At least this person in the OP owned up and showed their true colors, caring about the truth more than their own image.

I know women are like this but I still hate being a khhv. What do?

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This is certainly true given the current state of the world. But it's a horrible way for people to live, to have no feeling of security that anything in their lives will last. Most people need binding and permanent institutions, if not as "restrictions" then as "guide rails." And when all those things are taken away, as they currently are, you're left with no direction, no meaning, no connections, nothing.

That all being said, though, there is no institution known as "girlfriend" and there never has been. The concept is inherently transitory and meaningless. A modern perversion of marriage but without any responsibility or obligation to other person that you can escape on a simple whim.

It's true when you're dating and you're not commited yet, but if you can't cry in front of your gf, she is not a good gf. Don't see it in the sense that you need to shut yourself out, see it in the sense that whoever drives you to shut yoyrself out is a punk bitch out to destroy you. Fuck these bitches.

There are no good gfs, normalfag.

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Sounds like the guy is a fucking fag though. This isn't a case of typical women. This is a case of a fucking loser guy, who's trying to buy love, being rightfully treated by a woman.

idk but maaaybe if it's ALL women who are evil
Maaaybe it's just you

Why are you posting like a fag?

Why are you guys posting like there's a brain tumor in your heads preventing you from having a singe intelligent thought

Will you post one coherent thought or will you stick to sarcasm and embelished insults?

>ur dum not me
Spoken like a literal retard who can't get beyond his own preconceived notions and "certainty".

Don't delude yourselves into thinking a single girl would fall for this
Outwardly projected selfloathing meme
You don't hate women and you don't think they're heartless whores
You're deprived of affection and pretend that you don't want it
thats even more pathetic than "letting yourself feel"

Stop projecting

>This is an original comment.

thank you, Cruel and Unusual Dr. Phil. no one could have ever guessed that.

here u go buddy
originalilo

Dumdum, I'm not deluding myself. I know I want affection.

I think that's bullshit. A friend of mine has been in love with her best friend for over 10 years, she did everything she could for him, bent herself into knots just to please him, stuck by him even when he got a himself a gf, and then another, and then another, and she never tried to break them up, she acted like some sort of couple therapist whenever they got into fights, instead. I told her to move on, to forget about him in that way and start thinking about herself, but she told me that she'd feel guilty for dating other people because it would feel like cheating, even if she knows that he only sees her as a sister. She says it'd feel wrong, that he's the only man she has ever loved and if she can't be with him, she doesn't want anyone else and she's fine with simply taking care of him from the sidelines.
I can't imagine doing something so utterly pathetic for a woman, honestly. Only they can be retarded enough to do something like that.

this, and not just with women but fucking anyone
you can cry and vent with your friends here on r9k

Ok incel, whatever you want to cope with.

Are you serious? Droves of beta do the exact same shit, then cry about the friendzone.

Yeah, but they complain and cry about it because they expect to be eventually rewarded for their beta behavior, she doesn't complain at all, she knows she'll always be a sister in his eyes and she's fine with it, it's ridiculous
She won't even consider dating other people, it makes me so mad, I've never seen so much loyalty towards someone who doesn't want it

>Only they can be retarded enough to do something like that
No. Orbiters exist and tey are retarded enough to do something like that and even more pathetic things.

>Opening up yourself to women and getting shocked when it comes back to bite you
Are you actually retarded?

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It's fine to open up. What isn't fine is using them as a shoulder. Revealing minimal emotion is optimal as long as you don't harp over it and get too attached to that person.

>projects
>"stop projecting"
Like clockwork.

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So he was her practice bf?

Thanks for your r9k wisdom input user. But why would marriage be uphold as the standard for romantic and sexual relationships between men and women?

Empathy is a female trait though.

What women do isn't empathy, it's pity. Most are physically incapable of decent spacial awareness because of how their brains are designed, so how could they even put themselves in someone else's shoes so that they can empathize to begin with?

Yep

She cheated on me with a guy I've known since 5th grade

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>pic
You gotta admit the guy knows what he wants.

A female friend helped me start therapy after months of me relying on her to deal with my deep issues, especially in love. But just the other day she through everything I confused in her in my face and told me never to talk to her again- all because I still support the president lol. So yes, OP is correct, never rely on women for anything

Honestly this, be stoic or be a faggot there is no middle ground

>opening your heart
>to a woman no less
for what purpose

Little more backstory? Is that her?

Yeah that was the last I ever heard from her. She left two months ago. I had been with her for 4 years, although the last 8 months were long distance. Our plan was for her to move to San Diego once she got her teaching credential and live at my place while I finished grad school. I even flew to San Francisco and packed up her car and we drove down and she actually fucking moved in. Two weeks after that I go on a 3 week vacation with my grandparents that she'd known about for like a year. In those three weeks she slept with my best friend like 10 times. He would always play video games with me and her, and apparently they were getting closer behind my back through texting while we were still apart.

I found out when I got home by checking her texts because something didn't seem right, first time I ever did that. She got mad at me for finding out and really didn't admit anything. I don't think she was planning on getting caught. She moved out after having lived in my house for a month and moved right in with him, and they moved to Northern California a month after that. She also filed a restraining order on me saying I was abusive. And by the way I was planning on marrying this girl and we were looking at engagement rings together right up until I left on my trip

>Because people say things, get over it you child
Then why couldn't you just get over that question instead of writing this pretentious garbage?

Because it's worth the risk

Dude get into their mindset, women literally want a huge strong man with a thick fucking cock to "rape" them, emotions are their kryptonite.
By rape I mean melt their resistance via their own lust, treated roughly as "daddy" fucks them and being pinned down as they're flooded with cum and impregnated.
You need to realize that every female fantasy involves being mistreated or their partner being a bad boy that fucks girls on the reg and she's just another notch on his massive bed post (subconciously because any guy like that would have likely been a tribal alpha that can protect her offspring and kill competitors etc).
Men are fucking deranged but part of the reason for that is because women reward such men by surrendering to them.

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moot ffs

>liking tripfagnamefags
>manly
Wew lad if you say so

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>not hiding your true thoughts and emotions behind 10,000 layers of self hatred and irony
this one is on you user

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That's a namefag not a tripfag you newfag

Can relate
Nice dubs

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How is Turkey at this time of the year?

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>having anyone to hide your thoughts and emotions from in the first place
I doubt you know what self hatred is

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Because of the bible user

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ive cried in the presence of multiple girls I've done lewd stuff with afterwards. kek. maybe dont have one dimensional relationships with others.

I wish the Jew would stop destroying the great western christian societies which have brought so much advancement and good to this world.

What is thy kind doing in these lands of woe?

That's what you get for using iPhone, faggot

> being a christ cuck
> worshipping a literal jew
> turn the other cheek and let someone fuck your wife hehe
ill pass user

Also, this is fake. No women would be this transparent, even to the lowest of betas

why doesn't she confess her feeling or at least hint at him? At least that way she'll get an honest answer to whether or not he likes her. If yes great, if not she can move on.

Oh and also I was a kissless virgin before meeting her, so this really doesn't bode well for my dating life in the future

How do I teach myself to stop crying so much? I've had a hard life and I'm very insensitive to pretty much everyone or everything. Despite that, I'll tear up or cry whenever I think/talk about my past or some other things. I hate this, because it's not in my personality to cry at all. Someone help please.

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Why do they always seem to think they're in the right when they pull this shit?

Because if she let herself truly feel and understand what she did, she'd probably try to kill herself. She told me she already tried that once