Why does Stockholm Syndrome happen? It bothers me to know that a woman could love their abusive kidnapper.
Why does Stockholm Syndrome happen? It bothers me to know that a woman could love their abusive kidnapper
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Stockholm syndrome can happen to either gender.
It's just a technique like learned helplessness that helps dampen the mental pain.
If you convince yourself you enjoy all the terrible things you can't escape, it'll feel a bit less hellish.
They still often love them romantically after release though.
Wasnt that the one when the loli was walking home from school and got raped in a alley or did he put out a new one
The one with the elf rape who turns into the living onahole was the best one tbqh
man this japanese fetish stuff has no bounds.i've seen some shit, i mean japs really don't have a moral compass when it comes to porn.
Yeah, do you think major psychological damage just reverses itself overnight?
I have minor stocholm syndrome that's manifested into general masochism. You can even realize the wrong in it rationally but still have the thinking patterns ingrained.
It's a psychiatric disorder. And on top of this it can happen to either males or females, males just get kidnapped and raped way less.
Are you saying a man will come to love his male kidnapper after a while no homo?
Did you pull this from booru or nhentai or something cause i cant find the gallery
Except for the part where they can't show penises.
everybody overanalyzes this shit. it's simple, really. if you spend enough time with someone, you're gonna get feelings for them. other factors play into it, but that's the heart of the matter.
Because it was beneficial for conquered tribes.
That sounds pretty nice. Better than loneliness for sure.
Perfect example of how white people are unoriginal and untalented
It's becoming more and more clear to me that you don't have to be nice to be loved and it really bothers me. Goes against everything I've been taught.
i'm sure there are countless papers on the subject
yet you ask Jow Forums to inform you
I can totally get loving some who is a bad person, because I dont care what someone does to others so much. What really confuses me is how people can love someone who doesn't love them.
>Why does Stockholm Syndrome happen?
Modern society is a flash in the pan evolutionarily speaking. For literally 99.999% or thereabouts of human history women have benefitted in terms of survival and reproduction from being obedient and accepting when they're in a situation where they can't choose mates freely. Developing genuine affection was simply better for the woman in terms of keeping her alive, healthy and fucking.
This is why enslaving men is roughly the most volatile social situation possible and heading for a slave revolt almost no matter what, whereas enslaving women has no such effects at all -- if you put two hundred women in a harem they'll only try to kill each other to get to the top, not the guy who owns and dicks down all of them.
It's also why women like to get beaten, tied up and other sub shit like that, as well as why women but not men lose the ability to connect emotionally with sex partners the more of them they have. It's deep evolutionary shit at work.
I wish things weren't like this. I wish women didn't lose attraction to their partner if they lose a fight. It's just so animalistic and society tries to hide it. It makes things so much less simple in my mind.
Women basically want stockholm syndrome. I don't think it's even a syndrome for them. They're hard wired to enjoy being abused and treated like a slave.
Makes it more simple for the survival of humans back when times were rougher, ie: the majority of human existence. The females that weren't genetically inclined to be subservient and give in to the conquerors died off and had no offspring. The ones who were actually passed on their genes, and hence their traits.
is it instinct for them to deny this also?
>I wish things weren't like this.
This is meaningless. You're a member of a clever species of ape, deal with it. (If anything, the problem is that modern society constricts people into such unnatural shapes; what torments you isn't really your nature but the ways in which you have to act against it. Your nerves know that you're meant to rise up and risk it all on one throw of the dice, either cutting down one of the luckier and taking his woman whether she likes it or not, or die trying; that's the whole point from your body's perspective of filling you with anger and despair. However, your brain knows that it won't work. There are systems in place to prevent you from getting away with it even if you win -- and the fact is those aren't even three hundred years old in complete form, they're new as hell and also, in some sense, are hell.)
Yes? I mean, of course it is. Ideally, women want to rule you and be the boss of you, if they can get that, because it means better ability to provide for their children; but at the same time ideally they want to be fucked and bred by someone who's the boss of them because that means their children will be more likely to be strong when they're born.
Those instincts obviously clash and that's the root reason why women are so fucked up in ways men aren't. They benefit evolutionarily from being neurotic, two-faced and manipulative, which men don't. (Men benefit from being strong, clever and able to cooperate with other men to accomplish big things.)
Women will never, ever admit to the shitty things that they do. Hell, half the time they aren't even conscious of it.
Totally possible, although it is probably less likely if that's not aligned with their sexual orientation.
>lose the ability to connect emotionally with sex partners the more of them they have
any evidence for this? i believe you, but would love if there was research on this
Not all girls do in fact as a masochist I've found that most of my female friends find my kinks and preferences bizarre and extreme.
How is that a 'shitty thing to do'? Especially given that most males want to abuse and treat their women as slaves?
Well, the brightest stars burn the quickest. I'd rather be an individually strong genetic dead end than be some mindless slave to my genetics.
How can you go "not all girls" in one breath, and then generalize men in the next one?
Oh, plus: the whole reason women can't do anything or make any decisions in traditional society is effectively because men as a whole realized that women only cause strife and problems among men on a loose leash, so it's better for everyone if all the men cooperate on the one big thing of holding all the women down, kept in their place. Even the women themselves benefit because it creates a stable situation where they know unambiguously which of their instincts is going to be in charge and that quells the other one, which makes them happier and less neurotic. That's why women were happier on average before feminism, which was a movement made by the small minority who were unhappy losers in the old system.
There's tons of proof of this as well, like the fact mentioned earlier that a woman who's a virgin until her permanent partner pair bonds really strongly with him, as well as the fact that women self-report being hornier and having sex more often in less equal relationships.
>any evidence for this? i believe you, but would love if there was research on this
No less than the CDC did a study on it, let me see if I can find a pic of the relevant graph for you.
Women aren't very smart, their barely sentient.
the truth will set you free, user. but first it will piss you right the fuck off.
I meant within those relationships. For every masochistic girl there's generally a sadistic guy.
Got em, dumb hos respond on feels
I got muted for low content but here's the graph, words words words to prevent more posting problems, look at all these words
>I'd rather be an individually strong genetic dead end than be some mindless slave to my genetics.
What does "strong" even mean to you? It's unironically just a neurotic cope to think of yourself as strong while admitting you're a genetic dead end, sour grapes. Strength only exists in the context of reproductive survival and genetic fitness.
Yeah, you'd be pretty well informed if you took the literal opposite of everything she says as the truth a lot of the time. It doesn't fit their attempted nice public image to admit to their nature.
> I wish women didn't lose attraction to their partner if they lose a fight
Reminds me of this video, evolution is cruel.
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This whole premise is retarded, like you. Every girl had zero previous partners at one point, and that doesn't make them stay forever with their first due to that imaginary "special bond" you're dreaming of. But keep justifying being a mentally ill incel to yourself, coping is important.
op you fag you made me horny now you gotta show me the SAUCE
How ironic. So desperate to cope with the fact she's a worthless slut or a man who's with a worthless slut that this post was written.
I disagree with you, to me strength is how well you can resist other forces, and how much of a will you have to hold out against opposing groups. I'd rather die free than live a slave, and if you don't mind being enslaved that's fine but don't try to drag me down with you. I don't believe in the value of reproduction in any way other than to create an individual who can be a detriment to my enemies. Everything will die, every species and every possible form of life will be taken be entropy in the end. It means nothing to be able to survive, and to me it is more important to be strong in your own right, and to make yourself important in spite of your short-lived genetic line. I've made a personal vow of celibacy in order to be able to make a fool out of humans when I one day dominate them and then refuse to pass on my genetics anyway. They will be destroyed, by a suicidal tyrant. The ultimate humiliation.
okay, cool. this seems to be the source of the graph if anyone is interested
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>their
>barely sentient
my friend
you're not understanding the data correctly. look at the graph more carefully. this is whether they're likely to have a stable marriage by their 30s as a correlate with their number of sexual partners. what the data means exactly, idk, but the message seems to be don't marry a whore
It's a coping mechanism. People may still have it after the trauma because their brain is already in a protective state.
Iirc loli gets
>kidnapped
>raped
>abandoned
>tries to go home
>breaks down and cries
>resumes trying to go home
>gets corned by numerous thugs in the same alley only a few minutes after the rape
>utterly brutalized for an extremely long time
>becomes warped
The story gets muddy as shit there as she goes back to that alley to call for them to gangrape her but i cant make sense of it since theres another story where a rapist tries to save the girk he raped from another group of them.
>Except for the part where they can't show penises.
Got me good
Censoring laws were put into place by the will of yakuza. They were afraid the rise of porn would kill their brothel/prostitution businesses. To this day they hold a stranglehold on the JAV business.
There are a lot of interviews where JAV actresses reveal how they were strongarmed into the industry by yakuza members. They thought they were doing modeling, signed some contract, and at the photo shoot they found dicks out. At that point they believed they had to do it or pay an exorbitant fine they couldn't afford.
>tfw my gf unironically mentioned this tweet and told me how its true for her
Hmm women
It doesn't, it's a meme and not in the DSM.
If you look up women in captivity, like Amanda Berry or the Fritzl girl or Colleen Stan, sure they are often hesistant to run because the consequences of pissing off a captor could be fatal but when they really do get the nerve bitches will make a run for it. The idea that women will mindbreak is nothing more than you going on /d/ too much you retard.
Oh shit. This hits cuckold fetishes right on the nail. Fuck.
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