It's important to learn from the past, live in the present and visualize the future.
ITT
> where you came from
> Where you are now
> Where you WILL be
I'll start
> Unhappy job, toxic relationship
> Learning to code, happily in cocoon mode centred around fitness, happily single
> Find someone with similar lifestyle and values, spend a few months in different cities throughout the year working freelance and lifting everyday
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I came here five years ago and the stuff i learned from this website not just fit has helped me so much. I can’t releave my situation but I’ve gone through incredibly difficult situations that most normies would crack under. I was a total loser before but now i am so strong. It may take you a long time to make it guys but don’t give up your life will be so much more satisfying.
be wary of cocoon mode OP. being content with your lifestyle for too long never works out. always strive for more.
>depressed from bad relationship with family destroying my self esteem
>cut them from my life for my own well being. focusing on self-esteem rebuilding and education
>in 10 years, return to forgive and heal our relationship when I'm stronger set my own boundaries with them
It's hard to move on from past grudges, but I know I have the power to forgive them and fix it.
> I was a total loser before but now i am so strong.
We're all going to get harder together user.
Fill us in brother sounds like you might have a good tale to tell
You're right of course. The last thing I want to do is trade one comfort zone for another. I think with enough wisdom and mindfulness I can continue to tread the line between a stable routine (order) and channelling my creative side (chaos).
my journey so far
> 18 months ago broke up with loving gf of 7 years because she didn't have the same seeking mentality as me
> 12 months ago quit my stable job in finance
> Used all my savings to travel to 3 continents to spend time with grandparents and relatives
> Learn about my roots and myself in the process
> Maintain a fit lifestyle throughout (a macrocycle in each continent)
> Did a 9 week coding bootcamp. Made friends for life, hardest but most rewarding experience so far
> Come back after the time skip and realise my whole outlook has changed, more tranquil now
> Cocoon mode now to reflect and learn from my hectic year of experiences, will embark on next adventure when I feel ready.
Kind of like having a 12 month workout and then a 6 month recovery period to realise the wisdom gains.
Thanks for reading my blog.
>> where you came from
Dysfunctional family where parents spent the majority of my teens arguing back and forth. Tried the military for 2 years before getting discharged after going to a psych ward twice for suicidal thoughts. Spent a year afterwards smoking like a chimney and occasionally getting drunk on the weekend to numb myself to the barely existent income I was making
>> Where you are now
3 years later and I am now living on my own 3 weeks after my roommate/friend left. Rent went up but I live every other paycheck to every other paycheck. On my second serious gf and hand a fair share of hookups in between my last. Have a Ryan Gosling body that girls find attractive. Genuinely look forward to most days now and haven't smoked in 8 months. Last time was for a party and beyond that I truly don't know. Became content with myself and happy that I am where I am
>> Where you WILL be
In 1-2 years (hopefully): working on a plumbing apprenticeship and making at least 75k. After that I can say I will be happy with life. Will be able to afford bills with no problem and can invest money into stocks for later on in life whether it be a house or Nissan GT-R. Enjoy comfy boomer life.
Where you came from
>Overall fine childhood; alcoholic and drug riddled family and neighbourhood but had a strong mother; definitely tough in some parts but "boys will be boys"; socially rejected by extended family
Where you are now
>2nd year EET student making physical, social, and mental gains, learning to concentrate, writing in spare time. Qt Pi gf I've dated for 4 years wants to get married after graduation and have babies like her traditional household, know she's serious and I reciprocate but am keeping my wits as people change
Where you WILL be
>by the time i graduate my 3rd year I'll have enough money saved up for a 25% down payment on a house, intend to move out and get a good job in my field. Long term I want to be a published author but not to become famous
you sound cool user
>depressed, abused, ex tried to get me to kill myself
>in my Masters, trying to slowly get my shit together, making some freinds
>learn I matter, succeed in my placements, be financially, mentally and health-wise stable and growing
seeing a councillor for that fucking abuse, still need to eat well, exercise and work hard in all aspects (slacking but slowly getting my mind healed or at least manageable) and hopefully a routine and applying myself I can climb out of this whole I've been trapped in
Have you considered doing a part-time schooling thing at a community college (I assume you're american)? You can get like basic plumbing skills down there and find a comfy union job easier afterwards
Kudos for coming from dysfunctional families and breaking the mold.
Remember everything happens for a purpose. Those experienced made you stronger. True strength is being able to carry burdens for others. I hope you become strong enough for your future families and to go back and help your existing ones in some way.
A year ago I was a mess. But once the pain of remaining the same becomes less than the pain of changing, you can take that first step towards the life you envision. But you need to have an inner belief that you can do it, and that you deserve it.
>Ended up with depression after a bad break up, never had any motivation to begin with, never even cared about sports or fitness. Just a sad, miserable blob of stupidity and self loathing at that point.
>Now striving to better myself, been going to the gym for the past 4 months now. Working in a wholesome job as a elementary school teacher, which ended up actually giving me another goal to strive for (become a father one day). Also aiming to become the best student in my college. In general, happier and more motivated than I have ever been in my entire life.
>Hoping to find someone that cares about me, forming a family and giving my child (or children) a decent life, so they wont become the losers that i almost ended up being.
> tfw bloomer
Finally a Jow Forums label for me.
>> Born in a backwards rural area yet benefitted heavily from stable home life. Became a lawyer a couple of years ago.
>>Finally reached a high enough rung on Maslow's hierarchy of needs to really focus on diet and nutrition. Training to better my body, I want to look jacked.
>>In a couple of years I'll max out the pay schedule in my job and I'll be looking to move up in my career. I WILL have lost ~70lbs of ugly fat and replace it with some lean muscle. It's going to be nothing less than totally transforming my body.
>Autistic weird kid with fucking subhuman features, had incredibly damaging oneitis multiple times during my life that made me super depressed for as far back as I could remember (every single night in grade school was spent crying myself to sleep)
>Absolute Chad tier facial aesthetics that seem to have been given to me by God to atone for my terrible childhood, still a sperg so I have trouble but I put in all the work i could to try and aleviate the autism and it's been working well (still romatically hopeless for now but idrc im focusing entirely on myself). All my friends are people from highschool who have seen me grow up and change into a Chad (as far as they can tell) and I was even voted most changed in my year book which given all the effort I've put in to try and fix my retardation the fact that my whole grade acknowledged it was really heartwarming for me and one of my proudest achievements. Getting swole (DYEL body was the only physical thing stopping me from being a full Chad). I'm in a really great place right now and I couldnt be happier.
>I'm going to be a fucking turbo Chad millionaire. I have made a great effort to get to know all the amazing people I could and they have all came to expect great things of me. I can't disappoint them and I can't nullify all the progress I've made.
WE ARE ALL GONNA MAKE IT BROS! Life is long, don't give up you've got so much ahead of you. And thanks for keeping me going fit, this website isn't the hellhole people say it is. I like it here, I never want to leave.
>Poor family and rough start to adulthood financially
>Working 2 jobs and moving back into gfs parents house to save for a year or two for our own house
>Financially stable, paying off our house(s) and maintaining a solid work/social balance that still allows me to keep hitting the gym and not go insane.
>all these user succeeding because they have an consistent job
I guess it's ogre for me. I can barely get enough hours to keep myself afloat.
Dont give up, you turbo faggot. One day you'll find a stable, decent job. You just have to work for it, just like lifting.
You will make it, user. We are all gonna make it.
[spoiler]You fucking faggot[/spoiler]
> where you came from
a normal family, insecure socially awkward kid
> Where you are now
My mentality is unstable, so i don't know, a recent even happened to me make me feel lost even more
> Where you WILL be
I dont know
Planning on going to a union in a month once I get moved in to my new place and all settled in. Unions, as far as I know, pay for the schooling so I'd be g2g. Most of my research suggests while college is k, it is not necessary
When my friends make jokes at my expensive it really bothers me. I get very angry and want to physically hurt them or whatever. I just blocked them because they made me so mad. One of my friends is insinuating our other friend is banging my ex girlfriend. I haven’t told them off because they can help me with their connections but i want to badly.
It all stems from the gym, user. I watch this Bugez video whenever I warm up because it drills into my mind how important the fit mindset is
>Energy
>Enthusiasm
>Confidence
>Those are the characteristics of a champion
Whether you say you'll fail, you will. Believe in yourself, set stable employment as a goal and take action. It all begins with a step.
Look into stoicism. Watch some YouTube videos to get a general idea then read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius.
It will help you find inner tranquility.
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom."
Viktor E. Frankl
>I was a total loser before but now i am so strong.
the way you wrote that was really touching, felt real heartfelt. Why can't you relieve your situation? Tell us about it I want to hear it. Maybe it's not as impossible as it seems.
You'll make it user, you have the right mindset. Not a grudge but a desire to mend broken bridges.
That's a lot more experience than most normies get in their whole life. I hope I can have that much to talk about some day
Get that GT-R user. Good on you for being happy despite coming from a dysfunctional household
Good on you for finding a nice girl, but as you said be careful. I hope she's what she says she is
I know it can be incredibly hard to move past abuse, make sure to have good friends who you can open up to. If you don't have them try to make some. I know we here are against the friendzone but don't underestimate the value of female friends. They may not "get it" as well as ur bros but they listen better and just know what to say to make you feel better in my experience. How do you think landwhales think they're so attractive? Female friends are great confidence boosters and emotional support. If you don't have any try to make atleast one close one.
Great to hear things are going so well for you user.
>so they wont become the losers that i almost ended up being.
remember not to let that fear be your main focus. If you see your kid going through an awkward phase it could be pretty damaging to them to see your disappointment. Do your best to make sure they don't turn out as a loser, but don't worry too much about it either.
Good shit user, keep it up
>ywn be this guy
Already posted in another thread, but maybe it will help some1.
Me from last week.
>Tfw 27 kv
>Were watching movie together with girl last week. First time I had a girl over
>Went okay, set next saturday for hiking
>Said saturday arrives
>Pick her up
>We drive to a parking lot at the feet of a local mountain
>Start our Journey
>Talk and inhale the local environment
>Time Passes
>FUCK i need to get more touchey, I wasn't touchey enough the first time.
>Genius idea
>fucking childrens Piggyback
>Ask her If she want to try it
>Yes sure user :)
>She gets in my back
>FUCK I need to train more legs
>still easily manage to carry her a good bit
>Nice legs around my waist and tits on my back :)
>Continue after a short break
>Reach the top
>Get something to eat
>Talk some mir
>
>Starting to go downhill
>I still need to get more touchey
>Piggyback again
>But this time I walk more slowly
>She leans in a little more
>Get a good grip on her legs
>Let her down after a while
>Never skip leg day not even on a date
>We talk some more
>I know the paths and ways around this area, know we slowly reach our end destination
>FUCK FUCK FUCK I need to kiss her at least
> Rest at a little wooden hut I know of which was on our route
>Sit together
>Get closer
>It was a nice day yadda yadda
>...
>fucking fidgeting overload
>Now or never you fag
>Hey anonette
>...
>I'd Like to kiss you
>holy shit I said it
>sure :)
>Go in for the kill
>Ultra awkward from my persepective (keep in mind, my first kiss ever)
>Awkward fidget
> :) How about another one, user
>Holy moly i actually did IT
>Felt fucking great
>Descend the last bit
>Drive home
>Cook something for her
>Then Bring her home
>Had to be somewhere this evening
>Kinda awkward googbye kiss but way better than the last ones
>Drive home, ready to face the man in the mirror with confidence and a grin on my face
I fucking did it lads. One step closer.
Keep on fighting, keep on lifting.
You all are gonna make it.
>Und Das Heisst...Erika
I Unironically listen to this song during my workouts, motivates me to continue to lift to stay attractive to my Erika, motivate my 2 mini-mes so that they grow to become proud strong white men to attract their own Erikas and continue the white race.
Thanks man, idk how I feel about burdening my friends with this- I tried with one or two but they didn't take it seriously moreover like 'ya sure haha', and as for femmes being a confidence booster, guess I need to learn how to actually develop that friendship with them, feels very surface level with the ones I know
>sectioned after a little hiccup at 25yrs old
>being off medication completely for two months, feel like I've cracked 'it'
>the man I've always wanted to be
minimal debts atm, work is going brilliantly and pretty much like, well adjusted shockingly
couldn't of done it without face pulls
Man I never done anything in my life just play video games and I'm not even good at them, I have no ability to commit to anything and I feel my brain rotting I wanna do so many things but I feel some way I can't describe, I can't do anything holy shit it hurts and it pisses me off, I'm so fucked I don't even know what I want to say I'm literally getting angry typing this cause I just make myself remember everything wrong with me
And I'm not even beating myself up, its really bad man and I'm fucked so much shot wrong with me its like how can one person be so fucking shit
Also wat do
I beg to differ: I prefer living the moment AND then, AFTER living the moment, planning on the future. In fact, you think about the future IN the present, isn't it?
Still, that is my way of living
You need to be honest with your friends. Tell them what you find acceptable and unacceptable banter. Set boundaries. Stop being a passive aggressive bitch and go straight to the problem to fix it.
This user knows what's up - if your mates are worth the time they'll respect you speaking up.
You'll probably also cop shit for it but that's also what mates do.
the very first step is to stop the negative thinking. I know this seems very abstract but it's not. People inevitably achieve what they believe in their subconscious - whether it be good, or bad.
If you read Arnold's autobiography, he had no doubt in his mind he was going to win Mr Olympia. So it seemed natural to do everything he could to get there. This is the power of positive thinking.
From what I can tell from the way you type, you have a negative self-image. This is something you must first notice, and then change.
This is the first, and the most important step. You need to start visualizing your future in a positive manner, and let your subconscious believe you are worth it.
The practical steps (getting fit, getting into meditation, finding a job, finding a girlfriend) are all steps along that journey that you will naturally encounter, once you embark towards your vision.
Learn from the past, don't live in it.
Be mindful of the present.
Believe in your future self. It will take hard work to get there, but the journey will be fulfilling. The journey itself is what life is about.
The fact that you are aware of your situation already puts you at an advantage over the majority of the population.
>Years and years of not socializing, playing video games 16hrs a day, jerking off, lying to my parents and dropping out of college on top of being a skinny virgin
>A 23 year old buff chad looking virgin with a circle of great friends, 2 ex girlfriends and dropping out of another college forced into wageslaving by parents making me pay rent at home
>After getting my second paycheck I'm buying everything I need for producing drugs, start selling large amounts of it via a select few of trusted individuals that have connections with big buyers, keeping my job as a cover while buying the car I want and having lotsa money, driving up to college in my hot new ride pretending to come to go have a drink with these 3 gossip girls I hung out with in college, when in actuality im coming there for my ex (the only girl I ever loved) to see me in all my glory and then subtly telling the girls I'll go out with about the wonderful rich life I'm having, knowing that everything I say will eventually reach my ex (since women are women). Then coming to college a few more times before attempting to make contact with her and asking her out and having her fall for me again
I'm a permanent optimist and failure doesn't phase me since I just think of new ways I'll try to succeed. As great as that sounds it also sucks since I keep living in my imagination while my actual life is slowly withering away
Damn this image was me exactly up until a couple months ago. Since then I've banged 2 trannies......
where did it all go wrong
> where you came from
Nowhere i was nothing. I feel shame about my past self and i really cant identify with that thing.
> Where you are now
Currently still nowhere. Don't really feel like i accomplished something. Still feeling that i need to prove myself to the world.
> Where you WILL be
In a better place. There's nothing i can do but meet whatever is coming for me with a big cheeky smile.
>Depressed BSc student, toxic relationship
>About to graduate MSc, new job, happily single
>Settled with loyal qt, PhD in the works, AP job
We're all gonna make it brahs
>pessimistic fat lazy alcoholic piece of shit beliving in globalism
>optimistic, fit, humble, aware of the jews, making gains both in muscles and brain
>get a real job, start a family, become someone people can look up to
>skinny dyel drug using degenerate
>Built dyel who meal preps and eats healthy working full time
>Ultimate cocoon mode living in a shipping container on some land I own
Were the grannies worth it
>Where you were
Fat, tall (6’4) , unhappy with life “it’s ok to be a little bit *Chubby* I’m tall!”, unhappy , no gf
>Where you are now
Still fat but less than I was, still tall , I’ve started hitting the gym 3 days a week now and I’m starting to see progress, I’ve changed up my diet a lot and it’s doing me good, happy now , started going out with friends more , starting to have some confidence
>where you wish to be
Hopefully soon I won’t be fat and I’ll be even taller because I’m still growing (only 19) , maybe even be able to get a gf or something if I’m lucky hopefully even more happy than I am at the moment
> where you came from
weirdo loner virgin
> Where you are now
I just asked out a girl I like. She said no. I'm changing jobs right now and once that's done I'll be able to focus on fitness.
> Where you WILL be
Gonna do sober October and finally get my own place.
>Working shit job, sad, stressed, gf depressed, friends all moved away to study.
>joined the army - still in bootcamp, doing really good cause Jow Forums, no longer sad and stressed, been encouraged by two sergeants to apply for the army's reactionary forces training (there are only a few spots this year and they think I will make it), gf no longer depressed, she started working out (lost 10 kg) and taking school serious, making a lot of new friends.
> do a couple of years in the army, then go get some kind of Jow Forums education, have some babies, get married
Life is good right now, and it's only gonna get better
it goes to show maybe waiting in years of pain is worth it for a memory you will have with you the rest of your life.
Years of pain is worth a kiss from a girl?
> Where I came from:
Middling state school with B-tier grades in CompSci, upper middle-class family but stunted emotional growth, no regular exercise
> Where I am now:
26y/o boomer, in the past year I've:
* started lifting regularly (5 days/week on nSuns, working towards 1/2/3/4)
* changed jobs from stagnant enterprise shop to popular website with better pay/work-life balance/etc
* Dedicate Sundays to trying new things, in most cases it's cutting out recipe from the NYTimes and cooking something new (not really a foodie but I'd like to be able to cook world-class dishes someday)
> Where I WILL be:
By the time I'm 30 I'd have like to have completed a book (leaning non-fiction, although fiction would be fine too). Also debating whether it'd be worthwhile to take a sabbatical to travel for a year.
An important item I'd like to point out is making your goals SMART:
Specific (I will do X by January 1st by doing Y)
Measurable (In order to complete a 40k page book, I must write at least 1k words every day)
Achievable (Does this have a clearly-defined end-goal?)
Realistic (Can I actually complete this task within the time-frame I've provided for myself?)
Timely (I must do X by Y date. This allows for priority-setting and gives a sense of urgency to completing the task)
>undateable depressed no friends virgin autist
>virgin autist
>autist with autist gf and left the matrix for good
>> where you came from
unhappy where my life is going with nearly 28
>> Where you are now
no gf again, my own place, steady job
>> Where you WILL be
kids, wife, house, a good life
inspiring stuff user thanks for posting legit
> tfw life is kind of shit rn
> but the productive kind of shit
> If i keep it up and don't give up i will either end up with exactly the life I want, both relationship and career wise, or it'll be all a waste of time
That was so incredibly heartwarming... we’re all proud of you
Currently 27 and a half
>balding at 21, failed a semester, unsure about life, father was/is depressing and anger issues, Grandmother died in horrific way, used cigarettes and weed more.
>making 100k$ (gross) and have a sweet and attractive gf of my culture and religion.
>Moving up the corporate ladder, married, and starting a family to be a better parent than my father was.
Being happy is overrated and gets boring fucking fast, being miserable is way more fun. FUCK OFF!
Is learning to code really that useful and lucrative? I'm always looking for ways to make more money.
as much as i dont wanna be that guy, how certain are you with your girlfriend?
ive seen a lot of guys get put through the wringer with their "loyal" girlfriends in the past, let alone ones without big mental issues
constantly being away and having a girl with mental issues is generally a big red flag and her new found motivation is fairly sus
not saying to dump her or stalk her day and night, but prepare yourself mentally and dont be full "she'll never be unfaithfull in a million billions years, gonna marry her, perfect one for me, love at first sight"
you're gonna be shitty either way (if it happens), it'll just be less of a fist up the ass
if any of that makes sense
also what are you getting in to?
Worth more than years of pain without one, thats for sure.
Before
>too fucking long and complicated to greentext
Now
>injured shoulder, might need surgery. was going good with my routine but the injury threw a spanner in the works and not going gym broke my routine at home for about a week aswell, but im back on top now and waiting for results from the doc
Will be
>moving back in with my family at the end of the year, working part time, splitting rent with mum and studying a 2 year engineering diploma. sorting out the family while im there aswell; little brother (13) plays shitty games 24/7 and is at the point were he can over power my mum so he doesn't go to school most days and they had to call the cops on him once when they locked his computer away and he went apeshit. he definately wont be pulling that shit when im back. little sister (15) is going through the whole punk/emo shit and asked mentioned to my other sister (18) if she had any weed and kind of signalled that shes Bi, along with drinking at her friends house when her mother wasn't at home, though she seems interested in kickboxing which is good, at my old boxing gym too to boot.
>so enforce discipline with younger brother and get him working out so hes not full skeleton (cant do a single pushup)
>encourage good behavior with little sister through kickboxing, working out and being a good clean role model
>other sister is full pretty girl and too far gone, though she started gymin (apparently and im guessin just "hot chick gymin" ) and maybe i can pull her out of this bullshit plastic kardashian scene stuff
fuck thats a lot of text
why do you guys keep posting shit like this, feeds my unhealthy thoughts
Just keep your hands off your joy stick bud
>selling drugs
holy shit, this is a terrible idea. of all the ways to make money, committing felonies are the dumbest, and selling drugs is the dumbest felony of them all. there are dozens of police task forces in each and every city or county set up with the specific goal of wrecking your shit.
take a little time and figure out a legal way to make money. there's always a come up that doesn't involve the potential to spend decades of your life locked in a cage.
>Erika
>not Monika
very disappointing user
I sold SARMs as research chemicals. Worked out way better. Took like 5 years for the FDA to figure it out after which time they just nicely asked me to stop, which I did.
Avoid the "we have hundreds of people trained to break down doors to stop you from selling your specific substance" and you'll be ok
>neet grad poorfag with a shitty diet
>working fulltime, moves states, living alone, eating well, left my great friends behind though
>new friends here, fly home often to hang out with old ones, continued hobbies and self improvement, finished this program with greater options
>former fatty 288lbs 5,7, shut inside my room all day, brainlet, no drive, just vidya, no friends, Borderline personality, sex pervert.
>just about done with weight loss.
>can finally see what my body type is
>tfw bicep vain
>trying hard in class
>still shut in my room all day
>got a job interview soon.
>pervertness is down from 10 to a 5.
>depressed loner who wished he was dead everyday failing school and smoking/drinking until I passed out
>now large close knit friend group, plans every night, a loving girlfriend job good job and amazing grade
It’s so insane how life went to an absolute nightmare to a dream, I still can’t believe that the bad times are finally behind me, everyone’s time will come you just have to wait out the storm I guess
I finally came out to my parents after hiding it deep down for years which was causing me shit loads of stress and anxiety. I feel alive again for the first time in years and like i finally know myself. Thats right, i came out as a neo nazi.
Yeah, but you're DYEL.
>Moving up the corporate ladder
I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe one day you'll regain your soul.
That’s not me cooking
My friend took over the grill for a lil bit
Here’s a pic of when me and my gf spent the first night together
I’m probably gonna end up marrying her
BOY NEXT DOOR
>tall, skinny, shitty posture, didn't move much
>studying law, frequently mired, not a kv anymore
>more gains, get rid of acne remains, find a partner
Just asking them like "hey do you have time to talk?" this activates their motherly caring instincts and they'll be likely to hear you out. Opening up to people strengthens bonds so if you open up to them you'll be closer anyways
>You do have to eat this.
Eat ALL of the toast
Had something similar with my younger bro.
Unfortunately he decided to hit mom at once and so, well, dad and I beat his ass.
Needless to say he doesn't act up now, in fact come to think of it he doesn't do much and he's really retreated into himself.
Should I be worried? Like it was only with slaps and stuff, granted we should have stopped pulling him up off the ground them slapping him down again but like what the fuck are you meant to do?
>obese depressed stoner that skipped college for weeks a ta time and only showed up to work stoned a so I could buy more weed and pay rent
>clean and sober overweight guy who is holding a 3.8 gpa and is about to get a scholarship for the business college at my uni
>healthy BMI college graduate with a good job in a city a like, looking nice a joocy
>where you came from
Community college, partying, depression, LSD, mental health issues, good job in real estate.
>Where you are now
University for Accounting, lifting, girlfriend, living with grandparents, unemployed (gonna go work retail again)
>Where you WILL be
Accounting firm, gym, girlfriend, saving money, eventually retire early because I enjoy minimalist living and know how the game works. Maybe start a family and set them up for success. Hopefully my kids can live the good life I didn't. Unfortunately they won't have any grandfathers. If I have daughters I will make sure their husbands dont want to leave for the sake of their children or I'll fucking burn their family to the ground.
Already making it
>22
>engineering job in city
>big tiddy 9/10 gf going to law school
>asking he to marry in 2 months
>same city as both of our parents
>strong by normie standards
We can all make it, just believe
imitating normies is NOT making it
>> where you came from
>23 years old
>depressed for the past 7 years or so
>had scoliosis since 14, grew up with a hunchback and posture all fucked up, hated my body and resolved to never let myself impose the cripple that I am on a girl
>the day i turned 18, i realized I'm not gonna be able to walk in a couple years unless i do a very invasive surgery
>had the surgery done
>gained 9 cm of height, can't bend or twist my spine at all anymore because it's held upright by two titanium rods along almost the whole length
>the depression never stopped though, flunked out of uni 3 times over the last 5 years
>lack of motivation to take care of myself caused me to be overweight (182cm/94kg as of july)
>stuck at a shitty job doing sysadmin work for a local ISP to pay the bills for a year now
(cont.)
>big tiddy 9/10 gf
God speed user, we boobmen will all get our big tiddy gfs one day ;_;
kill yourselves you fucking larping faggots 2bh
(cont.)
>> Where you are now
>current run in uni studying optics engineering i opened up to people a bit more, got familiar with a cute girl
>she's pretty and smart too, went to the movies a couple times but nothing else really
>after about a year of knowing her i suddenly realized i can't stop thinking positively about her
>know that she's been rejecting advances from other guys this whole time because "she wasn't ready" or some such
>in early august, invited her out for a walk during the day
>we walked around the city and talked until deep in the night, like 10 hours straight
>since then, we've went out and done various things together every week
>this has given me motivation to finally lose weight and take care of my body, so i can ask her out without being a fatty
>it actually worked, i've lost 7 kg over the last two months despite the limits to excercise routines and such
>can feel her warming up to me, we have more physical contact every time we meet now
> Where you WILL be
I'm gonna get the girl, Jow Forums.
The way my thought patterns have changed is unbelievable, I am actually able to force myself to get better at life, for her and for me, like I've never been able to before. I found ways to exercise without crippling pain, I've figured out how to dress myself properly, and I am starting to feel like I deserve something good in my life.
It feels like my life is finally coming together, I am getting shit done at uni, and looking forward to what happens next for the first time in ages.
Hello doomer
ok but who tho
>Neet with parents who didn't care, didn't receive a formal education until the 8th grade.
>On a capitol hill intern-shipping in my junior year of college. Learning the stock market and currency trading.
>Law school studying outer space legislation. Hoping to retire at 35
I feel like I crawled out of the abyss, while my uniquely horrible experience in life makes it hard to relate to other people I can blend in pretty well. I do feel >that no gf sometimes but I have worked past it.
I don't know what I want out of life, I don't know what life wants of me, but I am determined not to suffer for what little existence I have.
heal your mind user, use exercise and clean diet to help that and everything else will follow
No iidea sorry
mirin' how'd you manage to get a date?
Good on you user. Shit feels good, I know, because it happened to me last week too.
25 virgin. Never been on a date, made out with girl in college once. I spent my entire life in cocoon mode, mostly for education, career, and fitness. I thought I was a loser and something was wrong with me. Being 25 without ever being on a date or having sex feels like I was a failure.
But I realized a couple months ago that Ive fulfilled everything Ive had to do in life besides finding a girl. I have a good job, friends, an apartment, Im fit, I wasnt sure what else to do in life so I made my next goal to finding a gf.
Im still a little autismo and anxious from not socializing so much my entire life but I went on a couple dates. To my suprise, I wasnt a total splerg or nervous at all. I even had the confidence in myself and self esteem to not settle for the first pussy that came my way.
A couple bad dates but then I met a educated, short, thicc qt who actually showed interest in me. Initiates texts, random good morning snaps, not making me initiate every conversion or making me have to do it all myself.
Even though Ive never been on a date, my instincts, the man in me, knew exactly what to do. Eye contact, light touching, taking control, made sure to hug or kiss after date to escalate to the next level
etc. I swooned the fuck out of her on our first date. We made out but didnt sex and she sent me a snap early next morning in her "pajamas", just bra and panties.
Next date this coming Saturday. I feel so fucking good. I never made it a goal to meet women or date and was seriously questioning myself. I have a long way to go, but I guess all I had to do was try.
Thanks for reading my blog. You can call me a faggot or whatever you want now
>18 months ago broke up with loving gf of 7 years because she didn't have the same seeking mentality as me
Are these sort of relationships always doomed to fail?
Lately I've been feeling frustrated with my gf of six year's complacency. I'm steadily moving up and she's putting one foot forward and then taking it back.
Not if you live in a 3rd world shithole in the balkans
I was doing pretty well but right now in this moment I need to decide if I'm going to ever see this person ever again or not and I can't decide. Part of me knows it's probably the right move but the rest of me is dealing with the great memories we had together and all that sappy shit.
Plus my tricep is still utterly FUCKED and has been since like January. Not looking good for me, boys.
>used to skate in 2009-2011 got extremely skinny but all compact muscle, crazy stamina
>hurt knees quit skating dont work out for like 6 years get fat
>start eating a deficit to lose weight, still a bit chubby but not huge like i used to be
>be out of shape
>start doing pushups situps and stuff a few weeks ago
>start going to gym and lifting a few days ago
>before i started I could barely do 10 pushups now can do 30 no problem
>feel sad less often, start to feel more well in general
>today decide to grab a coffee and some snus
>go to stairwell to go out on the way to my car and get some snus
>man and woman neighbors trying to carry a dresser up the stairs, they are stopped half way
>past fat unfit me would have pussied out and ignored them
>I ask "you folks need a hand"
>they say yes
>help the man move dresser into the room, it actually felt light as fuck
>past me probably couldnt even have carried it that far
>past me would have not even bothered to help my neighbor
things are looking up
soon i will be even stronger, every week i grow more powerful. soon i cannot be stopped.
oh yeah and im growing spicybois and i attached a pic since i know none of you would ever believe i was really growing spicybois.
Upper middle class in the suburb
Lower class in the city
In a cottage somewhere in alaska
>tfw struggling to find a job
>get an interview for a job that would be perfect
>it goes great, owner says she's impressed and says she'll call and tell me when I'm starting
>get email saying sorry blah blah blah but you were not selected
why did she do me like that, I just wanted to be a productive member of society.