In da club

>in da club
>decides to cold approach
>"hey girl can I have a cigarette"
>qt gives me cigarette and a lighter
>"how about your name"
>"eva"
>"what about yours"
>tells her my name
>conversation ends
>still have a cigarette in my mouth
>I don't even fucking smoke
>I hate cigarettes to the core
>now my mouth tastes and smells like shit
>fuck around with a cigarette, puffs it like a cigar
The prices we pay lads.
Can you get cancer from just smoking once?
If I cant sleep am I overtraining?
And also, is it true you make 2/3 of your gains in the first year of lifting?
What happens if you dont get enough protein for the day?

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I don’t go to normie pretentious “clubbing” and had a way better Saturday night than any of these faggots

>Can you get cancer from just smoking once?
you can get cancer even if you dont smoke anything ever, you can also smoke everyday and not end up getting cancer, genetics work like that

>If I cant sleep am I overtraining?
no training should make you more tired and make sleeping easier, something else is causing this

>And also, is it true you make 2/3 of your gains in the first year of lifting?
no even sure what you're asking here, but yes you're going to progress more when first starting out

What happens if you dont get enough protein for the day?

you will not get enough protein for the day

Judging by your questions you are extremely anxious.
Prob not
Have no idea what you mean by this
More like 1/4-1/3 being generous
You grow less muscle than your potential max or if severely deprived you lose muscle

>>"hey girl can I have a cigarette"
This is what hobos ask people on the street, user. Find another line.

it can work if you continue the conversation rather than walking away

if she comes out to smoke with you you're golden, have a nice chat that has a timed ending with the cigs going out, and then you can say hey i dont even smoke really I just wanted to talk to you, can i get your number?

I heard blaha say in a vid that you would achieve 2/3 of natty potential* woops

I said it like this because steroids are out of the question for me

(Within a year)

Gonna be honest here.

You almost fucking made it. You should have smoked it and not been autistic. Maybe you'd have developed a personality and talked to her.


You know what you say after she gives you her name?

"So what's your story?"
Fucking talk to her. God don't you have anything that entertains you? Don't listen to these autistic retards; if a girl talks to you, you have a chance. If she changes her mind, you let go. It's not that hard.

This too. Women love honesty. Retards

>"So what's your story?"
Lol

Are you saying you took simping to a level of risking your life with cigarettes to impress a woman?

Jesus user.. You best be jesting

Nah bro she kinda just turned away and fucked me off after asking for my name and shaking my hand. I tried to talk to her some more, said something about her dancing and she just said "I like music" so I guess it was over. So after that I was fucking around with the cig lmao
I would almost never approach bitches flat out cold, but I saw her dancing next to me and then she followed me and my friend when we took up a table. Thats why I did what I did. Oh well

Oh yeah give me a better opener then. Shit like this doesn't happen to me often you know.

>"So what's your story?"
Kek

Also I dont have time to listen to her life story, plus that would be kinda cringe. If a bitch likes you she will not make it hard for you, so just slide a number in for her and wait

After she says “Eva what about yours” you don’t have to just answer her right away like a dog. Just go right into talking about something, and then you can say ‘i’m user btw’ or whatever.

Basically you had a very brief opp to create a spark and show you’re the kind of person who can lead an intriguing conversation, but you didn’t recognize it as such.

This is good but speaking from experience women are reluctant to follow up after you get their number at the club. Better get what you can the night of (aka smash, or as close as you can get to it) and get their number in the morning. This isnt always true but they met you drunk in a loud, emotionally charged environment and they are often suspicious of their previous attraction to you and are hesitant to meet up

>be on vacation at the beach
>hot woman in bikini sits next to me in the sand with earphones
>trying to think about striking a conversation, asking her name, asking her out
>the thought of an awkward ending to the conversation and trying to entertsin her for however long and somehow be sexually appealing at the same time fills me with unfathomable dread
>"nm she probly won't be into me anyway I actually prefer to be alone tonight maybe I'll see her agsin tomorrow", do nothing, she leaves. Repeat X 100.

How do I not pussy out of life's challenges? How do I cold approach without being drunk and loose?

true, how should one act in case?

Take her out again and go as far as she'll let you. She isnt ready to sleep with you because she doesnt want to feel slutty, or feels like she needs to vet you better before smashing, or probably both. A lot of girls won't fuck till the third date. I pulled a girl out of the bar last weekend, she brought me home but wouldnt fuck me (christian) but we fooled around all night and fucked the next time we saw each other. Your job is to charm, persue, and seduce, and her job is to properly vet suitors to make sure she doesnt end up with a psycho or beta loser.

Tf Im not a tryhard lmao
IF SHE HAD HIGH INTEREST SHE WOULDN'T BE RELUCTANT HOW FUCKING HARD CAN IT BE
ASK HER HER NAME
MAKE A FOLLOWUP TO GAUGE INTEREST PROPERLY. FROM HERE ON OUT SHE WILL EITHER FUCK YOU OFF OR TALK TO YOU. IF SHE TALKS TO YOU SAY "OK ITS LOUD AF HERE LETS EXCHANGE NUMBERS" AND YOU FUCKING BOUNCE BUDDY EZ AS THAT
But I've never actually pulled this off. Its a gameplan tho

Just accept the negative outcome as a possible outcome and proceed regardless. This is one of the biggest things I have to learn as well but the key is to be outcome independent. Anything might go horribly. Just stop caring and try anyway. I feel like we care so much because we are deeply sensitive to negative outcome rather than positive. If you had a lotto machine in front of you that you never had to put money in you would just sit there and pull it all day and eventually you would win big. That's what it's like to not care about the negative outcome.

Smoking is shit. Everyone who smokes forced himself into it because muh group pressure. Smoking sucks and so does alcohol.

>Everyone who smokes forced himself into it because muh group pressure
I smoke because it helps me manage my hunger.

But this lotto machine doesn't have any negative effect when you lose; if it, for example, would punch you in the face, you wouldn't be doing it all day.

>we are risk-averse and hyper-sensitive to failure
That is a very astute observation that is highly backed by decades of concrete psychological research, well done. However my added problem is that, due to being bullied constantly as a very sensitive child, making social mistakes feels to me to be the worst possible thing that could happen to me. My risk-reward function is all kinds of fucked up when it comes to social interactions.

I also had an abusive childhood, and now I don't have any friend and have social anxiety.