>be me
>busted my ass to become fit
>im probably the most chad looking guy at my school
>other dudes are chinlets, autistic, fat, scrawny, SPERGS!
>girls never approach me or show interest in me
>be at campus
>notice groups of girls are enthusiastically talking to some of the sperg dudes
>sperg:"oh man, i was hoping the vending maching had pretzel m&ms"
>chick: "i know right hahaha!"
What the hell is going on here? Im confused as fuck.
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it's about personality.
you're not talking to girls
girls dont come to you, you go to the girls
Are you me?
Can't tell you how often I notice this. I must be autistic or some shit because I can't get any girl to show any interest in me ever.
>chad
>expects girls to approach him
pick one
Elliot lives
here's your problem OP
STR 5
CHR 1
sadly, the die has been cast when you born. you can't change it.
actually you both can go fuck each other. Problem solved.
What is this user talking about?
Those are "safe" guys they can be friends with while pretending to be completely oblivious to the fact that the guy wants more.
>sadly, the die has been cast when you born. you can't change it.
what a retarded statement.
take a charismatic chad, go back in time, and isolate him from society by locking him in a basement with food and water. do you think he would still be charismatic now?
no, because charisma is something you learn by lots of exposure to social situations. sure, genetics might influence the learning curve, but if you don't try to climb the curve in the first place then don't blame genetics for your lack of charisma.
you cant measure charisma without society. your argument kills itself right at the beginning. that guy actually would get back his talent as soon as he enters among people. I agree with the genetic influence.
You haven't focused enough on your social gains.
>you cant measure charisma without society. your argument kills itself right at the beginning.
you're missing the point. that guy would NOT be charismatic the moment he goes back to society. life is not an RPG you sperg.
if you took 5 year old gauß and threw even a simple integral problem at him he wouldn't be able to solve it, because he simply hasn't practiced it yet. neuroplasticity is very much a thing, genetics mostly just determine the baseline.
You're just ugly.
Sadly there's no gym for your face.
>school
You're supposed to be above 18 to post here
you do realize a college/university is a school right
notice how he used the word "campus"
yes, I totally acknowledge your statement, dear J'kaywon but fuck OP. the problem with our society and genetical heritage is why Scantraxx exist and why they're fucking great?
This and also pretzel m&ms are based
bait
I totally agree with you too, D'waynon
you sound like an arrogant fucking asshole
people dont want to be around that toxic behavior
It's because your personality is garbage and I'm guessing you're short.
>he fell for the "if I do nothing but lift, I'll get a gf" meme
fpbp
Waiting women to approach you
>never gonna make it
I'm thinking this is my problem but my gf says I'm so handsome and she is a little insecure that I might cheat on her but I guess that's how every woman reacts
You don't look Chad, you look like a try-hard overcompensating gymrat.
I feel you bro. I used to be a tall lanky glasses nerd and girls didn't care about me back then, and now that I'm bigger they still barely care.
Girls are ugly as well. Most of them are lucky I havent seen their pathetic bodies.
You have to be the one to approach the girls.
To a guy, 90% of what makes a girl attractive is her looks. To a girl there are many factors, including confidence and social status. By not approaching girls yourself, you're demonstrating a serious lack of both, and thus are deemed not attractive (and ignored.)
The only situation, I've seen, where an attractive girl will approach a guy, is when he has shown that he has high status: he's literally famous, or she saw many other attractive girls showing attraction to him in the same social circle.
>girls aren’t mirin
>they’re thinking you’re an overcompensating gymfag
I-I don’t lift for girls anyways
Post face and body.
You probobly just look like a meathead and have delusions about your attractivness so many guys.
It's literally impossible not get approached by girls in highschool. If you havent then you're probably very ugly.
Not completely
Stop lifting for women you giant faggot
but with a great margin. Let's say even if you're extremely ugly, your (not made-up) posture and act among people would at least make girls notice your enthusiasm and tenacity, and like you.
>Be me
>be in uni
>see qt thicc bitch at the student center
>start making conversation
>not going too bad
>she's kinda fit so I assume she lifts
>ask her what her leg day routine is
>she gets insulted
>walks away
>fuck
how old are you?
what kinda girls are you interested in? clubs and bars are a good place to try chatting women up.
STR = strength
CHR = charisma
Just like in Mount and blade?
Don't sweat it, user. You did good. Fuck that ho. Congrats, you're gonna make it.
Approachability varies in human beings.
You can be stronk AF but if you don't look aproachable and look like you're walking around with permanent Vergilface most people won't bother you out of abject intimidation.
Plus this is a generation that is largely social media based so they only socialize sparringly with strangers
Pic related, you may want to be the guy in the back.
Uh no. I'm lifting women owe it to me!
Download tinder and upload shirtless pics. If you're truly chad they will message you first. If not you have body dismorphia.