Whenever I am getting regular sex from a girl (whether its a girlfriend or just a fuck buddy), I lose almost all motivation to go to the gym and eat healthy.
Its like the abundance of sex makes me loss any type of motivation to better myself, and I just get lazy.
Are Gainz Gobblinz more than just a meme? Are they real?
>the abundance of sex makes me loss any type of motivation Yeah thats pretty much how it works. Your body is convinced its insemitating a womb and youre successfully passing your seed along, fufilling your animal instinct to procreate.
Owen Evans
based horny and lonely poster
Ryder Gonzalez
i need to learn how to overcoming this...I cant imagine being married, I feel like I will gain 50+lbs and hit the gym once a week maybe...
What I personally suppose is that men mostly work in testosterone cycles as your sperm count builds up steadily over time, so there isn't that much of a point to rapidly have sex, but to have it in some steady intervals.
So automatically the longer you go without sexual gratification/release the higher your testosterone will be, as testosterone is what makes you rather horny, which is probably why women's sexuality works differently, these effects impact your motivation, and that's why so many people praise no fap. Without such release you will feel rather different as it impact body function and chemistry, though it's rather difficult to resist as it's the point is for you to release your semen.
Zachary Rivera
>Arabic tattoos Wow, the instathots aren't even trying to hide it anymore
Jaxon Powell
dont get me wrong, i would 10/10 shag that but whats wrong with her face(ial expression)? it reminds me of my dead dog fug
Benjamin Perry
>have a 8/10 body >get gf >gain 20kg >look fat as fuck and struggling to cut >gf doesnt like me anymore
IT FUCKING SUCKS I WANT TO KILL MYSELF CUTTING USED TO BE SO EASY
It's your brain user, just like fapping. Just as you have domain over your body, you also need to have domain over your brain. Just like "l'appel du vide". (and eventually also domain over your emotions but good fucking luck with that)
Hunter Martin
Yeah, must be all her fault. Nothing to do with your discipline.
Jaxon Ross
It's because when you have sex, or masturbate you release dopamine. So it just kills your dopamine (which is what motivates you to lift in this case)
Jordan Miller
19% and I'm being generous to count fat tinderthots as "regular sex"
Jeremiah Martin
This user gets it.You were doing it to get laid, and now you are getting laid, thus you no longer need to do it. This is why we always say that you shouldn't lift for women, or else your gains will be fleeting.
Nicholas Cox
I had this same issue about a year ago until I started to notice I was getting softer. So I got disciplined.
Get disciplined OP.
You fucking fag
Tyler Torres
This is my favorite meme at the moment
Sebastian Green
So your reason for bettering yourself is to attract women, then when you do attract women you lose your reason.... so to solve this you need to find another motivation other than sex.
It really works that way. I've hade a couple of gfs now and every god damn time it works like that. I feel zero drive to actually go out and do it. Just broke up with my latest gf and I already feel the gym calling to me
Isaac Sanders
everyone lifts for women
everything man does is for women
even the lowliest incel, if he actually tries to improve himself, is doing it with the small subconscious hope that it will lead to a gf
Mason Collins
don't feel ashamed of it btw, it's literally your #1 biological imperative built into you over millions of years
Jack King
Kind of? I notice that I get into a weird state of laziness if I'm hooking up with girls pretty frequently. I also tend to hook up with a lot of girls when I feel weird or shitty emotionally so it could a chicken egg egg chicken type situation.
Isaac Johnson
Imagine if she just swallowed some seawater and it acted as a laxative and she had anal leakage. Haha. And she asked you to put sunscreen on her. And you put it on her butt and it mixed with the leakage. Haha. Imagine the smell.
Kayden Myers
I can imagine!
Justin Diaz
its real. that's why nofap and by extension nonut is the most beneficial shit you can do for yourself.
>how many Jow Forumsizens are getting regular sex? 90%?
I doubt that 90% of young men in general are getting regular sex, much less the kind of men that post here. I'm in college and it seems like half of men get laid all the time, a quarter occasionally do, and the last quarter never get any at all.