How do I get my gf to cut? Keep in mind she’s extremely lazy.
How do I get my gf to cut? Keep in mind she’s extremely lazy
Michael Young
Robert Johnson
Make her water fast for a week
Joseph Butler
She has no will power. She can’t quit smoking either.
Cooper Anderson
>Smoker
You gonna marry this woman?
If not just drop her and get someone else
Dylan Cook
Leave her, who wants a fat smoker gf
Joseph Cox
She won’t be either if she can quit smoking and lose 20-30lbs.
Tyler Sanchez
Unfortunately that's not how people work. You have to only count on improving yourself, you can't improve others. You may be blind to it, but if you're really becoming a better (you), then you need to leave her
Angel Torres
This is now a boogie hate thread
Jason Diaz
fucking BASED
Aiden Smith
Poor booger
Blake Cook
wow lazy and a smoker. drop her
Luke Rodriguez
yes and if my grandmother had wheels she would be a bike.
Jaxson Fisher
>fat
>smokes
Sooo leave her? Wtf user
Andrew Perez
>Lazy
>Smoker
Dropped.
Easton Sanders
stay in your DYEL containment threads over in /fast/
Benjamin Sanchez
Luke?
Chase Adams
Fat, lazy and she’s a smoker? You must be low class scum if you’re really thinking about staying with her.
Blake Morales
She has to want to cut, you can't will that kind of shit into a person.
Was she always a fat lazy smoker? If not, what happened?
I would let her know without sugar coating that you no longer find her physically or emotionally attractive, she has to know this shit is gross and draining. She'll either do something about it or you two should just split cause from here it's only resentment on both ends dude.
Juan Stewart
Smokings pretty hot
Joshua Richardson
Mine is similar, ~20-30lb overweight but not a smoker, worked a desk job for a couple years and got lazy. I can tell she wants to change so I moved the elliptical in her garage into her house and gave her some dumbbells and she's been telling me she's doing it and eating healthier but no real weight loss to speak of.
Her parents and friends like me, and there's nothing *too* wrong with the relationship so if I just up and leave for superficial reasons I'd feel like a bad person
I haven't let myself get too attached but people that say "just leave her" don't understand what it's like to care about someone while also knowing you can do better.. It's a shitty predicament
Carter Anderson
Actually sane and reasonable advice tbqh. She wants to move in too. I really don’t find her that attractive anymore also. Her flabby stomach turns my cock into a wet noodle.
Isaiah Cox
She’s always been a little lazy but she has fat lazy drinking smoker friends
Luis Jackson
If you're too lazy to work out you can be too lazy to eat.
Elijah Cook
>fat lazy drinking smoker friends
Enablers.
Don't move in with her, this has too high of a chance of getting worse. Also there's more to it than just the weight gain, she doesn't sound like someone who would help you grow as a person and instead would be more inclined to hold you back to bring you down to her level instead of trying to improve herself.
Juan Sullivan
>smoker
Joshua Roberts
>dump her because she seems like a lost cause and unworthy of mothering children
>she resents you
>she loses weight and quits smoking for revenge
>or she gets fatter and unhealthier, which is more likely
and there you go, win-win
Alexander Bennett
smoking is hot, smokers are not