>tfw at boxing gym with my gf >walk her home like I usually do >we decide to stop by somewhere to grab a bite to eat >go to this little bougie Peruvian chicken place that we like so much >she has to finish some work, so I go to the counter and order for us while she finishes up >we start eating, she works intermittently >some deadbeat nigger strolls in, starts asking patrons for money >fuck he's coming our way.jpg >tell him we have no money and to leave us alone >he disregards my remark and points at my food >repeat that we have no money and to leave us alone >he doesn't leave, he's literally right behind us >suddenly something in my snaps, I jump up to my feet, and confront the fucker >completely mog him, can see the fear in his eyes >what the fuck is your problem, this is a private establishment, why don't you leave us alone, I yell at him >he backs off but doesn't quite leave the premises >he begins calling me a faggot and makes a dick sucking motion with his mouth and hand >tell him I don't want to go to jail for kicking his ass and tell him to leave >he doesn't leave >I tell him I'm with my gf, a lady, and he's being rude and that he better leave >gf and I ignore him until he finally leaves >gf proceeds to get mad at me, telling me I endangered her, telling me he could've pulled a knife out or worse, a gun >scoff.jpg >she ignores me as I walk her home >doesn't want to talk to me, says I have violent outbursts that I need to control >drop her off at home and for the rest of the night feel furious at that nigger who ruined my night
Was I in the wrong here, Jow Forums? What should've I done? When is it okay to stand up for yourself and for your woman? For what it's worth, my gf is super paranoid about her safety, and she's a fervent liberal.
Then what should I do? I'm not some effeminate liberal cuck, but I don't want to lose my gf. The sex is pretty good, and I've already invested too much time into her.
I already told you what to do you stupid fuck. Don't message her.
Dominic Cruz
She's not wrong, you sperged out hard and revealed your autism, throwing tantrums in public cos someone asked for money isn't the best look. Next time just chill and unless absolutely necessary don't say much.
Jordan Cox
No. Fuck niggers you did the right thing. Your girl is stupid and probably used to burn coal what with her defending hogs.
Ian Martinez
>what the fuck is your problem, this is a private establishment, why don't you leave us alone, I yell at him >I tell him I'm with my gf, a lady, and he's being rude and that he better leave
fuck a hotter slut and tell her about it tomorrow.
Jackson Rodriguez
I wouldn't say you're entirely wrong but she's not entirely wrong either. She's a girl so she has no way of defending herself. If there's a situation that's escalating and you take care of it then you are a hero and keeping her safe but that isn't what happened here. You made an annoying situation into a potentially dangerous one so she sees you as someone who put her in danger. She also mentioned that you're prone to outbursts. If that's true, then you're a liability to her.
Josiah Nelson
you aped out like a primitive nigger
no need to have a full on public outburst over some petty gypsy begging for money, shoulda just told him to fuck off
Anthony Scott
Read some theredpill basics in power dynamics while you dont message her.
Politics can be fine but outgroup preference is a terrible traut in a Partner. She cares more aboit politics and some impolite hobo than your and her own safety.
Distamce yourself emotionallY if you can. Her loyalties are completely misaligned.
Think about confronting her in this gut only if you can do it without telling her shes right and breaking up if care enough. If you dont just keep the relationship ging for sex while not overinvesting in her.
Dominic Jenkins
you were in the right. She's too lame for you and expected you to be a cuck. Post stats btw
Zachary Parker
this
Nicholas Ward
Nope you did the right thing. Ignore ger until she texts you back.
Elijah Cook
>we have no money >eats out he persisted because he knew u were lying to him. just tell the truth, that it's ur money and u dont wanna give it to him
Brandon Wright
You are a half measure, had you beaten the nigger to completion you would have ended having sex that night.
Daniel Long
t.Mike Ermentrauht
Isaac Davis
This
William Murphy
Based
Lucas Davis
T. Blue pilled beta cuck
Connor Brown
bro if you give in now you'll be giving in your whole life. women will try to change you HOPING you stand your ground. as soon as you change for them you are boring and they check out emotionally waiting for the next guy to excite them for an excuse to leave you.
also >fervent liberal I've matured enough to understand sometimes you should make it work, but consider how incompatible you may be in the long long term. when you have a kid and she has you by the balls, when money is tight and the kid gets sick, will she be level headed enough to stick it through, or will it be easier for her to take the kid, half your shit, a chunk of your paycheck, a chunk of our tax money, and sit on her ass all day?
Oliver Howard
if people don't like confrontation the easiest thing to say is "Not this time." It's not a flat out refusal but still stops the interaction
Never state what the downsides an action is to any opposition. Him getting an assult charge changes what for him? A number greater than 1 gets +1. For you it can change your life. There is a reason white people have that white people half smile tm. Say sorry im broke too, hit him with the "half smile", and he will move on because every white person who doesnt give him shit and waste his time gives him it as he approaches. He doesnt even know this pathological routine and will never be aware of it.
Adrian Long
>In highschool started dating this chick >One day walking through cafeteria with her >Group of dudes calling her a whore and bitch as we walk past >Try to ignore it, not sure if they're talking about gf >Yell out her name, "Yeah you, slut." >I stop, turn and start to walk towards them (have anger issues) >She grabs my arm and tells me she knows them. They're just playing and if I fight them she'll break up with me >Walk up to group. Dudes are like twice my size. Was short in hs >Ask who was talking shit. They pussy out. one of them knows me and has seen me fight, apologizes for his friends >Walk back to gf. Have crazy sex that night.
They shit test you like this all the time to see if you stand up for yourself.
David Turner
What this guy said well the first paragraph. It's ESPECIALLY obvious with asian women chinese girls especially. They try to trick you with shit like
> You promised and I know you won't break your promise >you love me right, you can do this for me right? >can you please do this for me
Once you do it they think they can control the relationship and think that once you agree you agree forever.
Women don't want a push over you need to have your own life. Ops chick is angry cause she doesn't know how to handle her emotions, she was scared to lose OP while being angry he was in that situation but she also knows now that OP won't put up with shit . Right now Ops chick is trying to figure out which emotion is the "correct," emotion to deal with. If he apologizes to her she knows being angry at him was correct
Jackson Russell
I came here to post this
Jeremiah Garcia
Do this.
You'll be shocked how well it works. I'm a bit older than most of the youngsters here so I didn't have to be taught half the shit you fatherless bastards never were. Don't back down, subvert your own morals, and apologize when you were in the right for a woman. They do not respect men who do that. You're all just used to apologizing to your mothers your entire life for your shitty behavior as teenagers. The reason being that makes up the majority of your female interaction in life.
Dominic Nguyen
>not this time
>walk around town with a fishing pole >stroll into the Stromboli Shack on the hunt for hobos >theresthenigger.jpeg >lock eyes with the smelly vagrant until he shuffles over with his greedy ashen hands outstretched like a kike on April 15th >Finally >whip ‘er out, smacking the fiberglass pole into nearby customers and furniture >I got you a dollar >Dangling the cash in front of the nigger drives him wild >he starts chimping the fuck out, knocking Stromboli everywhere >oh you gotta be quicker than that >yank the money in the air every time he tries to snatch it as he knocks over countless plates and glasses onto the floor >eventually tell him not this time as you walk out of the store confident you prevented things from getting dangerous >go home, change out of your fishing overalls and rubber boots >masturbate because your girlfriend left you for being a violent psychopath
I’ll listen to you, boomer. How long will it take for her to reach out to me, though?
Aaron Thompson
thankfully there's girls turning 18 every day so fuck her
Jeremiah Gray
How cares you needy little faggot?
Christopher Butler
a homeless asked you for money so you jumped up and started a fight? Control your anger op. Also it's too late so follow the other advice and ghost her. Get another woman who isn't a little bitch at the sight of violence and start meditating.
Carter Morgan
Sorta related >live in West Philly >at this point I'm good at spotting/avoiding homeless people >The ones that ask for money have a distinct look >I'm out with some friends one night, 1 homeless guy offers to take out picture. We oblige, and one friend gives him a couple dollars >Another homeless guy comes up and starts talking to me >I say sorry I don't carry cash >he goes on some sort of crack-fueled tirade about how I'm racially profiling him. >keeps mumbling as he walks away >first homeless bro is mortified >he apologizes profusely for what cracko did
I wish I had money for blackbro.
Dominic Sullivan
>be me lived in Boulder where the homeless come from Denver to beg the liberals to afford their heroin addictions and litter the amphitheatre with dirty needles >got asked for cigs and money at least 5 times every time I left the house >slowly got more and more sick of it >one time i walked past a bum that always asked me and told him no sorry >then he asked me AGAIN on my way back by 20 mins later >walked up to him pissed and said look at my fucking face, remember it, don't ever ask me for anything again >kept seeing him after that but he would look away or be passed out in a bush
Don't go full ape shit but they are opportunists and you have to be stern
Another boulder bum story >walking back from pearl st >see some dirty bohemian white kids, mid 20s, shouldve had jobs >Probably about 8 of them blocking the whole sidewalk holding fuck trump signs >walked by and heard a girl voice say hey sir want to make love with me? >looked over because wtf and saw a really pretty girl underneath all the dirt and patchouli dust on her face >someone's daughter, probably loved before she got mixed up with hippies >and she had coins laid out on the sidewalk spelled out to say love but the e wasn't finished because not enough coins >looked at her >looked at the bums she was with >wanted to give her a shower and a hot meal and aggressive anal sex >didn't want hepatitis >laughed at them and told the trump sign guy to gtfo my way >walked off
Austin Hall
she wanted that BBC and you ruined it
Christian Robinson
Usually 1-3 days depending on how angry she was. You'll probably get a message that just says "Hey." or something equally stupid in a few days.. Then you'll come over and talk while she rationalizes your behavior in her head then you have makeup sex.
Isaac Adams
bingo. go lift and chill op. stop being a needy attention whore and just wait and watch. will be a good learning experience on the psychology of woman for you
Mason Hughes
Sounds comfy.
You’re right, friend. Thanks for the advice.
James Myers
Definitely. Wait for her. Then explain your reasoning. If not, this is a big red flag.
Levi Wright
OP, please update us on Sunday how this played out. Post a thread titled 'shouting at a nigger and my girlfriend got mad followup' or something. I'm really curious if this is the best play here
Colton Taylor
>I tell him I'm with my gf, a lady, and he's being rude and that he better leave
Op, you’re just asking if you were morally right and it doesn’t matter if you are or aren’t. Women want to see you be giving and generous and not an aggressive ape alpha male. It depends a lot on the women though, if she’s the type to laugh and other’s misfortunes and be a cunt, she wants you to literally kill this nigger and if not, give money to the dumb nigger
Eli Wood
No man you literally defended yourself and protected a weaker human from unsolicited questions for money without resorting to physical means despite multiple warnings.
U gud mn
Brandon Barnes
No problem, user. I’ll take one for the team and post results on Sunday, or earlier if she replies before then.
Gabriel Cruz
This
Biggest personal development was the day I learned to stop arguing, say my piece and walk away as soon as I felt the shit-loop start to form.
Even works when you are wrong.
Michael Green
Bitch is fucking stupid, tell her so. She'll back down, though likely not immediately. Do NOT apologize.
Liam Gray
i donno about being mean to homeless people. they obviously aren't all there in the head.
Jayden King
>this 100%
You don't have to appologize for anything, you acted as a man is supposed to, she just got shocked because current society is full of faggots scared of trouble and probably she has never witnessed anything like it.
Top kek. I’m the third guy she’s ever fucked. The two before me were hymies, which might be worse than coal burning, though.
Ryan Cruz
Homeless people aren't worth outbursts of anger nor are they worth aggravating. Your gf is a dumb useless liberal but you made a situation out of nothing so you can't be too smart either.
Caleb Wilson
Yeah, I definitely can't be too smart if I'm dating a liberal. You got me there, user.
Ignore her until she messages you, faggot. It's a gaslighting test.
Leo Gonzalez
Well don't put yourself down, it takes someone capable to date a liberal and also make them sane.
Evan Perry
based satan advice
Zachary Gonzalez
fuck what every other cunt says people who let this sort of behavior go unchecked only encourage it you did the right thing standing your ground as a man
Charles Davis
>shit-loop That may be the best descriptor of the female argumentative pattern i've ever heard.
She is a 100% right tho. It’s a homeless man off the streets. You really want to take chances that he doesn’t stab you to death? Really? Someone that has nothing to lose or probably even gain (a roof and food)!? That’s just being really stupid.
People have to realize that every single person on the street you meet every day has the potential to kill you. All that’s holding them back are social contracts and their insanity. Just assuming that the latter is something every stranger has is very stupid,
Charles Myers
sanity*
Sebastian Hernandez
>>shit-loop
you ever argue with a woman?
Kevin Diaz
Yeah, I have, and constantly do with my gf. A lot of times it’s just irrational and entirely based on emotions and other liberal fallacies. Next time we argue I’ll tell her I voted for trump. Wonder how she’ll feel about that lol
Jaxson Cooper
>you really want to take chances he’ll stab you to death? >implying I wouldn’t have dropped that faggot the second he reached for his knife
Reddit is that way, Eugene.
Lincoln Walker
more Boulder stories, Boulder user
Nathaniel Hill
> supposedly boxes > lives in a country where it is legal to own and carry firearms >is defenceless
So, girls are just weak and stupid
Elijah Martin
Yeah, I'll just hand over my credit card...
Kayden Ramirez
Fpbp. Never date a liberal. Also you should have beat his ass OP threatening and not following through when he refused to leave you alone was beta af.
Levi Richardson
If you replace the word ‘homeless’ with ‘black’ the statement still holds up well.
Isaiah Green
>legitimately taking advice from Jow Forums Good luck user
John Brooks
>he doesn't leave, he's literally right behind us >suddenly something in my snaps, I jump up to my feet, and confront the fucker >what the fuck is your problem, this is a private establishment, why don't you leave us alone, I yell at him >he backs off but doesn't quite leave the premises >he begins calling me a faggot and makes a dick sucking motion with his mouth and hand >tell him I don't want to go to jail for kicking his ass and tell him to leave >he doesn't leave >I tell him I'm with my gf, a lady, and he's being rude and that he better leave
Hate to break it to you but you got trolled by a hobo.
>scoff.jpg
There's your problem right there. You just showed your girlfriend that her opinions and concerns don't matter in the relationship. If you gave her a line about being protective and proactive her reaction might have been different.
Bentley Thompson
You either go all in or not at all, you should have either decked the nigger or said nothing.