What's holding you back Jow Forums?

shut up incel

5'6

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Me

I'm 60+ lbs under weight

>Mozzarella sticks
MY NIGGA

anxiety

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Myself. Got a promotion at work the other day though. Still having self confidence issues. I assume most people "close" to me dont like me so I shut myself in during my free time apart from going to the gym. Also am pretty boring and just waste my time cooking or listening to podcasts. Tempted to move and start over in a different state

My addiction to liquid sadness

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>this kind of posts that include wife, baby, children, sex

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As long as the skin of my wife is in between, I can cum on my child as much as I want.

Wage cuck lifestyle. Need to find a way out or I'll go crazy. Barely have time or energy for social life or the things I love. Barely ever meet girls. Life is alright besides soul sucking job

Crippling anxiety

My fat fucking brain i never learned discipline

Gravity

myself
>tfw fwb with exgf
>tfw still feelings for her
>tfw she told me she was the "sex isn't that import" type of girl
>tfw she broke up after 2 years with her former ex because he wanted too much sex
>tfw she now wants my dick so much

it baffles me

Having troubles keeping a consistent sleeping schedule is making stuff harder then it need to be.

She sounds kind of nice. Your fault if you have oneitis faggot don't blame her

Nothing holding me back
im holding you back

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NOTHING ANYMORE.

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Lmao ex sex is some of the best sex. The neediness that comes after it can be bad though. Why does my ex have to be hotter and cooler than all the girls I've been with since, it's making it hella hard for me to get over her 100%. Prob still gonna wanna fuck after she's been getting fucked abroad and that make me feel like a fuckin pussy

>laziness
>procrastination
>lack of direction
>general despondency about the future and the direction of society
>use of alcohol

Just myself being a sadcunt 2bh

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it is good yes
but
holy moly she wants to sleep around
have the cake and eat
its messing with my heart user :(

I cant make myself enjoy the good results im getting and beat myself up along the whole process which is paralyzing.

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Oh it's completely my fault, and she is nice I just have no idea how to go from talking occasionally in the gym to being with each other

Bro your hitting me too hard with the feels rn. My ex was supercool and super fucking hot but sadly a slut regardless. As much as I didn't want to care about the amount of guys she had been with (~13 at 19yo) it still bothered me and was the reason I broke up with her. Now that I've been trying to move on I find all the other girls to be NPCs. She was my best friend and I broke up with her because I was insecure about my body count compared to hers, I feel like a pathetic little beta.

user please
my ex hat 9 guys with 25
don't think about that shit
people have sex

Nothing, I'm a free man, and also free of any snare to slow me down.
I solved all my past and present issues.

I'm moving on, fast, hard.
It's good.

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9 guys with 25?

9 guys at the age of 25, sorry

I have two weaknesses
1. Ice cream
2. Fapping
If I can conquer those I can do anything.

My patellar tendinitis is slowing down my squat progress significantly

ONWARDS.

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But that's a very reasonable amount.
13 at 19 years old is on pace for 30+ guys buy the time she's 25

i know it's reasonable
that's why i'm saying, people have sex
don't let yourself get distracted by that

>no motivation
>no confidence

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Marijuana addiction is prob the last thing holding me back. Currently:
NoFap
NoCaffine
No Vidya
No Nicotine
Lift + exercise regularly
Have girls actually hitting me up

Still need to do a better job of getting school work done and trying to find a job after graduation though

>cumming on your unborn child
Isn't the cervix closed and thus the uterus inaccessible for the sperm during pregnancy?
Also, there is a placenta around the child. No sperm gets in contact with him, obviously.

You'll understand one day, I hope.

No idea. I'm on a 4 year long cut but 230 some how sticks. I cant go lower. I can if I do cardio but my feet hurt.
I wanted to join the army but I might have a shoulder impingement and flat feet which are both disqualifying.

That means I'll never get the respek that comes with the ranger cap or being military at all.

Even then I'll be gone from my immediate family and I dont want to do that. Seeing as I did that with everybody and it's just made me miserable.

I also realize girls do like personality more and that I could've had a few gfs in the passed. That the future might actually hold no girls for me to peek at.
I also signed up for 3 regular courses and a 4th compressed term that starts monday. I dont have my textbooks so i didn't do any of the work. I dont even know if in supposed to turn it in.
Just generally I cant do anything right. I realize I will never get the years back.
I actually feel like kms'ing myself but then I'd be proving that I am not a man.
Also pic related.

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alcohol

my wife is recently pregnant. cum on my baby? not today satan.

ill just fuck her ass. rather poo dick than scramble my future child. duh.

Due to porn I have received pits of degeneracy I thought unthinkable. It's like every year that passed I masturbated to shit that made my dick disappear from the disgust the precedent year.
It's been years that I failed in a lot of things and I'm still barely hanging on only due to pure luck. A not lucky person would be dead by now.
I browse Jow Forums for hours everyday but it's been 2 years since I lifted the last time.
I feel like I'm truly worthless and subhuman like the faggots I used to mock years ago on Jow Forums and tumblr.
I have a costant brainfog and sometimes it's like I'm in pilot mode. I wasted so many years...
FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK I HATE THE FACT THAT I'M TYPING THIS SHIT
HOW THE HELL DID I FALL SO LOW? BAWWW BAWWW I'M A PATHETIC RETARD HURR DURR PLEASE HAVE PITY FUCK THIS SHIT FUCK THIS SHIT. What the fucm shoild I do

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>Wage cuck lifestyle. Need to find a way out or I'll go crazy. Barely have time or energy for social life or the things I love. Barely ever meet girls. Life is alright besides soul sucking job
I'm a freelancer, I learned a particular skill during my years as a wager, I did it on the side and now I work full time as a freelancer from home.

It requires quite a lot of discipline and will, but once you're on the train, it's pretty smooth.
Maybe you should do the same.

Suffer for a few years, learn a skill, and go freelance.

Listen to Jordan Peterson.

You need to find an aim. A goal.
The rest comes after.

I think I should drop out of uni and pursue something else. Just cannot bring myself to care.

>What the fucm shoild I do
Start by listening to JBP, it may help.

>hurrdurr random meme about jbp
Shut the fuck up, just try, it worked for many people, it may or may not work for you. It's worth trying.

When the next war come, I want you by my side. Be a man by then.

>listen to juden peterstein give basic life advice goy
youtu.be/zR5oJW0MoYw

I wouldn't know, I never went to uni, but it doesn't matter.

Ask yourself for a few days what you want. Maybe write about it if your thoughts are foggy.
Find what you want. Find your aim.

Then aim at it.
It's simple, but hard.

Nothing. we're all going to make it lads, even f it feels like you won't right now.

Yeah man I'm kinda stuck on his self authoring program. I pirated it etc but I feel like it's not working, like I'm doing something wrong. I can't even complete the future authoring program. What do you think it is? Did you complete it?

Thanks user. I have a couple interests and trying to better myself. (/SIG/ and also learning car repair) But no real passion yet.

my inability to just NOT be the nice guy and actually tell people where my boundaries are
instead of opening them up more and more
until i'm at this point in life where my ex girlfriend breaks up with me and proceeds to have sex with me, meanwhile telling me she wants to fuck other guys too

i need some self respect for gods sake

Whatever you say man, he helped lots of people to get their shit together, it's good enough for me.

Me, I discovered him years too late, maybe a decade too late, I learned the hard way what he taught, I wish he was there a decade before.
He helped people, he helped my brother, it's good enough for me.

>hurrdurr his politics are not my politics
Who gives a fuck about politics you fucking cunt, it's about learning to stand up and aim at something. You don't have to be a classical liberal like him, I sure am not.
Fix yourself, THEN fix the world.

I did it, my wife did it, my brother did it.
For me it was useless because I already did the same kind of stuff during years of therapy and that kind of stuff, but it helped my wife and my brother.

Don't worry about doing it badly. Just do it.
Maybe you'll want to do it again one year after that. Doesn't matter. Do it.

When it's about self-improvement, doing something badly is better than not doing anything at all.
To stay stagnant is to wither and die.

I wish you courage.

Do you believe in yourself? That is the main thing. If you can't get a grasp on your vision, it is because you don't have faith in the future you can make for yourself, come what may. It's a delicate balance between pragmatism and idealism, to map it all out. Merge man and child, become whole!

>12 hour work schedule
>no money for equipment
>only gym nearby is Planet Fitness

The government won't pay me my G.I. bill which they kept claiming they owe me.

I think I'm gonna complete it (the future authoring) right now.
How do you feel about the loss of honor, the betrayal of myself and the higher good I caused upon myself knowingly? Sometimes I felt like I was "posssed" (metaforically), but I also feel like this is a way to shift responsability. But even taking responsability, what it is? Okay, I did it. Why then I did it, many many times, with porn, with the gym, with uni etc...?
What's the best way to repent for that and regain the lost honor (or the lost soul). I feel like it's something very important for me.
I appreciate your insights, maybe I just needed someone to pseudorelate. I don't like to talk about theese things to friends and people I know irl. I'll stop bothering you after your eventual answer, and go do something

college is holding me back. i wish i was a warrior

I lost the belief and the courage in myself slowly everyday by myself, like I cut off my balls and arms.
I putrified basically, I was wau better when I was younger, especially as a child

why did you need someone else to teach you personal responsibility?

>i wish i was a warrior

The time will come. Master yourself until then through the ancestral remembrance of the warrior spirit.

You must recover what you lost. Your situation isn't unique. Many men suffer from this. It is a journey unto itself. Only then will the path become clear.

>exgf tells me she has been somewhat intimate with some other guy
>tells me i should text her soon to maybe do something

What kind of emotional monster....

block contact with her

Already have, she was standing at my door the other day

wew, why did you even answer?

>It is a journey unto itself.
I don't understand. What does it mean? What first step should I take?

Literally thought it'd be the whey i ordered
Was shocked by what she told me and disgusted, a lot, about how she basically misses sex with me but has someone else in a matter of weeks.

Depression, lack of self worth, and lack of validation.

Three tributes

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clearly she's not mentally stable, stay strong and remember youre better without her and will find a worthwhile partner in time

>trainer tells me I'm built like a tiny bird and maybe I should just focus on inner strength

completely crushed even if true

Ye.
Was a sad fuck last month when she broke up, but holy god damn this was a wake up call i never knew i wanted.
We're all gonna make it man.

>What does it mean?
>I lost the belief and the courage in myself

I can't walk this path for you, brother.

Very deep down self esteem issues caused by bad school bullying and a shit dad.

cringe

You're right. I'll stop acting like a faggot.
Thanks guys. See you on the other side

Not realizing it increases her heartrate and abdominal blood flowtherefore gives the baby more nourishment.

Also when women go preggo they become more sensitive

Myself

Literally just my own mind, been thinking about being a good goy and getting anxiety pills, but lately ive been seeing myself break free a little bit and snap into confidence, so ill give it one more year

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Not being superman

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Dyslexia and OCD. Can't even do the things I used to enjoy

I have no game.

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>why did you need someone else to teach you personal responsibility?
Because my father wasn't much of a father and my mother was weak.
My formative years weren't very formative, so I had to learn while already being an adult.

Binge eating disorder. Undo weeks of cutting in less than an hour.

i didn't learn those concepts from my parents either, but I certainly didn't need some eceleb pseudo intellectual to do teach me them either

Videogames. Im trying to quit but feel like i have an actual addiction to the dopamine rush they give me. I cant go a day without gaming or i get awful physical anxiety symptoms. Help.

Bad skin, slight acne