>talking casually to some woman I knew for about 6 months >complaining about her space being taken over by her family >told her that everything will change eventually and her inability to delay gratification and able to see the light at the end of the tunnel is what is causing her grief >she says yeah I'll move in with my boyfriend and hopefully I'll get my own space >the world freezes > remember that she told me she couldn't date me because I lived so far away >she lives in New England >I live in the same state as her boyfriend just way further south. >they've met several times in hotels >we have very similar personalities >realized that I'm not attractive to women and everything in my life shatters to the punt of just sitting in my chair for an hour crying.
I look above average actually. My father says that I'm lucky that I'm more handsome than he is and he's confused that I can't get women. But I'm 5'4 too. It limits my dating pool, but I think it contributes to the fact that I'm a harmless, nice person who looks dependable. That's a giant problem. I think women don't want to date harmless, nice, dependable men. I have been struggling for dating for the past 22 years. I keep myself reasonably groomed. I have a personality. I go to the gym to lift free weights. I'm assertive. I usually act joyous. I'm confident. I have giant goals and I'm not stupid. I just couldn't understand why women didn't like me.
Then it hit me last night. I'm not sexy. I don't make women wild and melt at my feet. I have had a lot of female friends. None of them told me I'm harmless and they all try getting a girlfriend for me. My last attempt of relationship ended up with me getting disrespected beside I can't be viewed as a fantastic husband. My little sister doesn't listen to me. I'm beta. Weak. I thought being truthful is the way to go but now it seems I guess in my state of grief that being nice, having morals is all bullshit used by immoral people to help them gather resources from these suckers. It seems that nobody cares about you. You can't reveal weakness because people can't respect you. My parents don't care about listening to my problems. I have an upcoming new group therapy session and I'm debating whether it's worth it to tell people my insecurities.
There's nobody to talk to except anonymous internet strangers who don't fill the void.
Caleb Roberts
They want a 6'3 version of you
Kayden Sullivan
This lmao just go to the gym to get taller for a few wekks how hard it can be!?!??
Bentley Thompson
>he's confused that I can't get women >I'm 5'4 too he's not confused user. he knows EXACTLY why his son can't get laid
nigga you short as fuck. the girl you're talking to doesn't want a short guy and neither does 95% of women.
that's way I love r9k, there are so many people who have similar experiences to mine. I just got rid of the girl but I am still lonely so dont take any advice from me but remember that you are not alone.
Alexander Davis
How can I be more sexy in way that doesn't involve height?
Grayson Garcia
you're 5'4 dude you're fuckin screwed.
Gabriel Hughes
you can tell how tall somebody is by even just their their neck in photos. i'm pretty sure height is the main reason too. however, unless you hate asians, i would seriously considering dating one if i were you, being 5'4" in east asia is like being 5'9" in the west.
Michael Hill
I'm not into Asians. I do not want an Asian girl to be my first gf. It just looks like a desperate beta move. I want kids that look like me.
Luke Turner
I was memeing you a little user, but I have to be honest 5'4 is remarkably short. Think about it like this, that girl had you and a guy very similar to you but taller. Height alone might not be as big a deal as people on Jow Forums make out but if it's the deciding factor then it quickly becomes way more important you dig?
Jose Sanders
You need to go back to rebbit
Henry Evans
you don't think not posting your height on tinder is a suspiciously short person move?
Lucas Morris
The guy isn't even that similar to me. I'm VERY SIMILAR TO the girl. I get what you're saying though. It's just harder for me to figure out what I'm doing wrong when people count me out just because of my height .
Dominic Jenkins
Nobody I matched with asked. The very few women that do match me and conversations that last over 24 hours looking say they're 5'0-5'6 but I swipe all 4/10s-10/10s no matter their height.
Brandon Roberts
no, it's not a matter of preferring asian gf over white gf, it's a matter of preferring asian gf over no gf.
Liam Cook
I don't want to be pathetic.
Lol Jow Forums user finally got his first gf and it's an Asian.
Turns out the guy is not like me. Just asked her now.
Andrew Adams
>I have been struggling for dating for the past 22 years *7 years
Josiah Russell
But how else will people know my age?
Brandon Williams
The point is, the greater asshole and degenerate you are, more grills will be atracted to you. >guy I know >a year older than me (30yo) >speaks in a manner making him unable to understand >does drugs (meth and weed) >drinks a lot >no house >no car >no money >unable to hold a job longer than 3 weeks >arrested few times for drug posession and fighting >hardly eats when on high >very thin and skinny >lack of some teeth >body's age of a 50-year granny (said by a doctor who examined him) >still manage to get a decent gf and get laid many times >probably has the same gf or maybe another one atm
The more rude and double meaning perverted shit you talk, the more attractive you are in their eyes. >my hypernormie co-worker from my shift >disco-type guy >kinda like him (no homo) >we have one break at work when we go for 8hrs shift >we eat with some women from other departament usually >most of them could have been his mothers or even grandmoms >every single time he says shitload of double-meaning sex-related bullshit >no limits at all >it's fucking annoying, disgusting and embarassing to me >women cheering with him and kinda like it somehow The same dude >has a wife >has a 1,5 year son >all three live with his paarents his siter, her husband and their kids >flirts with young girls at work many times >says the same crap dick or pussy related to them >itssoembarrasing.mov >they still kinda like him >he claims he could fuck any of them with easy if only he wanted to >at least he has no intention to cheat on his wife
cont.
Cooper Nelson
I know two tiny dudes who picks Chicos left and rights. One os a tae-kwon-do black belt and kicks arses on the streets and the others os a capoeira master who does the same.
Eli Bennett
They can smell it on us. We seem to be alike except I'm not so down on my luck. I hope we eventually find wives. Or at least have sex.
Daniel Davis
the more annoing and nagging you are, the more you are attracted to girls.
>another guy from my job >younger than me about 4 years >works with women on production line >I need to walk by next to them at least few times when at work >notice many times he plays with them as if the were all little kids >he 'steals' some shit from them, solve laces and other shit >ochgoshitssofuckingcildish.gif >the females around him seem to like this a lot >mfw it's fucking unmature and pathetic actually I can't even watch it >he's got a gf atm >he flirts with young girls here too >he's got no problems to get laid
I have no fuckin' idea what is the algorythm of female reasoning. I doubt there is any, but I'm a 29yo khhv with probably undiagnosed authism, so how can I know?
Ethan Hernandez
>martial arts any questions?
Colton Foster
Average height in South Korea is like 5'8'' and higher among younger cohorts. Japan is like 5'7''. China is variable because it's a large country - taller in the north and shorter in the south. 5'4'' is short regardless of location.
