Tfw no clingy gf

>I still have anxiety but I think I can hide it better now.
It's one thing to hide it, it's another to figure out why you feel it and deal with that trauma so you won't feel it anymore.
For me, it was thinking that people actually care about whatever some random retard that they'll see for 2 mins on average is doing.
I don't know why it took me such a long time to get over that.

>normies who think wanting a clingy gf means you want a mentally ill gf
I just want a gf who will never leave my side and will stay loyal forever.

What constitutes as clingy?

In any case, my new gf does some pretty assertive stuff and I don't mind it one bit.

>tfw will never have any kind of gf

>deal with that trauma so you won't feel it anymore.
I know what you mean, thx for the advice user. Uni is starting soon so interaction will be inevitable

>tfw you have no gf and it hurts more as time goes by and your friends get gf's so it hurts even more because now you rarely see them and feel that you need a gf even more adding to your overall loneliness and pain which in itself increases over time causing the painful feeling to grow exponentially so your life eventually feels like an ever depending void

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>Tfw no dominant, abusive, needy gf
I hear all these chads breaking up with girls bc they always tryin to start shit

Nigga i just want to be loved

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>I know what you mean, thx for the advice user. Uni is starting soon so interaction will be inevitable
You can do it, I believe in you.

>tfw no gf 0r1ginally

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Iktf
All I want is a clingy, obsessive gf that wants to spend all her life with me

>and your friends
normie leave reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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>tfw im a clingy gf male
all i want is a small femboy robot to become obsessed with and maybe mommy sometimes

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>tfw clingy ex gf is texting me back

She broke it off because I wasn't lovely enough. Kind of love her desu but it's really hard for me to show emotions lads.

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>date clingy girl
>out-clingy her
>she loses interest

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what like how?
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partners need foils in the same way characters in a movie need foils. in this case, a clingy gf cant work with a clingy bf, because then it's just a mess of clinginess and she gets bored. she wants attention and craves it, so you have to give it to her in small spurts and withhold to maintain interest. it's a fucking game, honestly, and it can be draining. you do what i did and go all in with your clinginess, and she'll soon find herself repulsed--she may be put in the position that YOU'RE supposed to be in by withholding, or she might just walk away... which is what happened to me.

be careful.

why do all the girls (male) like femboys
not my fault i have an insane amount of body hair ;_; ree

I'm not really clingy myself I'm actually bad with emotions and showing them off. I think the real reason for making this post is the thought of someone caring about you is comfy.

>tfw you meet a "borderline" girl and except for the moods she's less "bpd" than you are
Uuuuuuuhhhhhhhh

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as long as you throw her a bone a little bit every day, you sound like the perfect foil for a girl. but that bone is important. if you show no emotion or reciprocation, she's gone. gotta love her on just the right level.
i dont envy you, bpd user. that sounds rough to have as a male. guess you gotta hide your power level as best as you can

Fucking this, they're talking to people who have literally never even spoken to the female gender in any romantic way. If a woman comes along that not only likes you, but clings to you, it'd be logical to assume that our kind would 100% want that.

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I've got a psychopathic grandparent and another who was a sociopath. I can deal with my emotions well enough, it just gets blown sky high when I would think about being a khhv forever and not have a job (despite a good degree).

She's a good girl though. I'm marrying the fuck out of her and will teach her she can be loved.

Pic related
>her barriers, moods, insecurities
>my reaction

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that's sweet user. i wish you a lot of luck in loving her

Thank you. I'm probably gonna need it.

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>tfw no wife like this
why even live

I will not stand for this.
Every single one of you needs to be taught how to love yourselves, i'm sure that, with some work and shed tears, you will be great, anons.
You don't have to be a Chad Dickerson to attract women.
It's, overall, about your self-confidence about making them happy.
Some fucking pobrucho in a shit-tier comunista latin-american country say this to you.
You can do it, and I am 100% confident you will have a girlfriend, and even kids.
It's never late to try.

life is about balance, you desire any kind of GF cause that is the biggest missing element of your life.

but as soon as you get a clingy GF they require way to much time and effort which throws your life out of balance, just in the opposite direction.

its baby sitting with sex, it is fun at first but then you realize having to keep a child(mentally) happy isnt worth the sex when you can just jerk off.

dont be her cuck m8, you are strong and even if you want her back, showing it will only make her realize that she doesnt want you. women are insane, never pander to them.

I love it, honestly. I dated a girl just like this, and it was fun to sort of baby her in a way. Unfortunately, she could be very cruel and occasionally stopped taking her meds, so I had to cut her loose. I miss her, but I don't miss the relationship all considered.

i mean it can work if thats your thing, being a daddy. but for me it gets hyper tiring cause when im not in the mood to deal with people i still have to deal with the clingy gf

Yeah, that's understandable. I dunno, I thrive off of it personally. When I wasn't feeling it, I shushed her and cradled her till she fell asleep in my arms.

I just want a cute weeb clingy gf. One who wants to play video games and watch anime together but I'm only getting older and the dream is getting farther and farther away...

>Be friend with grill
>She doesn't like tubby dudes so I'm out of the picture pretty much immediately
>We get really close nonetheless and become besties
>Still try because "Haha bee urself"
>Get rejected and cry despite building up so much confidence
>She treats me like shit every now and then but apologizes after
>Stay friends with her because she's the only IRL friend I have
>She's currently dating a guy who treats her like shit and the only time she talks to me is when she wants to complain about how badly he treats her
>She practically worships him and he in turn straight up ignores her for days on end
>Whenever shit gets really bad she tries to take it out on me
And that's how I learned to never feel any kind of emotion ever again, the only reason I still talk to her is so I can tell her what a piece of shit she is in my suicide note when I finally get the courage up to off myself.

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a gf as clingy as a cat sounds god tier

I will never let you leave my pond

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Why can't this

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be my life?

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It hurts, my frens. It hurts every day and it never stops hurting.

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