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Cut all ties. That situation can fuck your mind into oblivion. You don't even need to tell her anything. Just focus on looking after yourself and doing whatever the fuck you want to. Good luck brother, tough situation

She won't, move on. Don't be soft, you've gotta move forward.

cringe but redpilled

she won't, she told me that she can't tell me she won't have sex with that guy, or anyone else for the matter
and that she has "other feelings" form
exactly why i need to do this
it will crush me more than the breakup has
thanks user
i'll do it in person, even though she doesn't give a single fuck about me

There's nowhere to move on, user. After the 'deadline', I'm completely stuck.

Fucking rollercoaster, some days I'm great other days I wanna kms myself, who knows how I'll feel when I wake up tomorrow?

Can we at least use this thread constructively? It'll 404 if we whine too much in here Anons

Also post 1RM Diddly

Dude I was full on suicide mode for months because my 3 year relationship with my one-itis ended. Just something you have to accept and move on from. You'll be happier with yourself once you can eliminate your dependence on her. It won't happen over night and no one call fully understand how you feel. At some point though you've gotta say fuck it and be your own man. It's impossible to recognize at the time but there are better girls out there who want you more than she does.

Which is why you need to bite the bullet. Look after yourself for fucks sake. Girls are attracted to independence and confidence. If she's not into you then fuck her she's not worth your while. You may not believe me but I can say with 100% confidence that you'll find better.

I'm 21 and already married with 2 children, so much responsibility and monogamy. I think about suicide regularly but could never do that to my kids. Only managed to sex 6 girls before tying the knot, she refused to live with me unless we married because muh Jesus and now she's suddenly not Christian at all. So it was let myself be manipulated or not live with my son. I did what I thought was right but in hindsight I should of stood my ground. I'm unhappy and I'm trying to get swole thinking it will make me happier. Suppose its better than daily drinking, I tried that and it only made things worse. I love my kids.

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Damn, be strong user. You’re gonna make it

Nice LARP.

Hope so bro. I never wanted any of this but my dad was a piece of shit and I can't bring myself to be the same.

I've already bitten the bullet. Let me loose up your 100% confidence:
>I'm a turbo autist
>she chased me from the beginning
>she took my v-card (I lost my wizard powers)
>I live in a small town, either grannies, midlf (yes, don't like to) or schoolgirls or thots that know every other guy in the town
>next city is 35km away, so no alcohol to build a tiny bit of confidence, no friends to crash after partying
>online dating is a joke
>I'm 39 (as I said, turbo autist) she is 23 and a 8/10 (for real, I heard trash talk about how a guy like me can score such a hottie)
Tell me again how I can find better user :^)

You've got responsibly beyond yourself. Improve yourself and do better for your children. You've made your bed now sleep in it. Those kids are depending on you. Look after them and make em proud

Haha I wish

Just because some hot piece of ass comes your way does't mean you should give up. I'm not your friend and don't give a shit what happens to you but if you want some brutal honesty then you need to hear me when I tell you to get the fuck outta that situation. Believe it or not, you're still young at 39. In less than 3 years you can develop your body to look better than 99.9% of your peers. Set a goal for yourself and everything else will fall into place. Don't look for a womann to be dependent on, find someone to compliment you and your life. Good luck user. Donn't be a fucking pussy. Pessimism is for faggots who have given up. It's never too late.

Thanks user, I know you're right, but being ripped at 5'8 does nothing. I'll just look like I'm compensating.

And nothing will fall into place. There is literally ZERO chance to meet women here (I observed the local scene for 2 years) We have three bars
>one for the alcoholics and thots
>one for the elderly
>one where the same 3 (no srsly, 4 at most) people hang out to shitty techno music
The gym? Yeah, one cute girl that trains with her boyfriend, all others are fat housewife abominations.
Out 'club'? Yeah, if you're into nigger or techno music and between 16-20 years old, this is the place for you.
No user, I ain't no faggot, but a realist. There's nothing left for me except dieting, workout a bit and binge watching movies/playing vidya like I did all the years before her.

I'm not gonna blow smoke up your ass and say being 5'8 is easy but giving up is for faggots. You can make excuses until kingdom come but that won't change shit. Sure, you live in a shitty small town. Take a fucking risk and get out of there. You can either spend your life settling for what makes sense and adapting to the environment you're stuck with or you can grab life by the dick and rip it off and sow it onto whatever the fuck you want. I'm not some perfect fag who's got everything figured out. I've got problems that make offing myself sound appealing. But giving up and not trying is for fucking pussies and gutless cunts. Your ancestors have fought and battled for hundreds of thousands of years to produce you. Do whatever the fuck you want and make them proud. I'll include you in my prayers, user. Live in colorado btw

Thanks user, I don't know shit about colorado as a german. Maybe your prayer will work, but now I'm depressed after writing all this stuff. Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

Just don't give up, user. You've only got one shot at this game. I'm sure you understand but I used to spend a lot of time feeling sorry for myself and wishing I had better luck. The fact of the matter is that you're dealt the cards you've got. You've got an advantage in this world because you're of german stock. My grandparents were german immigrants to the US after WW1 destroyed European industry. I attend a lutheran church that still holds service once a week in german. I will pray for you to help yourself. Nothing is free in life, my friend. You've got to take what is yours and create opportunity for yourself. God bless

Thanks man, and godspeed to you user.

take care buddy

Everything is going great bros.

I broke up with my ex of 4 years on december. Started taking boxing seriously and I plan on starting to compete in 6 months from now. I haven't dropped lifting though, just having a stable routine helped me a lot. I've started dating a cute girl and I'm more happy with her than I ever was with my ex

Are you me user?

Hey, at least you managed to lose your virginity. Not many wizards can do that.

Slowly but surely losing my desire for intimacy and friendship. Feelin good lads. Soon I will be free

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i know user, not the first break up but again, someone, who turned out to be the complete opposite to who she showed me she was dur ing the relationship

also, bread crumbs, i hate em

How old are you? I wrestled for 15 years before I quit and I'm 26 now and looking for something violent and competitive that I can get involved in. It's hard to scratch that itch of combat sports. Plus it reminds me of my dad since he trained me. Miss the guy desperately. Moved away from PA to Denver and it's bizarre because there aren't anny generational wrestling champs and all the clubs don't take things serious. Our club teams in PA when I was coming up would have all americans practice with us all the time after they graduated. Here people don't take freestyle or greco roman serious. I just miss combative sports and my dad. The years sure do take their toll.

Sometimes it's unbearably difficult to let go of the person you thought they were. I remember being in denial for almost 28 months before I was willing to accept it.

Just find some time and get involved in some combat sport which has competitions near your place. I think every man should at least once experience fighting, it's one of the best sensations I've ever felt. Your father is with you every time you remember him user, I'm sure he'd be proud of you.
I'm 21 so I have plenty of time to get better and do something useful while I'm young. The main problem is that living in Spain, boxing is relatively small

18*****
Worst part is that she cheated on me and made me feel like shit for accusing her of it. Still don't understand why she pushed a serious relationship if she didn't really want it

yeah guess so

tfw she just texted me she needs to wake up early tomorrow and only has a couple of hours time

oh well
easier for me eh

Appreciate it, brother. A shame these sports are so unpopular in western europe. I would think that there would be a eastern european wrestling club though. Kazakhstan, Ukraine, Mongolia, Iran, Georgia, Russia, and most countries in that region have great wrestling tradition. Boxing is great but if you want to learn more practical combat skill, wrestling is the most valuable skill to have in the real world. I'm surprised the Spanish don't wrestle because so many of the native cultures they colonized had strong wrestling tradition.

Boxing was huge in Spain but with the democracy came an intention of retiring violence from public tv, newspapers... society was really tense back then and the ones who rule thought that would help.
I've never tried wrestling, the closest thing I can think of here is judo and I don't really like japanese martial arts after practicing Tai Jitsu for 3 years. I'd like to do BJJ tho.
From the colonies the only thing that comes to mind is filipino boxing but it isn't very popular. XVII century sword dueling was very popular back then and it was extended to the colonies, maybe that's the reason wrestling didn't become popular

Fuuckkk guys. I recently had a rough breakup with gf of 4 years. Moved out and got my own place. Met a 7/10 qt Catholic girl at my church who was looking for a new place to stay so I'm renting out my spare bedroom to her. We get up at 5am every morning for breakfast and Bible study and stay up late talking about stuff (we are in the same profession and have the same hobbies). We haven't made any direct moves towards each other but she frequently mentions how muscular my arms/shoulder/chest are. To make it worse I'm almost a month into NoFap and have a raging boner literally 24/7 and when we are doing Bible study all I can think about is bending her over the table and fucking her brains out. I want to make a move but she takes the religious stuff a lot more seriously than me so idk if she'd be dtf plus we're roommates and she's a good source of passive income and I don't want to fuck that up. Thinking of playing the long game and going for a wholesome relationship with her but in the meantime the hormones are driving me insane. AHHHHHHHHHHGGHGH

>catholic girl
At least she's not lutheran but my advice is that you should run away

Why? Im Catholic as well.

Good. 29 year old boomer and I just got offered a job paying more than I ever imagined ($130k)

We're all gonna make it bros

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The same

Listen to sad music to fuel my depression while I eat my eggs and oats before class.

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we can't keep living like this

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Divorce when the youngest is 18 and move on. You're so young (if this is not LARPing), you can still metamorphose once or twice before you hit the bucket.

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not him, but most likely:
>have sex with willing drunk ho at uni
>next morning ho thinks she could not have possibly want to sex up someone so ugly, files rape accusation to protect her honor.

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I'm going through a rough time bros
>Meet girl in 7th grade start dating her in 8th
>Found out that she had some anger issues, got abused
>It wanes but comes back every once in a while
>Fast foward 5 years
Now we're both at Uni and still together, but we had a bad fight last week and all I can think about is how I don't kbow if I can stay with her or not. She's a sweet girl who abaolutely adores me, but it terrifies me to see how she can occassionally pull a Jerkle and Hyde on me. And on top of that she got fat (170lbs at 5') and while she lost weight for a little while, she's stopped trying now. As a result I've noticed that Im having trouble staying hard and it's not from porn.
I feel like I should at least talk to her about these issues and give her a chance before outright breaking up, but fuck bros, I don't know what to do

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Talk with her. Be honest but not cruel, you must love her if you haven't left yet so both of you should try your best to fix your relarionship before everything explodes

I miss her smile.

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Thanks bro, I needed that

Kill the bitch

Good luck user

embrace the chadhood. this girl used your genes for good babies and that's nothing to be ashamed of. be the fuck and dump type, and after wading through a sea of hos one will stick out and it will be your decision whether or not to stay. women will give you the best parts of themselves and share themselves at their most intimate, something providercucks dream of every day.

Uni's rough. I'm at the point in the semester where I'm constantly skirting barely above the edge of failure. It feels like I'm constantly falling downhill, if that makes sense. My schedule's fucked and I'm getting to the gym once or twice a week max, which is also causing me some stress.

I realized while hanging out with this girl from Tinder that the reason this other girl I was into stopped talking to me is because the two of them are roommates. What're the odds? It's not that big of a deal but I feel like it just continues the running theme that every development in my life ends up having some sort of punchline.

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This, life aint over. Youre in the long game now

that's not loyal wife material and you know it
cut lose and never go back, you'll regret it for a few months and after that never again

shitty people like that will always break you even worse if you let them

>girls aren't interested in me
>half-ignore by social circle for a year, get well read, lift
>girls like me now
>im still too much of a pussy to do anything
It's a weird kind of feel. I feel like I don't deserve it or just don't believe myself that a girl likes me and I'm too scared to act. I'm not a shy person but this shit terrifies me.
>be on a party last week
>everyone is super drunk
>a girl takes me to her room
>locks the door
>starts smoking a cig on the window
>i talk with her until she gets pissed off and leaves the room
>half of my friends accuse me of being gay

You don’t want a cancer ridden whore who smokes. They are horrible to kiss and would infect your future kids with their second hand smoke

everyone smokes here. back in middle school teachers used to ask kids for lighters to light their cigs. im in a very degenerate place.

Oh in that case it's fine, you'll be in hell together for eternity

It's a weird kind of feel. I feel like I don't deserve it or just don't believe myself that a girl likes me and I'm too scared to act. I'm not a shy person but this shit terrifies me.

I know this feel all too well, user. I still get this feel from time to time, but the more I talk to a girl and see her signals the more I believe I can get her. That girl was waiting on you to make a move on her and fuck her. 100%. Put it this way, if you're with a girl on a comfortable place (a car, a sofa, a bed, etc.) alone, for some time, chances are that she wants you to make a move on her (make out, even sex). Just bite the bullet and risk rejection

Wakeup earlier to workout or right after classes are over. If you really want something you're going to put an effort into getting it.
I'm barely passing one class out of 3 and it also gets me stressed, but we're all out here still trying to move forward brah

FUCKING THIS man. You're absolutely fucking right! It took me a long time to realize this. Personally, I believe it was the rejection part that scared me the most, but eventually you end up not caring if it does happen.

So I ended up drunkenly talking to this girl Saturday, and we hit it off and I got her number.

Where do I go from here?

>Still miss her
>It's been 4 years
>She cheated on me
>After all this time still depressed and suicidal

wtf is wrong with me, the fuck is wrong with my brain. Why should I even give a fuck about her, I feel like the right thing here is to hate her but I don't. I can't seem to move on, I don't know how I'm supposed to continue.

>She accused rape but there was no evidence so it was dropped
>her friend who I also was fucking told the school I tried to abuse her too
>evidence she wanted to be abused sexually
>school doesn't know what to do so they lie and say I secretly took a condom off during sex
>she even admitted in audio interview that she knew I took it off and didn't say anything
>school kicks me out for "violating the consent policy"

Thousands wasted for lawyer fees. My gf cheated on me months later. Honestly will probably never trust another woman again even if I wanted to. Forcibly blackpilled.

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My face is asymmetrical and one half looks like shit. I am slightly overweight meaning there was always the possibility of improvement but there went all hope of ever looking decent. There's literally no future for me. I hate attractive people so much.

Just kill her, stomp her brains out.

You are going to get so into fitness soon you have no idea

LOL

Im losing my fucking erections How the fuck do I get them back? Been struggling with it the past year. 5'9 152lbs 14% bf. Had a girl I like over today and we fooled around. She was on her period but was going to give me head and when she started kissing my down my chest I lost my fucking errection. I'm not a virgin either. I jerk off around twice a week. Anyone got advice?

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As tempting as that it and as much as I desire it. Best case scenario now I just get legal closure at some point in my life for the money wasted and education withheld.

Any lawfags have advice? Its pretty clear in the report and audio interviews that there is a blatant contradiction.

Just feeling depressed. Almost 21 yo, shitty part time retail job, no friends, no gf, live with parents etc. Just a loser. Hopefully my stem degree shit gets me a job. I feel doomed and trapped.

Friends my story is kinda weird
>dad is a cheating fuck
>mom catches him and they get into a pretty big fight
>realize my dad might want to get physical
>run at full speed and tackle him from behind
>we both fall down
>he breaks his arm
>he gave me a concerned look, it was a mixture of disappointment that his son had broken his arm and concerned about my strength

Mom kicked him out of the house and he later got a cast for his arm.
Now I don't want to look like a piece of shit but it felt wonderful to take down someone whos maybe 110kg (im 90kg). It was so easy. I never had to use my strength in real life.

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>stronger than your dad
Gonna make it

Stop watching porn

Tell you wife how you feel.

>be me
>weird guy with ADD, always make people laugh but i guess just get annoying and loud and it's lead to a lifetime of friendlessness and virginity
>even get told that "wow that makes so much sense about you now" when i say im an only child, like it explains my behavior

>been intentionally quiet the past few weeks at work, just trying to stay calm and in the background out of the way instead of all over the place
>today boss calls me into office and asks why ive been so quiet and whats wrong and basically just keeps asking it over and over in different ways and how "if something is wrong she wants me to tell her"

im so tired of it all Jow Forums

Maybe you just dont talk to people one on one seriously?

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What does your mum say? You make it sound like tackling him wasn't completely necessary, was it or not?

Same thing happened to me user but I was like 15.
>Mom and dad take little sister to her friends birthday party
>Dad gets really drunk with his group of friends and starts making a scene when theyre asked him to calm down
>Dad embarrass mom when she asks him to tone it down
>Mom takes little sister and goes home
>Like 11 pm I'm playing some Xbox and hear my parents yelling
>Mom's voice sounds like it's breaking so I go investigate
>Dad circling mom around recliner
>Ask Dad what's going on. Says something about how my mom l embarrassed him by leaving
>Visibly can see that my mom's afraid.
>Get in between and side step when my dad tries to walk around me
>See the wind up coming from my dad's hand as he backhands me in the face
>Taste blood and realize if I don't do something he's gonna think it's ok to hit me
>Punch him twice in the nose/mouth and grab him by the chest and throw him into the wall behind him then on to the floor
>His look of sadness and shock that his only sons hit him and thrown him to the floor.
>Tell my mom and sister to get their stuff and we run outta the house to my aunt's.
>In shock but feel good that I defended my mom
I don't remember much after that except that the police were called and we stayed at my aunt's a few days. I was cool until we went back home to get some clothes and I saw the broken sheet rock and some of his blood on the floor and started crying. I felt it was unfair what was happening, I was always the big nice kid that defended people from bullys and would do the right thing always and didn't deserve the bad things that were happening to me. Our relationship is good now but that night was probably our low point.

Well right now shes pissed at him for cheating so shes telling me it was ok.
>You make it sound like tackling him wasn't completely necessary, was it or not?
Well theres no way to know. I just didnt want him to lay his hands on her. Also, I never intended to break his arm. I just wanted to get him on the ground.

i dont understand

Maybe you just keep telling jokes when its not necessary?

Damn thats cold user

I suppose that seems reasonable.

im sure there is a lawyer that will take your case in your state, just gotta look.

sweet
White knight beta cuck

still haunted by thoughts of my ex daily
going to counselling to try to figure out how to stop hating myself
know I'm a good guy, with good traits, but somehow think I deserved the abuse or moreover, I don't/shouldn't get better or haven't earned it and belong to be miserable

Week two of living on my own after gf and I split.
I lost so much money and shit moving.
Tried to stay friends and ended up fucking.
She continues to do all the crazy shit she did before. And so did I.
It was ok for about a day.
Today is the first day she didn't contact me all day.

For some reason I still feel bad.
I do miss her. But only a part of her really.
This is the first time I've had a real serious relationship and lived with someone.
I'm afraid Im getting too old to settle down with a good woman. (26)

But I did deads today and it felt amazing.

They did the exact same thing why is one a whiteknight

>I hit a 475 squat and 500 diddly today
>Im in debt and a kv
Mixed feels brehs

This shit makes me not want a relationship brehs. Is it worth it?