Is it immoral to start talking to young girls and slowly conditioning them to fall for you, then dating them when they're legal? This girl I've spoken to since she was 12 is legal soon and has feelings for me.
Is it immoral to start talking to young girls and slowly conditioning them to fall for you...
yes, it's child grooming, in many places it's actually a crime
You're fucked up in the head, my guy.
>we will never rest until our sons and daughters grow up in single occupancy sensory depriving isolation tanks until the day they turn 18
neck yourself pedo subhuman
>morals
nice spooks nerd
Its only illegal if he was explicitly seeking sex with her as a minor. If he was just manipulating her by being a swell older guy, and waiting until shes legal, then thats not illegal and even if it was, you can't prove that.
i am not OP, not pedo, am autistic, am disinterested in sex or relationships of any kind.
just pointing out the hyperbolic end game here.
I would be flattered if somebody put effort into grooming me
I know your kind has trouble with nuance, but it's perfectly possible to keep kids away from sexual predators without locking them up allegory of the cave style
and i know your kind has trouble with critical thinking, so i'll inform you that my post was hyperbole, again, as i mentioned in it.
I'd groom u so hrd.
Expect it would likely be impossible since you're not a brain dead retard like ops groomed child was
Generally speaking no, it's probably not immoral. The exact line between "grooming" and "courting" is very unclear, but if you're willing to wait until she's legal and you're not simply feeding her bullshit but instead actually cultivating a stable relationship then it's fine.
>it's perfectly possible to keep kids away from sexual predators without locking them up allegory of the cave style
How? They're everywhere! Unless you or someone you trust with your own life were around them 24/7 and you never leave them alone, you can't AKSCHUALEE keep them from anything.
>I'll just teach the kid about Stranger Danger!
and someone will just snatch them, or they'll just ignore it that one time they shouldn't have, or maybe their friends parent is creeping on them while they hang out at their house, who knows? you don't, you're not there 24/7.
This is literally how marriages worked in the past.
It's not wrong if she's legal. If she's the one who likes you then what's the problem?
Were you intentionally grooming her so she'd want you when she is old enough?
>can't protect them 100% of the time, guess we shouldn't bother protecting them at all
>what the fuck is a hyper-bowl
>grow up in single occupancy sensory depriving isolation tanks until the day they turn 18
That sounds a lot like my childhood.
>it's no wonder I turned out a NEET loser with anxiety problems who rarely leaves the house
Need to add the part about not being allowed to make any important choices and being shielded from consequences
God i want to live there.
okay I'm autistic but maybe you're the retarded one here.
>it's perfectly possible to keep kids safe from predators
>yeah but not all the time tho unless you're around 24/7
>>can't protect them 100% of the time, guess we shouldn't bother protecting them at all
yeah user, me saying that it isn't actually perfectly possible because you aren't always there is exactly like me saying what you think i said.
>but you can't actually always protect them
>LOL NEVER PROTECT YOUR KIDS
are not the same sentence.
I unintentionally groomed a girl I know online. I used to play Maple Story and in my guild there was a 13 year old girl. Well, there were a lot of young girls but this girl in particular we would hang out and play and whatever all the time. I'm like 17 years older than her and she would talk to me about her life and her issues. I was just a friend to her and I supported her emotionally and all that stuff. I never made a single sexual advance towards her or anything of the sort. We had a lot of times when we would stay up all night talking and playing and shit like that.
Now she's 17 and she has feelings for me. She told me she's loved me for years and wants to get married to me. I don't know how to respond to her feelings and she told me she's willing to wait for me. She is legal in my state but I'm 34. I feel like I did something wrong even unintentionally. I figured she would fall for some Chad her own age and not some old guy on the internet.
>tfw knew this feel once but she confessed too early and it made it weird and it was best that we stopped talking
Young girls online get groomed pretty easily because they're usually trying to escape from some kind of bad family situation, and latch on to the first benevolent father figure they find. If she's got a stable family life though and has no issues beyond typical girl stuff then you might as well go for it if you have no other attachments. Just make sure she's not nuts.
this user's right, murder happens all the time and is unavoidable so let's just make it legal desu
there's not even anything wrong with it
As someone who's been through it, it's not worth it. I'm just even more lonely and depressed after experiencing this over and over again.
>still imagining things i said
never said anything about legalities, never said anything about approval or disapproval, never said anything except
>but you can't actually protect them 24/7 tho
everything past that is your imagination and projection.
That doesn't even sound like grooming. Fuck
They got you convinced you dis something wrong when it just sounds like you were a friend who she developed feelings for over the years because you actually treaters her like a human being
you conveniently cut off the second half of my sentence, autismo, go back and read again
that post literally was hyperbole, you mong
Yeah I agree, sounds like you were just a nice guy and now she fell for you. Nothing wrong with that.
understand that you're advanced levels of retard when a literal diagnosed autist thinks you're being too retarded to carry on a conversation.
any future (You)s in this thread won't be from me, i have stuff to catalog and organize.
you didn't do anything wrong, but you probably should explain to her why a relationship between you won't work and try to let her down easy
>explain to her why a relationship between you won't work
Why wouldn't it?
>i have stuff to catalog and organize.
with the level of reading comprehension you've shown so far I don't even want to imagine what that fucking mess would look like
I'm not the one to decide what is moral, but what you posted is a work of a genius mind. No wonder I never thought about that.
Keep us informed.