Proving or disproving that fembots make tfw no bf posts for attention/because of dilutions

I mean, I personally wasn't begging I'm just curious to see if it was true or not, I'd be 100% fine with just friends desu even if it'll likely just fuzzle away over time like it always does.

wasn't meaning to call anyone out in the thread for begging. i don't necessarily constitute sharing discords as begging it just depends on how it's done.

I think it's not the matxhing part dudes on r9k struggle with its partly the actually having a conversatjon with girls after or they're so autistic they can't talk to them if they do meet up and the girl assumes they're retarded or creeps because of bad impressions

I'm one of those equally if-not-moreso autistic chicks. Awkwardness has always been charming to me but I get how it's not every chick's cup o' tea.

Op btw, excuse my shit grammar and spelling, I'm so fucking tired rn

It figures, the world might be shrinking but it's the narcissistic dumbasses with no self awareness who benefit. The idea of getting to know a person over time and opening yourself up to scrutiny but also for support is just too scary when you can fake it with a fling or forcing some erelationship I guess

Well that's why I don't do it. I'm just mad about the lack of options. I'm naturally an introspective person. I like what I like because of what it makes me think and feel. My life is internal. Looking for external commonality as the rule just makes all attempts at contact feel so unbelievably superficial and frustrating.

Also, you'd probably not like me then, I'm actually a pretty confident dude

It's a lot harder when you want to take things slow and you don't really consider getting laid to be the big win. Women freak the fuck out when you don't actively proposition them.

If we're all being honest though, online relationships fucking suck, sure if you genuinly like them it's fine but relationships are still at the very least 20% sex or even not being able to physically be with someone is just emotionally draining and not worth the hassle knowing 90% of the time online shit never works

I mean like later on obviously, I think it's partly why marriages fail so often because their sex life goes to shit among other things

True as that might be, if I thought there were potential, I'd be pushing to meet up. If I met someone I thought could be the real deal, that's worth adjusting your life and personal goals for.

That's true, doesn't change the fact that not everyone can just hop on a plain or a train and go visit someone they barely know outside of online

Yeah well I can so where is my goddamn gf?

It's not how that works sadly, do you want a gf you date for a while only to realise you never liked her and she never liked you because you rushed shit or do you want a gf that you genuinly connect with and that makes you feel like the best version of yourself even if you're not

Uh which is it? Long distance relationships can't work because relationships are 20% physical or jumping on a plane still can't fix it because you'll rush things?

I would absolutely love to take the time to get to know a girl, have legitimate correspondence, build a mutual trust and respect, figure out if there's a level of chemistry beyond an early fascination and infatuation, and then when we both feel comfortable try meeting up and see how we feel after that. That's basically the dream. I just don't know how to find it.

Long distant relations don't work because relations need a physical aspect, and its expensive to get a plane to where they are or travel to be with them ect and you cant rush shit because the relationship will fall apart, also neither do fucking I buddy you're not alone

>online relationships fucking suck
I met my soon to be husband online, we were long distance for a while.

It's not too bad. Sometimes you meet someone who is just perfect for you, and it'd be a shame to not pursue them.

Long distance relationships are incredibly hard to make work because the physical aspects of a relationship are extremely important, and it's hard to determine compatibility when there's only limited interactions facilitated by the internet.

Physical quirks, mannerisms, body language, even pheromones are all really important. And spending so much money to meet up with someone only to find out you aren't as attracted to them as you thought you'd be is hard. Either you break up, and the one that paid for the travel cost feels rejected and scorned, or you keep going despite the lack of attraction and the relationship ends up doomed.

It's a much bigger gamble, and much more costly, pursuing relationships online.

>you're not alone
some solace I guess

Is not that they don't work they do most of the time but some things fuck shit up, some of those things are the NSA the CIA Moosad, and a long etc.

They fuck shit up just for being there.

I said 90% of the time they don't work not 100% but congrats

So many (You)s I feel like I hijacked OP's shit

I get what you're saying but man it's just so frustrating

No, fuck off you're not welcome here conspirisist

Ikr shit man, but honestly you just gotta hold out, not be oblivious when that golden opportunity arises when you find that girl and don't try too hard because we're not in the wild and trying to peacock never works

what if you wanna homestead with a girl in the wild tho

Also I was op this entire time how dare you hijack me
Kidding man

I don't like advice that doesn't give me something tangible to work on. I want to do something besides advance my career in preparation.

I'm not an expert sadly, alright then I suppose you could look up girls that used to go to your old schools or college ect and narrow them down, then message them and say hello since you'd have somewhat common ground. Or if you have a brother go to a party with him and spark conversation with some girls, befriend them first ect but show interest so they don't friendzone you by default ig
Best advise I could come up with on the spot

You can meet women online through less vague, non-anonymous forums/groups for one thing.
Alternatively, there's dating sites.

Not many other options unfortunately.

I didn't really break out of my shell until I joined the Army, I'm better off staying the hell away from girls back in my school days lol

And I have a brother but he's younger than I am and we work together and share the same social circles anyway.

Thanks for trying though, user. Guess I'm stuck with throwing out message after message on /soc/ and hoping something sticks.

Apparantly girls there only want sex or it barely ever gets past talking online and if it does they're either crazy or it doesn't go past the first date

Then go to clubs alone, talk to some girls too just force yourself to do it, the worst they can do is say no, and if they ask if you're alone say your buddy is in the bathroom or some shit then try get their number and then call them a couple days later and ask them on a date

The problem I've had with that approach is generally the same as I have with dating sites. Things have a tendency to fall apart based on a lot of superficial commonality things, and I'm not even saying that's all on women. I'm pretty guilty of disqualifying on shit that's fundamentally outside her control moving forward, but I think I'm usually doing right by not fucking with single mothers/and chick whose profile picture has alcohol in it/etc

And by talk I mean talk about shit you're passionate about ect and if she's not then leave if she is then there you go you can have a conversation about it, just try not to be autistic and keep an eye for signs she isn't interested and you'll be good

I legitimately am getting ready to say fuck it and go hard on cold approaches, aspiring for 50 rejections just to get the feel for it. I've never had to do it, things normally just fell into my lap, but I've found that the kinds of women who have fallen into my lap are not the kind I'd like to build a life with.

I'm pretty crazy so I can't really 100% dispute that.
But aside from that, there's really not many options online.

If you're 100% not interested in kids, then I understand not going with single mothers, but they don't always have the same story of whimsically fucking strangers and ending up pregnant. Would say it's worth at least talking to them a bit.

As for taking pictures with alcohol, I agree that it's a strong sign of someone trashy.

Just try to generally keep an open mind and go for people that might not be your "type".

I am 100% interested in having kids, but my dad growing up was my stepdad, and I've seen this time and time again: stepdads never get to be fathers. So many things he tried to teach me and instill in me could never stick because my mom would sabotage his efforts. I was hers, not his. I'm not willing to love her kids and be responsible for them but not be willing to be a father to them. No fucking way.

Sounds perfectly reasonable user, best bet would be to do that cold approach shit

I met a single mother online once, she was pretty cool until I found out she was a cam whore

Fitting end to this sad, sad thread

I responded in one of those threads once and ended up contacting 3 guys from the east coast on discord a few months ago and one I just couldn't get to talk after a few times of trying on different days I stopped initiating so we've just never spoken again, and the other two just wanted an egf thing like before even knowing my name or age or anything and one of them was like rping with me and I very soon realized didn't even want to know anything about the real me, he wanted me to rip with him. The other egf guy asked for nudes and about my body before my age, name, what state I'm from, then after a lot of awkwardness and apologies for not giving him nudes he was actually mad at me and said I could make it up to him by buying his new wow expansion. This is all in the course of about an hr and a half.
Since I saw another girl on here complaining about a guy trying to get her to buy him things right off the bat, I bet it's the same guy, and he must've had some success if he's trying it so fast like that, right? lol I dunno but as much as I'd like to get to know someone online first, I don't think it's worth the drama it takes to meet guys from Jow Forums. I'm sure some of you are good ones but we're probably not compatible anyway.
I don't even know why I'm here anymore it's so rare that I even post.

Yeesh. I honestly didn't realize that was how the male autism played out.

Nudes or buy my WoW expansion.

Huh.

internet boyz be fuck heads

Women can be awfully creative in their storytelling, ill give them that.

>Tfw you're torn between calling the story a lie or being a misogynist

Any doubt about my previous assumptions just evaporated. I was a bit worried I passed off unwarranted judgement on someone, but now ill sleep easy.

Tbh you could prolly pretend to be a girl and find out for yourself just how crazy the kind of bots that chase girls online are. Pretty sure not many of the sane ones hang out in discord and drool over every female.

whatever it takes to help u sleep at night cuz nothing can ever be a mans fault... ok. ur an idiot

>cuz nothing can ever be a mans fault
Why type this out when you could just copy paste the extract of my comment where I said that? oh, wait...
>Pretty sure not many of the sane ones hang out in discord and drool over every female.
Well, ill give you that, I can't really wrap my head around the idea of getting on some discord in the hope of getting pussy.

all the girls here are whores. There are no 'fembots'

I think the fembot meme is real, like out of all the girls out there there are some of them that you wouldnt be seen in public with, some who have such a shitty personality you couldn't stand beside them for a minute. like these girls exist. I'm not saying every self proclaimed fembot is real, im just saying that there are indeed very ugly girls even an ugly guy (that's you) would want. Anyways this board is filled with people with way higher standards than needed.

>dudes giving contact info yet they ignore it all, yet when guys post tfw no gf posts no girl ever replies similarly.

no shit women are on super easy mode. ugly smelly landwhale can get boyfriends if they stop going for superman.

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the person that made this image is so delusional, you are so too for posting it.

this, as a girl this is why i stopped trying to contact guys, I want to talk to someone and see where it goes not constantly be yelled at to be someones gf

>I don't like it so it's not true and you're deluded
Every single time, without fail.

Ur retarded dude, the left is a pic of a hot ass actor and the right is a 45 yr old piece of borderline retarded trailer trash.

U can't possibly believe there aren't a fuckton of robot like that old roastie or that even a quarter of the bots here are anything like the guy on the left. Thats like a fuckin dreambot the same way Agatha or someone similar is the dream fembot the waifus r popular cuz they r fuckin unicorns

While the pic on the right is pretty biased (I mean, the guy's a model), you can't seriously believe that every guy here is some male version of the left column, pic and all. At most, I'd wager 20% here are like that, if even.
Also, your bait is too obvious, make it more coherent and add in a few sentences calling men scum and pigs and maybe some others will fall for it.

4chans kinda a shit place now and theres a huge difference from the people back in the day and now. Yet i feel your pain but what else is there for people like us?

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>that picture

fsfsflk

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K u got left and right mixed up and wtf bait r u even talking about?
The left whether it was a male or female even without the pic is a fuckin unicorn version of a bot/fembot and that doesn't mean that every robot is as bad as the trailer trash roastie and I wasn't suggesting that u fucktard

This is not surprising. Discordbots are the worst of them everyone knows this. All of the bot drama comes form the discords.. You be better off replying to guys yourself

I added a girl on (((discord))) from one of these threads begging for someone to be her bf and talk to her whining about how lonely she was and she ghosted me after a week or so. Literally every girl does this. All girls online aren't looking for relationships they're just looking for attention.

she also ironically whined about how every guy she talked to ghosted her.

You're either baiting with that early 2000s texting style of typing or are just retarded. I would think the fact that I didn't immediately assume the latter would be a compliment.
Given this post, I'm beginning to assume my prior assumption, however complimentary, was incorrect.
Especially given this:
>that doesn't mean that every robot is as bad as the trailer trash roastie and I wasn't suggesting that u fucktard
>U can't possibly believe there aren't a fuckton of robot like that old roastie or that even a quarter of the bots here are anything like the guy on the left.
I can only assume you're severely mentally retarded or that you're posting bait.
If you'd like to refute that robots are not at all like the left column (the error in mixing up those columns previously was my mistake, and I'll own up to it), please start by explaining what you think the average robot is like.

Are you seriously still trying to argue with me after you quoted me not contradicting myself? I said 'fuckton', you said 'every guy'. Don't put words in my mouth. Clearly most bots aren't like the bot descriptor there since it says they take care of themselves and we both know how common NEETs are among bots. Rarely leaving your house isn't healthy, mentally or physically. It also assumes only one reason for bots not dating when we also know from being here how many other issues get in the way of bots having relationships, things like looks, literal autism, mental health issues, etc etc. Of course not every bot is as bad as people think, but it's a mixed bag and that description paints them as just misunderstood with no underlying mental health issues or physical abnormalities.

Apparently I need to type everything out properly or you don't understand anything I say. Btw U means you, fancy that eh? I turn autocorrect off on my kindle while I'm doing certain things and it's much faster to type like that. It's Jow Forums dude, no one doesn't understand what I'm saying except you.

Are you sure you didnt sperg out on her user? Sometimes it truly is the fault of anons that they get ghosted, but they lack the self awareness to realize it.

Wonder how long it takes roasties to come up with these stories

The difference between "most" and "all" is negligible.
>Clearly most bots aren't like the bot descriptor there since it says they take care of themselves and we both know how common NEETs are among bots. Rarely leaving your house isn't healthy, mentally or physically.
Apparently not being in employment, education, or training means you aren't allowed to leave the house ever. Who would have thought?
I get that you probably mean Hikkis, who don't leave their rooms, but as a rebuttal, most of them haven't been given a reason to leave the house. Many have been discouraged from this healthy behavior by society. I ask you to think about this.
>many other issues get in the way of bots having relationships, things like looks, literal autism, mental health issues, etc etc.
Looks isn't so common here anymore, I think. Many are about average. Autism and mental health issues are still very common, but most of them are benign (at least to other people, not meaning to imply that mental health problems are not a form of suffering), and many definitely don't receive outside care for a mental illness beyond maybe a therapist.
And putting that aside, only the image used, which was a poor choice that makes it look like a sort of strawman, would indicate some of these things. The text itself mentions nothing about looks or mental illness.
>that description paints them as just misunderstood with no underlying mental health issues or physical abnormalities
The description would seem to indicate that the male is considered weak willed, and for that reason undesirable and inferior. Societal misunderstandings are brief, there is only genuine hatred that can make something like this phenomenon exist for so long.
>no one doesn't understand what I'm saying except you
Never said I didn't understand, I figured you were using a computer. I suppose my description of early 2000's texting was more accurate than I'd thought it would be. My apologies.

The difference between most and all is that I said most and then you insulted me for saying all lol. Also it literally says "rarely leaves the house" in the photo and that's what I was referencing. The photo also mentions the landwhales looks and not the bots, I'm pretty sure they were going for juxtaposition there by omitting the word ugly or obese from the bot side but that's just an assumption so I'm not gonna push it but I think you and I both know what the dude was going for with those descriptions. Both of them need to be brought to the middle to be realistic.
I have to go to bed though so agree to disagree etcetc.

This is a job for a data scientist!

Regexp for title: /tfw\w+.*.*\w+gf/g
Regexp for bodies of responses: look for kik, discord/disc, sn/snapchat, and anything else you see regularly.

Repeat the above header regexo with "bf" instead of "gf" and use the same body regexp. Compare them - you'll have compared the contact exchange rate of tfw no bf and tfw no gf threads.

Well, at least that's where I'd start.

But I'm not gonna parse fucking json unless I get paid. It's a dignity thing.

Sure, there's not much to disagree over anymore. I'm not going to sleep tonight, but I have an all-night solo Halo session, so I'll just get back to that and leave you be as well.
'Night.

Online and in big cities,
There is such a high saturation of people.
A new chad is literally a finger swipe away.
A new stacey can be a click away.
Maybe some fembots (knowing or unknowing) say they want a bf and then ignore all the offers for being a bf.
So many ways to communicate but, also so easy to shove people away.

Op here
Well, I'm not sure how the conclusion for this goes, no fembots posted their emails like I said but we also all made some very good points, technically it was proven but also disproven?

Just learn how to use mysql and use the archive to look up the rate of contact info posted. It's less work and a lot more conclusive than what you're doing.

1000% more work since I'd have to learn that shit