I sent an e-mail to my ex about wanting to move in with him, but he hasn't responded and it's been about a week. I went to the house to ask him if he got my e-mail and he asked what I really wanted from all this. I told him "I just want to know if you still care and that I still matter to you, that I matter to someone." I ended up crying in front of him and went for a hug, but he refused to hug me back. He said I should seek therapy and that even if he did allow me to move in with him, it wouldn't be right since we barely spoke after highschool. He would have considered me moving in if we remained active friends. He didn't deny me simply because I was his ex. He told me his wife doesn't like me and she wouldn't be comfortable with me being the nanny after the scene I caused at the baby shower.
I sent an e-mail to my ex about wanting to move in with him, but he hasn't responded and it's been about a week...
What the fuck is the situation you're trying to frame?
you need to get on with your life and accept this person is not part of it anymore and never will be again. The only person you should matter to in this rough world is yourself. begin to focus on yourself, and in doing so, you will find someone else.
or dont find someone else as I did and just slowly become jaded, but completely self sufficient and enjoying one's own company.
I'm sorry your life is fucked up but we told you it wasn't going to happen.
You absolute fucking psycho, I'm surprised he hasn't called the cops on you
He could have held me at least. It's been years, but I still think about his touch. I really needed to be in his arms and he denied me that. I understand if I couldn't move in with him, but I really need his embrace. Make me feel wanted even just for a moment.
He said he's going to be nice and not get the cops involved, but he can't stop his wife if I act up again and she wants to get police involved.
he owes you nothing. He has moved on, it would just be mixed signals to even do that. You need to move on from this before it actually hurts your life legally. No guy is worth some crazy ex gf shit on your record, come on OP...
There would have been no miscommunications. I know he doens't see me that way anymore. I thought he would stop holding back and grant me a hug. Even a friendly one. I was literally on my knees trying to latch on to his legs.
KEK, quit acting like a spoiled baby who had her toy taken away. you know what, maybe you do deserve a restraining order to show to you that your behavior is beyond rational human thought. There would have been miscommunications, with that being that it is acceptable to comfort a crying temper tantrum throwing child.
Get over yourself, OP.
KEK
You are honestly probably just making his life worse. If you care about this person so much leave them alone
loving these multi-part r9k soaps
He has his dream job, lives in a nice house, has a beautiful daughter, and a beautiful wife. He's super talented, rich, and has plenty of friends. How can possibly ruin that simply by showing up?
Dude is trying to live his life with his family and this obviously insane ex from high school keeps showing up to bother him. I would have shot you off my front porch by now
Would you want some freak crying on your doorstep during dinner?
It was during lunch and I wasn't throwing a tantrum. Tears would flowing, but I wasn't bawwing my eyes out. I may have been on my knees, but I wasn't loud about it.
What kinda scene did you cause at the baby shower? Also if he's got a wife look somewhere else.
Tell us about the baby shower
I've done some cringey pathetic shit in my time.
But, your story real or fake is terribly autistic and
P A T H E T I C
I was looking through his Instagram and saw that he was hosting a babyshower. I decided to bring some gifts and congratulate him in person. I was crying during the ride to his house so my eyes were all red when I showed up. He said I wasn't looking well and I cried because I was touched about how concerned he was about my well-being.
Damn, this shit is scary. I knew a crazy bitch that acted the same way towards her ex who dumped her and then a week later got another girl and made a baby with her and married her. The thing is the new girl was uglier than she was.
The thing is, you're just too crazy. Don't put yourself down or put the person who dumped you on a pedestal. In that girl's case she just had trash character, and was crazy. Try to be a better person, get over him, and get some help. Then maybe you'll lead a better life and the rain will stop.
Wow he sounds like a nice guy that has to deal with your bullshit.
Leave Jow Forums fucking roastie, what the fuck are you thinking by wanting relationship advice HERE ?
Do you want more looser orbiters to make robots feel even more miserable in the end?
Leave this board right fucking now and ask for advice on reddit or /b/ not fucking here.
Fucking woman I swear to god...
honestly, the fact that you can't rationally analyze your behavior is really concerning. you don't actually want him, you just built a dream castle of your inner desires and project it on the guy. THIS IS NOT REALITY. please seek help girl.
>He told me his wife doesn't like me
found the problem kek
Kill his wife. Then you both will be together again. You always knew this is the only way to get him back, this post is a sign you waited for years, go for it.
I thought you were larping about this the other day. I'll be honest and tell you the truth that goes against my well being as a man. Iet it go get over it dead him in your mind and heart, it's over and it's been too long. You're a woman you can replace him and almost any man and love the new guy just as much. The time this isn't true is with a great man, and those are so rare it's not worth discussing as he is not one
He can't hug you out of respect for his wife tard...even more so since she doesn't like you. The fact that he acknowledged you and have your crazy ass attention st all is because he loves you as a person but again it's over for good.