what the fuck is a "good personality" and how do i lose a "bad personality" and if i lose my bad personality am i not "beeing myself"
What the fuck is a "good personality" and how do i lose a "bad personality" and if i lose my bad personality am i not...
Well, tell us about your personality. Where do you seem to be struggling?
Not him but i'm too timid
Whenever i want to do something agressive my mind goes
>Stop, it's not worth it, turn and walk away
Your bad personality formed from years of not being yourself and trying to do what others want. No matter what advice we can give you, you'll continue having a bad personality, since it's not you being yourself.
good personality is just code for
>knows his place
go against the grain and suddenly your personality is shit
What aggressive things do you want to do?
Be careful not to conflate Aspergers syndrome with iconoclasm.
why would you want to do something agressive?
this so much why cant i just fight back
To kick ass, simple as that
Word of advice. Being yourself is a meme and doesn't actually work. You can be intrinsically a shit person.
Learn how to highlight the aspects of your personality that are palatable. It's still "you" - just the good parts.
whose ass?
I'm a pretty agressive person and It hasn't really benefitted me, you need to be able to stand up for yourself but generally speaking it's better to be the bigger man and walk away assuming you won't look like a huge coward for doing it.
So you're concerned because you have a part of your personality that stops you from, what? Just picking fights with random passers by? That's how it's supposed to be. Why would you aspire to be a crackhead?
Being yourself is the stupidest shit people tell themselves. We are poluted by outdated instincts and brain mechanisms. Good thing about this is you can rewire your brain and change almost anything with enough practice.
One thing you cant go wrong with is becoming stoic.
Let's say someone talks shit about me, right?
I walk up to him, hell i even raise my hand but in the end i back off
If i get pushed over the edge i'm pretty good actually, once took out 2 guys
Well, i guess i don't want to fit into a society ruled by effeminate pussies and loudmouthing "chads" who crumble as soon as their perfect life starts falling apart
i dont give two shits about your opinion i want to know how to not have any thoughts stopping me from punching some cunt
your original looks are your personality
Start getting head injuries or doing steroids.
I wish you the best of luck in becoming the biggest shithead anyone has ever seen.
nice of you to reveal your normalfaggot "righetous" retarded self
No such thing as good or bad personality. All great men have character. Build it.
Are you upset because I was right? If people talking shit about you is starting to become a problem, maybe you might want to look at yourself and figure out if maybe they've got a point. People who work hard and treat others with respect don't usually get shit talked about them.
while you are at it why dont you also castrate yourself you literal retarded cuck
You got me there, buddy. Truly baffling why nobody likes you.
I'm not even the guy you're talking to, but boy do you sound like a male feminist
nice projection by a brainlet. do kneel down before some random weaklings and suck them off because thats manly to you
confidence needs a bit of aggressiveness and women like confidence you idiot
What advice would you give the guy who wants to work up the courage to throw more tantrums?
best case you beat him up and look like a thug
medium case he kicks ur ass or gets his friends to jump you
worst case you get killed or sent to jail for battery
Well, not listening to pic related probably
I thought r9k was somewhat manly but damn, now i see that i don't fit in here too much
the state of literal basedcucks
great cant even post s o y because it gets changed
>I want to punch someone for no reason, teach me how to override the logical part of my brain that realises that is fucking stupid
for literally what reason would you want to attack random people, it benefits you none
So what are you doing on the internet? Go outside and fight somebody instead of trying to flex nuts on Jow Forums of all goddamn places.
are you playing retarded or something? surely no one can be as stupid as you are trying to be
>for literally what reason would you want to attack random people, it benefits you none
It's called being a man and establishing your dominance. It's survival of the fittest out there. You obviously wouldn't know, since you're beta soi cuck nigger lover.
The entire thread summed up so far
>How can I get into more fights?
>he cant even greentext
>tries to pull off this post as some 3rd party agreeing with him
the state of this cuck
Well tell me how much do you bench then sissy
Tell us about the last fight you got into.
How to win friends and influence people is a book on how to not be a fucking austist in life. I recommend.
Not him but i want to tell, it was fun
>two poorfag mantlets gang up on me
>start talking shit about my clotches (wore a ripped tracksuit because no fucks given)
>had a shitty day, a VERY shitty one
>grab one by a hood on his jacket and throw him onto the ground
>start screaming insults on them
>grab second one, punch, his glasses fall off, i stomp on them, keep punching till realisation kicks in
>they run away
>i walk home and drink some cocoa while watching war documentaries
Ah, the good old days of high school
OP, this is something I struggled with for a very long time. I came to the conclusion that people change. Just because you start to act or dress a certain way, does not mean you lose the core of who you are as a person.
so if this core is a bad core
then your fucked
A pice of clay can be many shapes and still be the same pice of clay