So, about 4 days ago in one of my classes a girl gave me her number. I thought this was a great thing, and momentarily ecstatic. The problem I'm facing is the context in which it was given.
She asked me to talk to her after class which I did. She told me she'd like me to join her one night for her young adult church group, as she said it was just a group of similar aged people talking to each other and overall a chill environment. I decided to text her and the nature of the texts are standoffish and a bit too formal. I am an atheist and I told her this over text. She said it was okay either way. At this poitn I had committed to going.
I think she's trying to recruit for her church and only gave me her number because she thought I was an easy target. Am I right about that assumption?
Definitely sounds like she just wants you to join her church. You should go once, since you've already committed to it. But after that, just tell her it's not for you.
sounds like shes trying to recruit you for a cult. Cults use already indoctrinated women to lure in men all the time.
Adrian Collins
this she wants to save you using god. Probably won't go near your penor.
Jose Phillips
She's a bit chubby, but other than that fairly cute.
Probably, she's giving me attention in class, a bit more than I'm used to handling.
I am prepared for the worst case scenario, of just having an awful experience. Have to go since I committed and I don't want to strain our classroom relations.
Joseph Adams
Take weapons, you may have to fight your way out, Kingsman church scene style.
But really tho why show up at all? If you have doubts about if she is interested? Well if she were interested, you wouldn't have doubts. At least this way you can ghost her and take some smug satisfaction in that, because it better than being duped and reminded of that fact every time you see her in class.
John Peterson
>But really tho why show up at all?
I don't want to ghost her as it will create tension and the semester is still young. The class is easy and I don't want things to get awkward.
Carter Bennett
Ah. Well if you want to keep things not weird and see if she is into you, just reschedule, but doing something else.
"I can't make that night, let's go do x on Friday instead"
Biggest indicator tho, is she asked you to go to the church group. She didn't ask to hang out with you. Ie would she still be going out with you, if not for the church group?
Xavier Harris
just go retard
originale
Easton Allen
>Am I right about that assumption? Yeah. Sorry.
Jordan Ramirez
Brutal. If it's you in this thread, let me know. Give me a sign or something. Or just tell me.
Adam Garcia
Not her. C'mon, no proselytizing church girl comes to Jow Forums.
Christian Cooper
People are strange and do strange things. I wouldn't put it past anyone to not visit Jow Forums secretly.
Publicly scorn it, secretly love it. Anonymity is a drug in itself.
Is she like in some class group you'll be with all semester or something? There a ton of people in my college life that I've talked to once in class, seemingly good conversation, that I never talk to again, even though we are in the same class and sit near each other. I never really initiate because I'm so used to fucks since high school acting like I'm some totally new person they have never talked to before even after talking to them before, so I've figured it'd be the same now. Anyways, unless you guys are in some class group that lasts all semester, I don't see why you need to keep up appearances with her.
Joshua Cox
Gonna follow through with it and hope for the best. Hope I don't cringe the entire time I'm there though. Religious cults creep me out.
I think you are right about the context. Its kind of creepy that she said to talk to you after class rather than just walk up to you and talk to you. You could make up some excuse to not go.
She was giving me extra attention in class, asking me questions and stuff after my required speech. She's like, "Hey, user right? Let's walk and talk, there's something I want to talk to you about." Then gave me her number and the rest is history.
Carter Morris
I don't blame you for going through with it, but I guess I still question why you feel like you have to? What's the worry behind disappointing this girl?
Cooper Ward
oh, maybe its just a normal invitation then.
Brody Rodriguez
It seems that is way more likely that OP is being recruited, but it could also mean she took pity on you, in my experience this is almost unimportant to her if it is too much of a formal event, you should take into account where, when, how long, the age of the people going, and what are they going to do. There are chances you could become her friend, but they are not high, seeing as you committed to going and that you are an atheist, I would recommend going and telling her that you may need to go before it ends or also telling her beforehand you may need to that, do not be that curt in refusing next invitations (if there are) or you will be seen like a shitter. These anonsare right, and she will stop inviting you soon after, do not get too worked up over this shit, bitches and whores man
