There are people for whom relationships are not just an abstract unobtainable dream

This thread is oddly positive for Jow Forums

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yeah, kinda weird huh
now if only real life would follow in the same direction

This is real life user, at least a part of it.
The people who say something nice to you are real (maybe not).
But the point is that if someone reads something useful here , that person shouldn't take it in lower regard just because is an "online " message.

I hope you're right user, but the biggest struggle for myself is myself. If I had been more proactive throughout high-school and college I probably could have at least had a gf at some point.
It's almost like I'm afraid of trying.

>If I had been more proactive throughout high-school and college

Don't stress over that, do stuff at your own pace.

But my own pace is one that leads to nothing.

look around you idiot. they are shells of men. none of them, nor the women, exist as we do!

Sometimes I wonder. Would it have been better being oblivious to that feeling forever. Or just experiencing it once, losing it, never to experience it again and occasionally thinking about the good times had.

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It must be so fulfilling to live like that, and be loved by your beloved, and get to spend your days with her. Is a life without love even worth living?

>But my own pace is one that leads to nothing.

How do you know? you are not dead yeat.
Instead of trying to think about a final "destination" or "ideal life" just take a moment to lay down and relax and shit.
If you do that for some months good shit will happen to you. And if don't , at lest you will be relaxed

Ive asked this plenty of Times but ill reask, do you guys feel its harder to get the girl you want in your country? In my place(France) the culture forces you to get along with normies(like everywhere but amplified, generally its like that in western eu) Shy and kinda lonely girls(complete loner girls are just too rare) here are hard to find, the ones i thought were were just closeted stacies, theres also the issue of promiscuity and France is one of the most tolerant towards it so finding a Virgin gf even harder, id like her to be a virgin who WANTS children from the start because im not gonna break my head arguing for it, i just want a housewife really but 90% here want career and will never put their children first so it feels like im doomed, something like pic related Virgin willing to have kids really

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I have a problem where I can't stand people being above me. I think I'm narcissistic. My entire inner monologue is based around judging other people. I could never get a gf because I would have to stoop down to her level. And even if I did I would try and make myself seem above her. I actually hate being like this. Its gotten to the point where I've just isolated myself, and there is nothing but this constant emptiness.

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>pic
Fucking hell, reading that made me start crying like a bitch.
Why is it so hard? Why are we cursed with hearts?

Im sorry m8 it hurted me too when i first Saw it but it also makes me kinda hoping, im sure someone like this existd but its extremly hard to find

>somehow I am both
>lived life as a gf-less loser for 22 years
>get gf for 13 months
>this was years ago now
Its fucking lame. I now somehow have th. The same stress I have from before I lost my virginity (granted it's slightly lesser), while also having a new kind of more visceral stress.
I barely even remember what any of the relationship stuff feels like.

Because we are alive. Because whatever made the rules of life in this universe decided, arbitrarily ostensibly, "Surely these things must suffer", before itnwinked the first microbe into existence.
The rest is history

This hurts to read.
I am Almost 24 for fucks sake

We need to stop with these kinds of images.
If you were in a fucking wheelchair for the rest if your life, woukd you consta toy watch videos of people walking around?

As i said before it hurts but also gives me some hope, idk why exactly, maybe because im just an 18yo zoomer so im not like the 30 yo boomers life wise, im just a mini them so life hasnt had the time to crush me yet

I'm 26.
Hope is fucking retarded. If you hope for something, its just maling it possible for you to be more hurt.
Something you hope for that actually happens was always going to make you happy. But something that you hope for that doesn't happen will always make you feel bad. Objectively, it makes sense not to hope. That's not how life works though

That's a nice pic you got there, I am going to steal it

I know that some of you guys are going to hate me for saying this.
But the girl in tha pic is real, there IS people like that in the world, i'm not promising you that you will ever meet them. but they exist,

Don't give up

Well im not gonna give up yet but how do you know? Do you have one?

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You guys romanticized the issue a lot.
It can't be that perfect I have studied couples and they have very annoying problems, if I wasn't concerned with reproduction is wouldn't even try to have a girlfriend, I want to breed and have glorious children so my name carries on

>If you were in a fucking wheelchair for the rest if your life, woukd you consta toy watch videos of people walking around?
Yes unironically

>they exist,
And already taken by others

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Just give up, who could ever love you? You are pathetic , a mistake that nature needs to eliminate not perpetuate in existence. You feel out of place? Maybe it's because you are broken, it cannot be fixed user you have failed life itself. Enjoy living alone that's the only pleasure you can know.

Did I make you feel better now?

its great if you have self esteem
right now even talking to her hurts because I cant accept that she actually loves me
its almost worse than just being alone

>tfw knew a girl like this
>tfw she dumped me and riding cock carousel

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So you have bread but cannot eat it?
Hahaha life is so funny sometimes.

Hi Elliott I thought you were dead.

Yes now i Can die peacefully

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bump somewhat nice feely thread

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I do, and im as far from a Chad as possible, so don't lost hope.