How do I get over my fear of being cucked...

How do I get over my fear of being cucked? I haven't even had a girlfriend but the thought of me not being able to protect her from someone terrifies me.

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>when you're so immersed in numeme culture that you don't even know what "cuckolding" actually is.

Advice #1: Don't

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You know what I mean. Fear of her cheating, or getting beaten up in front of her and then her leaving me, stuff like that. I just can't shake it from my head. I'm a manlet so im not intimidating and I would lose to most guys in a fight

The nice thing about modern society is that being big and threatening isn't the most important thing anymore. It may be hard to believe, but most women don't like guys that act like aggressive shitheads. Some women do, but those women are trash that you shouldn't be dating anyways. Any potential girlfriend you get is more likely to be turned off by you being insecure about how you stack up against thugs then she is about you not being able to 1v5 a gang of street punks. Stop being a faggot.

Her being unfaithful?
I understand, I usually have this rule of telling my partners about any potential infidelity, including someone asking me for nudes. and I do the same.
How I deal with it is that it happens naturally, especially if your partner is naturally charismatic, I don't mean this in a mean way, like I mean crushes and someone "Hitting" on your partner will happen a lot if they do socialize actively.
I would prefer my partner to tell me, I usually know if I care about them as a person if I get frustrated and anxious instead of annoyed and thinking its nonsense, if that makes sense?
But I usually act childish afterwards, so I think it turns my partner off and ruins our relationship so it doesn't matter. I'm dumb.

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I just realized I blogposted.
Okay, I'm sorry.
Basically my rule is "tell each other first before doing any unfaithful act, or potentially unfaithful" its not malicious if you tell them and you both trust each other, I did this and being faithful to my partner felt rewarding.

[they were all-short term though, which makes me feel like a hypocrit. oh well]

>if my girlfriend tells me she is going to fuck another guy before she does it, it's ok
I usually hate using the word cuck because of how overused it is, but you are a legitimate cuckold. Holy shit.

hi op i am really scared fo being cucked too especially because i am in a rural area and if a cowboy chad initiated combat with me i'd definitely lose the fight (and most likely my gf (male) too)

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You guys should just embrace it. If it happens you weren't strong enough and you should beg the bull to let you watch

OP, fear of being cucked comes from a place of insecurity. You're afraid that she's not *really* attracted to you, that chad could come along and she would dump you. You need to internalize that she genuinely likes you, she's genuinely attracted to you, and you're good enough for her. This is Jow Forums, almost none of us are conventionally attractive/charming/popular so it's easy when we *do* find someone who's attracted to us to doubt it.

If you get a gf then no matter how faithful you are and no matter how much she loves you there will always be other guys that will try to steal her away and usually one will eventually come along that she likes more then you so you must be vigilant and be ready to chase off any other potential suitors before she gets attached to them.

I don't really understand but yeah I guess? but not a fetish way, I think real life sex is gross, but I usually feel emotional numb about everything.

But I was talking more like casual cheating, like sending nudes, does that makes sense?
Plus I'm asexual and I can't think of sex doing good instead of harm, so I have a good reason to believe any future partner of mine will already be sexually active and actually need sex or have a habit of it, since sex is so casual these days.

I'm okay with it as long as they're emotionally intimate with me and keep their Sex Friends at a distance and keep it in private

This is all hypothetical of course, I'm subhuman and mentally unstable so I doubt I'll get a partner again lol


Sorry for derailing your thread OP btw, just tell your partner that you want to be informed.

How do I convince myself of this when literally no girl has ever had an interest in me in the past? Just seems impossible at this point.
This makes me want to an hero

That is not a legitimate concern, just an excuse you use to prevent putting yourself out there. Don't pick fights and don't go to bars. Problem solved. No sane person gets into fights.

Its a very rational fear.

The vast majority of guys out there will literally make an attempt on any girl they see. Doesn't matter if they're fat, ugly, whatever. Another pussy slayed for bragging rights. (its all pink on the inside!) No matter how much you work to improve yourself there will ALWAYS be a guy better out there, and its only a matter of time before he comes along and makes the moves on your girl.

It's scientifically proven that females are weak willed and easily swayed/tempted. There are also literally zero consequences for female infidelity now. So you leave her? So what, females can work so she can provide for herself financially, she is protected from harm by the State and she can instantly rebound with a muscle-cock from Tinder or one of the several guys who were in line behind you. Meanwhile you will be at home staring into a bottle, broken and alone.

I could go on and on about why being in a relationship in today's day and age is a poor decision but in the end, you'll probably walk right into one anyways and will have to learn the hard way.

Yikers, who hurt you user?

My outlook isnt jaded or biased. Its the sad truth.

The fact that you make blanket statements about the entire female sex being shallow and ready to pounce on Jamal at any second says otherwise.

Nah you definitely sound jaded man.

Care to point out where I said that?

I said that females are weak to temptation. There are many studies that prove they fall to it the majority of the time in the heat of the moment.

weak to temptation + being tempted by guys all the time = ?

People have to fight for a gf the exact same as almost every animal has to fight for the right to mate.

You're forgetting about the whole "love" element that most sane people experience.

Of course you probably fall into the camp that stands by the "le love is just chemicals in the brain" arguement in order to convince yourself what you breifly had wasn't meaningful in any way.

Statistics and studies can be manipulated to fit any world view if you try hard enough.

Either ur a girl or a blue pilled simp. This user spake the truth, and I can prove governmental data on it. Blanket statements are statements, they usually arent true, but he spoke facts. If you really don't understand how to use something other than emotions to understand stuff, then you're too retarded even for Jow Forums.

If you want to sway someone's opinion, it is best to speak to their emotions rather than speak fact. To say that emotion has no place in arguements is just plain idiotic.

Again I state that statistics are easily manipulated. You obviously know about the wage gap between men and women. You also probably agree that this is a manipulation of studies and statistics to push political agenda.

I fear for those around you if you actually believe that women are promiscuous by nature. It seems like you have a huge dose of the hating-all-women pill.

Theres a reason people on this board struggle with relationships. Maybe spend some time looking inwards at what could be wrong rather than blaming 50% of the population for your percieved inferiority.

Also I forgot:

Yikes, who hurt you too user?

Just tie her up

Yeah, this is what I meant but I got called the C word, I wondered who was the wrong? no I really don't know.
I just think my partner has their own self-agency and right to their own life, its none of my business.
Especially if they're more social than me, I just don't want to make them feel bad for living their life, even if I am actually insecure.

your brain is rotted by memes thats why. by the way doesnt cuck mean that you have to know about it and accept it