Why are you guys so mean? It makes me really sad, you should always try your hardest to be kind to others...

I try to be as nice as I can, and not in a "nice guy" kind of way of try and manipulate, but I legit like making people laugh and see them happy, but it takes an effort, and sometimes when I'm down I would like for my peers and friends to initiate the conversations rather than the other way around.

Hopefully I get over it and start being friendly again.

I was (((nice))) but literally all this does is signal weakness to everyone around you and then the vultures descend to take and take until there is nothing left but hate and contempt. If people are nice to you in return it is almost ALWAYS for some monetary gain later down the road that they will use you for. Being nice is only possible when the people around you reciprocate instead of taking advantage EVERY. FUCKING. TIME. You can be nice until youre blue in the face but it is never enough, never ever enough so I just stopped trying to be nice. If being nice only brings me pain and betrayal than whats the point? I cant do it anymore

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can you be my holo cosplayer gf?

>be nice
>have people profit off of you because of that and fuck you over
>become jaded and bitter
>completely lose trust in others and be convinced that if i end up being nice, kind or supportive to anyone else again i'm showing signs of weakness and allow them to try and fuck me over again
>LOOOL YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF YOU FUCKING AWFUL NIGGER ASSHOLE BAD GUY KYS YOU SCUM YOU ARE AN ANGRY BITTER INCEL VIRGIN, NOT NICE PERSON DIE FAGGOT NIGGER
Yeah, I can't possibly think why that would ever happen.

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Because the world was mean to me. I was a quiet kid that never started shit with anybody. But because I was awkward kid with a shitty haircut and horrible acne, most people treated me like dirt. They called me "killer" or "school" shooter just because I had long hair. Normalfags are honestly just as mean as I am, they just seem nicer while theyre treating people like dirt.

I think a healthy balance of kindness and skepticism is important, but everyone on this website has depression tunnel vision and have a hard time seeing the bigger picture. You keep bein nice, always works out better than being an asshole

But I'm currently a boy user. And I'm not that cute.

>Why are you guys so mean?

I don't know for a fact. But I suspect being a bisexual person with mental illness (delayed phase sleep syndrome and attention disorder) raised by strict religious parents has something to do with it.

well you can transition and become cute

I actually knew some people who gave me the "vibe" of being harmless, I never got a feeling of raw anger from them, most of them were reasonable and calm, i just got that feeling from them.

Unrelated to that.

Anyway, I agree with you that people on here... are too eager to be rude, someone doxxed me since I was autistic and I can only assume they were upset they thought a autistic person was hot,
they said in the thread that they acted autistic like I did to get more nudes from me, posted my contact and advised other anons to act autistic to get nudes from me.
[His words, not mine]

Also this was all indirectly dumb, since if I had PIV sex, I would be pregnant and could had a autist baby with the one of the anons he sent me

Poor guy didn't really think that far

Girls have nothing to do here, you should just pretend to be a boy if you don't want those deluded 2D pilled anons to do shit to you because they believe you're some hot anime girl.

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Well I didn't wanna say this on the thread where I'm complaining about people being mean to others, for obvious reasons, but im like 90% sure I'm gonna transition soon.

Being nice to random people is often seen as weakness. I learned this working fast food.
If people know they can get free food they'll try every deceptive measure they can think of with their clever little smoothbrain.
>Monkey complains their food wasn't fresh enough
>Ok bring it back and I will toss it out and we will make it fresh
>She can't bring it cuz she ate it already
Sure I have to pretend to asskiss the customer but still I will lay down the law because none of these people deserve anything.
Kindness=weakness is also why communism collapsed and failed and turned into a dictatorship in disguise. Because you can't just ask people to volunteer to work when jobless sub-apes live for free and get equal rights as you. UBI is possible, but we would need a Starship Troopers esque Citizenship program to make people motivated to pitch in to society. And commies don't wanna be relegated to an underclass because they believe themselves to be equal. So they will never be happy anyways.

Moral of the story is that being kind gets you taken advantage of by people who don't understand kindness.

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I want to be kind to you.

No, it wasn't like that.
a user was reasonable and told me what happened, so it turned out for the best.
I nuked the account.
I didn't want to really blame any of the anons who listened to him, herd mentality is real and people get too caught up in things. [I don't mean they're subhuman or anything, I just think herd mentality is far too easy to fall into]

I'm only nice online.

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>Or even insulted you behind your back?

That would break my heart.

because the people here are toxic and bitter

Fuck off slut. Only men whove been jaded by female rejection can be robots. Go find your own loser girl group.

You can be kind, you just have to have a backbone and defend yourself when they are using you.

"You can rely on me, but don't you fuck with me" kind of attitude

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I just want to have a special bond with you. Just you and I against the world.

Yeah I'm starting to think this board isn't a good place for me. Still you really should try to work on being nicer, even just a little bit. How can people ever progress and grow when everyone goes out of there way to put other people down?

Exactly. This is why you should never be too kind to strangers. They won't see gifts as acts of kindness, they see it as things they get for free if they act a certain way. You could call this sociopathic behavior arguably but it's just how it is.

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I don't care about anyone else. I've been hurt before, but I see in you a kindred soul.

You didn't give a single reason to be kind to anyone though. Faggot

You can do it user
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Wtf you actually tried to ask femal gtfo my board normalfag

Well I guess treat others how you would like to be treated. I don't really have a good reason on why you should be nice to others, maybe I was just raised with better morals than you.
Thanks.

Then let's celebrate this moment as important! I would pour drinks if I was home.

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I'm pouring a $90 whisky just for you.I just want to be special to you.

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You don't have to do that. I'm just some random voice on the internet. This conversation won't be remembered anyways.

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>Why are you guys so mean?
Generally speaking: misdirected anger, unresolved trauma.

I'll remember. As I wade through the wearing banality of life, at least I'll have this brief moment of beauty and respite. I'd like to imagine a beautiful world where you and I could live a life of abundance. I would cook you any delicacy you desired and brew for you any drink you could dream. Cider, wine, beer, and even spirits. there's nothing I wouldn't create for you.

Being nice just makes me think I'm going to be used desu, that's usually how it turns out along with bullying too. Being nice as a kid got me chased around the school and having the popular kids steal and put the two friends I had against me.

A pleasant dream. Ty for this imagery user.

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I think the trouble is knowing WHEN to be nice. Being nice and respectful can be like an investment and come back to pay you 10 fold in awesome shit in the right circumstances - but at the same time that doesn't mean be a door mat. Know when to put your foot own and tell someone that they're being a dick

Listen to this dude, this here is the true strategy

I have so much I want to share with you. All I have labored so hard to achieve.If I could I would eliminate any financial hardships for you and lay bare my soul. Any dreams or whims you hold, I would do my best to make them into reality.

Quite the devotion you have to a phantom you've never met. A depressed loser whose only solace is LARPing as an anime girl in online forums.
Online is nice though. Here we can imagine perfect worlds, instead of reality where our only destiny is to eventually kill each other. People have been trying to make these dreams a reality since the beginning of time, or some who trick themselves into thinking the afterlife will reward them for their struggle. I think the internet is the greatest tool for letting our subconscious souls be in another realm, if only temporary. Something that feels real, beyond both religion and reality.
Enjoy these moments while you can, they will surely seek to take them from us.

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What in the fuck is wrong with you niggers

You're special to me. This is a rare and fleeting moment we have to share. I'm excited by how much you indulge me. It steels for the harsh world where such beauty and sincerity is lost. I'd gladly kneel before you and kiss you.

It's called love. You'd be able to experience it if you weren't so calloused and without imagination.

Pretty sure you're delusional and schizophrenic.

I was delusional when i was good person most of time.
Ony things that show status metter to Npcs.
To spiritualist they care that much as you know about things.
Materialists it is in name.
Non good for nothing gray neutrals keeping to them selfs.
This world is beyond hope in material and spiritual planes and don't let me start about spiritual planes.
I'm NOT slashing projections of life in my perspective. let it be known everyone is only for themself but not in only one meaning

Maybe, but at least I'm sincere and brave enough to lay my vulnerability.

You may be a depressed loser, but for this brief moment you are mine. You are worth more to me than existence itself.As an anomaly, I just want to smother you with my love and devotion.

Delusion/love but they are really the same thing if you think hard enough. Don't have to be a hardass online nowadays cuz often you'll just be ignored.

In my base and lewd imagination, I envision an eternity where we may share ourselves with each other in their perfect entirety. Know that my heart will always yearn for your sweet mercy. I will always keep you dear to my heart and protect you from malice.

niceness is a weakness in this world, if it wasn't people would be nice, you think it makes you a better person and that people will like you but in reality you'll just end up being the town bicycle getting fucked by everyone

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Why do other people advise or even urge others to be really nice to everyone they'd meet?
Do they just want the other person to suffer?

because it is not socially acceptable to be an asshole in public and would affect your reputation

After being nice to people results in you getting used, abused, manipulated and betrayed enough times, it becomes really hard to muster up the energy to be nice to people.

Being nice to others makes me feel sick.
It always has.
I get this feeling in my throat and it makes me really uncomfortable.
I'm not exactly nice but I try to be polite and considerate of others.

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