>tfw co-workers all chat with each other casually
>I don't speak to any of them
>tfw no friends and no social skills
>Friday night and at home, browsing the web, just like every other night
Why me, how can I be charismatic and "cool" to be around
To keep it fit related
>Tfw manlet, about 5'7" and 170lbs (been told I look thin)
>Guys who look good in CBT threads that are my height are usually around 150lbs
Should I cut more? How do I get abs?
there sure are a lot of these "i don't know how to socialize with my coworkers" threads
have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, you're perfect just the way you are?
You'll make social games once you stop giving a fuck.
Post your body you fucking faggot.
>>Guys who look good in CBT threads that are my height are usually around 150lbs
most of cbt are thin my dude
just ask them how they're week/weekend whatever was
girls love that shit
Take interest in people, smile often, be sincere and dont forget to compliment people. Be nice but dont be a yes man.
Kinda related. Most of my co workers say hello and chat with me casually, but a few, (all girls), just look at me with their peripheral vision with an unhappy expression on their face.
They make me uncomfortable so i usually try to avoid looking at them.
Why do they do that? I have never talked to them, or at most said good morning.
>pic related
Depends. Are you on the Chad or incel side of the spectrum?
Neither. I am a 6.5/10 at best, 4.5/10 at worst (though I am 6'2), chink/spic mutt.
dont do this user in class i had this huge crush on a girl (17/30, but her voice was so amazing) and i didn’t filter my /pol and long story short holocaust denial is not popular with the ladies
I support this comment.
Well, I have issues with women and people in general.
I tend to not make friends easily, distrust, and hate people. I don't understand women and so I dislike them from the start. Especially with all of the gay social shit they do.
>Taking Jow Forums seriously
Oh, then just accuse them of racism. Sue and retire early
One of the girls is Asian, the other one is Indian and the last one, latina.
All the white women are very polite, and smile/greet me as normal.
Be yourself doesn't mean to tell them every uncomfortable truth about yourself user. Keep the holocaust denial and hentai collection to yourself like the rest of us do.
They’re intimidated by you then, as you’re an ubermensch 6’2” ethnic specimen
>be loner in high school
>be recluse neet for 2 years out of high school
>go to college, completely alone there too, eventually drop out
>decide to stop being a sad cunt
>start talking to people at new school, establish myself in a group
>go after women, have satisfying rate of success
>still the omega in the group
>still not called to go out by anyone
>all the girls flaked on dates
the ride never ends buddy
>>Guys who look good in CBT threads that are my height are usually around 150lbs
most of them lie or can't measure themselves properly.
i guess you're right user.
pic related, me
I love making friends with all kinds of people and flirting with "normal" girls while having the knowledge that I jerk off to incest furry underage bestiality hentai
They'll never find out
Remember that plenty of these so-called normal people have all sorts of depraved kinks
If I can socialize just fine and seem like a normie to you if you met me in the street, think about how many other people are probably like that
BDSM is pop culture but it's pretty weird if you think about it
At 5’7” 170 lbs you should only look thin if you are very skinnyfat- is that so?
Whats a good way to start convos with people, specifically women?
Public place eye contact how’s your day going
Holy fuc is that Brittany Pettibone??
at work or class? starting is easy, keeping it going and turning into a friendship is the part I'm trying to figure out.
"Looking good ladies" with a respectful nod.
>how to abs
cut more, aim for
Google says rachel cook
Then just walk away, they will come later.
Works everytime.
built manlets look twice as pathetic as regular manlets due to the fact that it is clear to everyone that they are trying to compensate for what they lack in height. focus instead on having good health generally by eating a nutritious diet and doing lots of cardio
Muscle mass, bone density, and tendon strength is important to cultivate, especially into old age. No need to cycle for that, though.
and when you have nothing to say back? I do the same shit every weekend, i.e. nothing.
Maybe because none of us know how to socialize you dumb normie
>how do I develop socially
delete all photos like the one you posted from your pc/phone as a start
Sports breh
Start watching whatever sports they watch and learn and be able to have a conversation about it. Started following basketball earlier this year and that shit has boosted my social game significantly. Really only works for conversation with guys but women will respect the fact that you can shoot the shit with the boys. Also try to actually have a genuine interest in the sport, don’t just fake it
>holocaust denial is not popular with the ladies
Truth rarely is. Become so high value that it's seen as mysterious instead of weird
>17/30
What kind of bizarre raining system do you use?
Also, you gotta learn to hide your power level until you have comfirmed they aren’t a libshit. And even then you gotta slowly build up to it, not drop crematorium statistics on them out of the gate. Get it together man.
to be simple, being fit wont change who you are.
lifting will get you good at lifting.
to fix your social problem you may need to find a different outlet to train your social skills. go to a gym, ask people for advice on how to lift better. listen to how others communicate and mimic methods that are successful.
abs = low bodyfat, thats it.
You can't talk to people because you are boring.
Avoiding eye contact and not being interested in them tells them
You don't care so they ignore you.
And obviously being a racist idiot is going to get you excluded from social groups. It's only on the internet where you echo chamber and think that it's normal to hate minorities or others. The rest of the world doesn't care about it you just think they do.
As always - it's entirely on you. If you want something to change then you have to change. That is the only adult mature thing to do.
Alternatively just sulk and cry on the internet and blame everyone else.
>believing the jew
also i grew up in lebanon and schools there make sure to warn you about the jew instead of listening to them
i said it in the form of a joke, english class and my teacher was unironically wearing a shirt that said goldberg on it. He was talking about the pittsburg shooting before changing gears to the alleged event. And my rage gave me what i thought was a funny joke
>the worst thing about the holocaust is that you can’t make jokes about, 200 thousand people died and if you try to make a joke to ease the tention people treat you like youre a worse version of hitler
like three people laughed really loud but they were dudes. FUCK man, she was definitely into me too, after class one time she introduced herself to me and i sperged didn’t ask if she wanted to do anything etc... Who knows she might still be into me but she stopped saying hi everytime she sees me
you’re sick in the head this is precisely why i don’t make friends. So many people are degenerates and i have no interest in discovering how depraved the jew corrupted mind becomes.
working on it
patrice oneal’s his one makes way more sense. She isn’t exactly a 6/10 but she ain’t a 7/10 either
Honestly dont man. You’re a special snowflake and people dont understand that. Dont go out of your way for anyone. Make a friend or two and chill its not tht hard. Just say hi and ask them if they are anonymous
>Why me, how can I be charismatic and "cool" to be around
Start by
>co-workers all chat with each other casually
Doing this
Stop trying to be "cool". You don't have to amaze everyone with your unique experiences and talk hours upon hours. You'd most likely come off as a vapid, self-absorbed cunt if you did. I happened to talk a bit to some of my classmates after 3 years in uni barely talking to anyone, they thought I previously ignored and snobbed them.
You need to lower your standards, for yourself and probably others too. The average person is pretty mundane.
Maybe you should post it on Jow Forums or Jow Forums then you fucking newfag.
>tfw co-workers all chat with each other casually
>I don't speak to any of them
Literally me
>You can't talk to people because you are boring.
how do i not be boring?
Who's the thot?
rarely do people make eye contact with me in public. most people are looking at their phones or their friend, or straight ahead
if they do look at me, they quickly look away or sometimes roll their eyes
Read a lot. Do things that you like doing that you can talk about passionately. I will say that bitches nowadays are addicted to their phones. Literally checking them every 30 seconds. If you're talking to someone like that, they are the problem, not you
>caring what a woman thinks about politics
FUcking cringe
>caring what normies think about """the holocaust"""
LOL
It's already over once you leave full-time education with no social circle.
This sounds like the job I just quit, expect I was one of the only white people working there and it was largely black and Hispanic with 2 Asians. It was the same deal. Most would try making small talk, most girls would avoid me except for the ones that wanted to fuck me. I had gotten super anxious around girls when I fucked up a hookup with one ugly ass black girl there.
>Do things that you like doing that you can talk about passionately
such as? i don't have many interests tbqh
>I will say that bitches nowadays are addicted to their phones
i notice this too. girls will be more interested in guys with friends that goes on adventures and has a social life.
a girl would rather be with a guy who can invite her to parties and have fun, than the guy who is passionate about Video games
I hear people say this and honestly all I can say is you're a fucking pussy
I used to be like you, never talking and through cope I thought I was "better" than everybody. It's all a fucking cope, all humans want social interaction you're just too scared to get it. You're going to ignore this post and feel good about the posts ITT reinforcing your ego, but you really are just a big fucking pussy. You're scared of what people will think of you
How do the joos get away with the 6 gorillon crap when the armenians, indians, everyone who got genocided harder don't get as much attention? Fucking kikes
based carlotta champagne poster
>a girl would rather be with a guy who can invite her to parties and have fun, than the guy who is passionate about Video games
that won't matter if you look like pic related
If she believes in the Holocaust, she isn't worth your time in the first place.
That joke was funny as fuck dude, I would've laughed
>"To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize"
based
I have been told on multiple occasions that people only like me before they actually have to talk to me.
"I liked you better when you didn't talk" -Word for word from some bitch I went to school with
You gotta be interested in people. Ask Them about shit they think is interesting.
Make a game out of it. Try to let them talk for as long as possible.
Also get bigger.
Read this book. I can't stress about how important is it. Changed my life.
dude hit the genetic lottery
That doesn't actually work. It's bullshit advice that popular people throw out because they don't actually know. It's like saying be yourself. Worthless.
>it's like saying be yourself.Worthless
Wrong, it does work but people don't understand what being yourself truly mean
I've given up trying to fit in with normies. I look at what they do and I can't understand it, and they can't understand me. I don't want to play their game and accommodate them, so I just stay alone.
This picture makes me like thin women jesus
What is no fap november doing to me
>thought I was "better" than everybody
i don't think i'm better than anybody, i think i'm worse
>not attractive
>no social skills
>no friends
>khv
>shit life
i re-read that book last week.
i saw hi to people, smile all the time
i'm not the best at being interested, i don't want to pry on people's personal lives, and have a hard time coming up with questions to ask people that is not too personal and is related to something they say
>I'm not the best at being interested
If you goal is to gain social skill you have to change
>i don't want to pry on people's personal lives
Same
>nd have a hard time coming up with questions to ask people that is not too personal and is related to something they say
Do not be afraid and you will make friend. Be friendly, familiar and poeple will be at ease with you
Classic Aussie. What a lad.
Posted just to say I was there
Daily reminder that it's all about your childhood. Developing a personality is a feedback loop, gotta have friends to make friends. Every time you socialise you train yourself to be more confident and extroverted, you develop a personality that others are drawn to, you go out and have experiences that shape you into an interesting person.
Alternatively, you can be shy and drift through childhood without really doing anything or speaking to anyone. By your late teens you've missed too many developmental milestones to catch up, you will always be shy and boring and socially awkward. Nobody wants to be around you, least of all women.
OP here, the worst thing of all is i work with normies every day. new coworkers are able to make friends with a lot of people quickly, while i've been here for years and don't have a single friend from my coworkers
they party together, talk to each other (workplace gossip, like people leaving for better jobs, people getting fired, etc. are known among people well before i do. i usually have to overhear people talking about it to know or wait for the thing to happen [someone quitting]), most of the girls are good looking. it's a client facing job, so we hire cute girls over those with brains
>currently working with a new employee, fresh college grad, that's a 8/10
>we don't chat casually, just skype to each other "hi good morning", and "have a good night/weekend"
don't even know what else to say to her
Great book for normies, completely wasted on robots.
hobbies, particularly those that can be enjoyed in a group
>it's all about your childhood
Wrong. I know many people including me who were bullied at school because we were slow, fat and harmless and doing great socially. I started to get out of my basement at 20, fighted social anxiety, started lifting (it was difficult and shameful as a fatass to not being able to lift an empty bar). I'm now skinnyfat, looks are improving, have a degree, got a job, go out with friends that I made at school at 24 year old every 2 weeks, had the balls to confess to a coworker I liked, got friendzoned but that's okay i will improve myself and chase other girls.
It's all about your mindset, do you wish to die like a shit or fighting against fate