I get a good amount of attractive Tinder matches (8 and 9`s).
The problem is I never message them, cause I feel like if we met in person they wouldn`t like me anyway.
Since i`m semi-Builtfat and not shredded I feel like im disgusting or they`ll be revolted once they see me in person or I am undeserving, so I don`t ever do anything.
How do I fix my mind
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>8s and 9s
>On tinder
Yeah right, they are all -2 irl
I wonder if related:
>Young Me chilling in class
>Group of girls laughing nearby
>start to listen more closely
>TFW They are talking about how disgusting it would be to touch, kiss, lick me etc.
>Used to think I was johnny Bravo
>Realize I am yvon of Yukon
are you confident in yourself brother? do you have a life plan and actively working towards it? can you get married tomorrow and start a family?
these things are important and you shouldn't be dating if you are not secure
It is an inbuilt protection system, your brain is wary of a higher probability of a negative outcome that will hurt you.
You are Jonny Bravo
They're probably thinking the same thing
Also HS:
>Changing for Gym Class
>Have to take Piss
>I leave few minutes later than rest of class
>Exit Changing Room
>Trailing behind good friend and nice girl who sits next to me in class
>She asks friend where I am, then says ``Oh it probably takes him much longer to change cause of how fat he is Lol``
>So called friend laughs
>Ultimate Betrayal
>Self worth destroyed
I don't even understand how i don't get fuqs from tinder. I think im at least a 7/10 maybe even 8/10 but i get nothing. Only ever met 2 girls on there what the fuck
Thats the weird thing, I`m super good at being social, can speak in front of crowd no problem, am confident since lifting. Life is on track, in school though so prob cant support senpai yet.
Also, I`ve had a Gf and been on two tinder dates before and they both went well.
It`s just weird like i dont have the drive to even try cause of my fucked mind. Im trying nofap November
How do I fix this though
Do facepulls so fast the cord hits me in the head and snaps me out of it?
Whats your Profile like?
I used this guide it helped. key is good photos and decent description
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>Since i`m semi-Builtfat
Get lean. Having visible abs and a nice flat stomach is a massive confidence booster.
The only way is to get shredded, then your problems will go away
pls post your tindr pics and bio user
man fuck kids. everyone is so fucken horrible until they find out what's acceptable in society.
Thanks bro, one day
yeah weighing 70kg soaking wet is a "massive confidence booster''
fucking tiny dyel retard
Will do in a sec but gotta blur face pics
And ill give you the gist of my description so it doesnt get copied to shit out of nowhere
Idk if this will help my situation though lol
As in the sense that he was an autist and constantly dropped and laughed at by woman
Ight here they come
You should post your`s too so I can give you some constructive criticism though
Lol bio doesnt matter i get about 20 matches a day and thats my profile lmao
My description isnt that filled out either. Just some copy pasted joke from the internet and my height since im not a manlet. Also list my jobs as weird stuff like Wizard, Handshake Analyst etc
Key tips I can give you though my dude are:
>Link good Insta Account with good pics
>get some photos with that depth of field effect, if your camera cant get a friends or buy an app to do it afterwards
>Like a bunch of shit chicks like on FB so the shared stuff shows up, just dont do the Playtex fb page or some creepy shit
>Pick either funny or popular soundcloud anthem
>DO NOT SWIPE RIGHT LIKE CRAZY, the way the algoritm works is it`ll start showing you later or not at all to good looking girls
>To combat above, swipe selectively or buy tinder plus or gold and change your location to africa or some place you ll never go and just swipe left for an hour while doing something else
>List your height if 6ft or higher and If 6ft list 6`1, if 5`11 List 6ft
>For Pictures follow this guide
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that should help
Here are some chick Pics for Reference
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Also, Is it weird for a 25 year old to bang 18-19 year olds?
Forgot to add one piece of advice
If you buy boosts or upgrade, that shit can get you mad matches as well, just make sure to use them sunday evenings when the most people are on tinder
black - woudn't bang
toes too long - woudn't bang
nice
Unfortunately OP, many girls that swipe you right won't actually reply if you message them. Don't get your hopes up until they do.
Blonde actually messaged me first......
Besides that I got 862 Matches.....So some definitely will, just messed up I have some sort of mental block where I can`t even try and find out
Get me laid, /fit
say ``Im going wrap your legs around my head and wear you like the crown that you are``, shits from a movie, worked a couple times for me
get cut
>Tinder
This is your problem.
The image you build up of the girls you're speaking to is a lie.
You don't know how they carry themselves, their voice, their smell.
And they don't know the same about you.
You're scared you won't match their image.
Go outside and live your life, the right girl will fall into your lap.
>Go outside and live your life, the right girl will fall into your lap.
YIKES
Goofys a dog. Does she fuck dogs?
ok, then 6s and 7s, still great
That Michael cera movie with the split personality and the scene where Justin long doses his parents with LSD and the scene with the navy fags disassembling and reassembling a car in the house with all the fuids still in, and that scene with the... Wait, is that the same movie? Zach gilifinawhateverhisnameis is the dad right?
hol up... you dont?
>The effect won’t just be an increase of one or two matches each day… but an increase of 2x, 5x or even 10x the amount of quality girls that you’re matching with right now.
Any number times zero is still zero.
>used tinder a few years ago
>would get one or two matches a week
>reinstalled two months back
>less than 10 matches total, only one hookup
my latest match was a fat chick
I didn't even realize I had gotten so ugly
No, tinder used to be great before. These days it's a shitshow.
Get therapy. Everyone here has some degree of self loathing, but it can be worked on.