I've got a pretty girlfriend that I've been together with since we've been teens. Everything is fine and she's good wife material to have a family with.
But I lust for thots, I feel like I'm missing out on fucking random hoes. Also because it's easy for me to get them since I lift + face. How can I stop being a degenerate?
You will regret it
You just can't run away that easily from sexual desire. You want a thot because that's what men want. We are not designed to dedicate our sperm to one single person. We are designed to spread it as far and wide as possible.
That is not an excuse though. Recognise what is going on, and recognise your urges, and try to see through them
In the end, you can fuck as many thots as you like, but it will never be enough. You will never satiate your thirst. This is chaotic, since nothing remains, just the memory of busting a nut. And you just cannot let yourself depend on chaos.
Exact same issue. No clue brother
You are thots yourselves, now begone
I knew this feel. I was together with a girl for 6 years. We broke up, realize thots are ruining western society.
It is extremely difficult to meet someone who is not a degenerate themselves.
Now I lift for my country, my people, my race, our future and if course my cat and my dog.
You won't. The feeling will always be there in the back of your mind and will increase over the years. Some periods you will crave it less but it will always come back. Either you talk about it with your girlfriend and you break up or you ultimately cheat and have horrible sex with some random whore. After that you'll realise that fucking whores is nothing compared to the comfort of having a girlfriend but it will be too late.
>t. together from 16-22 with my ex
Think about it in long-term. Do you wanna endulge in your lust for a bit and then grow old lonely or maybe even with a woman that you don't like. Or do you wanna keep the nice thing you've got going on for you right now and grow old happily?
I got some advice, take this thread over to Jow Forums where it belongs and take rest rest of them with you
>glutesforthesloots.jpeg
>grow old lonely or maybe even with a woman that you don't like
Horrible advice, that fear kept me with my long distance girlfriend for years while not being in love anymore. There are so many women out there and if you're not autistic you will meet a girl that you'll grow old with later in your life.
You're probably young, fuck some chicks, make some memories, and settle down when you feel like it. You'll regret it later when the both of you are eachothers' only partner and you get a divorce at 60.
I have a perfect solution for you:
Fuck the thots and stay with your gf.
Make sure your gf doesn't know.
No more pornography.
Channel all sexual energy into your gf.
She'll notice, appreciate and reciprocate.
Sorry, forgot to post pic related
Agreed.
That's immoral my dude.
I was in a relationship for 6 years with a pretty girl, we got together when she was still a teen. I broke us up and screwed around for a while, realised how shitty it was. She wouldn't take me back. She's now happily married with a child meanwhile sometimes I bang sluts I don't even care about. I would give anything to go back to her. I literally think about her even single day; I think I've ruined my life.
>long distance for years
Shut the fuck up, retard. You are in no position to advise anyone.
Grass is always greener on the other side brother. Unless your gf is a bitch and your relationship is messed up, you’d be making a mistake.
Thots are fun for the first few then you’ll want nothing but a relationship and have a hard time finding what you once had.
fuck, I'm just broke up with my gf and am now starting to regret it. I was hoping you'd say you moved on...
>long distance
>cuck
You don’t actually care you fucking retard, if you didn’t want to be a degenerate then you wouldn’t have thot pictures saved on your computer, you wouldn’t look at porn, and you’d actively avoid anything that you see as degenerate. You’re just a faggot who cries and craves attention.
just leave your gf since shell cheat on you or divorce you if you get married anyway, go have fun fucking thots in your youth men dont have a wall to hit and you can always find another gf later
You're not missing out on anything, it's a waste of time, be glad you have a gf that is pretty.
I had an ugly one and she cheated on me and broke up with me.
I can't answer that for you but at least I could share my own experience. In life you can't have everything. People who try to have their cake and eat it too end up getting burned eventually, if not by being caught, but by the guilt that follows.
I was a virgin until 25. I got in shape and figured out dating, sex, and women, I had a lot of fun, traveling, having lots of sex, sometimes up to 4 girls at the same time on rotation. Really got addicted to the ego boost and I would say this time of my life was where I was most sexually fulfilled.
I'm marred now to a woman I'm happy with and have only had sex with her since we started dating three years ago. Honestly, I miss the times where I was having sex with lots of girls. Even if a lot of these girls weren't as attractive as my wife, it was the fact that it was something different that fed me.
Point is, whichever side you choose, you will look at the other side and wonder what it's like. If it were me in your shoes, if this is a pretty, loyal girl who has been nothing but good to you, you would be a fucking idiot to give that up. I've been with over 50 women in my life. A good woman is hard to find, just as a good man is.
Maybe my wife won't let me do anal, or ever do a threesome, or even be as attractive as some of the girls I've dated (though she's still fine as fuck to me), but out of ALL the girls I've met, she's been the kindest, most loyal, and most supportive, and there is no doubt in my mind there she is all in for me. Yes, I still wonder what it would be like, but it has more to do with my ego than my desire to fuck other girls. if I see an attractive woman smile at me or act nervous around me, I do wonder what would be the harm in going back to my old ways, but I always think of my wife and her beautiful face, and I realize how incredibly stupid that would be.
That's ok. Don't fall for pol memes.
based and red pilled
You've fucked your pair bonding, there's literally no fix.
I had a 2 year gf sweetheart at 16-17. 7/10 personality, 9/10 face, 9/10 body. Broke up with her so I could be free to bang sluts at university. I regretted it for a few years, but now I don't. She wasn't wife material. If she was wife material it would be tbe biggest mistake ever, though in that case I probably wouldn't have ended it.
There will ALWAYS be the urge to binge on thots, even when you're 70 you'll still be fantasising about tight young puss. A wife is a woman worth overcoming the urges to be with exclusively. Dedication is manhood.
It's the instant gratification vs. longterm happiness. It's the same with food, lifting etc. basically anything in life worth having is taking some willpower and abstention from these "right now feel good" things.
Same is with the thots, nothing wrong with you wanting to fuck some, just rub one off like the rest of decent men and be done with it. Or if you and your gf are open to it, get some other pair to swing with, or 3some or something like that.
Might be harder for you if you are super attractive, I mean in the sense that thots actively approach you and want to fuck you, in that case I would suggest to be mindful, don't indulge in flirting with them(with it's just a flirt mindset) and don't go anywhere with loaded gun. There's one truth and that's no matter how you think you love your girlfriend or how strong your willpower is, there's nothing a slightly drunk man can do against an attractive female who wants to fuck him.
This is 100% accurate.
I was in a 5 year relation with a qt3.14 waifu material girl. We broke up because, among other things, she wanted to marry and have kids and all that good stuff, and I don't want that kind of family life. To this day I don't regret it, I'm not getting fresh pussy every weekend, but I can't complain, I enjoy meeting new girls and being alone or doing shit by myself. I've discovered about myself that, as much as I loved my ex, I'd rather be alone and honestly I deeply enjoy this massively autistic lifestyle I have built.
However, as you call it "fucking random hoes" is not that great. Trust me. It's a night or two of (if you're lucky) decent sex, and on the best case scenario that's it. In the worst case they might get attached to you in one way or another, some of those girls have serious daddy issues and will get you into trouble, others might give you STDs, and some of them are just not worth the time you spend talking to them before they sit on your face. To be honest, the best thing about it is the recognition you get from other men, mostly your friends and such, it's like having money, being a vet or having a very respectable job, other men approve and makes you more "chadlike". Again, this is retarded, your own value should not depend on how much of a "player" your pals consider you.
In the end it all comes to making the decision, do you think you'll be happier being a father, a husband and a loving partner/provider, or being a lone wolf? One gives you freedom but danger, the other gives you stability but boredom. Whatever you choose, you might regret it in the future.
Also, there's kind of a middle path, maybe talk to her about having an open relationship, or some other retard shit.
No magic girl overrides your urge, pair bonding is the innate mechanism that removes that urge but when you move past 2 women as a man that's fucked and gone. You will always feel the need to sleep around and chances are won't have a happy marriage.
>reciprocate
This is how I know you're not in a long term relationship.
you either get it out of your system. but being with your high school sweetheart will never be the same.
or you realize that the grass is always greener saying is true, and deal with that as a man.
AND i fucking hate social media. its so hard to find a girl that isn't constantly checking up on her ig feed or snapchat every 30 fucking seconds.
Look at all this fucking beta cucks. When did this board become so fucking sad? It's because of all the fat Jow Forumstards memeing and spreading their cancer for the past year? hurr durr degeneracy shills. What the fuck have we become.
Get ripped, fuck bitches, snort coke, beat PRs, travel the world, try ayahuasca, get in a fist fight and die in a sauna before you get old and boring.
RIP Zyzz
Married to a girl I've been with since 20, both only slept with each other and the idea of sleeping with another girl actually repulses me a bit. Feels good that i avoided the jewing.
Based
>I've been together with since we've been teens
ay yo bix nood muhfugga
It's not worth it. Meaningless sex is awful. You'll panic over pregnancy and STDs for a small amount of pleasure followed by an overwhelming sense of loneliness and regret
We were together during most of highschool, had a blast, moved abroad for uni and we spent 2 years trying to make it work.
Stupid fucking retards.
nofap
>t. complains endlessly about women doing the same thing
> everyone's as beta as me
shut the hell up
>She'll notice, and get irritated that you're always pestering her for sex
ftfy
I am in first gf territory, been with 2.5 years, love a lot, but the sex isn't that fantastic (not awful either) and I just think, do I want to go on 1 first date in my entire life? There are some interesting people out there to meet and fuck
This.
I was feeling like OP, so I broke up with a girl I had been living with for five years. She was fine and all but I honestly want more bitches and that's alright. It's better than cheating.
All these faggots must be uggos and skinnyfats.
this is 1000% not true. There is a thick line between love and sex. You can love your girl and want to fuck other woman.
Yo're a fucking man, not a robot. Have your fun on the side with a chick who knows the deal and you'll be twice as happy.
Marry her and put babies in her. Fatherhood changes you for the better,
I used to think this but it's way harder to get a side chick once they think you are serious with your girl. Plus if the girl you love finds out shell be hurt and shit and she will probably forgive you the first time which will only make you feel way worse and make you better at liar.
You can love lots of bitches for small periods of time. It's fun.
Damn user I'm sorry for you. Once that ends you'll feel like shit.
When I was in a relationship and I had to move and it became long distance. Couple months after I moved, I started to lift more and get more attention from girls and the entire time I wanted to fuck all the time. But now that we have broken up, I don't feel that drive as strongly anymore and now feel like I want a genuine connection with another person that I can share my life with.
Fuck my adhd instant gratification brain
Convince her to become a swinger. Then you can both fuck THOTS and Chads.
Or get her into more kinky sex.
shut up mo
This
What an absolute cuckold.
I had an absolutely amazing girl from age 16-19 and got caught up in the cookie cutter bullshit in college hook up culture. Cheated on her, broke her heart, and threw it all away just for some stupid whores. 5 years later, I'm really regretting it. She's married already and pregnant. I stalk her Facebook pictures some nights drinking alcohol and crying like a bitch. Worst part is its all my fault, I fucking hate myself. I would give anything to have her back again.
Honestly I came to say unironically this
Whatever happened to this board baka
This happens to me user, every time I end a relationship but being single is way better, be strong user.
Based
this is fake and gay. All fathers I know become miserable over time. Kids are annoying and marriages fail, even those that seem happy on the outside, are fucking dead and boring and full of regret, or one of the two is cucking the other.
lmao. this board sounds more like a brazil soap opera each day
Why the fuck do you want to rush in having a family and be an old fuck as soon as possible?
You are better by yourself user, go fucking lift, learn some new language, make money, travel the world, slay pussy, you've got this.
Ya I'm in my early 20's, so I feel like no matter what I'm not going to be able to have long term feelings for someone right now.
different than but earlier this year I broke up with my gf and we both moved back to our parents. We are now back together, it just took some time to realise we need to start appreciating eachother's time more. And making more effort. People get stuck in boring routines and it's easy to want to escape, but in reality just small things need changing, imo
As a 27 year old bloomer who did drugs and other stupid hedonistic shit since I left school, fuck off. Live for something better than mindless temporary dopamine hits.
move on faggot, she has
there are literally billions of women out there
Based
Yeah like seeking validation from anonymous mouth breathers on a social outcast imageboard. that will do it
If you really love her you should be happy for her. We all live and learn. Stop dwelling on the past and live in the current.
Thats me 10 years ago. Just don't spend all your time with one girl, keep focused on yourself user, you are the only one worth it all for yourself.
>unironically promoting hookup culture
This is why there will be nothing left of murica in another 50 years. Hookup culture and many other things are literally destroying your nation. Can't wait to see you all burn in hell ;)
Think about why and what you’re actually chasing. This kind of thing almost always stems from a desire for something we feel we either can’t access in ourselves or that we feel have irrevocably lost. What do the thots represent to you that you think you currently lack? Think very carefully about when and where you experience these desires and what you’re thinking at the time. What do you think you are missing?
No you fuck off. I'm older than you and I can tell you're full of shit. Hedonism is everything.
I have a well payed and highly respected job that makes me happy and gives me lots of free time. I use that time to find pleasure lifting, enjoying my hobbies and whenever I'm able to, partying and hanging out with thicc thots.
You're just a beta faggit and should stay on Jow Forums
God forbid your marriage doesn't last, you'll be pretty sore when you realize she didn't drop the urge at all.
more better sex
a chance to know new people (not OP, and refering to casual dating rather than one night stands, but the same situation)
based and Jow Forumspilled
this is sad
>Hedonism is everything
When are you going to grow up and start a family?
Theres plenty of research on happiness and marriage, or marriage and feeling successful, you've been brainwashed by the Pope and those religionfags who tell you to form families and have shit ton of kids just so you are poor as fuck and take them to church and they all pay to be baptised, married and burried.
The natural way is different for us, we are not penguins, we are apes.
Think outside the box for once anons what the fuck all of you are such NPC's it hurts.
this without the coke snorting and gay sauna
>Starting a family because that's what you see on TV
Lmao user you are retarded as fuck, congratulations go get married to the girl next door.
I pray to the lord for you that during the societal collapse you'll be able to survive
Why would I even want to start a family you mindless sheep.
>grow up
lmao kill yourself
The book Sex at Dawn has a good explanation about why our current society upholds monogamy when physically our bodies are not meant for that.
think of the herpes
I will,cause it'll not happen in my lifetime and I won't have to take care and worry about my dumb kids and drag my shitty wife,
You aren’t necessarily the same as him. But why do you think that you’ll get better sex from thots? Do you think the sex you’re currently getting is bad? What does ‘better sex’ actually entail for you? What do you think meeting more people is going to do for you? What value do you think it will add? What are you currently not getting from the people you know already? I don’t think this is actually anything to do with the sista that you’re with, I think you’ve got some kind of impossible construct in your head of what women/life/etc ‘should’ be like and you’re frustrated that you don’t live up to that/that you can’t access that experience. I think if you get the sex you’re looking for, you’ll find it deeply dissatisfying because you’ll feel like it won’t ‘count.’ You’ll feel like because you aren’t the person you want to be, the girls you want shouldn’t want you, and that the ones who do are therefore not the right ones. And I think the same goes for meeting new people. Good luck though, I hope you find peace.
>Growing up is doing what others did.
It's not.
>implying i watch the telavivsion
if anything it's kike media that promotes being a mindless slut, partying everyday and being yet another mindless waster in a sea of mindless wasters. Aim higher.
Don’t you nihilist retards realize how likely a virgin couple is to stay together?
>Implying she never cheated on you once.
that's why our entire society is built around marrying and having kids that will themselves marry and have kids.
fuck off pleb
He probably does have an idea of what he wants in his life and if that's either forming a family or fucking thots it's for each to decide.
Porn makes
You degenerate? lol spotted the incel. Chad fucks women and enjoys porn because he isn't an all or nothing beta.
Same reason we get to eat pizza and lift without counting macros.
I also feel the same way. I love my girlfriend but I feel i'm missing out with all these college thots. However I know it's hard to find a decent woman so I feel stuck
It’s almost as if people want to fulfill their biological imperative and reproduce.
>Desires to be a slut maker
>Is a slut himself with a gf
You go fuck your gf and only your gf now.
jackass, marriage is nothing like what it used to be like. divorces are sky high, people only want to get married because they can have an expensive ceremony they can show off and post on social media, and then get wasted. temporary gratification until they realise that managing a marriage is hard work, hard work being something they can't fucking do so it ends.
marriage is dead for the vast majority of society
>Chad fucks women and enjoys porn because he isn't an all or nothing beta.
Chad fucks women and thinks porn is just an appetizer and that using porn instead of fucking something is for fucking losers.
That's what I was trying to say user.