We're on day 4 of the no fap November challenge. How is everyone holding up?
Post feels, strategies on dealing with urges, and whether you've started to notice any changes in your life (be it with lifting, personality, etc).
FAQ:
> Why would anyone want to do this? It's a test of willpower. Aren't you curious to see whether you are capable of abstaining from (P)MO, and to find out whether or not you are a slave to your first-order desires?
> What do you hope to achieve? By giving up those easy dopamine hits that come from (P)MO, we hope to be able to achieve greater self-discipline, which we predict will be useful in other areas of our lives, including weightlifting.
Let me know if there's anything I should add to the FAQ.
I've already cume twice but I heard that it's actually three strikes and you're out
Jayden Bennett
I've never gone past 7 days, so this should be interesting. Not expecting any superpowers but I'm curious to see whether the enhanced self-discipline is actually true. Only one way to find out, I guess
I went on a date with a big tiddy goth grill. I doubt anything will come of it but it boosted my confidence a fuckton. Is this the power of nofap?
Camden Rivera
went for a 20km hike today to keep myself busy. but now im home and sitting in front of the computer the urge is driving me crazy. and the whole hike i was thinking about sex too
Brandon Robinson
Start over. See
Jacob White
Learn a language is what I'm doing, I go on duolingo and then I watch some youtube video in that language with subtitles in that language and then I study the whole video so that I understand all the words and better myself in that language.
Juan Campbell
It's three strikes and you're out, oe if you want to actually do it then start today and go untill dec 4th
Lincoln Nelson
I’m on day 2 and my head hurts. I got a 90 days strike once and I don’t remember having migraines. No idea what’s going on...
Gabriel Torres
Some people a girls so
Christopher Lee
Probably the migraines are unrelated, take some medecine and be strong user!
Carter Moore
Definitely workout
Ryder James
I need to dump my nut somewhere, I've started a tinder bumble and okcupid. I've got some matches already but no luck with messages. Ive also tried talking to girls irl on my campus but can't get past small talk, I'm so horny right now it's insane
Blew a load in my sleep last night. Does it count as a strike or does it not count at all?
Jacob Stewart
Day 5 and I have literally zero desire to cum, is that bad?
Levi Ward
If you just wanna fuck your best luck is with drunk girls or just clearly state you are looking for a sex friend
Aiden Wood
It doesn’t count, take it easy
Austin Lewis
Just copying from last thread but
Day 4, going well, but I’m starting to feel it. It creeped into my dreams last night. Two moments stand out in particular, I found some weird record about my cock in my dream and it had a D rating and some girl I was fucking this time last year came and found me and told me she needed money for an abortion and I hit her.
Never had dreams like that before, but I’ve also gone a week on no fap. I think I’m just feeling the urge more.
Wait till days 7-9. You’ll be horny if you get proper sleep.
Dominic Turner
>she needed money for an abortion and I hit her Kek
Julian Hall
I just edged :(
Anthony Richardson
This is the natural state of being a male
Gabriel Bell
A. Get away from the computer! B. Write yourself a sticky note and put it on your monitor. If you have any masturbation material saved on your computer, name the folder “NoFap November” or something judgemental.
Hunter Cruz
Am I the only who wakes up feeling horny as fuck? Everyone else is saying that the urges die down but im the opposite. Its like the urges have increased ten-fold.
Nathan Flores
Is it me or does nofap make anyone else feel violent? I get homicidal about flies that piss me off now
Henry Wilson
You should start by learning the 100 most used words to make a base and go off from there, its how I learned italian
Michael Turner
Does edging and high test/look dont touch threads steal benefits?
Jose Collins
No, for me its also the worst in the morning.
Should i stop taking ZMAs? Dont want to make it any harder than it has to be.
Kayden Peterson
the benefits of nofap are removed when looking even at erotica. And edging is even worse than masturbation.
Daniel Walker
Shit is incredibly hard. Nutted yesterday, horny as fuck today, and I don't think I can make it to December 3rd. I wanna fuck every second right now, lifting only increases that desire
>want something to fuck >anything >installed tinder >get fucktons of matches >Catholic upbringing and conservative values prevent me from dumping loads into random thots This is hell. Any way to cope, fellow Christfags?
Lincoln Cruz
Try praying
Josiah Wilson
Delet. I dumped tinder a year ago after fucking a couple women I knew didn’t care about me and was still upset. What really helped me - imagine you have a younger sister, or cousin, or even future daughter - would you want her to be taking a dozen dicks from people she barely knows? Every girl you fuck on tinder doesn’t just fuck with your shit, it devalues her further, and further, and further.
Don’t help damage women, help break the cycle. Go with God, brother.
I'm so horny and lonely. I've got to the point where fapping is so vanilla that I won't even bother with it unless I have someone else there. Why do lewd things if there isn't anyone there to have fun with? And I don't want it to be some random person I could fuck and ignore after, I want someone to hug and cuddle and talk with. I want lewd times to be meaningful. I want someone I could trust.
I assume you mean the post I made but just cap it, cap it and spread the word in threads in needs spreadin.
James Sanchez
I don't know how to do that haha
William Edwards
What are ZMA's?
Josiah Lee
it's going alright I've beaten two big urges so far, which feels pretty good. But I am also strongly considering abandoning my morals that say "don't have casual sex" to fuck this big tiddy hapa i know
Henry Peterson
>week 4 >bored, touched myself >oh shit >dick hurts after 5 seconds >not in the mood to continue Did nofap kill my libido
Brayden Campbell
They'll end up dying down
Aiden Bailey
I read recovery is faster than orgasms
Landon Long
Maximally redpilled
Cameron Garcia
Zinc, Magnesium, Vitamin B6 Supplement
Evan Cooper
kek
Christian Wood
>day 2 after relapse of 30+ days >the idea of feminization and crossdressing more potent than ever I-i'm actually looking up heels and how to make my legs silky smooth
Yeesh 12 days in and if I don't keep myself busy all I can think about is busting a nut.
Does this get easier because my willpower is slipping already lol.
Gavin Morgan
4th day reporting in here.
I actually managed this about a year ago for ~35 days to good results. It gave me the thirst to make progress with a girl I was talking to, started sexting and trading pictures, and I otherwise got my life together in other areas. Things got heated one night and I ended up falling back into the habit of fapping, and with it came my anxieties and worries.
In the space of a couple of weeks, I absolutely fucked up things with the aforementioned girl due to excessive worrying/lack of confidence and found myself back where I started.
I've tried a few times since to get back on the horse, but that was my best streak by far. I'm going strong at the moment, but the first week is always pretty easy. Evenings and weekends are the worst to endure. If I can give one bit of advice, it's to not get wrapped up in fantasies while in bed. Even if believe you're devoutly not going to touch yourself, you'll either get severe blue balls the next day or find it impossible to snap out of it until you cave in.
Jack Harris
This, I'm studying for a big test which is helping now, but productive reading is the way to go, and avoid caffeine like the plague. Learning a new language sounds cool
I dont forget words while speaking, my memory is fucking great and I read soooo much faster. Nofap makes uni so much easier
Nathaniel Jackson
God give me strength. I was taking a shower earlier and as I was washing my balls, I noticed they're much bigger than usual, almost swollen. I might not last the month.
I'm doing noporn and fap to imagination once a week, just discovered i can only fantasize about actual girls i know IRL, need to remember the face or it would't work. I tried to fap yesturday but could't nut because my brain didn't have enough details saved up. I would actually have to stare at that girl next week to memorize some fap material. Fuck.
I've been no fapping since Mid July, but since the start of November I've been leaking way more than I ever did. I nearly busted last week when I simply hung out with my gf. It definitely feels harder now than it did these last 2 months, but it could also be because of stress.
Charles Perry
>be me >do no nut november >nut in my sleep during no nut november fuck me
Nicholas Bennett
tldr. Summarise please.
Jacob Parker
2.5 months into NoFap and NoPorn now. Havent gotten any sexual superpowers as of now but at least my degenerate fetishes are almost gone. I guess I just gotta learn how to actually flirt.
same bro, Jow Forums is based as fuck so i'm learning french now. i was easily the best in my middle school class at it and its coming really easily. i had a fucking THICC jamaican milf as a french teacher and i would fap to her all the time i think thats why i was so good at it. sometimes i even imagined how hot it would've been if i went to fuck her and she pulled out a dick. i knew i would still fuck her if she had a dick too. goddamn her ass was perfect and she would literally brush it up against me on accident as she walked through the rows of desks
Hunter Hill
>sometimes i even imagined how hot it would've been if i went to fuck her and she pulled out a dick
user...
Jaxson Flores
it only makes me want to fuck them more if i pretend they're my sister or cousin or daughter
So what's the next step? You've got the motivation down, now what's the plan to get what you want?
Isaiah Diaz
Sister I kind of get, especially big sister vibes, but i also don’t have a sister so idk. But I also don’t know what to tell you.
Austin Russell
same bro, usually they're the size of those big green grapes, but now they're the size of an egg.
Mason Barnes
It's crucial that you don't masturbate during this stage. The gay stage passes. It's just your body desperately searching for an out. Hold strong, and don't even indulge that fantasy by looking up any of the shit you are. In a couple days you'll be past it.
Ethan Jackson
Can I jack off in my gf’s mouth?
Colton Baker
it wasn't gay because i was imagining her as a girl with a dick, not a trap. she is already a girl, but with a dick, it would've been hotter because it would've been weird to fuck a girl with a dick. its different from wanting to fuck a guy with a dick who looks like a girl. in essence, you're still fucking a girl. and anyway this was all hypothetical fantasy, never thought about a dick on woman after her, i think it was just because she was black, also i was a fucking horny 8th grader
Ryder Bell
I’ve had urges but I’ve ignored them. The main way to stay strong is just listening to music
Ethan Williams
when i was a little kid my older cousin and i would play husband and wife and go kiss in my uncles bed. thats probably what did it, she's also only one out of two girls whom i've ever kissed
Joseph Rivera
You're only going to get the optimal amount of knowledge if you actually read it yourself instead of me digesting it for you
William Sullivan
>being such a nigger you can't concentrate on something for 10 minutes, even if it benefits you This is why you are doing nofap in the first place
This. The thots whove fucked 20 guys literally couldnt have without those 20 guys being willing to casually have sex. Its a two way street, the sexes need each other, we're supposed to be each other's support units not mutual parasites.
Chase Perez
>muh occult >muh closer to god Well that was a boring read. What a waste of time.
Caleb Carter
Sex headache, youre too tense
Isaac Lopez
its either gnostic occultism or christianity, there is no other option that isn't completely retarded. either there is good and evil or there isn't.