Tell me about her, Jow Forums

having nightmares about her, can barely sleep
:(

while the situation doesn't seem ideal, I'd say keep it
abortion could mess with her fertility down the line and if you can see the two of you together in the future the initial struggle would probably be worth it

I've only had crushes so far. There has always been one.
But now there just isn't. There is an empty space filled with my virginity and lack of experience.

Are any of you familiar with L-Tyrosine or pine bark extract?? New doctor says I probably have trouble with norepinephrine but years ago I tried Wellbutrin and while it made me a completely different person for a couple months.. (could stay awake, memorize pages word for word, had tons of energy, no stress) it stopped working, even when I tried taking it another time.

I'm hoping one of these things will work better, that my body won't build a resistance

It is a huge change, stress in the relationship will increase dramatically. Good luck either way.

>PhD student
>can play several instruments
>can sing too
>can ballroom dance
>thiccc
>extremely social and outgoing

She flaked twice on me after I asked her on a date and then I realized lifting isn't enough, I must have other goals and talents.

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>26 year old khv
>lifting for years, decent body but fucked facial features (no real chin, big brow bone)
>be on tinder, just practicing not expecting to even start dating before I have a chin implant
>meet a cute girl, 7-7.5/10, talk to her for weeks
>eventually she asks me out, I wasn't even thinking about it
>didn't want to go, she was coming to my town she eventually I went because it wouldn't take that long
>leave after 2 hours, didn't want to fuck up lifting schedule, wanted to get home early
>get a message from her 'got home safely?' and 'I would like to know how you feel about me as you left so early'
>tell her I like her, she says she really likes me asks me for a new date next week

I-is this what love feels like?

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That's my main issue, I don't know if we could take the stress.
She's (in a good way) pretty naive and the most honest and caring person I've ever met, but she's not 100% stable emotionally/mentally speaking.
And - as a very non-emotional guy - I'm mostly afraid of what it will do to her and resenting my future child because I might never be able to look at him/her without being reminded it was a mistake and not a loving decision ()

It's easy to not love a hypothetical child that isn't born yet, it's hard to hate your own child when you hold it your hands once its born

Love is what comes after the initial butteflies fade away and you realize you work well together and would do nearly everything for each other.
So yes and no.

A good indicator would be if you've had sex for quite some time and after nutting you still like her

>break up with long term gf
>realise shortly after breakup that relationship was extremely mediocre and brought out the worst in me
>realise I don't even really like my ex all that much
>she was just nice to me
>looking forward to finding a new gf that I actually like and can keep up with me

future's lookin bright friends

>at uni
>went out 2 weeks ago and talked to a girl all night, made out with her
>went out again last night and made out like 3 times
>not sure if she likes me or just drunk
>feel depressed af

I know those insecure feels brah

>go on date with girl on monday, she asks me out for another date on a monday in 2 weeks
>start thinking that she's seeing other guys also, and she's reserving saturday's for them and I just get the monday's

Am I just too insecure or paranoid?

If I couldn't lift and get stronger I would most definitely kill myself. It's all I really have to live for.

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She aint easy, she has mood swings sometimes but holy fuck she has the biggest balls Ive ever seen on a woman. She ranges from cute lil girl to absolute boss bich. I like when a girl can handle her own shit, yet sometimes needs a mans help and isnt afraid to ask. Her body should be listed on the miracles of the modern world. We have the same fucked up humor and we even play the same vidya. Shes all I ever wanted and Im so afraid of losing her. I just want to hold her all day long.

I lift because it gives me hope that one day I will live a better life and actually experience what love feels like

we'll get through it bro, atleast you've been on a date, i've just been out clubbing, too nervous to ask her on a date

>afraid of losing her

watch it bro, your fear of losing her might be the thing that could chase her away. Don't get obsessive or possessive

I dont want to push you in any direction, but being a father and raising my daughter by myself I can tell you this: it's the most stressful and exhausting, yet at the same time most rewarding and fulfilling thing I have ever done. Whatever you two decide, I wish you the best of luck.

Cheers man, that sounds nice.

>dem fucking feels in this thread

I don't know her name.
See her every other day at the gym, but never had the guts to talk to her.

My life in general is better than it has been for years, yet i don't feel much better.
Maybe getting more social exposure magnified just how crushingly lonely i am.

Really nice girl, weighs maybe 10lbs too much. Started working out and said she’s trying to eat healthy, still snacking chips and chocolate.

What do? Really like that girl and we get along very well.

go for it man, if you wait to long you'll end up being just a friend. Risk it all, you have nothing to lose at this point

if she starts doing that shit for you, you know she cares about you and your relationship.

Also, thicc bitches are high test

Yes. I thought about that too already, thanks for the advice fren. Whats funny is that she said shes obsessed with me. I never considered myself a good looking guy but she keeps telling me the opposite and it feels good considering shes an easy 9/10 and gets thirsty dudes talking to her lots of times. Treating a girl good finally pays off.

getting stronger will never hurt you, but love will my friend :(((

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I have the same, I'm a 6-6,5/10 and I'm dating a 7-7,5/10

I can't see what she sees in me, but apparently it's true that women care more about status and personality, while men just care about dat ass

We miss every shot we don't take senpai

youtube.com/watch?v=v-MApVvos2Y&t=214s

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>meet girl at a uni thing
>beautiful, smart, bubbly personality
>really hit it off
>she seems interested and we keep talking on social media
>try to ask her to a casual date
>she can't because she has exams
>bummed out but decided to go out friday night
>end up with a chubby goblina
>cute girl still hasn't answered my text
Guess I need to lift more

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Daily reminder: she's probably fucking Tyrone right this very second

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They'll always be to heavy

Nope, she doesn’t like noneuropoors

She is seeing other men. Why should she not when you've been on a date once? Also if she is setting the dates then you need to man up, you're the man, lead her for christ sake.

P.S You should be actively seeking/enjoying other women until/if you two become a done deal. Nobody want's to be part of a club that wants them

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We've been together for 4 months now and she is kinda fat and a vegan but she really loves me

She has a kid though. I dont really wanna make her feel bad but im very noncommittal

i am black, nice try

She seemed like she was ripped right out of my dreams, personality and all. Ever since she rejected me I haven't been able to stand the company of anyone else. Women are a fuck and I just can't deal with the lot of them anymore. I'm
in full autoreject mode. I don't know what else to do.

there's no tyrone where I live

>fat
>vegan
>single mother

wow really hit the jackpot there user

I'm not sure if she was interested or just being friendly (though the increased amount of attention received probably triggered me developing this infatuation), either way I haven't interacted with her since 6 months, hope that time will make me lose those feelings. Doesn't make it easier that I see her regularly on my way to work

Yeah i dont even know, man. I really do this to myself

She works at a bakery and more often than I’d like she brings me home sweets.

>Helped her moving her around in my car
>Helped her going to therapy with a psychologist
>Organized all trips and hikes
>Fucked her hard to orgasm everytiem
>Was always there

>Always second gessed me
>Abandoned me in the middle of her friends I didnt know
>Always insecure
>Always creating trouble where there was none
>Always when I wasnt there
>Shit testing me, hinting that I was a horrible lad
>Always depressed or sunk
>wtf she wasnt like this when we were best friends.
>Dumped me in a most horrible way "What have you ever done for me? huh? what?"

Five months later I'm fucking roasties of all ages and getting pussy, trying to heal. I do everything by-the-book but still feel sudden strikes of sadness. Not for losing a gf, but for losing my best friend. Seems retarded read like this, but we had a small world together and shared a very simple and pure connection.

I think deep down she's a (failed) normie, and I'm not, even though I'm much saner and healthy than she is.

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Give some to your next door neighbors or to the kids in the neighborhood (this one you should do only if you gf can be with you doing it together). That way you make other people happy and don't have to eat all the sweets while at the same time not hurting your gfs feelings by complaining about something she is doing out of kindness

She's still attracted to me
But doesn't know what she wants

I'm at a confusing loss here bud

Move on without her, she'll reach around if/when she decides.

I thoroughly believe she wants me to decide even though i told her what i want

Tfw her Ex
Tfw not to keen on fighting for her love against someone else

She went to my gym and we really connected.
I didn't ask her out because she had a bf already.
Ironically enough if I had asked her out and she said yes I wouldn't want to date someone who would go out with other guys behind their bf's back. I'm not super broken up about it because I have met others like her, so there will be more of that personality, and probably ones who are more available.

Recently I have noticed myself to be frequently in no win situations. The only choices end in bad outcomes, but one is slightly less bad.

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will 400mg vitamin d3 cure me?

I felt bad every time I lost a gf for some reason or another, but every girl I dated was better than the priors. Yeah there may always be “the one that got away,” but honestly that’s just negativity talking to you. It’s way easier to think about how bad things are, vs actually getting out there and bettering yourself.
If you guys are really hung up on a girl I suggest a book “the 3% man” you can prob torrent it, anyway it changed my life so much.
Anyway there are so many women out there getting hung up on one is a waste of effort. You can do it guys
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>Anyway there are so many women out there getting hung up on one is a waste of effort. You can do it guys
we only have so much years of life to find someone user

fuck off nigger

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> nigger dreams

tfw you jerk off while she is having sex with someone else

cruel world

>be 22v yesterday
>go out to club cuz want to meet someone new
>stand there and realize you are in wrong place and its not for you
>head back home and play for honor till 3 A.M

I don't even know what to feel.
Everyone just say
>go out
but i feel always like im in the wrong place and want go home, but in home i want to go out and meet someone.
Also badoo doesn't work for me, get few matches but talking whit those girls or even trying to set a meeting is horrible

Don't even have "her" at the momen, just getting tired of allways getting injured

>do lifting
>bursitis on shoulder that doesn't want to go away

>start having fun running after initial few months of it being horrible and being in horrible aerobic shape
>stress fracture

>take up road cycling
>have to move to a place where it takes like 45 minutes of riding to get to the nice quiet country roads and start hating even going for a ride

>like x-country skiing, used to live in place where it was like 100 meters walk to nearest track network, with over 100km of tracks maintained for like 5 months a year, good snow every year
>lived last 10 years in places with shit infra for it and unreliable snow

kinda want to try bouldeing but when I looked it up the nearest bouldering gyms are like 40 minutes away and none of my friends are interested. Doesn't help that any sport I try I immediately start reading shit load about it, get all caught up in training regimes, measuring progress, gear etc. I literally suck the fun for myself out of everything I do. Also can't really afford a car because where I live living is expensive as fuck and car ownership even more so.

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>be me 2,5 years ago; I was 20
>get interested in a girl, who lives in town next to my hometown; I myself live in a different city now, where I go to uni
>she's a little over 4 years younger than me
>we haven't really talked that much, but we've been in the same circle of people many times
>she's very multi-skilled: she sings literally more beautifully than any girl I've ever heard, she plays the piano, the violin and the guitar, she reads, writes, studies languages and is overall very smart — and beautiful
>like me, she's a Christian, so our values are in concordance
>she seems to be everything I could ever want in a girl: I like reading and writing, and I've also gotten interested in making music
>what a power couple we'd make, I think to myself
>call her
>"Hey, you wanna go get a cup of coffee?"
>she's clearly dumbstruck, as the whole thing took her by surprise
>"I don't know", is pretty much everything she can say
>we both spill our spaghetti, and the interpretation I make from the ambiguous call is that I'll call her later
>a couple of weeks later I call her again, but she doesn't pick up
>I call her the next day, and the same thing happens
>don't call again
>during the next year we meet maybe on two occasions, and both times it seemed like she was feeling awkward and was somewhat trying to avoid me
>not wanting to push a young and shy girl, I leave her be
>last summer, however, I meet her again
>now she's not avoiding me, but on the contrary trying to strike up a conversation
>at that time I had high hopes concerning another girl, so I didn't feel as interested in her as I did before and I don't bring up the whole coffee thing
>however, a few months ago it became clear that me and the other girl won't be dating, and after that I realized that I am now perhaps more than ever interested in the younger girl
>I not sure if we'll meet before the next summer, but when we finally do, I'm going to ask her if she now knows whether or not she wants to get a coffee

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Just relax, what's not for you isn't for you

Tell me more please. I think I'm in the same situation you were

Lol wut? Are you joking right now? Do you really think that women care how old you are? Women think that men get more attractive as they age, peaking around 50. Of course that is for healthy, fit men, but you’re working on that aren’t you.
Straight up bro I am 38 and the girl I’m currently dating is 26. She is smoking hot, trim, great face (also has a job and no kids).
I post on 4chin bc I did it all though college and I want to encourage people that if you stick to your goals you can make it. Also you’re here forever.
Anyway there is zero reason to rush into a relationship. Figure out what makes you happy, do it, and women will come to you.

>she friendzone me
>fall in love everytime she come to see me

Online dating is for chumps bro. When people say “go out,” they mean “go out and have fun.” If you find yourself doing something and you’re not having fun, why are you doing it?
You’re an adult right? Find out what is fun for you. Maybe that’s hiking, local car shows, rock climbing, motorcycling, eating? Shit nigger go to a restaurant by yourself, shit is fun af. You’re trying new food and chat up the bartender or waitress. Fuck clubs anyway; what is it $10 charge for the privilege of buying $10 drinks and not being able to carry on s conversation because of the noise? Hard pass