I don't want to be a dick here. Help me.
I'm not attracted to my gf of 4 years. Everything else between us is fine, but I find other girls much more attractive and it's hard to show off my girlfriend if I go out. Should I try for better girls and lose her or should I play it safe and settle? It took me 25 years to find a girl I have a connection with like I do with her, so I don't know what to do.
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Why do you think the attraction has faded?
Read mantak chia
Take shrooms together
Lift weights
Be high test
The grass is always greener on the other side...
It started out as an online relationship for 6 months until we met. She is skinnier than I expected and I wasn't attracted to her body in person. Since then, she's begun working out and improved a little, but it's still not somebody I'd be attracted to if I just randomly met them. I love her personality and she's a good fit for me. Should I be patient and maybe she'll get more fit with time? I am a dick, I know, but I'm confused on what I should do.
Unironically this. You don't appreciate what you have until it's gone.
Sometimes it can be something as simple as having her dye her hair or doing some cosplay. I’ve been married for 6 years and there was a time I went through this as well but we made some changes spiced up our sex life. Now I consider her the sexiest woman in the world. Also stop watching fucking porn.
Not always but most of the time yes
>Live in the hood
>It doesnt get any better bro
>Live in northern russia
>it doesnt get any better bro
>go out with ugly chick
>it doesnt get any better br0
Dude, I legit almost fucked up horribly in a situation like this, except I hadn't met her in person yet. Please trust me and stay with her, I fucked up so badly and luckily mine took me back but... Worst mistake of my life, I hate thinking about it and feel horribly. Love her, care for her. Maybe she isn't perfect but she's yours. A committed 4/10 beats a thot 10/10 any day... Even if it's fun for a few months it'll just start feeling empty. The grass is always greener.
Alright, you got to me
For me it went exactly the other way round, so I guess the grass aint always greener
>ditch gf
>a year passes by
>see gf again, not attracted to her
She was literally perfection in my eyes, but now she is meh
Thank you OP, don't follow my mistakes. Cherish her for as long as you can. And honestly? Tastes can change, and bodies can change. I wish you two the best of luck and long happiness and peace.
All other women dont have to be thots
The mentality to have is: I can get all the pussy I want, and I'll get the best and only the best
What is good sex without wholesome love... Love without sex can be hard but work can work, sex without love will just hollow you out.
Finding somebody you really connect with and can have a future with is not easy. Don't take it for granted. Help her improve her body. Do it as a team.
my biggest regret was losing my best friend/gf of 4 years over lust.
You can make new friends, right?
Did you cheat or think the grass was greener?
This user. A good woman, like the one you have are few and far between. Thots are thots, and you're not missing much. THis is coming from someone who's had both - but I still find my gf of 6 years attractive and beautiful beyond skin deep as well.
> she is skinnier than I expected.
Replace her milk with homo milk secretly. Add butter to her food when she isn't looking. Tell her you have a secret fetish for watching skinny girls eat. There's a lot of solutions here, user. She will be a brap in no time.
>She is skinnier than I expected
There is nothing wrong with that. As long as she is healthy and her face is good, I don't see the problem.
>you lover her
>personality good
>face good
>body skinny
>marry/knock her up
>have offspring
>Wife is now perfect size and is into fitness
The problem is when you start with a fat chick that is lazy and only gets fatter.