Girls always say the number one thing they like is confidence

>girls always say the number one thing they like is confidence
>I have shit self confidence
>I am 22 and a virgin that has never been in a relationship

How do I into confidence I feel it is necessary for my mental fitness.

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By confidence they mean handsome. Never listen to what girls want, they don't know what they want.

Women are like employers when you have a shitty degree. They all expect 5+ years of experience but you can never get it because there's no entry level unless you have been constant Chad mode since age 13.

It amazes me how a girl can be borderline obsessed with you and then get completely turned off the moment she senses even the slightest whiff of awkwardness or lack of confidence.

You are expected to be bulletproof. You need to make every moment enjoyable and constantly be entertaining otherwise she'll get bored. She has no personality or discernable hobbies or interests other than watching normie shows, makeup and shopping and you are expected to be some demigod that always knows the right way to stimulate her low attention span and lack of passion to do anything.

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tell yourself that you're actually worth a damn every day lots of times a day

and stop comparing your achievements to others', be proud of what YOU can do and dont give a shit about what everybody else might be able to

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Based jackie

Im running out of options, whats a good tv show with a very confident protag so i can absorb their personality?

>hot girl tells me I have high confidence
>but she absolutely refuse to go out with me

this times 100000

had this girl constantly texting me and wanting to get together and after we had lunch(I had a good time) she just stopped texting me after, I guess there was something about me she didn't like.
But she never told me, I had to figure out the hard way her texts just had no inkling of interest she would reply with as little words as possible and never initiate any conversation. No accountability whatsoever.

later I see her on her story with some guy that looks like post malone
She was fucking crazy though, one of those "art girls" and she was a furry literally wore a fucking tail in public so I honestly think she did me a favor

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Suits

Drivel like this is why you incels can't get gfs.
Girls just want someone who's not disgusting and who's got their shit together. And obviously someone who can actually interact with them.
Would you be attracted to a woman who never does anything, has no self esteem and can't hold a conversation?

Just be yourself. Literally. Figure out what you want to do with your life and do it. If you're comfortable with who you are, you will gain confidence and girls will follow.

How do I know?
I was a virgin until I was 23. Then I got my shit together, starting working, applying myself at uni as best as I could, started taking lifting seriously. I became a person I was comfortable with being, and now I am interesting to girls because I actually have something going for me.
Also get Tinder and just try and get with any girl that's not totally disgusting to grind some XP so you're not totally clueless when you manage to land a good one.

>Would you be attracted to a woman who never does anything, has no self esteem and can't hold a conversation?

Yes, if her face and body are great.
Male attraction is 99% looks.

justified

Be honest, don’t try too hard and try to come off as if she’s the one who should be impressing you not the other way. Around if she doesn’t want/have anything interesting to contribute to the conversation then fuck her and move on

>lost my first chance of losing my virginity yesterday because I didn't bring any condoms
in my defense I didn't think she was gonna hop on my dick on our second date, not even after a drink or anything, just straight to an empty parking lot.

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>male attraction is 99% looks

Maybe this is why you view females as so shallow and why your love life sucks. You should be looking for a girl that you're not only attracted to but that you also want to be friends with. You can only have sex a few times per day at most. The rest of the time is spent laying around and interacting. You want someone that you can actually have genuine conversation with and that can make you laugh.

Your view of women is extremely childish user

Maybe for fucking, but not for relationships.

>But she never told me
this shit is honestly the worst

I think lots of girls are actually afraid to reject boys because they dont know how they will react, some guys go completely nuts over a rejection which is pretty sad. Still it doesnt justify letting someone on forever and ever, i mean a rejection over text cant be that intimidating.

why didnt you go raw dawg?

It's all about confidence, personality and finding the right girl
I'm 25 and literally had my first date first at the beginning on 2018 and got laid a few weeks ago (different girl). I was a kissless guy that really didn't think I'd have to confidence to get out there and date.
You might have to just go with girls you wouldn't normally ask out. It builds your game up and give you confidence that you can do it.
Getting laid feels pretty good, it honestly isn't life changing and won't make you feel better about yourself. But having someone there and having sex is a awesome experience.

My first time was just putting it in there and pumping a couple of time before cuming
Second time was with condom and I felt like I could go forever

you can mold a woman into being someone youd want to be friends with, if you're dominant enough. looks is still more important because it gives you the incentive to bother trying or not

>handsome confident
mad men
>dgaf dangerous confident
sopranos

pls go Jordan Peterson

You sound like a virgin that just read up on TheRedPill and thinks he knows his shit now.

Girls are extremely stubborn and only moldable to a certain point - like any other fucking human. If you think simply by being "Dominant" and "more manly" that you can totally change someone's personality, you're wrong.

she already has a bastard so she wouldn't let me. She would stop me if things started getting hot to avoid "temptation" so I didn't even get a handy. Still played with tits a bit so that was kinda cool.
Now because she doesn't like leaving the kid with her mom she says we'll only meet again in a week or two and I'm trying to figure out how to make it sooner.
nigga I didn't even get hard and I blame NNN. I've been noticing my dick's been dead and a bit shrunk these last days. Fapped twice as soon as I got home, never again falling for that meme. I'll do the once a week thing.
I've just been really hating myself for the last 12 hours.

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>A strange game, the only winning movie is not to play.
>How. about.a.nice.game.of.chess.

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Here is a cheat code for you plebs. DATE DOWN. if you stop chasing after stacy who gets hit on every where she goes you will have a better time. Find a girl that doesn't get much attention. She will treat you better. Fuck what anyone else says.

it's also not remotely intuitive, and a relationship isn't purely psychological either it has societal rules and structure so attempting to change someone within that framework means goodbye gf most the time.

We all make mistakes man don't worry about it. just tell her you were feeling nervous cause you have been thinking of it for a while. Ask her if she wants to hang again and try again