Sex help? Not sure it’s Jow Forums enough but the sexual frustration is kind of killing my mood to go to gym

Sex help? Not sure it’s Jow Forums enough but the sexual frustration is kind of killing my mood to go to gym.

>be me, somehow get gf despite raging autism
>cool and good
>starts off slow cuz we were both kissless virgins
>settle into her, we start to have sex relatively frequently
>finally.jpg
>she’s always down to try new positions, different stuff, etc
>only complaint is that somehow my very average penis stretches her out too much
>yeahokaylol.png
>goes on for a solid year
>one day like a year later it’s like a switch flipped
>rarely ever in the mood for sex anymore, and when we do it’s in only one position, missionary
>still has to stop constantly because of pain, sometimes entirely for the whole night
>seems to get mad all the time about small stupid shit, always killing her mood and ruining chances of fuckin
>never ever ever initiates anything, from sex to conversation, and seems to have grown more indecisive from the day I met her
>I’m in a constant state of sexual frustration nowadays, and somehow it’s killing my mood to go work out (probably because now I don’t really have anyone to work on aesthetics for except myself)


What do? I really do love her and I’m worried that something’s up but she won’t tell me shit. Nowadays I almost prefer to whack my gack instead of actually trying to get laid because I know it won’t go well.

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Sounds like she might want to leave. What else has changed over that period of time? New job? Birth control? Maybe you got complacent after getting a qt and stopped giving a shit about her?

Dying sex is usually a precursor to a dying relationship.

Have you talked with her about the change in behavior?

You know what, she did get on some birth control, but she had been on it since the first time we smashed. She also had a brief period where she was really struggling with self image and got anorexic, but I helped her through that. Maybe that’s it?

I have, but she’s got her lips shut. She’ll communicate with me often enough that I have a rough idea of what’s going on, but something feels...off. Like she’s not quite there, you know what I mean?

Birth control will fuck with a woman’s mind, hard. It completely changes their hormones and common side effects are mood swings, libido changes, etc. if it continues you should have her talk to her dr. about changing brands

From a womans perspective, she might want to leave the relationship desu

Sounds like a plan, I'll give it a try. Thank you, kind user.

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Sounds like cheating honestly

It could be birth control as well

If this continues break up with her you should find a partner with the same sexual libido as you

she could also get an iud

my gf got one because she would forget the pill and we had a couple scares

U could confront her about it, leave her, or keep being a little bitch.

Are you fat? Do u eat her out? Try more foreplay...next time y’all bang eat her out and have her ride you while u sit up and eat her out before sex.

I never eat girls out or do foreplay really but if I loved a girl like that and she wasn’t getting wet enough to fuck then I’d start

You may have changed your attitude toward her without you even noticing. Overtime we can become complacent and too comfortable. She may not be as attracted to this “new you” and you should take a look at how you treat her: do you shower her with more attention than you used to? Do you suck up to her more now? Are you less assertive or more agreeable than you used to be?

All women are attracted to qualities that signal that a man does not NEED her in his life and that he’s not really too pressed on her. You may try switching gears a bit

Nah, I eat her out every single time pre-fuck, but too much foreplay wears her out

I'll keep that in mind too. Thanks user

And I'm far from fat, I'm ottermode at best.

I've been fucking yo girl dawg. I'm sorry but the pussy game ridiculous right now.

lol dumbass. Ask her whats wrong and that your planning on leaving her cause she's clearly not interested.
Tell her you think she's just keeping you around for some stupid shit like afraid to hurt your feelings or she doesn't know what to do with her life.

Play hard to get, make her work for it

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Bruh I had the same problem with my gf. She got diagnosed with a smaller than normal vagina and it prevented my exceedingly average penis from doing most positions.

I'm like 6" with prolly less than to near average girth. Penetration alone was a fucking hassle even when she was super wet. Somehow lube made it hurt more. She had an amazing ass though and often times would open up with time. But many positions were off limits and others would put her vagina out of commission for a couple days. I kinda miss that bitch tho

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Usually this is one of the big red flags of a relationship ending, if it feels like you're speaking to a ghost instead of who you love it never ends well after that. I've done it to girls and it's been done to me multiple times, and I've never once seen it turned around

Learn to be a pussy eating connoisseur. My girlfriend begs me not to leave whenever I gotta go do shit, little puppy eyes and all. Make sure she got her HPV boosters tho or you’re gonna get some type of cancer from eating pussy. That is my greatest fear.

Guy keeps it 100%, 10/10 good listen.

Why do you even deal with this shit you beta fuck? The second the pussy isn't worth the effort, you leave. If she's not banging you every day, it's not worth it unless her pussy cures cancer.

Honey moon phase is over.

>Make sure she got her HPV boosters tho or you’re gonna get some type of cancer from eating pussy. That is my greatest fear.
what the fuck are you talking about