Sex with my girlfriend is usually me fingering her till she orgasms while she strokes my penis, then she blows me, and then I penetrate. But by that time, I'm already so excited and stimulated and her inner muscles are so tight (due to her orgasm) that I can barely stay inside her: I just cum after a few poundings.
She doesn't complain, because she does get to have an orgasm every time we have sex, but I would like to be able to fuck her brains out and I think she would like it too (especially after her own orgasm). How the fuck do I last longer?
Shit, sometimes I feel like I should wank one out first just to satisfy the urge to cum and *then* have sex, but that's kind of sad and pathetic. What do you do with your partner?
>What do you do with your partner? I imagine she exists
Henry Turner
I'll recommend some strategies you could try out.
A) Do foreplay, lick her, give her an orgasm if you want to but don't necessarily and don't take your pants off before phase two, where you go inside her sugar walls without having been stimulated yourself.
B) Let her give you an orgasm however you guys feel like. Then lick her hoo-ha or whatever you want for a while and then do a round two where you fug her.
C) Cut down the foreplay that it's still enough to get her horny and wet, but way shorter then now. Then just do piv and practice that for a while. Eventually you'll get the hang of how to fuck her without cumming. From my experience, certain positions like prone bone made me cum quickly while for example doggy allowed me to plow her for a while. Missionary and her whispering something in my ear made me cum instantly. Figure that stuff out for yourself.
Juan Jackson
>she strokes my penis, then she blows me >How the fuck do I last longer? If only there were a way
1) Figure out how to get her horny, but her puddy wet and loose. Tightness will make you cum quicker.
2) Don't let her bring you close to orgasm before penetration. Being dispassionate about it and just focussing on her like you would focus on servicing a machine might help.
3) Figure out how to do the actual fucking without getting close. This is the hardest part.
Anthony Brooks
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Nicholas Howard
Kinda health related.
Landon James
Tharja is so hot.
James Wright
cum before penetration or try to force yourself to go again right after
sounds like the foreplay is good though so dont cut down on that just because you cant last
usually when im really turned on i can just wait a minute and then dive right back into her
i think theres often a mental block rather than a physical block for dick recovery time after cumming
Colton Wright
lmao, just take like 5 shots of rum and wait and cuddle for like an hour and then R.I.P that pussy. I do it all the time and I can pound that shit like no tomorrow. The key is to get just buzzed enough that you can get a raging hardon that's slightly numb, while also being not too drunk to get hard in the first place.
You can thank me later
Leo Foster
dude i was just about to type the same thing, except I usually have a few beers instead of rum
listen to this OP
Cooper Gomez
Thanks guys, I thought about cumming first then eating her out or whatever and then fucking, but where the fuck would I cum the first time?
I don't want to cum on a tissue... Where do you usually cum on your first round?
Sorry if autistic, we're both adults but she's my first and only partner --- not exactly extremely experienced here.
Eli Sanders
No need to apologize user.
Maybe she can blow you and swallow, if she is into that.
Or just have a towel ready. (I usually keep one beside my bed in case a lady is a bit leaky.) You could cum somewhere on her body or in her poon and then you or her can just wipe it off with the towel when things continue and you don't want to smear cum everywhere.
Some people might think this kills the mood or whatever, but I never had an issue with moments of communication or clean-ups during sexy times.
Gabriel Campbell
Obviously condoms are a thing, too.
Ryan Perry
We only do raw. :)
Chase Morales
Beat off before so it takes longer when u do it
Brody Harris
Foreplay is good despite what these brainlets are saying Flick her bean whilst you fuck her Start of slowly and build up pace Stop pumping every so often and flick her bean, kiss her, tell her you love her and suck her boobies Realise pounding in and out feels good to you penis but changed in pressure are what vagina need Learn the Coital Alignment Technique
Luis Parker
In my experience 2 things have worked >masterbate very day, twice a day if need be. Watch the kinkiest porn you can stand and push your limits so that sex isn’t as satisfying as it used to be
>fuck until you’re near cumming, pull out to give lil Johnny some rest (under the guise of switching positions, eating her out for a minute, sucking on her tits and rubbing her clit, whatever) and then he’ll be accustomed to the situation and build a tolerance to the pussy
>dang guys I want to fuck her brains out...but AFTER HER orgasm, but because I get her off first she is super tight and I can barely last
I mean are people this stupid that they can't hear themselves? Dude just man handle her and fuck off with this "HER first," bullshit. Pump the bitch THEN finger her like a pussy to get her off.
You get to pound her, then she gets her orgasm, and there you go you fucking loser.
Joseph Gomez
Forget what it's called, but they make condoms with a special coating that will numb your dick. Might have to pop a viagra though, shits effective, like taking a shot of novacaine to the junk, so you might have a tough time staying hard.
Dominic Cruz
you are probably too much of a pussy to do this, but when i feel like going for a long time, i fuck my girlfriends face and make her swallow, then i focus on her. Eat her out till she comes then fuck for 45min to an hour. In that time she rubs her clit while i pound her out and she one maybe two times then i bust in her or on her. Easy peasy
Lincoln Morris
* then she comes one or two times
Connor Peterson
What someone thinks alpha is: The Post Seriously though you can manhandle her while making her come multiple times while lasting longer, just gotta have a plan
Ryan Rogers
>tfw was with a Tharja-like girl for years Miss her every day
Isaac Edwards
breath deeper, with shallow breaths you will tighten up and cum faster, deeper breaths also help to relax the pelvic floor, at least for me they do