Can you get rid of mental illness?
I’m so clingy and I get extremely attached before the relationship even starts, am I hopeless?
Can you get rid of mental illness?
I’m so clingy and I get extremely attached before the relationship even starts, am I hopeless?
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Im like this too. I try to hide it and seem as aloof as possible but it always seeps out.
Pretty sure I just scared this qt im dating off which sucks cause ive had a crush on her for ages and things were looking good
just dont get clingy lol not hard
Go to a psychologist.
You're lucky. I have on police report for vaginal rape, I have my friends gf accusing me of rape, I have her friend accusing me of rape and my ex gf accusing me of rape. I probably have severe PTSD, suicidal thoughts and major depression. If I manage to live somewhat normally so can you.
All false of course.
The important question here is
Why the fuck is everyone 'falsely' and accusing you of raping them?
Yes i know, im fucked, I know they are false because I was there. But i see how it looks, so the outlook is bleak at best.
I'm clingy af too but also some kind of special autismo that pushes people away and shuts them down until they move on and then suddenly start really caring about having them. Fucking what the fuck is wrong with me
Haha the ride never ends user, its like sniffs with fucked sinuses, you'll never get to enjoy life with or without em. Even the best of brappers can save you
holy shit stop raping women you fucking loser
I have one, ONE case under my name like that, and that was because I decided my dumb rich kid ass could lose my virginity to a psychotic, conniving white trash (near trailer park tier) bitch. She even raped me one night and I never said shit.
user please tell me youre keeping tabs on the logic in your head and looking for trends of disconnects, because at the rate youre goin at your perception of the world is lethal to those around you. Whats next? Man fucking slaughter?
If you can avoid acting clingy, it’s all good.
Then you’re just “very affectionate”.
Yesterday I was drinking by myself in my room, just three beers and I started crying uncontrollably, Can't get a job, not because of my credentials, wich are good but because Im too depressed, been living of welfare and savings for the past almost year now, but yeah, im keeping tabs on my logic.
You need to get a hold of yourself son, sounds like you arent even taking care of yourself. Gets some brotein, lift until the motivation comes back and get enough money to move so you can leave that shit behind.
Just tell us the full story man, greentext that shit.
Thanks, I needed that.
>Be me, in awesome relationship with girl, everything is great
>Get new Job offer, but have to move, she has to stay. Decide we're gonna try long distance relationship
>Job is in third world country
>Alcohol and Valium everyday for a whole year
>Job doesn't pay as expected, go home again
>Withdrawal.jpg (WARNING: FILE SIZE TOO LARGE)
>GF upset, understandably, because im not like i was before, lazy, no more fitness, no more social events due to withdrawal and depersonalization from valium and alcohol abuse
>Eventually me and gf go out clubbing together, only us, one guy starts to hold around her
>Most shameful moment of my life, because valium withdrawal related anxiety is extreme, just nib on GFs arm and say we should go home now, she refuses, leave because i see where this is going.
>The guy wasn't even fit at all, and equal height 6' tall. But was a pussy because valium
>Wait outside her house untill last bus goes home because I want to kill the guy after sitting on bus to hers for 10 minutes.
>Never arrives
>Go home, cry more
>Next day, she tries to call me over a houndred times, not exaggerating.
>Ends up believing her story about how she took the other bus to her dad.
>Decide to break up with me regardless
>Heartbroken.jpg
>She moves abroad to study, I stay home
>I call her randomly one night out, because I have this itching feeling something doesn't add up with her story
>Tell her I've spoken with the guy she was flirting with that night, tell her "Theres something you forgot to tell me?"
>She has mental breakdown
>Depression comes back, block her from everything, angry as fuck.
Cont.
This is fantastic advice.
It’s a terrible time when you’re so sad that you can only think sad thoughts and get more sad.
Anything you can do to try to disrupt that cycle is worth some effort.
>End up fuck some random sluts because thats what the internet told me I should do to get over her.
>Go out clubbing one day, friends gf asks me to go with her and her friends
>Sure why not
>End up making out with her
>Go back to my place
>Fuck for a bit, feel shit for doing this to my bro
>She leaves before i wake up, friend has herd from her friends she went to my place
>He goes apeshit on her, and she claims rape to defend herself from slutting around.
>Bro understands it is just slut defense system kicking in.
>During all this, his now ex gf blackmails me into going to the cinema to watch fucking fifty shades with her or else she'll go to the police.
>Decide after a lot of thought and waiting and stress, dont want to fuck bro over again, but don't want to get dragged through court either.
>Go to cinema, watch movie with her, she leaves, everything fixed.
>Start talk to my ex gf again somehow, shes still overseas studying.
>Decide we're gonna try again
>She tells me she's got a guy shes fucking, tell her that i dont belive that because if we're gonna try again she better be srs about it, says shes gonna proove it to me.
>Sends me a fucking picture of her and him fucking, where you can see the whole fucking penis and vagina.
>Enraged, tell her to go fuck herself and i'm never talking to her again-
>Somehow she doesn't understand sending me a fuck picture is crossing a god damned line.
cont.
Post picture here
We'll clearly you're still fucking retarded, so no
>Fast forward 1 year, started talking to ex gf again
>Got new ob offer in same third world shithole again
>Go to her place, we eat dinner together, give her a hug before i leave, tell her i look forward to see her again when i get home in a few months time.
>While in third world shithole, called up by police, wants to talk to me at their office, doesn't want to tell me about what. Say OK.
>Prematurely leave third world shit hole to speak to officer cunt.
>Well there, tells me i've been accused of rape by a new random slut.
>No lawyer availiable for free yet, because not formally charged only suspicion.
>Tell them my side, leave.
>Never heard from them again
>Former bro whose ex i fucked tells me news.
>Holy shit what is it now
>Supposedly, former ex gf is friends with my former ex gf number 2 from before my ex gf 1.
>My ex gf number 2 has joined forces with his ex gf and claims i raped her during out relationship.
>WW3 in my head, depressed, angry, sad, chatic, neurotic.
>SOmehow bro helps me defuse situation, no longer critical.
Cont.
Give these people some fake names instead of numbering them.
PTSD:
>Now I'm wholly certain ex gf 1 will accuse me of the same, although she hasn't.
> Have new gf, and somehow I Haven't completely spilled my spaghetti yet
> Suspicions about my new gf constantly in my head, wanting to install dashcam in my bedroom just in case. Save all fucktapes, just in case.
There is a lot more, and this wasn't coherent at all, but as you can see I'm pretty fucked, not like I think I will get sentenced for this, but my head is complete chaos, and my trust in women, even my own mother, whom I because of this don't talk to anymore, is completely and utterly destroyed.
You have a good friend, you should feel like a cunt for fucking him over. Even if his bird was a slut.
Trust me I do.
You might deserve all of this for repeatedly being such a massive cuck.
Ex blatantly cheats on you, and you take her back, then she sends you a picture of another dudes dick inside her and you start talking to her and have dinner with her again.
Cuck
Also, do you have text messages from her saying she's going to accuse you of rape if you don't go the cinema with her?
If you have then that's a get out of jail free card, I mean you could probably actually rape her and those texts would get you off the hook.
The only thing I have going for me Is that I haven't and never will touch any drug again.
Better, I have a recording of the conversation where she forces me to do it.
By the sounds of it the drugs weren't the problem, it was the withdrawals of not taking them that fucked you.
Sorted then nothing to worry about.
Just go rape her to teach her a lesson.
Also post pic of your ex getting dicked.
Yeah I know, But I didn't want to become dependant again.
i don't understand how weak do you have to be in order to talk to a girl who fucked a guy and sent a picture to you of them doing it
or better yet, talking to her in the first place when she cheated on you
you're a fucking joke man, those women are using you because you're a weak fucking cunt, get a grip, pussy
How do I fix this?
stop being scared
Something concrete please, I understand what you are getting at, but are there something specific? Same as "How do I get stronger legs" "Squats and Deadlifts".
Everything you feel is wrong.
Do the opposite of everything that you've done so far.
Honestly it wouldn't surprise me if the girls genuinely believe that they'd been raped. Because they've seen how much of a beta you are and have decided the only way they'd fuck you is if you forced them against their will.
You need to take the redpill son, stop feeling sorry for yourself go make some bitches feel sorry for themselves.
>go make some bitches feel sorry for themselves.
How do you do that user, not him
look man, i am not a chad by any means or anything close to that
i am just a dude from eastern europe and one thing i know well is how not to take shit from anybody
stop caring about other people's feelings, do what is in your best interest, stop being lazy, stop being a pussy, hang out with your friends more, don't take any shit from anybody ever no matter who the person is, even your mother
Thank you
Do you think a real man would let some rando douche rub up on his girl?
Do you think a man would passively just walk away and leave his GF with the guy without confrontation?
Do you think a man would try and get back with this girl after she cheated basically in front of him?
Do you think a man would give her the opportunity to send him a pic of her fucking another guy?
Would a man AGAIN try to get back with her after that?
Females want the strongest mates possible, to have the strongest offspring. It's fucking nature.
If another dude comes along to take what's yours, and you let him have it. She's not going to feel sorry for you, she's going to accept it, get dicked by a stronger man and move on.
On the other hand if you tell the guy that if he doesn't fuck off within the next 3 seconds then you're going to rape him with his own arm. When he does fuck off she'll be wet for you.
You see how this works? Women want strong mates, and play these games to test how strong you are.
And every single time you've failed every test.
Stop being a fucking cuck, grow some balls, get into fights, feel alive. Do something because if you don't then you're going make the same mistakes and you're going to feel like this for the rest of your life.
It should be noted that while in third world country I was fucking other girls there too, behind her back, wich she knew and might have triggered the fuckpic.
>cheating on your partner
ultimate degeneracy
Become alpha
You are the prize, act like it and make women chase you.
I hate having to refer people to reddit but
Read that shit, you weak faggots need it.
Why is it quaranteened?
Some people can't handle the truth and it got reported for misogyny by butthurt women.
Women like feeling unique and "I'm not like most girls" when redpill uses phrases like AWALT (all women are like this) when summing up typical negative female behaviour they get majorly triggered.
I can't believe reddit is less cucked than Jow Forums. Damn times done changed.
Test
Why? Onions?
Similar thing happened to me.
>FWB with best friend for 8 months
>Do everything together, its not love but something close to it. We promise to not fuck others.
>She likes male attention, I don't mind her flirting with others, I do the same. My only rule is that she don't flirt with others in front of me.
>At work party together at our bosses place, everyone gets smashed.
>She's hanging out with one of my closer friends from work.
>WTF she's sitting in his lap in front of a group of people
>Everyone seems put off by it, some girls approach me later to tell me that she's doing it to make me jealous.
>I believe them.
> decide to leave, we promised we would leave together, she wants to stay a bit longer.
>Call her the morning after to ask where she's at. She's still att our bosses place. Tells me nothing happened
>I believe her because we fucked moments before going to the party, but still tell her to fuck off for flirting with my friend in front of me.
>She says I never meant anything to her and that she didn't fall in love with me because I'm too ugly.
>Feel really depressed, realized I lost my fwb and my best friend.
>A week later another of our mutual friends call me
>Appereantly she bragged about fucking him at the party, she also bragged about hurting my feelings. tells her to not tell me
>Numb.jpg
She doesn't know that I know. Should I confront that white trash skank?
No, fuck one of her friends if you can, if you can't, then let her rot.
Read upon codependance and attachment theory and a book on boundaries. Also No more Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover might be able to help you.
Rape them before they take you Anal Town brah
There is no cure for mental illness, you can only manage it. And I'm clingy too OP. If we were completely normal we wouldn't be here in the first place.
After getting burnt enough times you’ll eventually get over it.
>whores have managed to convince young men that falling in love is a mental illness
Trying to shame young dudes for having feelings just because those feelings aren't reciprocated is one of the ugliest aspects of the current general discourse.
>nah man, it's not love, it's infatuation!
There's no difference, this is how young people love. And it's been like that since poets starting writing about love millennia ago.
OP, you don't have a mental health problem, you just haven't found a girl who loves you back.