Share some good feels Lads
>yesterday drinking with some friends
>didn't want to text my ex
>didn't feel like i wanted her to be with me
>didn't think about her the whole time even though i was drunk
First time in 2 months, i think i'm finally letting go
Also finally went from my puny 40kg OHP to 45kg, so there's that
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Im haopy for you user. I am also getting over someone and that gives me hope. We are all gonna make it
Thanks user, surprises me to be honest. Just a week ago i woke up next to her having spent the night at her place and fucking her.
You're gonna make it too user
Today i can not share any good feels as everything just fell apart today and i need to get my shit together and pull myself up. I need to /vent/.
Today my ex confirmed that she got a new boyfriend, she told me to wait for her to finish her internship before we could start anything new and she went out of her way and got a new one. I hate her so much, i instantly blocked her everywhere told her i despice her for the way she acts and told her straight that she is a thot and will always be one.
I currently feel very low and have big self hatred it doesnt help that we are in november and the sun is barelly up here, this just makes depression harder to fight against. I honestly want to lay flat and die right now but i know it wont happen, i know i have to push myself and work harder than ever now because why die at my lowest when i can die at my highest right, idk. sorry im just venting i have nowhere else to vent sorry
Women are honorless as a rule, why would you wait to find someone new along with her? If you guys broke up you should immediately stop caring what she thinks.
She was my first and i was her first, 3 years of beign together and knowing eachother for 4, it creates lots of memories which are hard to forget / walk over.
Now that i have officially deleted everything about her i will for real move on, thinking of her and our memories makes me sad, the worst part is i think she cheated on the new one with me earlier this summer which is really fucked up
Had my best day in a long time. Everything kinda aligned, hair was on point and skin looked nice and even, ‘ceps looked joocy etc.
>buying clothes
>qt shop assistant helps me find a jacket, being really friendly, smiling a lot, she has a rly hot accent
>decide to try to overcome autism, tell her she has a nice accent, ask where its from, she says Italy
>still smiling and stuff
>as i take a few trips back and forth to fitting room our paths always seem to cross/ seems like shes trying to talk to me more
>after paying ask her for her number, she says she cant remember it and doesnt have her phone on her, but that if i come by again she’d give me her number
>i smile and laugh it off but innerly confused
What did she mean by this? Was she just being a good shop assistant? But she was being super friendly and smiling and stuff, even compared to other shop assistants i talked to in the store. Did she really mean that i should come back some other day or was she letting me down easy?
Either way im glad i asked her at least, literally first time ive done that, hope it gets easier in future
Maybe shes fresh off the boat, got a new number and hasnt memorized it yet. Go for it user, best of luck
congrats OP
>gym today
>finally completed 5x5 @ 37.5 OHP
>40kg next time
it's shit but breh im hype
she mentioned that she just got an english number and that was why, but idk i think the fact that it was her work environment blurs everything and makes it hard to gauge stuff. Thanks for the encouragement tho, user, ill go back tomorrow
Problem is you're too tied up in the outcomes of these individual interactions as an indicator of your self-worth.
You can go back, or not. Doesn't matter really. You want to increase this type of interaction with many women.
Thats hype af man, youre gonna go into your next sesh and smash that 40kg! Heres some music to get you pumped youtu.be
Youre probably right, but success breeds confidence, and she was very cute
>What is sales commission?
I bet you think all the waitresses flirt with you too
Go back a week later but bring a female friend along so you don't look desperate then casually bring up the number thing with her, cool
If she told you to come back of course she wants you to. Girls tell creepers "I have a bf"
>making gains
that‘s it
>have a date tonight for the first time in over a year
>have a job interview tomorrow
>semester is almost over, only a few more exams to get through
Things are looking up, bros.
No, otherwise i wouldnt have brought this up. I even mentioned that in the part after the greentext but i guess that went over your head. My point was her level of friendliness and smiling went beyond even what i might expect from a tryhard salesperson
I think a week would be too much but good idea thanks user
I guess, idk tho maybe thats the italian version of that lmao
Thats wonderful user, i hope everything goes well
Its painful because spiritually you were married, and what God has joined should no man seperate. Why were you together for that long and not married anyways? Is there something you learn about a women after 3 years you wouldn't in 1? God bless.
>i guess that went over your head.
Okay faggot I guess it went over your head that if she actually was interested in you and not her commission that she'd ask you for your number instead
>hung out with great girl at her place last night
>watched a film, talked a bunch till like 4
>again
>she's boyfriended up, long distance
What gives, Jow Forums? Am I deluding myself? I like her a lot and we flirt a bunch, we've had a lot of face time. Her company is great but I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. It's a weird sort of feel
We had talks to move on to the next big step, moving in together and after that marriage, we were deep but in the end its only me that feels like this and in the end i have realised, i am the only one who matters in the long term i am going to hit the gym today on my restday, my legs needs work
Thanks for the insight. I get depressed for a while from girls just telling me about their past, and that's without doing anything to them. Can't imagine what your going through. Or perhaps it's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.
OP here, sucks to hear user
>girls always ask the number of guys theyre interested in
Dude holy fuark youre dumb
I had the same thing going with a slightly older Brazilian slamhog uber driver with a nice smile. I asked for her number and we texted back and forth for like a week until she started getting flaky with responses and date scheduling. I blocked her for a while and unblocked after a week and immediately got the I miss you etc etc spiel of her claiming to be shy/frightened of her English not being good enough.
Think she was sincere? I thought it was but it didn’t matter since I found a QT gf in the mean time
Idk i dont think im genuinely autistic but i may as well be because i cannot read social cues or emotions and stuff well at all. It seemed genuine to me but im not sure that even counts for anything. Either way what have i got to lose, ill just go back another day and ask for her number, worst case ontario i get rejected and then ill go to the gym and use it as fuel
Wanna know how I know you're a virgin?
Her monthly cycle at work. Learn it.
Jokes on you im not. I may be socially autistic but im good looking enough that i somehow still got laid
Saw this image, realised height is a meme.
Motivated to maxx myself again.
Just go for it my dude, 90% she'll dump him and be with you
>At gym yesterday
>For some reason feel really good (Prob enough sleep for once)
>Supposed to be a non-max bench day
>fuck it man let's go for it
>Grind out a solid 255 lb press
>Get that chest pat from my roommate with a "WOO"
>Share with gf cause she's always the one I'm excited to tell
>Talking to her about being so close to 1000lb
"Wow look at that, less than 50lb away! That’s seriously awesome babe"
>Continue with great lift go home, work on car, cook good dinner
Boys I wanted to kill myself 4 years ago, to the point I had a note written and saved on my computer desktop. I can honestly say lifting and this board changed my life. I hope you guys are in good places and if you're not hope you're striving to change it.
Nice. Sending you some comfy feels user
you made it user
>qt black girl called out to ask me if I was a model
>random group of qt english girls pass me by and go "awh he was cute"
I'm absolutely dyel even by normie standards, suppose it's the new haircut.
Post face to be quite honest, family
*snap*
My ex of 4.5 years got with a guy two days after we fought and broke up. Call it Jow Forums but women literally do not think the same way we do, they only seek constant reassurance that they are awesome and brave. We were both each other's first if you exclude some 2 month fling I had with an art ho.
Them getting with a new guy helps you reassure your decision was a correct one. You'll always be pissed off about her but just don't even entertain the notion of having mutual friends or maintain any contact.
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Sorry to hear that user.
I broke off all contact with her today and didnt let her have the final say either.
>Them getting with a new guy helps you reassure your decision was a correct one
I blieve that you are correct.
A new chapter begins now and to write i need to work hard on myself.
Just remember to never forget you are working out for yourself and only yourself. I've wasted some money trying to pick up stupid skills like playing the guitar just because "yeah that bitch will regret it when she see's how cool I am." Horrible motivator. The pain will go away once you find a new girl, it's okay to be sad though.
Will always have that in my mind, thank you user i really appreciate it, its hard when real life doesnt give you the support you need but i will never forget what anons just like urself has given me.
We're all gonna make it brah