How to be more dominant

nah nah nah, choking is the best fetish. all the girls I've been with got really into it, to the point where just putting my hand around their necks when we were cooking dinner together had the potential to push dinner back by half an hour. Girls love that shit (for the most part) and they get off on being dominated. stop being a pussy.

Also choke from the sides of the neck to cut off the blood flow, not the front where the oxegyn is lol it really doesnt have to be super hard, just keep going harder until you notice a visible reaction and top it off there. You just have to be confident and willing to try what she likes. If you dont, she'll find someone that will for sure.

Ok, lucky you, less cultural and communication problems.
As goes with aforementioned:
1 hair pulls. Just wrap her hair around your palm. Be sure to grab as much hair as you can, so the pressure is evenly distributed. Start by gently grabbing as much as you can, slide down almost all the way, then rotate your wrist until your arm at the initial position.

Nah she’ll like it
Worst case she’ll just tell you not to, though honestly she’ll probably appreciate that you’re going harder anyway

What's her age?

Alright this is some good shit thanks bros

Punch her like you're in the ufc.

Are you choking her while cumming inside her? If not, start doing that.

21, I'm 20

>if you are making out and against a wall, push her against the wall
>If you want to kiss her neck, grab her hair and pull her head back slow
>If you're on top of her, pin her arms above her head
>If you are changing position don't wait for her to do it just flip her over or drag her.
>If you're kissing her from behind, grab her neck lightly and tip her head up to kiss her neck
>If you are making out and moving toward the bed don't let her walk there pick her up, take her to the bed and throw her on it

All force should be in moderation, you want to dominate, not hurt

> I feel like choking is a bit much
Only had 1 gf but she'll fucking melt when choked even lightly. Kiss her neck and force her closer or force a longer than usual kiss

Give her a safe word, like red, which she can use if you are physically hurting her so you know when to stop. Just having her say 'no' doesn't work, iv had girls tell me not to finger them, then iv forced it and 5 seconds later they beg for me to go deeper and harder, girls resist a lot because they dont like feeling vulnerable but they also love to feel vulnerable, it's a fine line to balance.

Use her like a fucktoy. Just pick her up randomly and throw her on couch and start feeling her up, finger her while putting your thumb in her mouth and tell her to suck it then rip her pants down and fuck her brains out.

Or whatever the fuck you want. Throw a rubber ducky at her if that gets you off.

>goblin
Goblin slayer wants a word.

Try pushing and holding her against the wall. Not like in anime, get really close and move your knee, so it is between her legs. Non-dominant arm to the wall, elbow on the wall, palm on the back of her neck, little bit higher to the skull.
You want about 4-5 inches of space so that your hand is free to move around. If you are way taller than her, you have to spread your feet wider than shoulder widths unless you want that eccentric load on your quads and glutes.

Don't rush with moving your hand to the most sensitive areas, touch her neck, lats, slightly connecting to sideboob. Odds are, she's going to be grinding on your knee in no time.
Move your resting arm on her shoulder, start pressing it down in a controlled way. Move your knee back, and let her go down and blow you.

I get nervous choking my gf during sex but I do it more toward the base of the neck and not super hard, but still firm enough

you don't start with fully choking her obviously, just put your hand on her throat and see how she reacts.

Sex is a lot of communication, if you want to be more dominant but are afraid to act on it just try it out and see how she reacts, you don't start out with giving her a full slap in the face but maybe just passionately touching her cheek and see what she does. How is this so hard for you?

Also don't ask to switch positions (doggy for example) just flip her around and go for it.

Maybe tell her some things you want her to do, but obviously in the beginning stuff you have done before and that you know she likes.

Talk about both your experiences afterwards.

Once you're comfortable on this level, you can move on.

t. not sexual illiterate

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This sounds good thanks

well, OP is a kind of a late-virgin. Might be a bit anxious to communicate. I had quite a few girls who weren't able to tell me their experiences at all. Maybe that's my fault with wrong timing asking or whatnot.

OP, did you try light bondage at all yet?
For a starter, just use a belt. Ideally a nylon one like on a pick related. This makes a decent pair of handcuffs.
Try not to over tighten though. Firm, but not tight.

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unironically just be more confident bro. once you realize the average guy cries about how pathetic he is for attention on twitter/reddit/Jow Forums (you) it's easy
some more specifics:
>lift weights
duh doi it's easy to be confident when you know, and even better the guy you're talking to knows that you can bash their skull in the cement if you wanted
>don't blindly agree
when your bro is conforming a belief of his by telling you about it and you disagree tell him, don't just shake your head saying "hmm... huhhh". you're gonna have to learn how to diaagree irl, throw out your past decade of kiddy fights online where the winner is the last to comment
>work on your voice
quiet people are the bottom of the social food chain and if your voice is weak people will assume you are at the bottom before you even finish a sentence. be loud, try to not talk through nose, and try to have a jolly voice of meeting an old friend. a way to put others down is by saying things like "sorry can you speak up" it's the easiest way to bully people without them think you're doing it on purpose
>stop wearing earbuds
when you were 8 you thought oh man that guy with earbuds and a hoodie is so cool and mysterious, i wanna be just like him. newsflash bud, you're not trying to impress 8 year olds no one will talk to you and you'll be branded as a complete social outcast. don't even use your phone, just sit their and people will think you're deep in thought or something
>posture
i want to bash a 2x4 over every slouch back head forward alien. head slightly back, shoulders up and slightly back, back straight. that easy
>body language
learn how to speak and read it

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Black guy here I'll fuck hetr for you

Make sure to look up how to choke. You don't want to crush her windpipe

slap her in the face and force your fingers down her throat you gigantic pussy

What I like to do is, I gently kiss her and caress her, then around the time my hand is on her neck I softly squeeze, typically around now I place some lace rope around her neck. not enough to choke her but enough that she knows there’s something there and that it’s always pressing on her.
Then I’ll keep kissing her and start rubbing her arms, the trick is to get her to hug me at which point I lift her up and press her against the wall. HARD.
Look into her eyes and growl.
After this they just lie there and do whatever you order them to,
Every girl I’ve had enjoyed this.

That part about the voice x10
I work retail and there nothin more embarrassing than seeing an attractive girl and my voice drops halfway through a sentence.

Give her a wedgie

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put her over the knee and spank her.

It's not about her being choked, she just likes the feeling of your hand around her neck because it makes her feel vulnerable. That's how it starts, then after a while they want you to squeeze harder. Then they'll ask you to slap them.

my penis moved

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Withhold the dick from her for a week or so then when she is last expecting it, fucking rail her where she stands. Lots of slapping, choking, spitting, dragging. Just use her like you used to use your pillow. When she is about to cum, pullout, don't let her cum until you tell the fucking whore she can.no matter how much she begs.

>Just use her like you used to use your pillow.

What the fuck? Jesus you reek of virginity bro. Porn ain't real life. Really embarrassing.

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cuck

How many here would consider themselves sex lords?

Spotted the virgin LMAO

> Throw a rubber ducky at her if that gets you off
fucking degenerates

you sound insufferable mate

>it's the easiest way to bully people without them think you're doing it on purpose
if youre going to be a massive cunt, dont do it like a goddamn passive agressive teenaged girl hahaha u faggot
u need to deal with your insecurities before they get you in trouble

I'd say I am.
Pic related is just for those that let me take pictures, one folder from tinder thots and another folder from hotwives/cuckold couples.
Ton more without documentation.

AMA
To start with, no, I've done several tests multiple times and I'm free of any STD/STI.

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Unit

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how can I make my girl cum? she says she never comes from piv and the only way is when fingered or eaten out which I've been to lazy to do to be honest so basically I never made her cum yet. we've met up like 4 times already and the sex is getting way better and she says it's really good and she's eager to please me but since she hasn't come yet I feel inadequate but at the same time I don't really care that much.

tl;dr: how do I make a tense girl cum with muh dick

>What was your best fuck?
>what was your worst fuck?
>What was the most surprising shit said/done during it?
>What's your best move/trick/strategy?

Your poor soul user...

beat her during intercourse

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Two fingers inside, do a "come here" motion and lick(others want you to suck/vacuum + lick) their clits, other other free hand should be on her breasts. Use your elbows to spread her legs as she will try to choke/push you away. Get a consistent tempo going and don't stop.

>best
My gf who I plan on wifing, I'm out of the game now, maybe it's because of my fucked up past that sex with love mixed in it feels so fucking good.

>worst
Flat chest girl, worst in a way that if I stared at her chest it made me feel like I was with a guy.

>What was the most surprising shit said/done during it?
>said
Married woman asking me to get her pregnant
>done
Actually busting inside above said woman

>What's your best move/trick/strategy?
Eating out as mentioned, or in the doggy position but with one hand rubbing the girl's clit and the other squeezing her tits, and dirty talk.

>control+f "sex god method"
>0 results

I hate this shit board. That should have been reply number one.

You are all behind on the self-improvement train.

>some hoes blacked out
>others not so much

guess you really don't care about those ones

well poost it you dingus

>next time you’re making out, pull her hair back and kiss her neck
>choke her but not around her windpipe, lightly pinch the arteries in her neck
>pull her hair while you’re doing doggy or when she’s riding you
>also spank her while she’s riding you
But you shouldn’t listen to the artists here, ask her what she wants. Communication is important in a relationship.

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>tl;dr: how do I make a tense girl cum with muh dick
Oh I'm sorry you wanted it using your dick.
Do you have a big dick? 7 inches minimum, otherwise you're shit out of luck unless the girl is really tiny.
Pic related is what happens if you do foreplay like I did.

The blacked out ones had their full names including their middle name which you can search anywhere.

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sorry to break it to you but that's urine. Stay woke

*autists lol phoneposting

Yes, I never claimed it to be anything else.
Yes, girls get wet with whatever that slippery shit is to help lubricate, but no, when they squirt it's piss.

what are you trying to prove exactly? That you had a girl urinate on your bedsheets? congrats big man

Some user asked how to make a girl cum.

And you told him how to make a girl piss the bed

>safe word

Nyarlathotep!

If you can make a girl piss uncontrollably then you're way ahead of just making a girl cum.

Just slap her face and ram your fist in her ass.
thats essentially what she wants

...
Did you get her pregnant?

I have no clue. I cut off all communication and we don't leave near each other, nor does she have any idea who I actually am.

>leave
live
but yeah you get it, I've never gotten curious to look her up and I don't really want to know too.

You made the right move to stay the hell away after that.

>Just go hard like a goblin
I very rarely chuckle audibly when reading something on 4 chan but your pose made me

Yeah, choke her, push her against a wall, rip her panties off then pick her up and slam your dick in. The angle can be awkward depending on her height so it's more for show.

Also at some point, start play with her clit durit the middle of the day, pull down her panties from under her skirt then fuck her brains on out the counter

EDIT: prose*

While fucking from behind I like to lift her to me by her neck

Sit in the corner quietly and watch. I will show you how to dominate your qt Asian waifu.

>goblin

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>google how to safely choke
>click youtube link
>enter a section of "sex ed" I've never been in before
>they teach degenerate stuff like it's nothing
>they have millions of views
I fear for the future.

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>degenerate stuff
Like what? Also, don't be a prude.

Rimming, open relationships, male threesomes...all that stuff.

How's that sex ed?

This. Most of youtube stuff is utter degeneracy. What you want to find, is a decent tier BDSM guideline/safe practices et cetera. Maybe looking up in reddit communities would yield some results on this.

I find that actual porn stars produce pretty decent guides on that. There was a decent BDSM guide with Tom Baker 'Aunt Dianne, what's happening'. You know who I'm talking about. Well, he's like 60 now and made a series of instructional videos. Very respectful and not degenerate at all.

Ay reminds me of my ex, she was a yeah older than me too. We were both switches tho. Communication is the most important thing my guy, and can help to turn her on even more when you tell her what you plan on doing to her

>Throw a rubber ducky at her if that gets you off.
The madman.

Nope, very rare but some squirt milky white, almost mistook it for me cumming in there until I checked the consistency.

If you are packing just ram it in there while she is still not wet enough rape style, when it does get wet enough ram it into her ass. Hit or miss you could get charged OP

Some random tinder thot pissed all over your bed rofl.

Read some books, OP.
books.google.com/books/about/Domination_Submission.html?id=orPknQEACAAJ&source=kp_cover

>fucking my girl
>harder she says
>start pounding away
>HARDER!
>locks her legs around me and squeezes
>oh, it be like that
>forearm strike her face, drop my elbow back into her hip
>break her guard and pass side control
>catch her with another elbow
>lock her into americana for the submission

>Seeing this girl for like the third time
>Dicking her in the prone position
>She looks back and says she wants to "fight back" while I fuck her
>She starts struggling and shit
>Basically lock her arms, force her head down into the mattress and rape-fuck the shit out of her until she's exhausted
>Afterwards she says it was "10/10 sex" and wants to do it again

Girls are fucking weird man

Nice

holy fuck you literally are living my dream. just get a little drunk and pissed off and channel that into sex

Does anyone have experience with girls that didn't like that shit at all? Or changing a girl that dislikes it?
choking/slapping is basically my fetish and the girl i'm seeing doesn't seem to like it.

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>tfw gf doesn't like choking
we theorize it's because she nearly strangled to death on her umbilical cord when she was born, giving her a subconscious aversion
other rough stuff is fine

can you speak up?

Mine doesn't. I'v only tried choking her once but i was pretty hesitant/awkward so that probably defeats the purpose of doing something alpha/dominant like choking her. Also after reading this thread i realize i probably choked her the wrong way (windpipes instead of side of the neck)

slap her in the face with your dick when shes sucking you first, how she responds will indicate if you should start slapping her

The true redpill is biting girls. Gently bite her neck or shoulder or hair. It's more primal and less stereotypical than choking.

I had an asian gf for 2 years who loved being dominated. Here's the basic gestalt of what I did.
>lots of dirty talk while you're fucking her (calling her a little slut etc.)
>hair pulling, nipple squeezing, biting, choking
>spanking
You basically have to manhandle her as if you are using her as a sex toy to give yourself pleasure.