>Try to forget her >delete contact and messages >dream about her almost every day >feel suicidal and have tears dropping out of my eyes when i wake up sometimes after these dreams >think about her again after >go to work and gym >lift >sudden thoughts come about her and stop lifting and go home I wish I knew what she is thinking about me right now. I messaged her recently again and she coldly never replied back. She tortures me, she knows it Jow Forums and it makes me mentally ill. I cant workout properly anymore, i cant sleep, i cant concentrate anymore and she haunts me in my dreams. I just want to talk with her once and complete this once for all. But i would be completely pathetic if i write her again and I bet she would not reply back again.
I'm not even writing weird shit, just said how Life is going and all that normie shit. Am I the most pathetic person in this world?
Happens to all of us brah, just gotta get through it You'll be alright
Jace Nguyen
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I know what you are feeling OP. Mine dumped me last week and I have been going to the gym quite a lot since then, I kind of slacked off while we were together so now I put all the rage I have in my body to get the maximum amount of gains
I've been in the same position, anxious and suicidal..still dealing with it..but you need to start objectively looking at the situation. Is she flawless? Of course not. There are tons of girls who are just as nice, just as smart, just as funny.
Just hold on until it gets easier. Keep your life very low stress, don't turn to alcohol/drugs. Focus on something else. Go learn a language, hobby anything interacting with other women. Just don't hold on thinking you'll get back together. As far as your concerned she's dead.
Joseph Brown
But what can i do in this situation? I feel lost, seriously
Jason Collins
It's been 6 months. I tried many things and she is still in my dreams almost every day. This is impossible for me
Levi Kelly
Nothing man, there's no shortcuts.
Dont want to potentially give false hope but if you never text her again she MIGHT come back, but it sounds like you begged when she broke up with you which means it's not likely at all. Next time be indifferent. Just gotta let the months pass and try to meet new girls. Sucks, i know. But I'm going through it aswell.
Eli Powell
Ye she also fucks chad in the meantime
Noah Johnson
Yeah you're just a giant pussy. Nothing can be one, lay down and die.
No wonder she wants nothing to do with you, you are a faggot lol
Hunter Allen
It took me a year.
Stop trying. You don't understand. You can't force yourself to forget her, you just have to get used to being without her and then eventually you'll be okay without being with her and then you move onto looking at other women.
I still think about my ex...I was with her for 5 years, we had some incredible memories...those will always stick with you..but you can move on eventually. All you have to do is hold on.
Hunter Johnson
Would be 8 years togehter in october if i had not dumped her 4 years ago. I can't get into real realtion to this day. Fucking hookers and curling in squat rack. I regret everyday.
And blood-black nothingness began to spin... A system of cells interlinked within cells interlinked within cells interlinked within one stem... And dreadfully distinct against the dark, a tall white fountain played.
Alright last question, I dont want to sound like an incel, but why cant women straightforward say things? She leaves it on an open end and this is what bothers me most. I cant feel peace in this way. You guys know what I mean?
Noah Powell
sweaty
Luke Roberts
YOU NEED TO LET GO. I WAS ALSO LIKE YOU BUT I NOW HAVE BECOME ENLIGHTENED.
NEVER THINK OF HER AGAIN, BECAUSE I GUARANTEE SHE DOESN'T THINK OF YOU. BLOCK HER ACCOUNTS. You're probably still young with many years to find a qt gf YOU MUST MOVE ON AND SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY
Women by nature avoid conflict. They are conciliatory by design.
Matthew Ward
Cause they're built differently, you gonna turn gay?
Also because there's probably an option of getting together in the future, but here's the thing right. For her to want you back, you need to be in a position where your so self fulfilled and confident you don't want her anyway. So either way it's not going to work. Pretend she's dead and move on with your life. Literally any other women will be just as interesting.
Ryan Long
Just use that internal hate for workouts.
Asher Martin
Went through this 18 months ago. Honestly the pain goes away, these days I feel like a dodged a bullet as she’s a financial nightmare and would have ended up costing me a fortune.
Austin Walker
Ahahahaha faggot. She doesn't care about you. You know those loser that you try to avoid talking to because it's a fucking drain? That's how she feels about you, she doesn't hate you because that would involve feeling something for you.
Stop being a sad cunt and start being a sick cunt
Jayden White
Because she doesn’t want to completely cut ties, if it comes to a point where she NEEDS to use you for companionship, money, safety etc etc she wants to have you as an option lol. Never moving forward or back, she wants to keep you right on the periphery
Jack Martin
Thanks. I will keep that in mind lads and try to get back to life.
Joshua Taylor
Look at yourself, you are a mess. You're letting a chick run your world, and she's not even around. It's over, you must move on. You are in a pathetic state.
Practice meditation. This will allow you to control your thoughts. Your emotions will follow soon after. Take deep breaths and control your parasympathetic nervous system. Emotions are your brain's perception of your physiological state, so control your physiological state through deep breathing. Make sure you are eating and drinking enough. If you can't muster the will to eat, order some mass gainer powder two day shipping. This will allow for max nutrients for min effort. Don't stop lifting. Endorphins are pleasure. Go hang out with your friends. Crack jokes about what's transpired at your own expense and encourage your friends to do the same. If you can laugh at it, you master it. And if your friends can roast you over it, you will feel more present and human as opposed to if they were to treat you like a wounded puppy dog.
You are stuck in a low-head dam. You must focus on the fundamentals of your body and keep moving forward with your life. This is a natural part of every man's life and you will get past it. Test of strength.
Bentley Bell
Distract yourself with your hobbies, lifting and your life goals. You won't feel anything in a month
Adrian Parker
Well, I know it hurts, but it gets better, trust me. It happened to me before, I felt lost. Took me almost an year to completely recover, but after that I was a much better person. The best advice I can give you is to fill your time with things. Not tv or music, but active things. Go to the gym, read books in new fields you've never tried, sign up for some sort of club, go out for walks. Whenever you feel that overwhelming wave of emotion that just starts building up from inside of you that will wash all your other thoughts away, make you depressed and completely focused on thoughts of HER, that's when you DON'T sit down and you DON'T stop doing things - on the contrary. When you feel that, get the fuck up, go for a walk, make some coffee, do some push-ups, research some things for school and/or work (I don't know how old you are) and just DO SOMETHING. Also, spend time with your friends. I know it feels like a drag at first, but don't stay isolated. Force yourself to be cheerful around others. It will help.
Juan Rodriguez
Also FYI
Do not fall for some bullshit that breakups affect women more than men. Women have close ties to their family, will automatically be seen as the one escaping and therefore supported. Are obviously friends with a ton of girls who will turn around and tell them how amazing and beautiful they are and a ton of guys telling her to move on (can't hate the game)
It's shit, but guys have it harder. You need to look after yourself and make sure you have more in your life than a women.
Eli Barnes
Just remember there is a good chance Trex Gonadadon the Black High School drop out will rail her nightly, steal her money, and give her an STD, BUT she will "love" him and have their love child. After he is gone, she will call you up and ask "how are you, want to get a coffee?"
time heals. don't look at pictures of her, keep working out and doing your thing, before you know it your mental image of her will fade and you will forget her
Kayden Campbell
Taken me a year to start feeling even close to better.
I'm doing pretty fucking well in my career, I'm not in a wheelchair and when I turn my tap on clean water comes out. Life aint that bad man. I still hurt when I think about it but my life could be way worse, can't let some thot control your state of mind.
Camden Phillips
I know this sounds cliche, but it's going to take time, try not to think about her. >t. 14 months and i still think of her some times. Chin up brother it happens to everyone.
Josiah Lee
>try to forget her >whenever I get just about over her she messages me asking to see me >like a retard I do it everytime >after a day of seeing me and a nice time together she says we shouldn't be together and she regrets everything and wishes she could take it back
FUCK THIS CUNT. I blocked her after the last time she did this. I figure some dude pumped and dumped her. Last time I saw her she told me she hoped that maybe we could reconnect in our 30's and I told her that by that time I'd have a wife and kids.
Bentley Thomas
Why didnt you get on point?
Gabriel Roberts
I am now. I'm in an apprenticeship program with the biggest machining center in my state. That and I've dropped 20lbs in the last 3 months.
>we could reconnect I broke up with a girl I spend 10 years with and she dropped than one along with "need to find myself".
It hurt, still hurts. It's only been a month, but after she said those words I knew everything was 100% over.
I blocked her from kikebook, deleted her number and stop talking to her friends. Started counting my calories, a bodyweight routine and focus on my studies.
We will make it brother.
Chase Morgan
I mean I was, but sometimes you can't make things happen. Its honestly for the best now though because she didn't want kids and I want 5 and we did have a bunch of problems that wouldn't have been resolved ever.
