Why does being submissive feel good?

if traps are submissive, isn't that proof that they're really girls?

Traps are gay and gays are disgusting.

It doesn't unless you're gay or a female.

Cuz it's fun to let go.
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O shit, i havent listened to debaser in so long , thanks

>be 6'5 ripped """"straight"""" guy
>like being dominant with girls, naturally I attract the kind of girls who like that too
>actually bisexual but never done anything with a guy
>only attraction to men is being a little bitch boi serving a big strong man with a big cock
>never actually attracted to men in real life
>disgusted by the thought of doing something sexual with real men I meet in the real world
>assume its because I'm not actually bisexual irl but just fried my brain with too much porn or something
>still fap over gay shit all the time but think it only works as a fantasy
>meet a guy at work one time who is roughly as tall as me, more ripped than me and extremely handsome
>has a calm yet confident personality, obviously someone who doesn't give a fuck about anything because he gets anything he wants in life
>nervous when talking to him, not like anxiety which I used to have a lot but like a stupid slut acts when they're around a turbochad
>go and masturbate over sucking him off and getting fucked in the ass by him at the first possible opportunity
>it was the hardest I ever felt a need to fap over a person I've met, more so than any woman
>still fap thinking about him to this day, actually it's more thinking about what a faggot I am for reacting that way
>realize I am an irl faggot, it's just extremely unlikely I will ever meet anyone who lives up to my fantasy who is gay or bi and would want to fuck me

For me it doesn't feel much like degeneracy, I think of it as appreciating and rewarding strong and powerful men, like a celebration of masculinity. This is good even for a mostly straight man because it gives you a clear image of something to aspire to sexually, and helps you to understand attraction to men from a feminine perspective. Irony being that it inspires me more to go to the gym, to look good and have a strong, confident personality, which further diminishes the possibility that I would find a man who would be able to fulfill that fantasy.

Dude, there's plenty of dominate Gay men like that.
Just fucking know where to look kek.

you can find those guys on grindr fairly easy
alphas are everywhere

I've looked and no one has come close. For one they would have to be at least close to as tall as me or it doesn't work at all, which is less than 1% of the population. And they would have to be physically stronger than me, which is maybe less than 5% of the population, and they would have to be conventionally attractive and have a good sized dick, which I guess is maybe 10%. Do the maths on that, all 7 of those guys who exist are living the Chad dream railing the sexiest women around all day every day and have absolutely no desire to be faggots.

I'm not that bothered though, if any such opportunity arose then I would take it but I'm not going to go crazy trying to find it.

And what happened to the guy at work?

Also there are guys I have seen on hookup sites and apps who would be that to a normal dude or a twink but just aren't quite up to what I want, and they always seem to try too hard. Like they are trying to project how alpha they are and play that 'dominant' guy character, but it comes across a little bit weak to me. I guess it's because I have learned to be a naturally confident person in many ways over the years so putting up a front like that is kind of embarrassing to me and puts me off.

It's unreasonable to ever expect to find it and that's OK with me, I'll just fuck women and fap to gay shit when I feel gay.

Being submissive is fine if you're female, if not then you're the king of faggots

He didn't work with me he just came into the office about some shit so I only met him for about half an hour and never saw him again. What a life that guy must live though, he must just swim through a stream of pussy juice every day.
Not to mention horny faggots, I get a lot of interest personally from gay guys but they are never attractive to me and presumably want me to be the dominant one which doesn't appeal to me at all with men.

Shit feels good. I've been submissive and dominant with both men and women and if you're limiting yourself to just one of these options then you're seriously missing out

What if you have no interest in being a dominant in sex? I'd enjoy being dominant in some ways, like teasing my partner but I don't see any appeal in being the "top" penetrative partner

If you don't like something then don't do it. Judging other people for their sexual preferences and acting like it somehow reflects on them as a person are what religious fanatics and virgins do.

>acting like it somehow reflects on them as a person
But it does reflect on you as a person. That doesn't mean you should judge, but it's like taste in music or something, it has to come from somewhere and represent something about your personality.

>has to come from somewhere
Yeah, that "somewhere" is "it feels good." You wouldn't say that someone who only wants to have vanilla sex with the opposite gender reflects on their personality somehow, you just accept it and don't read into it any further because that's what we're told is the default. But as soon as someone strays from that path there's the assumption made that "something is different or wrong about this person."

>Yeah, that "somewhere" is "it feels good."
Why does what feels good to one person not feel good to another? Especially when we are talking about mostly psychological stuff.

>You wouldn't say that someone who only wants to have vanilla sex with the opposite gender reflects on their personality somehow
Of course I would.

>But as soon as someone strays from that path there's the assumption made that "something is different or wrong about this person."
Who ever said 'wrong'? I never said that, I specifically said you shouldn't judge.

>Why does what feels good to one person not feel good to another?
Because no two people share the same body or the same brain (unless you want to split hairs and bring up twins.) The whole point here is that trying to equate someone's mental health to their sexual preferences is not going to reveal anything meaningful. People like what they like and it's pretty futile to try and say "oh, this person likes being submissive, they must have daddy issues" or "this person like vanilla heterosexual sex, they are well adjusted and normal."

>tfw naturally submissive but you're a faggot contrarian so you force yourself to be dominant

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I'm sort of like this user. I am dominant with other women but if the guy is someone I admire I'll want him to dominate me. It's not even the chains and whips and all those things. You just want to be grabbed by the hair and fucked hard.
It's also hard for me to let a man smaller or weaker than me get me in that position. Most doms I've met are utter manlets.

Why not just act in the way that makes you feel most comfortable?

>tfw submissive in a dominant way

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that was hot user-kun thanks

I should run around pressing cute boys against walls and nibbling on their necks until their boxers get wet?

I like to have my limitations, it makes me feel more like I've earned something.

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Right because there are no submissive gay men

Great job user. Think before you post

Where do you put comfort in your hierarchy of values?

most women do not know the power of submission

so you gotta just kill them

Yes user, you should absolutely do that.
I'm not sure exactly what you mean. I don't really rank things like comfort based on some sort of hierarchy