Any tips for a an effeminate socially anxious nu-male virgin on how to get some fug? Been masturbating a lot recently I am starting feel the universe telling me to fulfill my true destiny and start thinking about fuggin beautiful healthy women. I just gotta get my health on the right track first.
Probably have dozens of symptoms of mental illness probably because I thought I was so goddamn smart that I could *think* of a way to master life, but turns out that life tactic is completely retarded and only leads to insufferable beta faggotry.
Anyone found themselves in a similar situation? Where do I even begin this journey?
Thanks, definitely doing this, but wanted to try some simpler things first
Adrian Rivera
start of by talking to ugly and fat girls, on dating apps and in real life(wont be easy)while at the same time hitting the gym like a madman. after a year you should be easily able to snag a gf of your liking or fucking thots, due to your new found charisma and looks
David Perez
>nu-male Firat put down the marvel comics, video games and feminism. Second go to the gym. Third clean your room.
Thomas Sanchez
Find God you degenerate beast. All of you horny apes, thinking about sex and lusting all day, I feel pity for you.
You think sex will grant you happiness, find God and you will be truly happy.
Henry Brooks
>Probably have dozens of symptoms of mental illness probably because I thought I was so goddamn smart that I could *think* of a way to master life, but turns out that life tactic is completely retarded and only leads to insufferable beta faggotry. You can, just not in the realm of fucking girls. It is not a left-brained activity. The easiest mindset when it comes to fucking women is to have a goal in life other than women. When you have an actual purpose, the woman is a disposable cum dumpster in comparison. This takes all the pressure off of her and makes it far easier. Compare that to a beta male who relies on the woman for his happiness and makes her pussy drier than the Sahara desert. Never train to failure brah.
Andrew Taylor
This seems straight forward enough actually. Pretty solid advice user This seems well meant but i won’t stop playing video games right away. Just discovered a really great one. Already found the true god mr. christcuck, but i appreciate your concern
No fap no porn Lift 5x a week Do cardio or martial arts in your days off Quit video games or scale back to only ones played as part of being social and take up reading Make an effort to be more sociable, flirt a little, this will be way easier if you are doing the no fap/porn. Cut back on Jow Forums too it fucks with your head a lot
I did this and went from being a guy who sits in the corner at work and speaks to nobody to the centre of attention with people coming up to me, inviting me out, I even got a hookup with a girls friend and I was a full on turbo incel Jow Forums a month or so ago
Cameron Powell
Picture what kind of guy you want to be, compare him to who you currently are, then close the gap. >I want to be more muscular, lift weights >I want to be able to talk to women, read books >I want to be confident, practice confidence This isn't complicated. Just be who you want to be and reap the rewards.
Colton Turner
I do have a goal and it is to start being a really cool and respectable dude and start finding the confidence to make a name for myself and thus get girls easily. I agree life isn’t all about sex but it is important for feeling spiritualy healthy to be express your sexuality isn’t it?.
Not an expert on brains but realized that i have been overthinking my social behavior and have become kind of a creepy faggot, because i kept worrying about what could go wrong lol. So i discovered that thinking less about consequences of eventual failure was effective for progress and is more manly because it is facing the task of accepting and overcoming gayass emotions like fear and hope Nice potential my man, you could lift any woman if you continue lifting
Colton Foster
What’s a good book that helps with talking to girls?
Adam Allen
The Bible.
Samuel Sanchez
Step 1.) Get buff Step 2.) Post shirtless pictures on Tinder
Girls here hate the bible, religion isn’t even funny anymore m8
Kayden Cook
Repent, faggot.
Wyatt Gomez
The Rational Male is a good starting point, it's pretty good at giving you an idea of how to view and treat women if you can stomach all the typos and editing errors.
William Phillips
>reading books i tought this board didn't allow faggots just fucking talk to them bro, reading books about "social inteligence" will just turn you into more of a sperg. If you're too much of a pussy to do it get drunk, that helps alot with anxiety
Adrian Bell
>why read books when you can get drunk I bet you used to bench a lot in high school.
Nolan Smith
Based
Daniel Martin
Thanks for the rec, but no thanks. Seems like a book that would be excelent if you want to be alpha male meme lord. I just want to be able to form healthy relationships with women, but also with men
Cooper Nguyen
Thanks for not being a faggot user, this is good advice. Will definitely use this simple easy trick
Isaac Rodriguez
Way of the Superior Man First and last book I would recommend, most of them are just psychology meme shit.
Caleb Flores
>What book should I read? >This one, it has what you're looking for. >No thanks, I have no idea what's in it but I'm going to assume it's memes for no reason. God, you really are a faggot. What the fuck does "alpha male meme lord" even mean? Fuck it, fine, if you want to sift through a bottomless pit of garbage self help books to find one that will get you laid without being to memey (whatever the fuck that means), go ahead. Maybe you'll end up reading Roosh and get arrested for sexual assault, idgaf.
Dominic Flores
Hmm this actually seems interesting. Will check it out, thanks friend.
Hunter King
Read Marcus Aurelius, Meditations.
Also meditate.
Tyler Cook
Just had a bad feeling about it since it was basically the holy grail of the r/theredpill back in those days and that place was misogynistic as fuck. I’ll check it for your sake if I can find find a free version. You’re right I should be more grateful I guess, didn’t mean to rustle your swag bro Seems like a valuable read, will put in shelf for vanity points for now though
John Wilson
>You’re right I should be more grateful I guess, didn’t mean to rustle your swag bro I get irritated really easily. It's not a bad book, though. It repeats itself a lot and the writing style leaves a lot to be desired, but it has a few nuggets of wisdom I haven't found anywhere else and have been nothing short of indispensable for me.
Jordan Bell
Wait a second this is gay as hell i don’t have use for this. Why are you guys so obsessed with boring pseudo intellectual books. Nvm i think i have gotten what i need from this thread. Thanks to all of you i feel confident that I can do this now. Good luck to you
>free version check piratebay, they have ebook versions of this and many others
John Gutierrez
Pseudo intellectual is the best you're going to get. Humans are partially evolved chimps. Chimpanzees are known to scheme, connive and murder each other. The idea of a "healthy relationship" is a meme.
Easton Moore
Lose some weight, get some programming socks, install grindr, and go to town
Anthony Wood
not op, but have a question about this. Some Jow Forumsizen said before hotel bars was a good spot for picking up milfs. Is this true? how do you go about it?
jokes on you, i'm still in high school, and yeah, i do bench a lot. But that still doesn't disprove my point, books will never cure your autism, exposure to social situations will
Lincoln Fisher
>"why read books when you can get drunk" -school child who thinks he's worldly
look at me, typing in lower case, im so aloof and detached
Ryan Brooks
He's right though. Those books on how to get laid don't help you at all. All of the tips on them were created by pick up artists who pander to socially inept nerds who are desperate to lose their virginity because it's easy cash. Most of people who follow what those books say end up looking like spergs and getting rejected in the worst way possible. No one gets laid with those books. youtu.be/6EpqU4juYKw
Gavin Roberts
Tbh he fucked up by addressing them as a group instead of talking to an individual and not leading the conversation. He basically asked them to decide who among them would come forth and suck his dick.
Gabriel Nelson
Did you read the book before reviewing it? The fact that you think it's about picking up women leads me to believe you're literally judging a book by it's cover like a retard.
Owen Martin
I was talking about PUA books in genral, not on The Rational Male. Notice how I didn't quote the guy who cited it.
Thomas Baker
Your retardation is astounding, I'm not sure where to start. You buttfuck your way into a discussion about a book you haven't read, call the entire genre the book belongs to shit, get called out for not reading the book, and backpedal by saying you were talking about every book in the genre EXCEPT the only one being discussed in the discussion you entered, while still never even claiming to have read any of them. A dozen things must have gone wrong in your brain all at once to facilitate your posts.
