Feels Cantina

Give me a chocolate milk please

Vodka, pls. Russian Standard if you have any.

Tried hanging out with my ex again earlier this week. Long story short: we both break up in June as she got incredibly busy with school and will be moving this upcoming spring. Agreed to be friends and hang out when possible. Did so in July, but haven't been able to since. Most recent attempt being Tuesday. I don't even wanna fuck her or beg her to get back together. I just wann ahang out with someone I consider(ed) my best friend before she leaves and we will probably never see each other again in our lives. I'm gonna give her 1 more shot for my birthday in January. If something "comes up" I'm gonna drown myself in liquor, have a few smokes, cry like a bitch when the party is over and friends have left, and admit it's over.

For good feels, I'm back in the gym this week after a month of unemployment, new job is decent enough (working as a tech for Ricoh), got to stay home this entire week for online training, will be going to St Louis on the week of the 17th for IRL training, have a Christmas party and NYE party with old friends, am currently reading Rich Dad Poor Dad and motivated to make some extra money on the side somehow, and I'm currently enjoying some new Doom WADs I downloaded last night.

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We can't save everyone user, sometimes we can't even save the ones we love the most
Reminder that Chad drinks beer and eats pizza with Stacy while you eat broccoli, and ground beef

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Coming right up bucko
You're a man of refined taste user, one ruski standard coming up. It's good that you're cultivating yourself user, keep it up breh, just stop contacting your ex, it's only going to hurt you more and more, loneliness is a bitch, but if it makes you happy, go ahead.

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Gf and I moved in together a couple months ago and I think things are falling apart

whiskey on the rocks please?

havent lifted for... months
no drive, so much work

also trying to get over the ex
made an ass out of myself the past 2 months
i believe she's feeling guilty a lot though

What's wrong user?

Coming right up,we all make mistakes breh, and just because of that, we shouldn't let ourselves fall into an abyss that's lead by our darkest desires, those ain't my words, they're uncle Iroh's

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thanks man
guess i should get back into the iron and off that shallow egoistic maniac eh

if she stopped answering me what do I do ? Last messagge was mine yesterday night, she haven't replied yet, I didn't typed anything yet today. Do I let go and cry myself in a corner ?

Shes working and going to school. I work nights. We never spend time together anymore and just feel like strangers sharing a place. Also the sex has been awkward and infrequent

>tfw the nightmares are back
seriously don't know how much longer i can take this

how old are you guys?
love to move in with a gf, never have as of yet

That's the spirit user! Don't mention it, glad to help

Try setting aside some time for you two, it doesn't have to be anything fancy, just spend some quality time together, cooking together, going for a walk, anything really. Don't lose hope user

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>back to under 70kg
>feel alone
>have my own place
>have friends
>still getting over the ex
my life in general is pretty good, got a promotion thus a raise and new job at my company next year

i still long for companionship with a girl at my side...

A fresh pint of the local on tap, cheers mate.
Life’s great. I knew the summer was gonna be great and that motivated me all year. Now we’re here and it’s great.
Life is treating me well, at no small cost.

I'm a 30yo kissless handholdless virgin and I feel I'm trapped. I want to go to a prostitute but I get diarrhea from all the stress when I even think about actually doing that. I could go on a date but for how long can you pretend you have any kind of experience? I could also be open about my lack of experience but then she'll think I'm weird. I just don't know what to do.
Days pass by filled with work. When I'm not tired enough I go on a stroll but when I finally get home I just waste time until I go to sleep.
Every now and then it really hits me how inexperienced I am and how difficult it is to start at my age and then I literally just fucking cry.
I don't want to date anyone anymore, I just don't want to be a virgin. If I'm honest with myself I'd like to have a girlfriend just so noone can laugh at me for never having one.
I didn't pursue having sex with just anybody when I was younger because I guess I wanted it be special. I ended up as bitter as they get.

Give me a glass of whiskey, the topshelf stuff. Im planning on killing myself, partner. Not here in this fine establishment ofcourse but Ive had enough in my 20 years.

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Felling kinda shit again today for no reason. I`ll take some whiskey

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Good to hear breh, keep on truckin'

Helping grow the small business I see, great to hear you're doing outstanding this year, here's to another year of WINNING

amazon.com/How-Be-Miserable-Strategies-Already/dp/1626254060
Read this breh, come back once you're done

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break it off now or find a way to nurture that love. Don't drag it out for 5 more years like I did.

26 and 27
Yeah I've been trying. Were gonna bake some cookies and shit together on Sunday. It's just frustrating

gonna really start my dj hobby now

bought a good dj controller

So you are a volcel turned incel? Why are you so focused on how others perceive you? Is it because you view life as a competition? Maybe if you only focused on improving yourself steadily, at your own pace, you would not have all of these negative feelings.

>26 and 27
tfw 27 turning 28 in a couple of months
tfw yet to experience what it's like to live with a gf

had an ex stay a month at my place but that's about it
was nice to come home to someone waiting for you

Hard to believe that a youngster like me is thinking of such things, what's wrong? I know that feel breh

Probably the weather and lack o' sun, it ain't good for your well-being, try getting enough vitamin d, and don't forget to keep working out

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You’re the (bar)man.

should i restart SL lads?

t. hasn't lifted in god knows when

give me a rum and coke lad, feeling good about my weight loss and i haven't had a drink in months

>just stop contacting your ex, it's only going to hurt you more and more, loneliness is a bitch, but if it makes you happy, go ahead.
I feel it is out of respect. Normally any other Tinder sloot I come across I'm over it withing 3 hours tops. But when you love someone and they love you and they decide this how they're going to treat you, there's a part that doesn't want to admit it. I feel my birthday idea will be when I finally have to admit it. I should ak her to make plans now but can't come off as needy. Yet just by typing that out I know that's not a healthy state of mind to have. Moar vodka.

That's great to hear user, maybe you could dj here when you're free :)

It doesn't really matter what you restart, as long as it gets your ass back in the gym breh

user from someone who tried to "fight" for his ex for 2 months and her going the self pity route, you want her back as much as i do
but it will destroy you user

>That's great to hear user, maybe you could dj here when you're free :)
sure, if y'all like drum and bass or tech house

stop contacting your ex right now. It took me 2 years and half to nearly forget her, getting sued in the meantime by her. Don't do it, the faster you do it the better

Get a puppy

i hate dogs

>So you are a volcel

I've never been a volcel. I just didn't want to do it with just anybody.

>Why are you so focused on how others perceive you?

I was the class clown in school and it stuck. Goofing around was how I dealt with being significantly weaker and less handsome and interesting than my classmates.

>Is it because you view life as a competition?

I think the people around me treat me like a contestant, so yeah, I kind of do.

>Maybe if you only focused on improving yourself steadily, at your own pace, you would not have all of these negative feelings.

You need two people to form a relationship or to have sex. What do I have to offer to a woman? She has her needs.

Held hands with a girl out of my league. Turns out she’s not interested. Not sure how to get back to reality.

That's why you're single

doubt that

Just a glass of milk, Ex Gf still obsessed with me but i just don't find her attractive anymore and i know i can do so much better, was it the right choice to dump her?

One step at a time user

Chicks love dudes who love animals brah. Cat, dog, bunny, doesnt matter. A good dog is just great to come home to.

so many guys here would kill for their ex, including me, to be obsessed with one

It's time my friend. Give the 5 scoop.

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Thanks fren. I’ll take pleasure in knowing a semblance of the feeling of holding hands with someone you love. Interlinked.

cat person user, but i developed a fucking allergy against 'em after having one for 27 years
dogs are too loud, too child like, just don't like their jumpiness

tfw you were together with a hot Jow Forums girl just up until rich panini died

it all went downhill from then

Even the hypoallergenic ones? My friend is the same way but trying to find an HA one

those with a lot less hair or something?
dunno a couple of races yeah, can only be at my mums for like an hour, two max after that my yes swell, i start to sneeze and get asthma like fits

You should get a higher intelligence dog, they can be chill. Find a doggo that will match your energy. I have a cat but really want a gf so I can get a dog (live alone so need someone to help watch it).

Yeah the shorter haired ones. That sucks dude. Pic related is my new buddy. Hes 6 months old

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Today

>no one ever talks to me
>every one avoids me
>doing shoulder press
>amazing beautiful woman in front of me says
>wow, I wish I could lift that much
>I giggled and smiled at her
>she stops and gives me this disgusting look
>she was actually talking to the guy behind me

Just kill me already

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cute kiddy, maybe i'll look into those kinda cats
really miss having a cat
the one at my mothers, really connect with him on a human to cat kinda level

>haven't been holistically attracted to a girl in 7 years
>qt3.14coworker.jpeg
>platinum blonde
>gorgeous smile
>petite
>perfectionist to a fault
>is actually funny
>driven and lives on-purpose
>depends on me for emotional stability at work
>inb4 dont shit where you eat
>can't help but flirt with her

>has had same boyfriend for 5 years
>implies she's loyal
>loyalty makes my attraction worse
>don't want to undermine her loyalty thus destroying part of what makes me like her so much

*sip* but it's fine, I'm fine. :^)

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pro tip: look for a wife instead
you’ll make better choices

>Gf just told me she needed to "take a break" today. She is unable to forgive. Loved her and put my soul into our relationship but she's choosing her ego.
girl talk for
>there is someone else who sparked my interest but i want to pursue that without guilt so im basically breaking up with you

Fuck I actually felt better than most days today for no apparent reason, I just hope it lasts. I probably have some kind of mental illness, but I' don't wanna fall for the pill jew. Also how do I stop thinking about that nice girl that could've been my gf but I fucked it up? Was she even nice if she had a basic standard tattoo and went to bed with me on the first date?

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Try going to a church (or your local equivalent thereof) and just listen.

go lift and forget it

Lift to reward the next
And make the ex regret

I'm a manlet and I need to cope. How the fuck do I deal with the constant mogging?

.t 5'7

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>you were the first who fought so hard for me user

wew................

Hey bud, I'll have a whiskey ginger

>23 years old
>college grad last year from good school
>didn't do so well in school because of depression and complete loss of work ethic
>unemployed since for the past 16 months
>never had a job in my life because i was coddled by my retarded (but well-meaning) father
>can't get a job i would remotely want because of lack of experience and mediocre performance in college
>have a deeply-ingrained ego created by my father and nurtured by being surrounded by so many hardworking/talented peers...which prevents me from applying for the shit jobs that would help me regain my general work ethic
>I also don't know what I want to do and what I THINK i want to do seems to be motivated by a desire to belong and make money
>I know I'm delaying the inevitable and will have to get the shit job that I've been avoiding but I haven't been able to fight my ego and stubbornness for a long enough period of time to acquire that rite-of-passage job

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>I've never been a volcel. I just didn't want to do it with just anybody.

But why has your disposition changed now? Because you desire sex more? Or is it because you think you will be lower value if you dont?

>I was the class clown in school and it stuck. Goofing around was how I dealt with being significantly weaker and less handsome and interesting than my classmates.

I know this feel well, but I actually learnt over time that I was punishing myself comparing myself to others in such a harsh way, and in hindsight, my ability to make others laugh was something that many of those I thought were above me didn't possess themselves.

>Jow Forums will treat you like a contestant, your boss or parents might, but ultimately it's yourself who decides whether you are actually a contestant or not. You are shifting responsibility onto others, therefore giving away power over your happiness. You don't have power over others, but you do have power over yourself.

>You need two people to form a relationship or to have sex. What do I have to offer to a woman? She has her needs.

I am not an expert, take my opinion as you will. But I believe women, especially due to there biological role as child bearer, need a man who is a rock who will keep them grounded in their time of need. Women want a man who can remain strong and happy even when times perhaps aren't. Sometimes this stability can be provided through wealth and status, which is why women are hypergamous, but it isn't necessary as millions of men globally prove on a regular basis.

In order to become this rock, you need to step out of this race you have locked yourself into with others, and work on yourself. Learn how to attain happiness without attachment to anything, without any prerequisites. In the current state you are in, you will endlessly seek hedonistic sex, thinking it will help you win this imaginary race you have put yourself in. It won't.Step out of the race and live life by your own rules.

overall fine except for my love life (lack of)

>24 yo kv
>recently realised i'm actually pretty good looking, slowly coming to terms with it
>live in a working class shithole, no friends for hours in each direction
>"try online dating user"
>start a few accounts, can't convince myself to put the effort in to meet with girls who are what is to me under 7/10
>7/10 or above obviously aren't interested or ghost because due to years of social isolation and autism my pics are shit
>no hobbies i'm interested in do any meet up events, plus they're all male hobbies anyway.
>toil is just family men who never socialise with work colleagues
>tried meetup but that's a sausage party around here

about the only thing i can think of at this point is going out in the evenings on my own and cold approaching people. fairly sure this is an american concept though, every time i've seen people try to do it here in the uk they've been politely shown to be unwelcome.

really don't know what to do apart from 'lowering my standards'. how the fuck do i do that?

You did nothing wrong brah, don't let her get you down. Why feel embarrassed because someone else was a cunt? She only revealed how ugly she really is.

t-thanks friend

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I should. I know I should, but I can't throw a year and a half out so easily. I think I'll wait until the Christmas Party and just say I'm planning something on X date. No response or no go? Then delete her from my phone, FB, etc... Just in case there is an actual, legit reason. It might be torture, but it'll be the final nail in the coffin.

Get into a habit of starting conversations with random people, don't concentrate on the outcome, just concentrate on the attempt at having a good time. Start with men, so you are used to it, then women you aren't sexually attracted to, then gradually begin conversations with women you are. Do it anyware, doesn't matter, a great place I've found is public transport as someone always has something to say about where they are going etc. The key is to have fun though, don't expect numbers right away. When you can learn to have fun and connect with people that is when you will learn to build trust with women. Women won't hand out numbers to guys they don't trust, that's why I recommend speaking to people you meet to get used to building trust with people. It's a useful networking skill anyway if you ever plan to start a business of any kind.

>starting to get half decent at writing
>no matter how good I get no one will ever publish it and I wont go down in history as a great author because no one fucking reads anymore
one death please

Plenty of people read brah, if your book was good enough it could even get made into a movie. You think JK Rowling would be as revered without the Harry Potter movies? Ofc not. Or the fat dude who wrote the books (source material) for Game Of Thrones. Of course not.

Keep pushing brah, never give in.

Harry Potter and Game of Thrones are absolute dog shit though, I don't want to write drivel like that.

What you looking to write?

They’ve got appeal, and you’re not their audience. You’ll probably still have an audience out there though for whatever you want to write.

The mog only exists when you feel inferior. The only way to not get mogged is to stop caring.

I want to be Proust 2.0 which wont work in the current cultural zeitgeist, the literary meta leans towards post modernism or "period pieces" that seek to encapsulate the modern era because that's all that anyone cares about as of now, themselves or their own meandering thoughts that are just about themselves once they finally reach the end of their interminable rambling.

I'm trying not to acquiesce to the state of literature as it is right now because to do so would be to recognise that people don't appreciate visceral beauty anymore outside of the superficial aspects that are the foundation of the aforementioned cultural zeitgeist that we live in.

Sound edgy but its true, and its brutal.

Shit bro, shit recurring theme to them?

*but it's hard to ignore how shit the people that currently make up the world are

sorry, im phone posting and probs not painting myself in a good light due to vomiting out my thoughts without thinking but whatever

I've noticed a small bald spot about the size of an eraser head on the front left of my forehead. Despite a bunch of people trying to convince me it's nothing, the more I look at it, the more I'm convinced it's balding for hairline recession starting. This has really got me down and is filling me with social anxiety. I don't want to lose my hair.

I know my problem isn't that big in the grand scheme of things, but my hair has always been a source of confidence for me. Something I never realized till this month.

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>but it'll be the final nail in the coffin.
how often have i said that to myself user

>2 months ago
>fuck after she breaks up with me
>proceeding weeks of fucking
>will be the final nail today
>make out at a party
>will be the final nail
>fuck with her even after she told me she fucked with someone else
>final nail
>send her flowers
>final nail
see where im going at

Man please don't, what's up bro, I'm 21 and i hate the thought of someone younger than me doing that

do it bitch. you should show people you're above her level to begin with.
thats when other girls get even more attracted to you

>I have only weights in my life

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Im sick in the head friend nothing Ive done has helped, Ive merely stagnated as my brain continues to decay. I have no hope. I have no will. I want to scream but I know it wont do anything

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Nip it in the bud now user, admit it's over now and embrace the sorrow now rather than later. It sucks but you'll be thanking yourself when you can enjoy your birthday.

Like girl in class but never spoken to her because she is never alone. I literally have 0 friends in that class haha

something's wrong with my eyes, i don't know really what, i see that my brow is drooping, but i'm afraid i have a squint and i don't know if it looks like that because of that assymetry, but in the photos they look weird

i got so insecure i don't look people in their eyes, please help me

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Give me one of everything.

Oneitis keeps blowing me off, I waited too long.

I pretty recently reevaluated my life and decided the direction I was moving in was bullshit, had already cost me enough and was just going to cause me more pain for a payoff that wasn't going to be worth it. And it looks like I got my shit together too late.

Tempted to try getting back in contact with a girl who has been DTF me over the years to try my luck out of frustration

you have a slightly lazy eye but its barely noticeable and no one gives a fuck
stop being gay