List your New Years Resolutions for 2019, then take a screenshot of your post and make it your desktop background. Next step, get started on it immediately, don't wait for the new year, get a head start. I've done this for the past 2 years and follow through with almost all of my resolutions every year, I can only hope to do more this year!
sticky: 4chanfit.wikia.com/wiki//sig/_sticky previous: >We're into December, do you have any goals you want to achieve until the year ends? >Have you done anything you're proud of, lately, or even this year? >There are many bumps in the road, big and small, how did you soldier on through them? >Which people are supporting you, and which people in your life are you grateful for?
Bonus: post /sig/ infographs
Remember, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. We're all gonna make it!
>We're into December, do you have any goals you want to achieve until the year ends? December is going to be very busy for me so no, already have too much on my head, however for 2019 I'll set up a daily routine for the week.
>Have you done anything you're proud of, lately, or even this year? Started therapy, got to finally kiss a girl, have some sort of a meaningful social circle, tried new things
>There are many bumps in the road, big and small, how did you soldier on through them? Messed up badly with a soft HB8 who really wanted me, learned a lot of things about me along the way so not a total loss, almost killed myself over it though, thanks therapy.
>Which people are supporting you, and which people in your life are you grateful for? My roommate is nice to me, trying to get me involved in his social circle, he'll leave soon though and it's making me kind of nervous. A coworker of mine is going through the same kind of shit, I'm trying not to be romantically involved into her, it's great exchanging with her.
Julian Roberts
What are your new years resolutions lad?
Eli Lee
> Think of the first action you can take to change things once again and do it. the chocolate and icecream i bought yesterday are in the bin, and i went for a jog its not worth pretending that the hardest step is behind me, its going to take 6 months of hard work to get back to where i was and more to improve on that thank you for your help user, all the best to you :)
>Have you done anything you're proud of, lately, or even this year? Did my first approach and had my first date ever this year; started going to the gym this year; basically stopped gaming this year; lost 15kg of fat, wanna lose 15kg more tho.
>There are many bumps in the road, big and small, how did you soldier on through them? A good friend of mine helping me out and reading Nietzsche.
Nicholas Russell
practical goals: >get seriously into meditation >only home cooked meals >at least one social activity per week >at least one event each week-end >daily routine
overall goals: >more varied social circles >strengthen the few really meaningful relationships I have, develop new ones >manage my emotions better >stop being so desperately needy and attention-seeking >get into more uncomfortable situations
Yours user?
Eli Williams
Why make a new one, whats wrong with the old one?
Matthew Morales
How do I meet a qt and stop being lonely? I joined a club and I also work, and see girls at both who show interest in me although I don't know how to make a move, flirt, or talk to them. I also don't have that many friends, mainly because I have been putting off going to church because always procrastinate. Please give me advice guys, how do I make more friends, talk to girls, get a qt and stop being lonely? I am saved in Christ and never truly lonely although I seek fellowship with other Christians and people
Juan Allen
I didn't realize there was one already up, they didn't link it in the older one.
Gavin Lewis
My oneitis invited me to a sort of christmas meetup next tuesday, we've had history before but i was a scrawny dweeb and thought i wasn't good enough, but now i feel like i can start a serious relationship with her. Question is: How can I, in that meetup, talk with her and go from old friends into closer and more romantic relationship? She's definetly wife material and the type of person i'd spend my life with
Brandon Russell
I don't even know what to say I asked this girl out and she said yes Going to get lunch on Sunday. She and I get along great.
Jack Ross
Where did you meet? How did you ask her out?
Levi Carter
Flirt with her, make her laugh, and ask her out. There's no one right answer to a question like that though. Just don't be autistic.
right, i'll practice those all weekend. To think a few weeks ago i was in a dark dark place we're all going to make it...
Gavin Clark
Get her somewhat apart from everyone else, not so far that she feels isolated but enough where its a little quieter and less crowded. Tell her you think she's really cool, you really like hanging out with her and that's she's pretty. Then ask something like would you want to go x with me next week/whenever works best for y'all. If she says no then tell her you understand and respect her decision (even if you feel like an heroing). That way in case she changes her mind she has a good impression of you instead of thinking of you as a neckbeard
Jace Davis
Today is the day lads. My sweetheart is coming and I will ask her out. Wish me luck!
The main mistake is to focus on girls, it will sound cliché but it's true: get yourself some interesting hobbies that you like, get into interesting things and you'll be interesting: things to talk about, things to do.
For example I invited a group of qts to an exhibit, only one was interested but it was more than enough: it's the perfect place to have a one-to-one discussion, after that we went for a drink.
One secret is: talk to everyone, and don't put so much pressure onto you, look at people and actually listen to them, don't just wait for your turn. Get involve in things that you're passionate about, if you don't know: try everything, learn a new language, get into a band if you can play an instrument, if you don't know: get into a group course, get into running, hiking, swimming, cycling, go on meetup.com and try things that makes you uncomfortable.
After that it's just basic statistics: the more opportunities, the more chances to find friends, and qts.
Kayden Watson
Godspeed user, you're doing it! Take is easy friend.
Caleb Campbell
My self esteem is horrific and it stems from me being 5'8. I've always been perfectionist and a high-achiever. I've reached my financial and physical goals but I can't get over the fact that I'm not tall. I could be better in every single area than a tall guy yet people will generally respect him more and women will desire him more by virtue of that one arbitrary trait. I'm in the top percentile for strength, intelligence, and income but none of these factors outweigh my lack of stature in the social realm. I'm losing all hope. I've even started wearing lifts but the guys who are 6'2 and above get all the attention though I am received slightly better when wearing them.
Jackson Wilson
>no fap no porn >massively cut back on video games, only when socialising >sleeping 8 hours a day, eating more and healthier >reading, lifting, doing cardio >started flirting with girls at work even had a few dates
>still want to hang myself Help
Leo Stewart
I know how it'll sound but honestly: it's mostly in your head, you're insecure about your height and it probably shows more than you think. At 5'8 you're certainly not a midget, a good friend of mine is 5'6, not terribly attractive, but he probably touches more pussies in a year than I (6'3) will ever see in all my live.
The great strength of men is how you can build power and attractiveness by other things than your appearance, a girl will get wet over and adventurous short guy more than a 6'3 piece of garbage, believe me on that.
It'll come user, it takes time for your chemical imbalances to sort themselves out, in your case therapy might help, maybe you have some underlying shit that you need to get out. You'll make it, keep pushing.
Ayden Walker
Your friend is probably Chad. Face>>>>height. For average to ugly dudes 5'8 is a death sentence.
Noah Johnson
I wish I wasn't so lonely but at the same time I don't like people that much.
what do guys.
Aaron Baker
He's not a Chad face at all, however: he's incredibly charismatic, talks to everyone, very witty. Not saying anyone can be him but he's living proof that you can get way enough to be satisfied at a "short" height.
You learn how to enjoy people, weirdly enough: it starts with enjoying yourself. After that you need to find the right people, a mistake I did for years was to immediately try having deep relationships with anyone I met, truth is: very few people can actually fit with your needs.
Ayden Garcia
going to post a small win, I struggle to take pills so supps have always been hard, I recently found a multivitamin that's chewable so I've been taking them then today some omega 3 supps arrived but they're as a sort of paste, doesn't taste nice but if I put some water in my mouth then squeeze the tube in I can do it easily, small wins but long term they'll have very good effects
Joshua Morris
How do I stop my piss from splitting in two?
I'm serious, whenever I pee it splits in two, sometimes so much so that I end up pissing on the floor. People told me to "massage" the head before, but it doesn't work.
Ryder Carter
Source on that manga?
Joseph Mitchell
Sun Ken Rock. It's kinda crap but has amazing art.
Levi Gonzalez
Hey. Only the ending is crap.
Jose Cruz
Why do you always make a new thread when there is one up? I think you're actually autistic enough that you NEED to be the OP of every /sig/
Isaac Peterson
See
Landon Lopez
Now that we are in December I’m almost done with classes so I want to read a ton over the break and fix my car
Asked a QT out recently. She said she would date me if she didn’t have a BF already. I don’t really know what that means but I’m glad I did it never the less
Had a very trying year with Nofap and School. I suffered through thinking of how proud my dad is of me
Extremely thankful for my family for supporting me. I feel in 2018 I have grown a lot close to them which I am very happy about
